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jjun212
Profile Joined December 2004
Canada2208 Posts
July 02 2010 22:19 GMT
#1
Alright, I've been a member for TL.net for like over half a decade and I have over 1500 posts (not a lot but still).

I've been banned twice so I know what that feels like and I love all sections ranging from General to blogs to Starcraft and I even have the TL.net t shirt

So basically.. I've got TL.net blood running through my veins is what I'm trying to say.

But as many of you know, I've posted my fair share of "Girl trouble" blogs and after my most recent one dealing with the girl at work "Girl at work blog"

I gotta say that the ones who call me out for being a pussy, and that I gotta start acting like I don't care or whatever, or act more confident and pretend like I'm not interested or don't be too over animated, etc, etc, etc.

Alright, 95% of the advice is pure bullshit. Lets be honest.

I've read all the feedback guys gave me and it actually backfired. Now it's just pure quiet between the two of us.

After I finally got a shift with her again, She didn't even feel like I hit on her with the phone thing. She jut thought it was actually funny. So the reason why she left right after I said that joke? It was because it was 2am and she was actually fucking tired.

Anyway, so now I thought I got a fresh start so instead of doing what I was doing, I started following the advice of some specific guys on TL.net who seemed so fucking sure what they were doing but nope.

Now she just thinks I hate her for some odd reason and she doesn't even look me in the eye anymore. She tries to joke around and see what I'm doing but I guess the whole, "don't be too into her and show weakness" advice has now made her think that I think shes fucking dirt.

So now I don't even know what to do. Cuz if I start being all nice and shit again like before, she's gonna start thinking I got moodswings


Anyway, the point of this blog is not to ask for anymore advice. And although it doesn't seem like it, this blog isn't to offend any users who gave me advice either!

I'm just writing this to say... for any guy who is having trouble or whatever with girls. The decision is all yours. It's no one else's fault. You gotta make your own decisions and if the advice someone is giving you doesn't feel right.. then it probably isn't right.

Just keep doing what you think is right and even if you fail in the end... well just keep going. You'll eventually just man up and learn the tricks of the trade which apply to your own personality and your own physical traits. Because let's face it.

A good looking guy acting like a jerk will still get the girl most of the times. A fugly midget acting like a jerk will just get shut down 100%.

So you gotta just figure out what works for you. And I've decided what works for me is not being a fucking dbag. What does work is just being playful, honest, confident and straight up.

Playing mind/feeling games is "no thx"

**
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 22:22:24
July 02 2010 22:21 GMT
#2
The odds of someone getting into an actual meaningful lasting relationship by being fake aren't very good. The odds of getting laid are probably much much higher.

Most people are just so insecure and unsure that they have to be fake on some level.
Weasel-
Profile Joined June 2009
Canada1556 Posts
July 02 2010 22:22 GMT
#3
Just because you're planning to do the right thing doesn't mean you executed it properly. Since it's the opinion of many people versus just yourself, I'm going to go ahead and say you fucked up somehow.
NuKedUFirst
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
Canada3139 Posts
July 02 2010 22:23 GMT
#4
http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=133695
Girl advice at it's best?
FrostedMiniWeet wrote: I like winning because it validates all the bloody time I waste playing SC2.
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
July 02 2010 22:27 GMT
#5
tbh 80% of the time it doesn't really matter what you do. As long as you do it with authority and confidence it would work. or else no amount of what people say willwork.
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
SolaR-
Profile Blog Joined February 2004
United States2685 Posts
July 02 2010 22:27 GMT
#6
Just be confident and true to yourself. Don't listen to these guys who got "game". Even if they do get laid, who cares, they are heartless.
AppleTart
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1261 Posts
July 02 2010 22:30 GMT
#7
i like how you give advice yourself lol
always tired -_-
jjun212
Profile Joined December 2004
Canada2208 Posts
July 02 2010 22:31 GMT
#8
On July 03 2010 07:22 Weasel- wrote:
Just because you're planning to do the right thing doesn't mean you executed it properly. Since it's the opinion of many people versus just yourself, I'm going to go ahead and say you fucked up somehow.


Not really bro.

If you read the thread I was referring to; a lot of people said don't say anything to her other than "Hey"

So that's what I did.
When she noticed I wasn't acting like myself by talking anymore, she just said "What's wrong?"
And well.. obviously nothing is wrong so I said "nothing"

And she just started getting a vibe that I hated or something because I wasn't doing the same shit I used to like splash water at her when we were at the sinks, or throw cupcake pasting on her arm or play footsies by the expresso machine, etc

I just... worked and didn't say anything to her unless she said something to me.. which she no longer did cuz like I said before, she thought I didn't like her anymore or something.

I honestly did nothing else but followed the advice most of the guys gave in the other thread.

Why would I lie about that? And also, I'm not even blaming them, I said I take responsibility for taking the advice in the end and the point of this thread was just to tell other guys well... whatever I wrote in the OP.
AcrossFiveJulys
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
United States3612 Posts
July 02 2010 22:40 GMT
#9
well if she liked you and you "ignored" her correctly, she might be more attracted to you now. you might be able to salvage the situation by saying you've been super stressed out lately or something, then start acting normal again, then she'll be happy to have you back to your normal self.
Djzapz
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada10681 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 22:48:46
July 02 2010 22:43 GMT
#10
I give you some advice nao!!

Not really bro.

^ Don't talk like that in front of her.



But seriously don't listen to people's advice, not even mine. You'll often hear "just be confident" and while it sounds like a cookiecutter BS trick from a recipe book, it's the way to go. Love is like Starcraft! (just had to say that). You have a personality, a style, and if you try to go outside of it, it won't be as good.

"Be yourself" is true to a certain extent, but you have to be trying.

Either way if things are messed up, just freaking let loose dude. If you feel like you've got nothing to lose, go to her and be fucking blunt about it. The thing is people think that with some "game" they can get whoever they want, but it's truly hit or miss.



PS: Some girls actually don't like being ignored!! Serious. And if you suddenly start ignoring them, THEY may think YOU don't like them. Smooth the edges.
"My incompetence with power tools had been increasing exponentially over the course of 20 years spent inhaling experimental oven cleaners"
baller
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
527 Posts
July 02 2010 22:43 GMT
#11
[image loading]
Zurles
Profile Joined February 2009
United Kingdom1659 Posts
July 02 2010 22:45 GMT
#12
The graph is pretty funny, and fairly accurate. lol.
PokePill
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
United States1048 Posts
July 02 2010 22:46 GMT
#13
This is a Starcraft forum. What are you honestly expecting?
anderoo
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada1876 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 22:53:16
July 02 2010 22:52 GMT
#14
On July 03 2010 07:46 PokePill wrote:
This is a Starcraft forum. What are you honestly expecting?


i dunno what this has to do with anything. unless you are trying to say that playing starcraft is an automatic deficit to your social skills, which might be true for all i know but i somehow doubt that everyone on TL is unmarried or a virgin

also, I'm gay for you baller
Djzapz
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada10681 Posts
July 02 2010 22:54 GMT
#15
On July 03 2010 07:52 anderoo wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 03 2010 07:46 PokePill wrote:
This is a Starcraft forum. What are you honestly expecting?


i dunno what this has to do with anything. unless you are trying to say that playing starcraft is an automatic deficit to your social skills, which might be true for all i know but i somehow doubt that everyone on TL is unmarried or a virgin

also, I'm gay for you baller

There's a trend for gamers of any kind to be less experienced in terms of handling wimmens.
"My incompetence with power tools had been increasing exponentially over the course of 20 years spent inhaling experimental oven cleaners"
Kennigit *
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada19447 Posts
July 02 2010 22:55 GMT
#16
HAHAHAHAHA
BADSMCGEE
Profile Joined March 2010
United States94 Posts
July 02 2010 23:00 GMT
#17
JUST BE YOURSELF....

all these fat losers love to give advice because they have no influence on anything

if she doesn't like you, find one of the other 4 billion women on the planet. god forbid one that you like isn't compatible...be honest and yourself
Boblion
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
France8043 Posts
July 02 2010 23:02 GMT
#18
You are jealous of XeRO. I bet your girl doesn't have 300 apm anyway.
fuck all those elitists brb watching streams of elite players.
Djzapz
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada10681 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 23:04:32
July 02 2010 23:04 GMT
#19
On July 03 2010 08:02 Boblion wrote:
You are jealous of XeRO. I bet your girl doesn't have 300 apm anyway.

He's got the benefit that she doesn't appear to be imaginary =P
(Unless this is an even longer scheme that involves ups and downs!!)
"My incompetence with power tools had been increasing exponentially over the course of 20 years spent inhaling experimental oven cleaners"
ella_guru
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada1741 Posts
July 02 2010 23:05 GMT
#20
On July 03 2010 07:21 travis wrote:
The odds of someone getting into an actual meaningful lasting relationship by being fake aren't very good. The odds of getting laid are probably much much higher.




I'm glad you got first post cuz this is real spit.
Each day gets better : )
eLiE
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Canada1039 Posts
July 02 2010 23:09 GMT
#21
lol, at least you gave us an aftermath. and that graph is hilarious. @BADSMCGEE speak for yourself, I know I'm in pretty good shape. good luck in future endeavors, but I think it's finally time to pull the plug on this one. as we lifeguards like to say, VSA (vital signs absent)
How's the weather down there?
Comeh
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States18918 Posts
July 02 2010 23:09 GMT
#22
On July 03 2010 07:27 CultureMisfits wrote:
Just be confident and true to yourself. Don't listen to these guys who got "game". Even if they do get laid, who cares, they are heartless.

This,
and also, don't try to be too shy.
That's about all you need.
(bars/pubs have different rules, of course)
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Megalisk
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
United States6095 Posts
July 02 2010 23:11 GMT
#23
Baller wins again!
Tear stained american saints and dirty guitar dreams across a universe of desert and blue sky , gas station coffee love letters and two dollar pistol kisses from thirty five dollar hotel room stationary .
semantics
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
10040 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 23:16:17
July 02 2010 23:15 GMT
#24
On July 03 2010 07:55 Kennigit wrote:
HAHAHAHAHA

kennigit insightful and understanding per usual.

Getting advice form ppl only gets you laid at best, meaningful lasting relationships are done of your own accord. Meaning grow the balls to ask her out or stalk her for 3 years w.e you want to do and if she likes you for it well you found a person who is willing to put up with your bullshit. G/L with that.

GGPO
Judicator
Profile Blog Joined August 2004
United States7270 Posts
July 02 2010 23:24 GMT
#25
I like how the blogs of jjun and dream)xero show contrasting results in the interaction with members of the opposite sex.

The OP reeks of blindly following advice without any self-thought.
Get it by your hands...
SoLaR[i.C]
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States2969 Posts
July 02 2010 23:25 GMT
#26
On July 03 2010 07:43 baller wrote:
[image loading]
This is an amazing graph destined for the history books.
tree.hugger
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Philadelphia, PA10406 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 23:26:07
July 02 2010 23:25 GMT
#27
I love how you make a blog complaining about TL's girl advice on teamliquid...
...and get a whole new round of girl advice.

Even if blaming TL for this is stupid, it's somewhat like asking the doctor who screwed up your surgery to try again, and make it right.
ModeratorEffOrt, Snow, GuMiho, and Team Liquid
ChaosSmurf
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United Kingdom175 Posts
July 02 2010 23:27 GMT
#28
On July 03 2010 07:55 Kennigit wrote:
HAHAHAHAHA

Spiffeh
Profile Joined May 2010
United States830 Posts
July 02 2010 23:30 GMT
#29
hahaha im dying here
OneOther
Profile Blog Joined August 2004
United States10774 Posts
July 02 2010 23:31 GMT
#30
HAHA that graph is one of the best to be posted on teamliquid forums
Boblion
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
France8043 Posts
July 02 2010 23:32 GMT
#31
Oh well at least it seems that you failed with a real girl.

Although i wonder if it is really better than scoring an imaginary girl...
[image loading]
fuck all those elitists brb watching streams of elite players.
UdderChaos
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
United Kingdom707 Posts
July 02 2010 23:33 GMT
#32
Look, there are 2 bad ends of the spectrum ok: Being too much of an ass/not caring, and then being too clingy and obsessed. You went from the later to the former. You should respond well to her, if she asks you something then be nice to her and interested, just don't try and initiate it too often yourself that's all, and if she was enjoying the playfulness then why stop? What you did wrong was your forwardness with talking to her and giving her your phone number, you said yourself that she participated in the playful acts so she obviously liked that side of you, the problem was your awkward move with the phone number. Also you got to except that just becuase you are yourself doesn't mean shes going to like you, you have to understand that its not like starcarft, where if you put the effort in you get a reward, she just might not be that into you. Just be yourself around her, try not to be awkward, be confident and if she likes you then you'll probably get some signals. She clearly didn't like you at the time of the phone number thing, otherwise she would of taken your phone number and probably acted shy, but she flat out said she wasn't which was her obviously trying to tell you she wants to be friends. It doesn't mean you have no chance, but that you should probably leave it a while at least, and don't hold a candle up for her whatever you do, this usually only leads to unhappiness.
Nunquam iens addo vos sursum
Spiffeh
Profile Joined May 2010
United States830 Posts
July 02 2010 23:36 GMT
#33
yeah dude. sadly, it was pretty much over when you waited TWO MONTHS to show your interest. she LJBF'd you a longggggg time ago.

any advice that might have worked would have been a miraculous bonus. don't feel too bad.
IntoTheWow
Profile Blog Joined May 2004
is awesome32274 Posts
July 02 2010 23:48 GMT
#34
LoL
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Abenson
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
Canada4122 Posts
July 02 2010 23:52 GMT
#35
On July 03 2010 07:43 baller wrote:
[image loading]


A graph of pure win :D
Anxiety
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States650 Posts
July 02 2010 23:53 GMT
#36
Is is smart to ask a community of like 99.9% nerds this question? i shant say no offence to the TL community because, well, its true.
CTStalker
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Canada9720 Posts
July 02 2010 23:56 GMT
#37
LMAO
By the way, my name is Funk. I am not of your world
myopia
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States2928 Posts
July 02 2010 23:57 GMT
#38
oh baller
it's my first day
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary25980 Posts
July 03 2010 00:04 GMT
#39
Hahahahahahahaha
Moderator
FragKrag
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States11552 Posts
July 03 2010 00:05 GMT
#40
baller blog mvp
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Count9
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
China10928 Posts
July 03 2010 00:08 GMT
#41
Every thread needs a graph representation, especially the novels in the SC2 forums.
Hidden_MotiveS
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
Canada2562 Posts
July 03 2010 00:08 GMT
#42
Thanks for telling me not to take advice here. I have to say, were I in a lot of people's situations I wouldn't take the people's advice. That said, you know the situation best, and should decide for yourself.
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27149 Posts
July 03 2010 00:13 GMT
#43
I think you need better screening skills as to whose advice to listen to. Maybe TL should implement some kind of icon system or "baller rating" for those members who have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that they have the skills necessary to give advice.

For example, have you seen iNcontrol's girlfriend? 10/10 right? And she posts on TL. Obviously this man knows what he is talking about.

On the other hand, SuP3rPhR3Ak2000's advice may not have that same type of rating.

I nominate Kennigit to draw up a list of worth advice givers, because I am just an ideas man. Also, I gotta go because my girl is making pancakes in the shape of dinosaurs for me. No lie.
ModeratorGodfather
shinosai
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States1577 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-03 00:20:39
July 03 2010 00:19 GMT
#44
I really wouldn't blame anyone for giving you bad advice. Chances are you never had a chance to begin with. There is no strategy guide to get THIS particular girl to like you, there are only strategies that will get **A** girl to like you.

If you asked anyone that's into "gaming" or whatever, they would probably say what I just said. Stop getting hung up on one girl. If you messed up, you can't go back and fix it, you can only come back 1 year later when she's forgotten who you are and try again.

Every girl is different, and while there are things you can do to get girls in general, they aren't guaranteed to work on everyone.
Be versatile, know when to retreat, and carry a big gun.
blankspace
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
United States292 Posts
July 03 2010 00:28 GMT
#45
On July 03 2010 07:43 baller wrote:
[image loading]


wow a picture is really 1000 words.
Hello friends
HeadhunteR
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Argentina1258 Posts
July 03 2010 00:38 GMT
#46
you had already failed once you made the blog so what are you saying? My TL advice was that you already failed.. I said that you had made the mistake and you should have made her add you.. soo there you have it.. you still don know why you failed?
in The Kong line forever
Arrian
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States889 Posts
July 03 2010 00:38 GMT
#47
Just tell her to come make blogs on teamliquid about her boy problems. That'll fix everything. I guarantee it.
Writersator arepo tenet opera rotas
Reason
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United Kingdom2770 Posts
July 03 2010 01:19 GMT
#48
Show her all these threads and she will either fall for you or think you are lame.

It doesn't look like you have a shot anyway so take a chance!
Speak properly, and in as few words as you can, but always plainly; for the end of speech is not ostentation, but to be understood.
semantics
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
10040 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-03 02:17:41
July 03 2010 01:21 GMT
#49
Some reason for a second i thought the title was

TL.net advise girl to suck balls
Turbovolver
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Australia2394 Posts
July 03 2010 01:22 GMT
#50
The graph might be accurate, I didn't read the previous blog. Randomly switching to "jerkass" mode though is obviously stupid. Like, the relationship has already been established in one way or another, and then you just start ignoring her and acting aloof and that's magically going to make her like you more?

No. That possibly works with randoms you just met, used to all the guys simpering over them with you being the breath of fresh air. But, if you've been "friend zoned" (lol), and then you just go all awkward and dickish on her, she thinks "what a shitty friend" and that's done. Or, if she's into you, and then you just go all awkward and dickish on her, she thinks "well boy I fucked up there" and that's done.

I'm glad you came to the right conclusion, though, about what to take from this.
The original Bogus fan.
XDawn
Profile Blog Joined February 2004
Canada4040 Posts
July 03 2010 02:08 GMT
#51
You JUST realized?
Use it or lose it
29 fps
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States5724 Posts
July 03 2010 02:17 GMT
#52
graph is awesome!
4v4 is a battle of who has the better computer.
]343[
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
United States10328 Posts
July 03 2010 02:18 GMT
#53
a) lol yeah I mean sure, people try to help... but not everyone is good at it
b) baller's graph delivers as always
Writer
RageOverdose
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States690 Posts
July 03 2010 02:43 GMT
#54
The advice people give is probably too general anyway.

I remember getting advice from people just recently on my own girlfriend, but I decided to consult someone closer to me with a bit more wisdom. And even in the end, I just made my own decision.

I think asking for advice is fine on TL, there shouldn't be any reason to discourage anyone from doing that. You just need to discourage people from just following the advice no questions asked. Advice I think is good for guidance and perhaps finding something you may have never thought of, but in the end, it should still be your decision. And even if what people tell you seems off, you don't go blaming people for it, just learn from the mistakes you made anyway and move on. In a strange way, bad advice could give you a good learning experience just as much as good advice.
intrigue
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
July 04 2010 09:41 GMT
#55
i am good at analyzing pictures of girls. please provide one, i will analyze it very hard.
Moderatorhttps://soundcloud.com/castlesmusic/sets/oak
fearus
Profile Blog Joined December 2003
China2164 Posts
July 04 2010 09:56 GMT
#56
Common dude! Most of tl.net probli never even spoken to a girl.
bisu fanboy
thedeadhaji *
Profile Blog Joined January 2006
39489 Posts
July 04 2010 10:12 GMT
#57
if you look like a fugly midget, do something about it.

end of story.
Zidane
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States1686 Posts
July 04 2010 10:40 GMT
#58
I'd blame the "jokinggggg" and "calm down" comments on this one, not TL.
Ghardo
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
Germany1685 Posts
July 04 2010 13:38 GMT
#59
haha wow. this blog is highly amusing. baller's graph sums it up in the clearest way possible.

jjun212 it's a letdown you're here since 2004 and now come off like a butthurt little wimp blaming tl for his insecurity. if you don't have it in you to follow up on general advice with common sense and a feeling for specific situations don't do it and stop making yourself look like an idiot.

jokinggggggg
Luddite
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States2315 Posts
July 04 2010 13:57 GMT
#60
hahaha I completely agree that most of the advice on TL.net about romance is terrible. Actually the advice here on just about any subject other than brood war strategy is iffy at best.
Can't believe I'm still here playing this same game
BottleAbuser
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Korea (South)1888 Posts
July 04 2010 15:11 GMT
#61
"This statement is false."
Compilers are like boyfriends, you miss a period and they go crazy on you.
Cambium
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
United States16368 Posts
July 04 2010 15:27 GMT
#62
Lol at the graph, it's awesome!


But seriously, why would you, or anyone for that matter, seek girl advice on an Internet forum and follow it blindly? Even if the people here are the ballingest pimps, they lack information to give proper responses. Even if you think you've included all important pieces of information your help post, there bound to be things that are neglected, and they change everything.

Oi.

On July 04 2010 22:57 Luddite wrote:
hahaha I completely agree that most of the advice on TL.net about romance is terrible. Actually the advice here on just about any subject other than brood war strategy is iffy at best.


Aw c'mon, that's harsh
When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
krndandaman
Profile Joined August 2009
Mozambique16569 Posts
July 04 2010 15:35 GMT
#63
--- Nuked ---
Spiffeh
Profile Joined May 2010
United States830 Posts
July 04 2010 15:41 GMT
#64
Using "techniques" without knowing the principles behind them is good for the short term, but won't give you any lasting success.



mOnion
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
United States5657 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-04 15:53:36
July 04 2010 15:49 GMT
#65
DAMMIT baller I love you so much.

jjun are you like 14? cuz you're going through the same realization about women that I went thru when I was a fish in high school

yes games suck
yes women suck
don't be yourself until at least the 3rd date
suck it up
move on

if you think ur gonna avoid the games just by saying it then you are in for some lols HAha I WISH
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meteorskunk
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada546 Posts
July 04 2010 16:32 GMT
#66
You see what you did? You followed advice instead of trusting yourself and failing, and then asked for more advice. You're never going to learn like that. Try your best and fail without advice and then you get a feel for it.

If you put your blame on shit like TL you're never going to be able to pin point the real problems in your approach to da females.

-make ur own mistakes and face ur own mistakes. advice is something u keep in mind and follow it when u feel it is applicable.
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Divinek
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
Canada4045 Posts
July 04 2010 16:41 GMT
#67
wait wait wait

let me get this straight

you're saying things like this are HEAVILY situationally and person dependent? You mean even if someone gives you solid advice it might not work because of one minor personality difference between this girl and the girl they've tried it with?

No way! Of course you have to be able to adapt to the situation and use what is best for that situation, if you can't figure that out then you need to evolve for the next time.

Adapt or die in the field of women
Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.
Oh goodness me, FOX tv where do you get your sight? Can't you keep track, the puck is black. That's why the ice is white.
Cedstick
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
Canada3336 Posts
July 05 2010 11:48 GMT
#68
It's a forum for Starcraft Obsessives. You shoulda' known walking in that you were asking the wrong people.
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Salv
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Canada3083 Posts
July 05 2010 13:08 GMT
#69
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.
Boblion
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
France8043 Posts
July 05 2010 13:10 GMT
#70
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Tssss tell me i won't repeat.
fuck all those elitists brb watching streams of elite players.
Cambium
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
United States16368 Posts
July 05 2010 13:20 GMT
#71
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.


I might have a good idea...

Is he between 5000 and 10,000 posts?
When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary25980 Posts
July 05 2010 13:20 GMT
#72
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.
Moderator
Wotans_Fire
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United Kingdom294 Posts
July 05 2010 13:21 GMT
#73
lol don´t listen to the be cocky or whatever stuff they come up with this is all information from pickup artist and stuff people have read you only need to get to know the person just don´t be too desperate I guess
"OMG this is pivotal!" ~ Tasteless "Indeed" ~ Artosis
Salv
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Canada3083 Posts
July 05 2010 13:26 GMT
#74
On July 05 2010 22:20 Chill wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.


Hahaha, poor SuperiorWolf. Is there no place where his reputation can escape the criticism of Chill?

On July 05 2010 22:20 Cambium wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.


I might have a good idea...

Is he between 5000 and 10,000 posts?


Nope, he is in 4,000's.
e.soul[gm]
Profile Blog Joined May 2008
Sierra Leone254 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-05 13:44:57
July 05 2010 13:44 GMT
#75
On July 03 2010 09:13 Manifesto7 wrote:
For example, have you seen iNcontrol's girlfriend? 10/10 right?

LOL, maybe for you.

and edit, LOL @ the baller graph. true story.
http://www.last.fm/user/jesuspopk
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary25980 Posts
July 05 2010 14:50 GMT
#76
On July 05 2010 22:44 e.soul[gm] wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 03 2010 09:13 Manifesto7 wrote:
For example, have you seen iNcontrol's girlfriend? 10/10 right?

LOL, maybe for you.

I don't know how you could say this. Maybe she's not your style but she's obviously really pretty. To take this tone is ridiculous.
Moderator
Harem
Profile Joined November 2007
United States11390 Posts
July 05 2010 15:00 GMT
#77
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Even though it's not him, can I just pretend and call him Atrioc?

Moderator。◕‿◕。
DoX.)
Profile Joined December 2008
Singapore6164 Posts
July 05 2010 15:09 GMT
#78
On July 05 2010 01:41 Divinek wrote:
die in the field of women


I wouldn't mind this. yumyum
Rinrun
Profile Joined April 2010
Canada3509 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-05 16:06:50
July 05 2010 16:02 GMT
#79
On July 03 2010 07:43 baller wrote:
[image loading]

Okay this needs to be framed somewhere on the site, living up to the name bro.
I don't really know what else to say, but this graph pretty much sums it up.
(It is the internets after all, cave-loads of salt is required when you wander around these parts)
MBC/Liquid/TSM always.
a176
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada6688 Posts
July 05 2010 16:26 GMT
#80
there should be a requirement to post your picture first to see just how attractive(read, unattractive) you are before we start giving advice
starleague forever
Pandain
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States12989 Posts
July 05 2010 16:32 GMT
#81
On July 06 2010 01:26 a176 wrote:
there should be a requirement to post your picture first to see just how attractive(read, unattractive) you are before we start giving advice


jjun212's picture:
[image loading]
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32051 Posts
July 05 2010 16:40 GMT
#82
hahahahahahaha

this is a great thread
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Xeris
Profile Blog Joined July 2005
Iran17695 Posts
July 05 2010 17:04 GMT
#83
Honestly the only person I'd listen to for girl advice would be Kennigit .
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Superiorwolf
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States5509 Posts
July 05 2010 20:25 GMT
#84
On July 05 2010 22:20 Chill wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.

... When have I ever posted in a girl advice thread? :/
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baller
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
527 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-05 20:32:02
July 05 2010 20:30 GMT
#85
On July 06 2010 05:25 Superiorwolf wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 05 2010 22:20 Chill wrote:
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.

... When have I ever posted in a girl advice thread? :/

July 06 2010 05:25

also
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewpost.php?post_id=2824150
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewpost.php?post_id=2824262
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewpost.php?post_id=2836582
Salv
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Canada3083 Posts
July 05 2010 20:30 GMT
#86
On July 06 2010 00:00 Harem wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Even though it's not him, can I just pretend and call him Atrioc?



Notice I said, 'An online friend of mine..' and not, 'A irritating and inexcusable human being..'

Atrioc is what is wrong with the world today, nothing else is to be blame.
Pandain
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States12989 Posts
July 05 2010 20:32 GMT
#87
On July 06 2010 05:25 Superiorwolf wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 04 2010 22:08 Pandain wrote:
Hey, are you sure that this pic will make all the ladies like me?.[image loading]

Definitely sure Pandain.

GGTeMpLaR
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States7226 Posts
July 05 2010 20:50 GMT
#88
lol this blog and the responses are amazing
moon`
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States372 Posts
July 05 2010 21:02 GMT
#89
On July 03 2010 07:43 baller wrote:
[image loading]


QFT!
Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like pandabearguy.
TitleRug
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States651 Posts
July 05 2010 21:12 GMT
#90
Well, a lot of us are dilettantes when it comes to girls.
coLCruncher fighting!
duckett
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States589 Posts
July 06 2010 00:55 GMT
#91
On July 05 2010 22:20 Chill wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.

haters gotta hate

<3 suppy
funky squaredance funky squaredance funky squaredance
DarthThienAn
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States2734 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-06 00:58:43
July 06 2010 00:58 GMT
#92
On July 06 2010 09:55 duckett wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 05 2010 22:20 Chill wrote:
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.

haters gotta hate

<3 suppy


Hey, how's your girl?
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baller
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
527 Posts
July 06 2010 01:07 GMT
#93
On July 06 2010 09:58 DarthThienAn wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 06 2010 09:55 duckett wrote:
On July 05 2010 22:20 Chill wrote:
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.

haters gotta hate

<3 suppy


Hey, how's your girl?

yoyo hows ur cat? wat did u have for breakfast? was there traffic on the BQE this morning?

does this forum look like an MSN window
DarthThienAn
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States2734 Posts
July 06 2010 01:21 GMT
#94
On July 06 2010 10:07 baller wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 06 2010 09:58 DarthThienAn wrote:
On July 06 2010 09:55 duckett wrote:
On July 05 2010 22:20 Chill wrote:
On July 05 2010 22:08 Salv wrote:
Haha indeed it does. An online friend of mine is one of the biggest contributors to TL girl threads, and I know for a fact that he is:
  • Never been on a date.
  • Socially awkward as it is.

I won't name names because I receive tremendous pleasure every time I read one of his 'insightful' posts.

Is it SuperiorWolf?!!!!

Wait don't say anything, I want to live in a world where I just assume it is.

haters gotta hate

<3 suppy


Hey, how's your girl?

yoyo hows ur cat? wat did u have for breakfast? was there traffic on the BQE this morning?

does this forum look like an MSN window


My cat's dead =[. I didn't have breakfast, but I woke up for dinner ^_^. BQE? I don't live in NY sry.

And sometimes, yea, it does :D.
www.cstarleague.com | Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.
Aberu
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States968 Posts
July 06 2010 10:02 GMT
#95
Wish I would have read this, my advice is don't go out with women at work. You can never ever say anything about you two or make it obvious that you work together, since she will start to regret or hate you for it, the odds are at least.
srsly
Tyraz
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
New Zealand310 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-06 12:39:16
July 06 2010 12:35 GMT
#96
So you want her back...?
+ Show Spoiler +
Don't get an Orangutan and name him Clyde.

Memes are memes for a reason (the biological variety, at least). The idea that we, who have never met either you or her, can offer you advice seems strange.

Although in essence, don't try so hard:
“We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.”
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