EPTI've also heard thats it harder for someone from said minority race to date girls in/from Eastern European/Scandinavian nations, again how much truth and validity is in this?
Is it really harder.....
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
I've also heard thats it harder for someone from said minority race to date girls in/from Eastern European/Scandinavian nations, again how much truth and validity is in this? | ||
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Slaughter
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ShaperofDreams
Canada2492 Posts
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qzmpwxno
Papua New Guinea152 Posts
 on a more serious note, i think most girls think asian guys are too stuck up or not willing to look outside of their own race or something when it comes to potential mates... | ||
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sob3k
United States7572 Posts
(white) women, I would say it is definitely harder. Most of them have told me that they just don't find asian men attractive generally. That said, I've also seen "high-value" asian/whatever guys get ridiculous amounts of ass, so it certainly isn't impossible, they're just gonna have to work harder. | ||
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seRapH
United States9706 Posts
Also asian guys often find asian girls more attractive than white girls, so there's often little reason to go outside of their minority | ||
Hot_Bid
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The real reason it's "harder" is because lots of Asian guys feed into this stereotype and whine about it constantly instead of just being secure and going for it. Take some responsibility. Seriously, changing stereotypes and racial perceptions starts one person at a time. Tomorrow go ask out some girl, doesn't matter which race, and don't psychoanalyze your chances or handicaps or whatever because Hollywood doesn't let Jackie Chan kiss the girl or whatever in Shanghai Noon. Screw that. Can't speak about Scandanavia but from experience, it's 90% in your head. If you are insecure about this your peers and the girls will notice, and that will make it harder for you. If you're not "asexual, non-masculine, or weak" please act like it. On November 30 2010 13:24 nimysa wrote: ... The common opinion is that an average white guy can score with a really hot chick of any race, while the average person from a minority can't unless they are very masculine or high value. ... This is some bullshit to justify failure. The next time you see an "average" white guy with a hot girlfriend, it's not because he's white. That's you attributing your feelings of inadequacy in your race, and it's a very unhealthy mindset to have. edit: I am Chinese. I have dated white girls. They are not particularly "harder to get" than Asian girls. In fact I'd say it's easier because there's simply more of them, and most Asian guys just don't approach them so it seems harder. Nothing against Asian girls, but whenever I see an Asian dude with a non-Asian girl I always feel a bit of happiness that the stereotype is breaking bit by bit and I am really happy for him. | ||
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shawster
Canada2485 Posts
over here i've seen lots of attractive white girls date asian guys, because the area is literally like 75% asian. if asians are less common, it's harder for a white chick to like the asian since she doesn't really know much about him. however where i live race doesn't matter that much anymore. a good example is my friend, he went to a private school for like 5 years and the school was 95% white (he's asian). when he came to a public school he couldn't stand asian chicks, but as time progressed he started to like them more. but don't blame your race for the reason a hot white chick is going out with a average white guy. as far as relationships are concerned i honestly believe that any match is compatible. | ||
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On November 30 2010 13:36 seRapH wrote: Also asian guys often find asian girls more attractive than white girls, so there's often little reason to go outside of their minority I'm not asian but most of my asian friends would love to date a good-looking white girl, some do. White girls are almost as tasty to asians as they are to blacks. | ||
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
White may certainly be considered better looking for the average american, tall too, muscular, classy and bad-boy with king arthur jaw line and with an elephant penis. The fact is everybody as a different set of cards in this area, so play with what you have and don't look at what you may want to make your life somewhat "easier". The truth is... anyway it really doesn't matter much as long as you bring personality into the line. It will only make a difference if you rely on your look only to date women, in that case yes you may be less picked than white men but who gives a shit. Deal with who you are, be comfortable about it first and then bring personality to the table without a second thought about not looking like Brad Pitt. Just rewatch movies like fight club, and piss on such bullshit society and medias try to make you believe in. Also this guy speak truth on the same subject : On November 30 2010 13:36 Hot_Bid wrote: The reality is it is harder. But it's not just society. Yes, media and mainstream culture projects a negative stereotype to Asian guys. However, it's not as bad as you think and it's changing, I see more Asian male / non-Asian female couples around more. In old movies, you'd never see Asian guys being the lead and their romantic interests be non-Asians but look here: Asian ninja makes out with Kate Bosworth - good for Hollywood, and stereotype is dying one movie at a time. The real reason it's "harder" is because lots of Asian guys feed into this stereotype and whine about it constantly instead of just being secure and going for it. Take some responsibility. Seriously, changing stereotypes and racial perceptions starts one person at a time. Tomorrow go ask out some girl, doesn't matter which race, and don't psychoanalyze your chances or handicaps or whatever because Hollywood doesn't let Jackie Chan kiss the girl or whatever in Shanghai Noon. Screw that. Can't speak about Scandanavia but from experience, it's 90% in your head. If you are insecure about this your peers and the girls will notice, and that will make it harder for you. If you're not "asexual, non-masculine, or weak" please act like it. This is some bullshit to justify failure. The next time you see an "average" white guy with a hot girlfriend, it's not because he's white. That's you attributing your feelings of inadequacy in your race, and it's a very unhealthy mindset to have. edit: I am Chinese. I have dated white girls. They are not particularly "harder to get" than Asian girls. In fact I'd say it's easier because there's simply more of them, and most Asian guys just don't approach them so it seems harder. Nothing against Asian girls, but whenever I see an Asian dude with a non-Asian girl I always feel a bit of happiness that the stereotype is breaking bit by bit and I am really happy for him. | ||
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ramen247
United States1256 Posts
White girls will dig hot Asians just the way anybody digs attractive looking people. White girls that say they don't like Asian guys have probably never seen an attractive Asian guy. That's all. | ||
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Macavenger
United States1132 Posts
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
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aztrorisk
United States896 Posts
I once had a Asian teacher (guy) who had a really hot white wife. So it isn't impossible. You shouldn't let the odds discourage you. Who knows, maybe being apart of the minority may give you the advantage in the long run. | ||
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happyness
United States2400 Posts
One thing I thought was interesting was that among interracial couples among whites and blacks there are a lot more black-male/white-female than white-male/black-female. I would think females are generally less suprerficial than males, as in they don't care about race or looks as much as males do. | ||
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FragKrag
United States11538 Posts
As far as the yellow team, I'm not sure, but there definitely is that negative stigma. | ||
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Subversion
South Africa3627 Posts
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Adeeler
United Kingdom764 Posts
Chatting up a random woman ofc depends on your looks 1st, if you look good you look good if you don't your chances are less. Confidence goes a long way. Every/any girl that shots you down cos of your colour is a girl you don't want in the long run so you win overall and they lose cos your awesome(aren't you!). I'm the most h8'd colour on the planet atm and I have no problems chatting to white girls and can tell you that most women are pc and its just whether your actually attractive/fun that will get you the date; if you are one/either/both of those things the woman will go out with you. Be happy/chilled in your life and women will pick up on it and want you even more. | ||
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