If i was your girlfriend, I'd like you even more. The decision you made was appropriate given the situation, if it got out of hand, you could of just gone to the security. So all in all, you'll find twerps like that often, it's just a matter of how you handle them in separate situations.

CapO

United States1615 Posts

February 15 2009 22:11 GMT

#47

just be extremely polite, and they'll be like, shit, we messed with the wrong guy. as in, give them like 100 dollars to get the fuck out. that's if you're a baller.

Makiva

88 Posts

February 15 2009 22:12 GMT

#48

lol, reciprocated love has a weird way of making people not care about problems, so i would have probably acted similarly ... though i would have probably moved away from the group of kids to somewhere more secluded - valentine's day makes single people (especially a group of them) especially more jealous of couples

Clasic

Bosnia-Herzegovina1437 Posts

February 15 2009 22:22 GMT

#49

I would of beat there ass right there. But that's not a smart thing to do.

imDerek

United States1944 Posts

February 15 2009 22:48 GMT

#50

well done

Nytefish

United Kingdom4282 Posts

February 15 2009 23:13 GMT

#51

Of course that was the correct response, avoiding the aggressive animal instinct shows great self control. If there's quite a few people about ignoring is best, if one day you're out at night in a quiet place, just run. Anyone who tells you to fight is a fortunate fool or has never been in a fight.

mahnini

United States6862 Posts

February 15 2009 23:17 GMT

#52

On February 16 2009 04:07 spydernoob wrote:
good decision making there on the ignoring them. or you coulda pulled out your 9 and showed them whats up

hahahahaha

OhThatDang

United States4685 Posts

February 15 2009 23:24 GMT

#53

they could have been very young
which could be very annoying
good job

JudgeMathis

Cuba1286 Posts

February 15 2009 23:35 GMT

#54

On February 16 2009 04:04 KingofHearts wrote:
u did the right thing by ignoring them.

Rayzorblade

United States1172 Posts

February 15 2009 23:43 GMT

#55

You're a better man for handling the situation in a mature way.

I think if I were faced with a similar situation (them disrespecting me and my girlfriend) I wouldn't have had that kind of self-restraint.

gg_hertzz

2152 Posts

February 16 2009 00:14 GMT

#56

you did the right thing cause i don't think you could have handled them. most likely they would have been carrying weapons, and even if not i think they could outpower you given that you're a fairly small guy.

sometimes i wonder how often this type of situation happens, where a group of guys or a bigger guy picks on smaller guys. i've never seen it, but i've heard about it, and myself i've fallen victim to it being only average size myself.

Zapdos_Smithh

Canada2620 Posts

February 16 2009 00:17 GMT

#57

Hmm, interesting situation. I think you handled it very well, not much else you could have done. Where I live, I can't see that happening unless I went to a really scuzzy part of town. Imo, I would avoid doing that in a place where you think something like that might happen in the future. I find avoidance is usually the best.

I mean try to relate to them, you have probably been in a situation where you have seen a couple in public all over each other and have been grossed out, who hasn't. Multiply that grossness factor big time because they are kids. If they are looking to be assholes, you guys would be prime targets (unless you are like 6'6 and huge).

So perhaps try to avoid doing that type of thing in a place where that might happen, I mean it's really not that hard. Obviously some places are better than others to do that (parks, etc). I can see some people responding to this by saying "oh that's bullshit, you should be able to do that anywhere you want", but if somebody wants to do that stuff anywhere, they should be prepared with the possible consequences.

Again, good job in handling the situation.

Phyre

United States1288 Posts

February 16 2009 03:00 GMT

#58

Just to clarify, we weren't making out or anything. We were just sitting next to each other, I had my arm on her opposite shoulder and she was leaning her head on my shoulder. Just a quick peck on the lips every now and then, nothing I wouldn't feel comfortable doing in front of my parents or something.

BlackJack

United States10013 Posts

February 16 2009 05:03 GMT

#59

pack heat, son. fo' sho'

haduken

Australia8267 Posts

February 16 2009 05:44 GMT

#60

i was in a similiar situation a few weeks ago. I was watching high school music 3 with my gf (i know -_-, she picked the movie).

A few emo kids with girls and boys in the group sat in the back row and started throwing chick bones at us. I stood up and had a few words with them. None of them owned up to the act but they stopped for the duration of the movie.

If they weren't so young, i would've called security right there but yeah it depends on the situation. If i was in a mall or similiar surroundings i would have got up and walked away with gf. Not worth it to get into a fight and ruin the day for you.

You don't need to defend yourself against every single retards that walked your way. I would have smashed them if they had done anything to my gf but they were just being pests. That's what teenagers do :/ I myself used to do stupid shits with friends.