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heartbourne
United States10 Posts
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SCST
Mexico1609 Posts
On June 27 2012 02:18 Barburas wrote: . . . replace nigger for faggot and most people would not find it acceptable). Exactly this, it's just a sign of the times in my opinion. It's still widely acceptable to be anti-gay, hate gays etc in modern society. Therefore it's not as "bad" to say anti-gay things as it is to say racist things. At least not yet. Things are changing, but unfortunately we're stuck in the middle of a transition period. | ||
R1CH
Netherlands10340 Posts
On June 27 2012 04:08 heartbourne wrote: My point in asking about the charity was that TB has done charity stuff before and it would be in line with what he has done. There are all sorts of horrific things that LGBT charities that address things aside from AIDS research as well, like homeless youth, prosecution internationally, suicide hotlines, etc. To say that its not like people "actually starving" its kind of just as insulting; dying from AIDS in Africa is probably on the same level of starving, as is being homeless and literally starving as a child because you were kicked out. He was a little bit dismissive of it for the wrong reasons; I wasn't really thinking he would do much of an about-face; I was kind of hoping at best he would say "I stand by my opinions on language, fuck you. But, I think helping out AIDS victims could do a lot of good and I sympathise with the serious problems a lot LGBT people have." Or at the very least "I don't think I'd like to do that, but if you are, let me know and I'll send views your way" or something like that. As opposed to an all around "fuck you". I felt his response stemmed more from his interpretation of the question as "you did bad, you should do this charity thing to make up for it", not necessarily out of any inherent dislike for LGBT charities. It's unfortunate that he doesn't seem to understand that this type of language can have a very real impact on people who have been subjected to anti-gay abuse. I do think the whole issue was perhaps blown a bit out of proportion, he does make a point that this was on a stream chat which are hardly the places where anyone goes for serious discussion, but it's still disappointing seeing it from a community figure. These are my personal opinions and do not reflect the position of teamliquid.net or other staff. | ||
heartbourne
United States10 Posts
On June 27 2012 04:27 R1CH wrote: I felt his response stemmed more from his interpretation of the question as "you did bad, you should do this charity thing to make up for it", not necessarily out of any inherent dislike for LGBT charities. It's unfortunate that he doesn't seem to understand that this type of language can have a very real impact on people who have been subjected to anti-gay abuse. I do think the whole issue was perhaps blown a bit out of proportion, he does make a point that this was on a stream chat which are hardly the places where anyone goes for serious discussion, but it's still disappointing seeing it from a community figure. These are my personal opinions and do not reflect the position of teamliquid.net or other staff. I dunno, quote from the video: "Would that kind of platitude even help?... If I'm going to support a charity, I'm going to support a charity who helps people that are genuinely actually dying from thirst and hunger in third world countries." To me, that sounds dismissive on the merit of the charity. "Genuinely, actually" LGBT-relevant charities do good work. | ||
Conti
Germany2516 Posts
On June 27 2012 04:46 heartbourne wrote: I dunno, quote from the video: "Would that kind of platitude even help?... If I'm going to support a charity, I'm going to support a charity who helps people that are genuinely actually dying from thirst and hunger in third world countries." To me, that sounds dismissive on the merit of the charity. "Genuinely, actually" LGBT-relevant charities do good work. I think some of you interpret way too much into his words. The basic argument was (I think) that "charity for LGBT" seems somewhat silly, and I agree. "Charity for homeless kids who got thrown out of their homes because they're LGBT", on the other hand, is not at all silly and worth giving money to. | ||
XeliN
United Kingdom1755 Posts
On June 27 2012 02:00 Iyerbeth wrote: I think that's unlikely. Firstly because fag has no connection to gay at all in the UK so it seems odd there should be a connection at all. The term in old English does mean something like bundles of sticks/twigs, but I don't think homosexuality was ever punished with burning* so I'd be surprised if that were the cause. Edit: *in England. Second edit: Not related to the above, but I've also literally never heard anyone use the word fag to mean gay offline. That's not to say there aren't a whole host of other words used though unfortunately. I've heard fag used as a derogatory term quite often... often in similar vain as calling someone a dick, or annoying. | ||
Iyerbeth
England2410 Posts
On June 27 2012 05:01 XeliN wrote: I've heard fag used as a derogatory term quite often... often in similar vain as calling someone a dick, or annoying. Weird. Maybe it's just where I've lived. Edit: Or maybe an age/social group thing? I really don't know since two UK posters now say they've heard it. | ||
Barburas
United Kingdom247 Posts
On June 27 2012 05:01 XeliN wrote: I've heard fag used as a derogatory term quite often... often in similar vain as calling someone a dick, or annoying. Yeah I've also heard fag used that way as well, though it does have an obvious context sensitive meaning where I am in that it can mean cigarette as well. | ||
XeliN
United Kingdom1755 Posts
edit: And yeah I hear it used as cig more often too. | ||
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KwarK
United States41971 Posts
On June 27 2012 01:54 Roe wrote: I've heard that the reason people call gays fags is because they used to burn homosexuals as timber. Then people would use 'fag' to mean cigarette. Is that true? Completely untrue. | ||
Troxle
United States486 Posts
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Masamune
Canada3401 Posts
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Proseat
Germany5113 Posts
faggot (1) late 13c., "bundle of twigs bound up," from O.Fr. fagot "bundle of sticks" (13c.), of uncertain origin, probably from It. faggotto, dim. of V.L. *facus, from L. fascis "bundle of wood" (see fasces). Especially used for burning heretics (emblematic of this from 1550s), so that phrase fire and faggot was used to indicate "punishment of a heretic." Heretics who recanted were required to wear an embroidered figure of a faggot on their sleeve, as an emblem and reminder of what they deserved. faggot (2) "male homosexual," 1914, Amer.Eng. slang (shortened form fag is from 1921), probably from earlier contemptuous term for "woman" (1590s), especially an old and unpleasant one, in reference to faggot (1) "bundle of sticks," as something awkward that has to be carried (cf. baggage "worthless woman," 1590s). It may also be reinforced by Yiddish faygele "homosexual," lit. "little bird." It also may have roots in British public school slang fag "a junior who does certain duties for a senior" (1785), with suggestions of "catamite," from fag (v.). This also was used as a verb. He [the prefect] used to fag me to blow the chapel organ for him. ["Boy's Own Paper," 1889] Other obsolete senses of faggot were "man hired into military service simply to fill out the ranks at muster" (1700) and "vote manufactured for party purposes" (1817). The oft-heard statement that male homosexuals were called faggots in reference to their being burned at the stake is an etymological urban legend. Burning was sometimes a punishment meted out to homosexuals in Christian Europe (on the suggestion of the Biblical fate of Sodom and Gomorrah), but in England, where parliament had made homosexuality a capital offense in 1533, hanging was the method prescribed. Any use of faggot in connection with public executions had long become an English historical obscurity by the time the word began to be used for "male homosexual" in 20th century American slang, whereas the contemptuous slang word for "woman" (and the other possible sources or influences listed here) was in active use. It was used in this sense in early 20c. by D.H. Lawrence and James Joyce, among others. | ||
Josketh
United States155 Posts
I wonder if he realizes this thread is discussing this? I still have yet to watch the video because I don't have much interest in TB or his casting. I probably won't after seeing all of this. | ||
Iyerbeth
England2410 Posts
That's the part being discussed for anyone who hasn't seen it. It's 5-6 minutes and it's worth checking out if you haven't seen it. Link should go to the right point, but if it doesn't it starts at 25:37. | ||
XeliN
United Kingdom1755 Posts
My 2cents (which when converted are worth one singular glistening pound!) It is completely clear that he did intend or even register anything resembling homophobia when using the word. Now if you wish to criticise the use of faggot, faggotry or any other instantiation in a wider sense and how it should not be accepted that is fine an justified. As to total biscuits guilt in this i would contend he has and should feel none. Poor choice of words, absolutely. A shame that words like this are used with such frequency when they are... at their root... derogatory homophobic and insulting. Absolutely. Did total biscuit mean, insinuate or even register homophobia or any insinuation when calling the person he did a "Faggot"? No, No, and extremely unlikely//No. That for me would be the end of the matter in terms of him personally, and i dont even like him much although i have never met him and opinions are kinda easily formed ![]() As i said before in my post the word faggot or fag is often and widely used in some areas of the UK or demographics simply to mean annoying.... consider the phrase "He is an ass" it is often used in my experience in a similar way to that and it seems kinda clear from the context this is the case here. | ||
Zaros
United Kingdom3692 Posts
On June 27 2012 06:40 XeliN wrote: Oh i just learnt about this total biscuit thing. My 2cents (which when converted are worth one singular glistening pound!) It is completely clear that he did intend or even register anything resembling homophobia when using the word. Now if you wish to criticise the use of faggot, faggotry or any other instantiation in a wider sense and how it should not be accepted that is fine an justified. As to total biscuits guilt in this i would contend he has and should feel none. Poor choice of words, absolutely. A shame that words like this are used with such frequency when they are... at their root... derogatory homophobic and insulting. Absolutely. Did total biscuit mean, insinuate or even register homophobia or any insinuation when calling the person he did a "Faggot"? No, No, and extremely unlikely//No. That for me would be the end of the matter in terms of him personally, and i dont even like him much although i have never met him and opinions are kinda easily formed ![]() As i said before in my post the word faggot or fag is often and widely used in some areas of the UK or demographics simply to mean annoying.... consider the phrase "He is an ass" it is often used in my experience in a similar way to that and it seems kinda clear from the context this is the case here. Same defence as the people who defended orb used i said nigger but im not a racist - everyone condemns him Totalbiscuit says faggot but im not a homophobe - mixed response at best. | ||
Proseat
Germany5113 Posts
"LGBT = Lower Great Britain" lol JP ![]() | ||
heartbourne
United States10 Posts
It is unquestionably used as a provocative and threatening word. See http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2012/05/cece-mcdonald-transgender-hate-crime-murder for a recent example, and these incidents are common: your lifetime chance of dying from a murder as a transgender person are 1 in 12. See http://www.feministcritics.org/blog/2008/08/24/are-transgender-people-over-a-thousand-times-more-likely-to-be-murdered-than-cisgender/ . It is unquestionable that there is genuine hate and violence out there singled out by perceived gender identity or sexual orientation. When people use the word "fag" as an insult, specifically in TB's case, he isn't trying to kill anyone, but he is using it as a verbal assault on a person that he intends to degrade. And the reason its an insult is because for the past century or so, its been a slang word for homosexual and used by people with hateful and violent intentions. It has been taken up by the gaming community as "general insult", but to say its roots aren't in hatred for homosexuals or that if you go into these communities, like Xbox live, there aren't pretty literal verbal hostility on literal homosexual behavior and people, is pretty inaccurate. The reason "fag" is an insult isn't because it means "cigarette" or "sausage" in some contexts and cultures, but because its used against homosexuals. Like n****, some homosexuals use it to refer to homosexuals. And look, the Louis C.K. sketch was relatively funny and I think people can absolutely use words however they want, and this wouldn't be an issue if he was less hostile about it. It wasn't a horrendous thing to say "faggot" once, rather, not caring that its offensive to some people of different backgrounds and experiences when you are a broadcaster to a large, varied audience is, I think, rude. The common ground I want to reach is: * "Faggot" as a word is not inherently evil or bad, and he didn't intend any harm toward LGBT people * It is a fact that some people are offended when words like "fag", "n****" as opposed to "idiot", "asshole", etc, in that it evokes feelings of hostility and unacceptance that they may experience or fear elsewhere, and they have valid opinions * Out of respect for them, it is a reasonable request to not use those words in a public forum because you care about their feelings. | ||
Axero
United States307 Posts
Relevant to topic: Anything I have to say is basically just going to echo what everyone else is saying. It was blown out of proportion by someone who felt like doing a bit of vigilante modding. | ||
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