The Shikyo Memorial for QQ Therapy - Page 250

k guys i need some really good advice. dropped 250 elo since last week. had a couple bad games in there tbh. now under 1.4k and it feels really awkward. I have spotted a couple weaknesses in my play:

1. I don't really feel the love with alot of roles. my favs are suppor and ap carry. I would LOVE to play only support and ap. But when I dont get the ap spot I often end up not picking support because it can be extremely frustrating. Not because I think my ad carries are worse than me (there are a couple of those but most ppl are good enough for me to adapt to them for both our benefit), but because I really tilt when they misbehave, doing shitty calls, telling me what to do when etc and generally flame. There are ppl who have 'ideas' that are very far from just plain common sense. the carries that would misbehave are in 99% the carries who have big ass holes in their play like bad CS or random/stupid trading or even not trading when they could etc. I generally don't say much though.

2. I don't know how to play from behind: from sc2 I know you have to take risks to play from behind, like all-ins or greedy plays etc. turtling from behind does not work in 99% of the times against a similarly skilled or better opponent and most of the time when your behind that is the case. In LoL ppl think they can turtle their way out of the game. Mb this silly idea comes from DotA? Well in DotA you had hardcarries and you had heroes that are good at turtling. And you could actually turtle because counterwarding was way (way, way) harder and you could retain a sufficient amount of mapcontrol from behind. And also when you turtled that was your strategy from the get go. It made sense to turtle because you knew you had to anyways. That said, In LoL it generally does not make sense at all to turtle, because everything scales about the same. Alot of good players have stated that you need to make plays to come back. Nontheless ppl are playing extremely bad from behind, letting their opponents do what ever they want. I don't know what to do anymore in this situation. Generally I just try to go with the flow, but it obv does not work. How do you actually turtle in LoL so you dont fall more behind (the rabbit/turtle analogy does not work btw.)??

3. I have some issues midlane when I play against ppl who I consider 'randomly aggressive'. It is smart to do randomly aggressive stuff now and then to throw ppl off, like ulting and igniting someone when you cannot kill them, can surprise and make them focus on your lane if you want them to (your jungler is counterjungling for example). In bad matchups i sometimes play aggressive from level 1-2 just because ppl don't expect it, so they earn a bit respect and everyone is about the same at lvl 1-2 anyways. But there are players who would completely ignore the fact that there are junglers in the game. They would push like crazy and POKE ME NEAR TURRET while I try to lashit. I don't know how to freaking play against them when my jungler is in solomid-guide-route-mode and doesn't gank. Random aggression like this often leads to both us having low health very early on and bad CS, but the random guy can get away with going back to base if he doesnt get ganked and he would lose less CS/exp in the process. It makes me mad when ppl get advantages from bad play. generally the mid lane pushes right around the time when jungler has red or is at wraiths, which is why I don't do it, and in 50% of the cases you get ganked hardcore for play like this. In one of my last games I even had an opponent lee sin jungle who would flash on me near my turret just for the lulz (he got away with 5% health or sth.)
how should I react to randomly aggressive players? what can I learn from this?