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fig_newbie
749 Posts
On October 10 2007 12:53 Ghin wrote: practice? i mean i could write a big post with 50000 words saying you should practice, but i think this says it just as easily | ||
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L!MP
Australia2067 Posts
On October 10 2007 12:57 Kennigit wrote: Ok, this is a confidence issue. And there is one sure cure that i've had great success with when helping people with similar problems. psych yourself out. Think of how fucking awesome you are and that you are doing anyone you look a massive favour just to be in your presence. It's almost like you create an alterego for yourself that you learn to breakout when put under the pressure of it. Normally im somewhat shy but am able to lecture and give speeches to audiences 300+ because of it. Just sit down for like 10 mins each morning and think of how great you are, all your accomplishments and everything you have going for you and that because your that great you are going to share a little bit of it with others. This all may sound incredibly arrogant, and it is. However, with confidence issues like this you need to dive into the deep in and then calibrate your attitude. You dont need to portray this attitude outloud, just keep it in your head. At first it may feel awkward but just stick with it and you'll be ballin in no time at all. affirmation girl? | ||
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dupek
Switzerland214 Posts
is this now fucking psychotherapy site for pubescent losers? | ||
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XCetron
5226 Posts
On October 11 2007 00:28 dupek wrote: how pathetic is this?! what has tl.net become... is this now fucking psychotherapy site for pubescent losers? youre new arent you | ||
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pyrogenetix
China5098 Posts
i think its a little like stress and panic when i get infront of a big crowd. what i do is try to first give the speech to a friend, then maybe my parents or something. practicing infront of a mirror is good too goodluck | ||
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dupek
Switzerland214 Posts
hm no..I started reading sporadically like 5 years ago. In times where nazgul played boxer. dunno if YOU remeber this... | ||
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MoltkeWarding
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xM(Z
Romania5299 Posts
if you can look in people eyes when you lie then it's something wrong with your head; if you can't look them in the eyes even when you lie then that's the way you are so you'll just have to practice, persevere and ignore the failures. | ||
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niteReloaded
Croatia5282 Posts
Also, when i see a nice girl and she looks at me, i usually look away if she's very beutiful, coz i feel she's above my league. Then i usually just dont look at her, coz i, i dont know, i think to myself, "nah, how could she want anything to do with me..." I know that looks pretty weak, right? so as time passed i spontaneously developed an attitude like i dont need noone, im fine by myself, i dont open myself, i dont get embarased/hurt. I basically hope a girl will come to me first. Its just so wrong i know it, but its sooo hard to change without upgrading my selfconfidence. Im pretty sure most of my fuckups/missed oportunities in life were caused by confidence issues. | ||
IntoTheWow
is awesome32281 Posts
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.MistiK
Netherlands347 Posts
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
Oh god....i never want to be associated with this again o_o | ||
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SnoopySnacks
Tarsonis903 Posts
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NonY
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FirstBorn
Romania3955 Posts
 ).About the other problem, as was pointed out before, it may just be some confidence issues ( or a soar throat). Just try to get one female friend and talk alot with her. And don't think of other girls just as possible partners. Just act normal. | ||
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ViRii
United States826 Posts
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aspergers + Show Spoiler + The lack of demonstrated empathy is possibly the most dysfunctional aspect of AS.[2] Individuals with AS experience difficulties in basic elements of social interaction, which may include a failure to develop friendships or enjoy spontaneous interests or achievements with others, a lack of social or emotional reciprocity, and impaired nonverbal behaviors such as eye contact, facial expression, posture, and gesture.[1] There's more in the Wikipedia section but it's a real disorder. I suggest contacting a Psychologist, not being a douche here or anything just want what's best for you. There's no single treatment for Asperger Syndrome, but if anyone can really help it's a Psychologist. | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
Smurg, yes that can be true also... it just depends on the context like i mentioned before. The "oponent" can see it as a threat and it's just a matter of personality of how he will react: get scared, get pissed/provoked, etc. | ||
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[jOyO]
United States920 Posts
serious suggestion: wear dark sun glasses everywhere | ||
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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Scorpion
United States1974 Posts
I got a little better saying "hi" also. I tried controlling my voice level so I don't sound like a pedophile. | ||
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