EPTWhy beating you kid isn't all that bad... - Page 3
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ColdSoup
United States447 Posts
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ColdSoup
United States447 Posts
On October 03 2005 17:52 SweeTLemonS[TPR] wrote: I'd just like to point out that it was Rainbow Six 3 that he was playing, not Halo 2. Also, I don't understand this here: "you all act so proud that your parents were 5% less retarded than his (on average). too bad you all share the same 20th-21st century education." Don't you also have the same education? Are you from the future or something? Hehe some how I knew you would point this out. | ||
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anarchyplz
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MannerKiss
United States2398 Posts
On October 03 2005 18:26 anarchyplz wrote: beating child in that state will just make him go WTF agreed He needs to be beaten over a long period of time. | ||
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HULKAMANIA
United States1219 Posts
On October 03 2005 16:54 NewbSaibot wrote: The rod was in reference to a shepherd, who guides his sheep with a rod. Without the rod, the sheep get out of line and become lost and astray. Has nothing to do with beating the child with a rod like most people think they did back in the day. Obviously kids who are ABUSED, as what most of you are recommending here, grow up to be serial killers or child rapists, so how can you possibly be recommending him torture? I know most of you are exagerrating, but i feel a few arent. I wasn't quoting the Bible there, champ. That's just an old saying loosely inspired by Solomon. Proverbs does contain a couple verses about rearing children with the rod, though; they run like this: "He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Proverbs 13:24 "Withold not thou correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell." Proverbs 23:13-14 We could also cross reference any one of the dozens of verses where the Bible talks about punishment via the rod, but I think the case is closed. The Bibles does condone corporal punishment for children in plain, explicit terms. I don't know what you're talking about with this metaphorical shepards rod nonsense. Now I want to explain myself a bit here while I'm at it. I'm not for child abuse at all, and I don't talk about the matter flippantly. As a counselor, I have seen the effects of abuse; they digust me. I have been working with boys ages 8-17 since I was a freshman in high school, and I will risk starting an avalance of pedophilia jokes in telling you folks that I love the kids. It would kill me to see any of the boys I've had in my care come to serious harm, but I question anyone's wisdom who thinks that a young child can always be reasoned with or punished without the use of force. At camp, you can always tell the kids who come from a single parent home where their mom won't spank them; you can always tell when a boys mom and dad have decided that physical chastening is barbaric; and it's not because those kids are especially mature, reasonable, and well-behaved. They are the worst of the worst, the most intractable, self-centered, and stubborn. I don't think it's impossible to raise a child correctly without ever spanking him, but I think you're doing him a disservice. I admire my parents, and they never hesitated to meet my rebellion with the belt. I'm glad they did. | ||
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HULKAMANIA
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bulls-on-parade
United States35 Posts
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SweeTLemonS[TPR]
11739 Posts
On October 03 2005 19:09 HULKAMANIA wrote: Oh. And, Klogon, I'm glad you approve of me. I don't want to quote your entire post above, because it's too long, but, I completely agree with what you're saying. My parents did everything with me (not that I was some demon child or something), but the only thing that worked for them was to hit me. They could yell all they wanted, talk calmly all they wanted, take stuff away all they wanted, but I didn't care; however, when I got a hand to the face, I cared. | ||
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SaNteria
Canada487 Posts
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AcrossFiveJulys
United States3612 Posts
"GET ME CHOCOLATE MILK!!! I CANT GET UP THIS IS A CLAN BATTLE!!" | ||
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HowitZer
United States1610 Posts
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LetMeBeWithYou
Canada4254 Posts
And dont say we're too poor to afford xbox or something | ||
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Izenra
Canada679 Posts
On October 03 2005 19:25 SweeTLemonS[TPR] wrote: I don't want to quote your entire post above, because it's too long, but, I completely agree with what you're saying. My parents did everything with me (not that I was some demon child or something), but the only thing that worked for them was to hit me. They could yell all they wanted, talk calmly all they wanted, take stuff away all they wanted, but I didn't care; however, when I got a hand to the face, I cared. Parent suck. If you are yelling all the time, the kid won't take it seriously. I never got beat up, and younger I had a lot of energy, jump all around a lot etc. But whenever my parent start yelling, which happened so not often, I was fucking scared because I was not used to it. So I obeyed. | ||
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SweeTLemonS[TPR]
11739 Posts
On October 03 2005 20:38 Izenra wrote: Parent suck. If you are yelling all the time, the kid won't take it seriously. I never got beat up, and younger I had a lot of energy, jump all around a lot etc. But whenever my parent start yelling, which happened so not often, I was fucking scared because I was not used to it. So I obeyed. My parents didn't yell a lot at all, really. They nagged a lot, but I think most parents do that (what do you have for homework? Did you get your homework done? stuff like that), but if I did something wrong, sometimes they'd yell, but it wasn't the first thing. I don't think my "parent suck" at all, they did a pretty good job with me. | ||
Liquid`Drone
Norway28727 Posts
no offense to anyone although im sure lots are offended | ||
Manifesto7
Osaka27156 Posts
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Liquid`Drone
Norway28727 Posts
but you sure as fuck don't need to hit your child to avoid him turning out like that. | ||
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BlaCha
Poland743 Posts
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BlaCha
Poland743 Posts
world isn't going in right direction... no sir  | ||
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proTOSS[GER]
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