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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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GoTuNk!
Chile4591 Posts
On December 30 2016 11:05 plasmidghost wrote: Should I be concerned if my girlfriend has some guy hovering around her all the time saying that they're meant to be together? I've never met him in person but he sounds like a piece of shit from what she's told me (he called me a dirty Muslim despite me being Sikh) Depends, did your gf tell him to fuck off? | ||
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arb
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SK.Testie
Canada11084 Posts
On December 30 2016 11:05 plasmidghost wrote: Should I be concerned if my girlfriend has some guy hovering around her all the time saying that they're meant to be together? I've never met him in person but he sounds like a piece of shit from what she's told me (he called me a dirty Muslim despite me being Sikh) Just be better than him in every single way and you will have no troubles. Plus he sounds like an obnoxious faggot. No one likes people who hover around you and want your attention. Unless your GF is actually seeking attention because you don't talk to her enough (or too much. Too much being you always talk to her and she's just kind of sick of you). Otherwise if you're better looking / make more money / better in just about every way you have nothing to worry about. People generally fuck upward, not downward. He sounds like a piece of shit. Meant to be together? What is this teenage shit. What a fuck stick. Absolutely loathe people who hit on a person in a relationship. | ||
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
On December 30 2016 11:29 SK.Testie wrote: Just be better than him in every single way and you will have no troubles. Plus he sounds like an obnoxious faggot. No one likes people who hover around you and want your attention. Unless your GF is actually seeking attention because you don't talk to her enough (or too much. Too much being you always talk to her and she's just kind of sick of you). Otherwise if you're better looking / make more money / better in just about every way you have nothing to worry about. People generally fuck upward, not downward. He sounds like a piece of shit. Meant to be together? What is this teenage shit. What a fuck stick. Absolutely loathe people who hit on a person in a relationship. what do you have to loathe? either you are better in every way or she should fuck upwards right? constant competition is the only way to find the best mate. | ||
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B.I.G.
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I obviously don't know the situation but I would look into why it's dragging on like this... | ||
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LegalLord
United States13779 Posts
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SK.Testie
Canada11084 Posts
On December 30 2016 14:58 IgnE wrote: what do you have to loathe? either you are better in every way or she should fuck upwards right? constant competition is the only way to find the best mate. What don't you have to loathe? It breaks down a high trust society and is the move of a filthy degenerate. When someone's in a relationship that should be off limits on the simple grounds of not being a cunt. Just because you're better in every way doesn't mean you should infringe on someone else's relationship. And yes, I know you're toying around with my response. | ||
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Skynx
Turkey7150 Posts
On December 30 2016 11:05 plasmidghost wrote: Should I be concerned if my girlfriend has some guy hovering around her all the time saying that they're meant to be together? I've never met him in person but he sounds like a piece of shit from what she's told me (he called me a dirty Muslim despite me being Sikh) Give him a box full of sand and tell him to hold on to it for a while. | ||
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maybenexttime
Poland5843 Posts
On December 30 2016 16:04 B.I.G. wrote: Just a friendly reminder to look more into what she does than what she says. Can't even remember the amount of times a girl described a guy as "just a friend" or "no I'm not interested in him" or "he's annoying" and still ended up on that dick. The fact that you say he's hovering seems to indicate it's been going on for a while. Why isn't she doing anything to decisively stop the hovering? Seems like she could be letting him because she likes the attention. I obviously don't know the situation but I would look into why it's dragging on like this... This. Keep in mind that attraction is subjective and has a chemical component to it. Even if you are objectively better in every way, she could still get infatuated with another guy and cheat on you. I am no expert, but if I were you I'd try to suggest (in a subtle way) that she put an end to this situation, without coming off as insecure. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
Also haha it was really hilarious how you guys said it's absolute terms who's better and worse :D "I'm better than him in every way" is irrelevant, how you interact with the girl and she interacts with you is all that matters. You can have a girl that's successfull smart beautiful , with great family awesome in bed, friends, kind... And still be fucking awful for you as a partner and vice versa | ||
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xM(Z
Romania5299 Posts
one explanation would be that since they're financially secure they prefer a half that satisfies their other pleasures/needs. Edit: or rather, men end up preferring average + utility. the competition on looks or means between males is an ill minded woman value that nurture/culture is carving on to unsuspicious would be males. | ||
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Acrofales
Spain18387 Posts
On January 08 2017 17:47 xM(Z wrote: statistically, men fuck downward and it's a conscious choice. one explanation would be that since they're financially secure they prefer a half that satisfies their other pleasures/needs. Edit: or rather, men end up preferring average + utility. the competition on looks or means between males is an ill minded woman value that nurture/culture is carving on to unsuspicious would be males. Citation needed. This sounds like some misogynistic claptrap to me. | ||
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Antyee
Hungary1011 Posts
On January 08 2017 19:24 Acrofales wrote: Citation needed. This sounds like some misogynistic claptrap to me. Well, it is true for millionaries, sounds reasonable in general. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/24/millionaire-men_n_3983741.html Also, has nothing to do with misogyny. | ||
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Artisreal
Germany9235 Posts
Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. Please everyone. | ||
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
like really really bad, cause this is a situation i should not be in but im not sure the best exit plan? | ||
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LegalLord
United States13779 Posts
On January 09 2017 03:43 arb wrote: If you absolutely felt like you needed to get rid of someone really toxic whats the best way to do it? like really really bad, cause this is a situation i should not be in but im not sure the best exit plan? Kind of hard to answer without background. Are you in a situation where you can't simply walk away? | ||
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Dark_Chill
Canada3353 Posts
On January 09 2017 03:43 arb wrote: If you absolutely felt like you needed to get rid of someone really toxic whats the best way to do it? like really really bad, cause this is a situation i should not be in but im not sure the best exit plan? Are you worried they might hurt you on exit? Or is it just hurt feelings? | ||
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