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On October 26 2015 09:49 [UoN]Sentinel wrote:
Is she the Jen I'm thinking of? I recall a marriage between a math guy from Rutgers and someone who I'm pretty sure is named Jen... Small world if she is.
On October 26 2015 10:04 zf wrote:Show nested quote +On October 25 2015 14:13 Luepert wrote:
My date didn't go as well as I expected. Dinner was great but then we did homework for 6 hours. That sounds like a wonderful date. A relationship that doesn't intrude on your work? You don't know what you're missing.
Hahahaha so true. Plus, as a teacher, I approve of homework dates 
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Homework guy you clearly just messed up. You have to make a move at some point. Stuff doesn't just happen magically.
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I know man but I don't know how. I'm kind of just winigng it and so far it's working alright so I was just going to do it when it felt right and it didn't feel right then.
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It didn't feel right because you are scared and inexperienced.
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Tomorrow. I go brave. The girl I like. I wait. On the corner. Waiting for her. And then I speak her. I hope she alone. If with friend, I will so sad. Because I will be embarrass to watch them watch me. Like puppy with tongue seeking small cracker.
But whatever. I go brave. Fuck her friend. I pray. The friend is not present. I'll ask for good lord's help. So fuck friend. Now, I will speak her. See her smile. We walk. We board. I make her feel happy. I will be the energy. I set it. I will make the music. She will play the drum. I willl ask her come with me. But take slow big boy. Remember. She is the gift. You are the sacrifice. Fear not the phantom spectres. The cloudy doubts of failures past. Show her who you are. Show heart.
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Yes. Love her. Fuck friend. Pray don't talk. Best date.
In seriousness, gl hf 
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On October 26 2015 10:22 IgnE wrote:
Homework guy you clearly just messed up. You have to make a move at some point. Stuff doesn't just happen magically.
I missed out on the nicest boobs because of inaction  (((((
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On October 26 2015 16:19 Fyodor wrote:I missed out on the nicest boobs because of inaction (((((
I am so sorry for your loss.
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So yesterday me and my girl thought it'd be fun to go on grindr. I've set up username Superman69, took a picture on the can and let her have some fun. ("why only the top, is it because of your face?  " etc.) We went to a restaurant to have a meal and stuff and she looked for some guys. One of the first one's she's clicked on was 90 metres away. We were having dinner, drinking, doing the usual pda stuff, and when we were leaving out waiter was grinning wide and looking our way for some reason.
Turns out he was online on Grindr, one of the first few we've seen on there after installing the app
What he must be thinking I don't know, didn't reply to "hello *his name*" that she's sent afterwards :/
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On October 26 2015 21:11 LemOn wrote:So yesterday me and my girl thought it'd be fun to go on grindr. I've set up username Superman69, took a picture on the can and let her have some fun. ("why only the top, is it because of your face? " etc.) We went to a restaurant to have a meal and stuff and she looked for some guys. One of the first one's she's clicked on was 90 metres away. We were having dinner, drinking, doing the usual pda stuff, and when we were leaving out waiter was grinning wide and looking our way for some reason. Turns out he was online on Grindr, one of the first few we've seen on there after installing the app What he must be thinking I don't know, didn't reply to "hello *his name*" that she's sent afterwards :/
To what end are you doing this?
As a gay guy, I can tell you we think it's an absolute riot when straight guys decide to use Grindr for shits and giggles. Pun intended
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On October 26 2015 22:37 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On October 26 2015 21:11 LemOn wrote:So yesterday me and my girl thought it'd be fun to go on grindr. I've set up username Superman69, took a picture on the can and let her have some fun. ("why only the top, is it because of your face? " etc.) We went to a restaurant to have a meal and stuff and she looked for some guys. One of the first one's she's clicked on was 90 metres away. We were having dinner, drinking, doing the usual pda stuff, and when we were leaving out waiter was grinning wide and looking our way for some reason. Turns out he was online on Grindr, one of the first few we've seen on there after installing the app What he must be thinking I don't know, didn't reply to "hello *his name*" that she's sent afterwards :/ To what end are you doing this? As a gay guy, I can tell you we think it's an absolute riot when straight guys decide to use Grindr for shits and giggles. Pun intended
Oh I wasn't using it. She was. The end is she was curious/is a huge troll. Like me!
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On October 26 2015 22:37 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On October 26 2015 21:11 LemOn wrote:So yesterday me and my girl thought it'd be fun to go on grindr. I've set up username Superman69, took a picture on the can and let her have some fun. ("why only the top, is it because of your face? " etc.) We went to a restaurant to have a meal and stuff and she looked for some guys. One of the first one's she's clicked on was 90 metres away. We were having dinner, drinking, doing the usual pda stuff, and when we were leaving out waiter was grinning wide and looking our way for some reason. Turns out he was online on Grindr, one of the first few we've seen on there after installing the app What he must be thinking I don't know, didn't reply to "hello *his name*" that she's sent afterwards :/ To what end are you doing this? As a gay guy, I can tell you we think it's an absolute riot when straight guys decide to use Grindr for shits and giggles. Pun intended
So that's why you're so fabulous!
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On October 26 2015 23:14 [UoN]Sentinel wrote:Show nested quote +On October 26 2015 22:37 marvellosity wrote:On October 26 2015 21:11 LemOn wrote:So yesterday me and my girl thought it'd be fun to go on grindr. I've set up username Superman69, took a picture on the can and let her have some fun. ("why only the top, is it because of your face? " etc.) We went to a restaurant to have a meal and stuff and she looked for some guys. One of the first one's she's clicked on was 90 metres away. We were having dinner, drinking, doing the usual pda stuff, and when we were leaving out waiter was grinning wide and looking our way for some reason. Turns out he was online on Grindr, one of the first few we've seen on there after installing the app What he must be thinking I don't know, didn't reply to "hello *his name*" that she's sent afterwards :/ To what end are you doing this? As a gay guy, I can tell you we think it's an absolute riot when straight guys decide to use Grindr for shits and giggles. Pun intended So that's why you're so fabulous bitchy!
yes, yes it is ^_^
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Date was rad. She expected just a lunch then home, we ended up having a good time at the museum, then found a university chapel that played classical music that day.
Then she stopped replying to my text message. Singular, because I only texted her once. "how did your day go?".
This is confusing.
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On October 27 2015 22:19 crimethinking wrote:
Date was rad. She expected just a lunch then home, we ended up having a good time at the museum, then found a university chapel that played classical music that day.
Then she stopped replying to my text message. Singular, because I only texted her once. "how did your day go?".
This is confusing.
How long ago did you text her?
Maybe she's, like, busy.
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On October 27 2015 22:45 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Show nested quote +On October 27 2015 22:19 crimethinking wrote:
Date was rad. She expected just a lunch then home, we ended up having a good time at the museum, then found a university chapel that played classical music that day.
Then she stopped replying to my text message. Singular, because I only texted her once. "how did your day go?".
This is confusing. How long ago did you text her? Maybe she's, like, busy.
12 hours ago. Maybe.
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On October 27 2015 22:50 crimethinking wrote:Show nested quote +On October 27 2015 22:45 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On October 27 2015 22:19 crimethinking wrote:
Date was rad. She expected just a lunch then home, we ended up having a good time at the museum, then found a university chapel that played classical music that day.
Then she stopped replying to my text message. Singular, because I only texted her once. "how did your day go?".
This is confusing. How long ago did you text her? Maybe she's, like, busy. 12 hours ago. Maybe.
Don't sweat it! It sounds like you two had a great time together! She'll respond when she's ready.
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Or you misread the situation and she just isn't that into you.
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On October 27 2015 22:50 crimethinking wrote:
12 hours ago. Maybe.
The trainee becomes the teacher! I agree with the others, 12 hours isn't that much from an outside perspective. I agree it feels like an awful long time but she will most likely come around! Go back one or two page and you will see that I had the exact same problem 
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On October 27 2015 22:50 crimethinking wrote:Show nested quote +On October 27 2015 22:45 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On October 27 2015 22:19 crimethinking wrote:
Date was rad. She expected just a lunch then home, we ended up having a good time at the museum, then found a university chapel that played classical music that day.
Then she stopped replying to my text message. Singular, because I only texted her once. "how did your day go?".
This is confusing. How long ago did you text her? Maybe she's, like, busy. 12 hours ago. Maybe.
Seriously guys, why'd you do this to yourself, I don't get it! You had a great time..in person, why'd you ask her that and.move into texting. "hey girl, I'd love to see you, what day r u free to get together again?" send. All you have to do and should text to any.girl who.takes her time to reply or.is.at all flaky.
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