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On October 29 2015 03:52 bloodwhore~ wrote: Awwww yiss, what a day!
Sold my stocks today just before the collapse (went down ~40%), but not only that - the date went awesome! We started making bread, talked a lot. Then went to my room and sat together in my bed watching a few episodes of Rick and Morty. I had the window open so she got cold, not sure if that was a hint for me to make a move since I just sat really close to her before but we sat under the cover and I had my arms around her. She has this little laugh she does sometimes, adorable as fuck. Kissed her goodbye and she told me to let her know when I had time again. She's really into you, it was clear from before. And her asking that is a really good sign too! As long as you keep being patient inbetween dates/stay off texting and don't overthink/hold back during dates we will lose our mascot virgin within a couple weeks tops!
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yeah bloodwhore just keep in mind once you lose your virginity we will lose all interest in you in this thread. choose wisely
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It's not life's fault you went on a date with a girl you don't like.
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On October 29 2015 16:01 evilfatsh1t wrote: yeah bloodwhore just keep in mind once you lose your virginity we will lose all interest in you in this thread. choose wisely I'm going to go full lem0n on you guys then, boasting about the cutesy stuff we do!
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On October 29 2015 16:35 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On October 29 2015 16:01 evilfatsh1t wrote: yeah bloodwhore just keep in mind once you lose your virginity we will lose all interest in you in this thread. choose wisely I'm going to go full lem0n on you guys then, boasting about the cutesy stuff we do! 
Nothing wrong with that Plenty of people ask for ideas for dates, etc. ^^
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On October 29 2015 16:35 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On October 29 2015 16:01 evilfatsh1t wrote: yeah bloodwhore just keep in mind once you lose your virginity we will lose all interest in you in this thread. choose wisely I'm going to go full lem0n on you guys then, boasting about the cutesy stuff we do! 
Actually this is what this thread is originally all about. Share your dating experiences  At least until you can call it a stable relationship.
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On October 23 2015 12:52 Fyodor wrote: I asked a girl out today and she said yes. I asked her out almost a year ago and she said no.
When she said no she added that she had just met someone and wanted to see where it went first before dating around. I let her know I was impressed at her mindset and wished her well.
Today I had posted on facebook a picture of me studying while having a beer. Shortly after she posts a picture of her studying with a glass of wine. That's the best way someone ever got my attention to be honest. Creative and slick af. Message her a bit and then ask her out again. Neither of us were students when we first met either so there's that dimension as well.
I'm pretty stoked to be honest. She's pretty geeky, seen her play Resident Evil 4 and likes games in general. Excellent taste right there.
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Coffee date went ok, talked about random stuff for an hour then left for work. For a goodbye I did the customary French-Canadian double cheek kiss and made no mention of another date or if I enjoyed myself or liked her.
No texts for one day then texted a little bit into asking her out for Netflix and Chill next week and she said yes.
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On October 30 2015 03:49 Fyodor wrote:No texts for one day then texted a little bit into asking her out for Netflix and Chill next week and she said yes. Did you actually say "netflix and chill?" or did you use another phrase? I'm curious, what are you after with her? Relationship or do you just want to get laid?
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On October 30 2015 04:15 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On October 30 2015 03:49 Fyodor wrote:No texts for one day then texted a little bit into asking her out for Netflix and Chill next week and she said yes. Did you actually say "netflix and chill?" or did you use another phrase? I'm curious, what are you after with her? Relationship or do you just want to get laid?
Well the entire conversation happened in French and I have no clue if she understands the sexual connotations of netflix and chill.
I'm pretty ambivalent when it comes to sex vs relationships. I'm down with either.
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On October 30 2015 04:17 Fyodor wrote:Show nested quote +On October 30 2015 04:15 bloodwhore~ wrote:On October 30 2015 03:49 Fyodor wrote:No texts for one day then texted a little bit into asking her out for Netflix and Chill next week and she said yes. Did you actually say "netflix and chill?" or did you use another phrase? I'm curious, what are you after with her? Relationship or do you just want to get laid? Well the entire conversation happened in French and I have no clue if she understands the sexual connotations of netflix and chill. I'm pretty ambivalent when it comes to sex vs relationships. I'm down with either.
Just make sure you don't rape her, since she might not know the meme. Lol.
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On October 30 2015 04:15 bloodwhore~ wrote:Show nested quote +On October 30 2015 03:49 Fyodor wrote:No texts for one day then texted a little bit into asking her out for Netflix and Chill next week and she said yes. Did you actually say "netflix and chill?" or did you use another phrase? I'm curious, what are you after with her? Relationship or do you just want to get laid? There's no difference in how you approach the date really. And there's no way you can know what you're after with her after one date anyways, that stuff takes a few months.
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On October 30 2015 04:17 Fyodor wrote:
Well the entire conversation happened in French and I have no clue if she understands the sexual connotations of netflix and chill.
I'm pretty ambivalent when it comes to sex vs relationships. I'm down with either.
Well if you said it in english she knows. You really must live under a rock these days not to know the meaning of netflix and chill.
Okay.
There's no difference in how you approach the date really. Well if he would want a relationship I'd probably go about it in a little bit classier way. "netflix and chill" is literally "do you want to fuck my brains out?".
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And what's wrong with that? I especially want to fuck the brains out of girls I want a long term relationship with 
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On October 30 2015 05:13 LemOn wrote:And what's wrong with that? I especially want to fuck the brains out of girls I want a long term relationship with  You can even fuck her brains out multiple times!
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On October 30 2015 05:17 [UoN]Sentinel wrote:Show nested quote +On October 30 2015 05:13 LemOn wrote:And what's wrong with that? I especially want to fuck the brains out of girls I want a long term relationship with  You can even fuck her brains out multiple times!
But don't you have to put them back in after each time?
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It's kinda funny, cause it's not like the entire concept of having sex instead of watching TV is new..... What do you think your parents and maybe even grandparents used to do at drive-in movies?
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I just think you can have some sort of style when you go about it thats all. Not go full "ey bby u wan sum fuk?".
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On October 30 2015 08:00 bloodwhore~ wrote: I just think you can have some sort of style when you go about it thats all. Not go full "ey bby u wan sum fuk?".
Don't you dare to speak against the awesome compilation of cringe worthy chat-up lines that brought to us by [whoever it was]! They are golden, each and every one of them.
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hi guys. Dont't know wtf is wrong with some girls, asked a girl if she wanted to go out, she's from another country and i thought to show her the city, she said yes and gives me her phone, but when i called her or texted her she didnt even answered me. Why did she gave her phone number if she didnt wanted to answer me. Im a straight shooter and when i asked her why didnt she give me a reply she said i was pressuring her too much, wtf 1 text msg and 1 unanswered phone call is pressure?! Please just tell me yes, no or fuck off why the hell dont some girls can say 1 of those 3. Asked another one if she wanted to go out but she said she has a boyfriend, but we can go out as friends.
How is my dating luck? My luck is in the gutter.
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