EPTOn March 01 2014 14:25 Calanthe wrote:
3/10. you coulda been this guy if you'd tried a little harder.
3/10. you coulda been this guy if you'd tried a little harder.
holy shit
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
On March 01 2014 13:55 chadissilent wrote: I have a half-asian friend who is absolutely gorgeous, but both of her parents are also good looking. Maybe the "problem" people are finding with half-asian offspring from WM/AF is that the couples aren't always shining examples of fantastic genetics to start with. Go take a look at the "pictures of your S/O" thread to see some examples. I'm not saying this as a widespread generalization, just what I've noticed in social circles. As a side note, I just got that Tinder app based on the recommendations of some friends and that thing is fantastic. I've received a ton of attention and have some dates lined up this weekend with some pretty damn cute girls. He was talking about half asian males. Females get away with anything easily. | ||
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Shotcoder
United States2316 Posts
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On March 01 2014 14:25 Calanthe wrote: 3/10. you coulda been this guy if you'd tried a little harder. I'm surprised she put that much effort into a response. It must mean she cares for him, he should message her a few more times! | ||
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Calanthe
United States148 Posts
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Firebolt145
Lalalaland34503 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32135 Posts
On March 01 2014 14:25 Calanthe wrote: 3/10. you coulda been this guy if you'd tried a little harder. hahahahahahahhahahahah that is the greatest shoot down ever | ||
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Mensol
14536 Posts
On March 01 2014 14:25 Calanthe wrote: 3/10. you coulda been this guy if you'd tried a little harder. "this Kitty's got claws" is probably funniest line i've ever read in a long time lool.. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On March 02 2014 05:07 QuanticHawk wrote: hahahahahahahhahahahah that is the greatest shoot down ever Honestly it is, maybe it's harsh but she is being completely honest about it and if he isn't dumb then he can learn and improve from the situation. I wish every rejection was that clearcut. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32135 Posts
if youre tracking down a stranger who didnt even give you their contact info, they certainly dont owe you anything either | ||
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WombaT
Northern Ireland26790 Posts
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KaiserKieran
United States615 Posts
So I went to a school basketbal game yesterday and I saw her there so we chatted some and I stay with her and chill with like the group. Yay! So it's at the end of the game and she leaves and I'm just thinking to my self "I can't let another girl get away" so I go outside to try and track her down and ask her out on like a date (So kind of spontaneous haha) but I can't find her.. So I'm out in the cold looking for her about to give up and she comes out with her friend and after talked with her I ask if she is actually free Saturday (today) and ask if she wants to see a movie with me and she says yes that'd be fun. (fuck yeahhhhhhhhh!!!!!) What a burst of adrenaline I had man lol. She then texts me that she is actually busy today and can't hangout so we should reschedule and I'm just thinking to myself how to go from here. I'm thinking something like go out into the city and watch a movie and then my parents can drive us home or we can walk around a little bit (but it is really cold outside so idk about being outside too much) So this isn't like filled with drama or anything but I guess it's a step in the right direction I hope even though idk were not like "serious" or anything. | ||
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Zooper31
United States5713 Posts
On March 02 2014 05:53 KaiserKieran wrote: Ok guys update time! So I went to a school basketbal game yesterday and I saw her there so we chatted some and I stay with her and chill with like the group. Yay! So it's at the end of the game and she leaves and I'm just thinking to my self "I can't let another girl get away" so I go outside to try and track her down and ask her out on like a date (So kind of spontaneous haha) but I can't find her.. So I'm out in the cold looking for her about to give up and she comes out with her friend and after talked with her I ask if she is actually free Saturday (today) and ask if she wants to see a movie with me and she says yes that'd be fun. (fuck yeahhhhhhhhh!!!!!) What a burst of adrenaline I had man lol. She then texts me that she is actually busy today and can't hangout so we should reschedule and I'm just thinking to myself how to go from here. I'm thinking something like go out into the city and watch a movie and then my parents can drive us home or we can walk around a little bit (but it is really cold outside so idk about being outside too much) So this isn't like filled with drama or anything but I guess it's a step in the right direction I hope even though idk were not like "serious" or anything. Sounds good. Maybe she was excited and in the heat of the moment too when she said yes pre-emptively for Saturday and then later thought about it and she alrdy had plans. Just keep up to tabs with her and reschedule when you both are free. Don't chat 24/7 until you have that first date. Need stuff to talk about lol. | ||
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GumBa
United Kingdom31935 Posts
I asked the girl I really if she would like to go on a date with me and she said yes BUT itll have to wait because she has literally no time. So ok i could get thaz because with work and school and she plays football so she really doesnt habe time not even for her friends so I said yeah cool. After awhile I asked so is this still on? And she said yes definetly just wait a little loger please and I told er directly look if you dont want to go out on a date with me no hard feelings ok you dont habe to agree to be polite and etc. (We are friends so we would just stay friends) then she was all like no no no i would really like to go out with you but I really dont habe time. Now Im not sure if she just doesnt want to hurt my feelings and is not interested or actually meens it cause Ifeel kinda confused and sad lol | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States45917 Posts
On March 02 2014 11:41 GumBa wrote: Ok guys help me pls :D I asked the girl I really if she would like to go on a date with me and she said yes BUT itll have to wait because she has literally no time. So ok i could get thaz because with work and school and she plays football so she really doesnt habe time not even for her friends so I said yeah cool. After awhile I asked so is this still on? And she said yes definetly just wait a little loger please and I told er directly look if you dont want to go out on a date with me no hard feelings ok you dont habe to agree to be polite and etc. (We are friends so we would just stay friends) then she was all like no no no i would really like to go out with you but I really dont habe time. Now Im not sure if she just doesnt want to hurt my feelings and is not interested or actually meens it cause Ifeel kinda confused and sad lol Hey here's an idea. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patience You're welcome. Also, "have". | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
On March 02 2014 12:05 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: Hey here's an idea. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patience You're welcome. Also, "have". Hahahahaahahahahahaahah I laughed all the way through this post. Seriously though, don't be so pushy man. Good things come to those who let life be when it comes to situations like this. | ||
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Firebolt145
Lalalaland34503 Posts
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GumBa
United Kingdom31935 Posts
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On March 02 2014 23:25 GumBa wrote: Ok yeah sorry guys was a bit tipsy and just alittle frustrated It's alright, I hardly habe freetime so I understand where she's coming from, just be patient an the next time you talk to her find out when she's free. | ||
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
On March 02 2014 05:53 Wombat_NI wrote: I'd prefer to get cut down like that than all of the variants of 'I'm not ready for a relationship' and whatnot. I gather why some people prefer to do it that way though, spurned people can be unpredictable in their responses Probably but when you get a response like that it also means you're failing really hard so I'm not sure it is so preferable :p But sometimes you've got to go that low, get hit real hard and then come back to your senses to do it properly. | ||
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