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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on.

Posts of the following nature are banned:
1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post.
2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no.
3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture.
4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments.

Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating.
Dogfoodboy16
Profile Joined October 2013
364 Posts
February 03 2014 07:55 GMT
#7881
On February 03 2014 16:50 MightyBill wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 03 2014 14:38 Dogfoodboy16 wrote:
I kept insulting my girlfriend and her family at a superbowl game because they are all Broncos fans. Now shes mad at me. Wut do i do? XD


Is that the same girlfriend who has a cockblocking dog, and knows you want to go to sweden to dance with 15 year old girls?

No this is the girl I'm going out with for valentines day. We have been friends for several years but I am making an conserted effort to unfriendzone myself.
LeeDawg
Profile Joined April 2012
United States1306 Posts
February 03 2014 09:10 GMT
#7882
On February 03 2014 16:55 Dogfoodboy16 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 03 2014 16:50 MightyBill wrote:
On February 03 2014 14:38 Dogfoodboy16 wrote:
I kept insulting my girlfriend and her family at a superbowl game because they are all Broncos fans. Now shes mad at me. Wut do i do? XD


Is that the same girlfriend who has a cockblocking dog, and knows you want to go to sweden to dance with 15 year old girls?

No this is the girl I'm going out with for valentines day. We have been friends for several years but I am making an conserted effort to unfriendzone myself.


so not your girlfriend but your friend who's a girl?

jesus christ I hate labels...
:-)
Holgerius
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Sweden16951 Posts
February 03 2014 15:42 GMT
#7883
Things are going real fast for me now. Moved in with my beloved in the beginning of January, and now we've decided to get married in June. :D
I believe in the almighty Grötslev! -- I am never serious and you should never believe a thing I say. Including the previous sentence.
WombaT
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Northern Ireland26014 Posts
February 03 2014 15:44 GMT
#7884
Congrats man!
'You'll always be the cuddly marsupial of my heart, despite the inherent flaws of your ancestry' - Squat
SixStrings
Profile Blog Joined August 2013
Germany2046 Posts
February 03 2014 16:00 GMT
#7885
On February 03 2014 16:52 Dogfoodboy16 wrote:
Yea it was the wrong thing to do. I was just excited because I won a bunch of money on the game and had quite a bit to drink during the Super Bowl party at my house. I haven't talked to her yet ima let it blow over until tomorrow morning and apologize first thing.


And you guys call me a scumbag...
farvacola
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
United States18838 Posts
February 03 2014 16:04 GMT
#7886
Yep, we sure do.
"when the Dead Kennedys found out they had skinhead fans, they literally wrote a song titled 'Nazi Punks Fuck Off'"
WonnaPlay
Profile Joined September 2010
Netherlands912 Posts
February 03 2014 16:26 GMT
#7887
On February 02 2014 02:16 ZapRoffo wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2014 21:05 WonnaPlay wrote:
On January 24 2014 14:42 ZapRoffo wrote:
On December 11 2013 14:41 ZapRoffo wrote:

On December 01 2013 11:52 ZapRoffo wrote:
Well tomorrow for the first time I'm meeting someone from online where it feels like there's actually potential (we clicked fairly immediately in online conversation) rather than knowing that it's just gonna end up practice, or random socializing, so I'm rather nervous like it's all new. Even though I keep telling myself to not treat it different because I know I show a fairly good self when I'm behaving naturally nowadays.


Update from this after a week and a half, we went out a second time to a movie--(arm touching and leaning close/into each other was what happened physically, she was very reactive to the thrilling parts of the movie). She seemed to have a positive reaction to the date afterward overall.

The thing is we clicked because we seem to move at the same speed in life and such, but our interests don't really click that much. She's gets into things like movies only emotionally, she thinks Twilight is decent (but not spectacularly good, heh), she really likes shopping--these aren't really the sorts of things I'm really mentally (whole package type) attracted to. But thinking of her physically does turn me on, but then she doesn't seem like the type at all that will go for sex or anything without getting quite emotionally close, and I'm not sure whether I'm down to go there or not. Not really sure how to approach, especially since I don't have opportunities with females just raining down on me.


Update on this: I gave her not enough credit here, I'm quite fond of her now, trying not to think too much and ruin everything. We've been dating a bit, moving pretty slowly but that suits me. So the story is, after a few times hanging out she gave me a "I like you as a friend" thing which sort of reflected my hesitation, but then we went out to the movies again after that, she wanted to cuddle while watching and I guess she was in the process of changing her mind about the friend thing cause then she was like, lets give this thing a go, and it felt right to me. We made out a little last date, and we have good aligning physical chemistry I think. We look very old-fashioned from outside I think, and I'm sure anyone who saw us would be like, awww so cute or something, heh. Especially cause she's not someone most would describe as smoking hot but it's very easy to describe her as very cute (the short woman--under 5 ft.--conundrum).

This song is what I feel like in the days when we don't get to meet up (we have somewhat inconveniently overlapping work schedules so mostly just the weekends are good):
+ Show Spoiler +

Working as both a message to myself and in its main plaintive hope for her.


Be very carefull when going for such a girl. She has already mentioned that she see's you as a friend.
Cuddling, kissing etc is a thing which a girl might do just to see whatsup. She might seem into you for a while, but in the meantime would be just waiting for another guy and "settling" with you.
Cute girls are by far the most dangerous since they give you the "Hey, I could marry this girl"-feeling, whilst just leaning you on.
Ofcourse that said, when that is clear just enjoy the time you have with her, however don't fall in love in that case.

The assumptions you make of "lets give this thing a go" might just be "hey, this guy is pretty cute for the time being", so try to be straight forward with your intentions and find out what hers are.
Aside from all this, congrats :D


Hmm, so update, we are "official" and exclusive now, as far as I can tell she's very into it. I guess I'm jumping into this, lets see how it goes.


Great for you! As I previously stated, just watch your back so you don't get your heart broken, but if it keeps going like this, this might be the girl of your dreams:D

For me it is not going so well...
After I was in heavily in love with a girl, where things eventually just didn't work out (I'm too much of a party / late-night guy, whilst she was a stay-in / wakeup early girl), I just kinda gave up for a while now..
There's currently no girls that I'm really interested in and I haven't met any great ones which come even close to the girl I was in love with.

The worst thing is that the only girl (girl2 for reference) that I'm even remotely interested in, is one of the latter girl's(girl1) friends.
I knew girl2 was always kinda into me, but I chose to go for girl1 a few months back and I feel it would be awkward to now go for girl2, whilst I 'scored' girl1 right in front of girl2.
This saturday we were at a party and flirted quite a bit, enough to make me think she's still into it, but I feel like I can't make a move, because of the potential awkward level. Normally I'd say fuck this, but I'm actually going on holidays with girl2 in the summer and we see eachother alot at party's, so I have to choose my moves wisely.
Acrofales
Profile Joined August 2010
Spain18112 Posts
February 03 2014 17:42 GMT
#7888
On February 04 2014 01:00 SixStrings wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 03 2014 16:52 Dogfoodboy16 wrote:
Yea it was the wrong thing to do. I was just excited because I won a bunch of money on the game and had quite a bit to drink during the Super Bowl party at my house. I haven't talked to her yet ima let it blow over until tomorrow morning and apologize first thing.


And you guys call me a scumbag...

I don't think dogfood has boasted about making a girl phone her husband while giving him a blowjob yet... but don't worry, the number of scumbags in this world isn't limited to 1, you have company in that illustrious category of people!
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32084 Posts
February 03 2014 17:56 GMT
#7889
you guys are some boring mother fuckers if you dont talk a ton of shit to anyone and everyone whilst watching sports
PROFESSIONAL GAMER - SEND ME OFFERS TO JOIN YOUR TEAM - USA USA USA
MysteryMeat1
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States3292 Posts
February 03 2014 18:00 GMT
#7890
So my grand plan for math class was to get their early since she usually gets their early in order to make some more small talk. however she showed up just in time for class so i wasn't really able to. Talked to her a bit after class, and then asked her if she was free for lunch tomorrow. I chose around 1 since i thought she was free, however she kind of has class the whole day, and eats dinner at home in the sororiety. She seemed a little flustered (don't know if that is really the right word, and apologized) I could have played it a little smoother. Anyway I think we have a quiz tomorrow, so i don't think i will have the chance to talk to her. Probably gonna wait until wednesday, should i bring it up, or let her?
"Cause ya know, Style before victory." -The greatest mafia player alive
corumjhaelen
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
France6884 Posts
February 03 2014 19:24 GMT
#7891
On February 04 2014 00:42 Holgerius wrote:
Things are going real fast for me now. Moved in with my beloved in the beginning of January, and now we've decided to get married in June. :D

Wow Holg, well played !
‎numquam se plus agere quam nihil cum ageret, numquam minus solum esse quam cum solus esset
LeeDawg
Profile Joined April 2012
United States1306 Posts
February 03 2014 19:31 GMT
#7892
On February 04 2014 03:00 MysteryMeat1 wrote:
So my grand plan for math class was to get their early since she usually gets their early in order to make some more small talk. however she showed up just in time for class so i wasn't really able to. Talked to her a bit after class, and then asked her if she was free for lunch tomorrow. I chose around 1 since i thought she was free, however she kind of has class the whole day, and eats dinner at home in the sororiety. She seemed a little flustered (don't know if that is really the right word, and apologized) I could have played it a little smoother. Anyway I think we have a quiz tomorrow, so i don't think i will have the chance to talk to her. Probably gonna wait until wednesday, should i bring it up, or let her?


Sometimes girls like to be chased a little bit. If you bring it up, whether it's Tuesday, Wednesday or whatever, it would probably be better, unless she asks to hang out before you get a chance to. obviously don't be pushy and if she rejects you a few times for reasons that seem like bullshit ('I have to wash my hair' is the worst one ever) she's probably not into you...
:-)
chadissilent
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada1187 Posts
February 03 2014 20:40 GMT
#7893
On February 04 2014 02:56 QuanticHawk wrote:
you guys are some boring mother fuckers if you dont talk a ton of shit to anyone and everyone whilst watching sports

Yup. When I don't give a shit about the teams playing, I'll always cheer against everyone around me. It keeps things interesting and let's you go through the whole sports banter thing.
JIJI_
Profile Joined October 2010
United States123 Posts
February 03 2014 21:57 GMT
#7894
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:

do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?

all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems

my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)

thx.
All hail King IdrA!
xDaunt
Profile Joined March 2010
United States17988 Posts
February 03 2014 22:09 GMT
#7895
On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:

do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?

all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems

my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)

thx.

This may seem a little counter-intuitive right now, but I'm of the strong opinion that the last kind of girl that you want to date (at least in terms of looking for a serious relationship) is a hardcore gamer. In fact, it's better to keep your girlfriends/spouses out of gaming altogether for the most part.
arb
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Noobville17921 Posts
Last Edited: 2014-02-03 22:14:15
February 03 2014 22:10 GMT
#7896
Brought this girl over i met a long time ago for the first time, after alot of shit talk(saying dumb shit so she laughed the entire time) we ended up having sex and im okay with this.

On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:

do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?

all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems

my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)

thx.


You should probably be a little more realistic if you wanna get your dick wet bro
Artillery spawned from the forges of Hell
TheFish7
Profile Blog Joined February 2012
United States2824 Posts
Last Edited: 2014-02-03 22:13:04
February 03 2014 22:12 GMT
#7897
On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:

do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?

all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems

my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)

thx.


I only go for girls who are really good at horseback riding. If she hasn't won at least a yellow ribbon I won't even take her out once.
~ ~ <°)))><~ ~ ~
chadissilent
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada1187 Posts
February 03 2014 22:28 GMT
#7898
I only go out with girls that give up the butt on the first date.
MysteryMeat1
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States3292 Posts
February 03 2014 22:34 GMT
#7899
I only take guys out for dinner that put it out on the first date
"Cause ya know, Style before victory." -The greatest mafia player alive
rezoacken
Profile Joined April 2010
Canada2719 Posts
February 03 2014 22:47 GMT
#7900
On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:

do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?

all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems

my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)

thx.


I think it's stupid. Especially the "need to be good" part, if good for you means platinum league... That's some very good level for an average person.

And take the opportunity to actually do/talk about something else, imo.
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