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On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:
do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?
all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems
my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)
thx.
Maybe use this as an opportunity to broaden your horizons? There's a lot more out there than just games, and as cool as it seems now to be plat+ in LoL it really shouldn't be the deciding factor in meeting other people.
Watch some movies, read some magazines (not gaming related), pick up an instrument, take a course you wouldn't normally pick if it's possible. You might be surprised how quickly you can find new interests/passions. At the very least, you'll have more to talk about with other people.
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On February 04 2014 07:54 Erik.TheRed wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:
do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?
all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems
my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)
thx. Maybe use this as an opportunity to broaden your horizons? There's a lot more out there than just games, and as cool as it seems now to be plat+ in LoL it really shouldn't be the deciding factor in meeting other people. Watch some movies, read some magazines (not gaming related), pick up an instrument, take a course you wouldn't normally pick if it's possible. You might be surprised how quickly you can find new interests/passions. At the very least, you'll have more to talk about with other people.
Pretty sure he meant sc2 if you read the last paragraph, which probably doesn't help his case since the sc2 playerbase is pretty small at this point (and I have no idea what plat means in LoL).
But really, choosing a girl based on how good she is at one particular hobby (especially one so niche) is just dumb. Choosing a girl who doesn't mind you playing games or takes interest in your hobbies is what you should look for.
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On February 04 2014 07:28 chadissilent wrote:
I only go out with girls that give up the butt on the first date.
I don't go out. With girls, I only go in.
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On February 04 2014 08:35 MightyBill wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 07:28 chadissilent wrote:
I only go out with girls that give up the butt on the first date. I don't go out. With girls, I only go in.
how many girls do you have stuck to your dick then? if you never come out??
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On February 04 2014 09:09 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 08:35 MightyBill wrote:On February 04 2014 07:28 chadissilent wrote:
I only go out with girls that give up the butt on the first date. I don't go out. With girls, I only go in. how many girls do you have stuck to your dick then? if you never come out??
Plot twist: 0
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So after asking an ass out of myself yesterday I took my girlfriend out to a nice steak dinner and used the money I won from betting on the Seahawks to pay for the meal. Now my girlfriend is working on that thing called forgiveness jesus was always talking about 
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Did you make sure to point out it was her team's money that paid for the dinner? I think that would have helped.
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On February 04 2014 10:48 Najda wrote:
Did you make sure to point out it was her team's money that paid for the dinner? I think that would have helped.
I made the decision to keep my mouth shut about that particular topic today XD
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On February 04 2014 11:01 Dogfoodboy16 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 10:48 Najda wrote:
Did you make sure to point out it was her team's money that paid for the dinner? I think that would have helped. I made the decision to keep my mouth shut about that particular topic today XD
He's learning! =P
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On February 04 2014 07:09 xDaunt wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:
do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?
all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems
my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)
thx. This may seem a little counter-intuitive right now, but I'm of the strong opinion that the last kind of girl that you want to date (at least in terms of looking for a serious relationship) is a hardcore gamer. In fact, it's better to keep your girlfriends/spouses out of gaming altogether for the most part.
I'm curious as to why you think this? Surly having something you can bond over and talk about, something you're both passionate about, it's something you'd want? I agree it is silly to look for girls who are particularly good only, or who are hardcore gamers, but having a girlfriend who shares an interest in your gaming habits can't be that bad?
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How do you tell if a girl like used you for a one nighter or not? :x
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On February 04 2014 14:00 arb wrote:
How do you tell if a girl like used you for a one nighter or not? :x
She won't return your calls or texts.
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On February 04 2014 13:05 dravernor wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 07:09 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:
do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?
all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems
my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)
thx. This may seem a little counter-intuitive right now, but I'm of the strong opinion that the last kind of girl that you want to date (at least in terms of looking for a serious relationship) is a hardcore gamer. In fact, it's better to keep your girlfriends/spouses out of gaming altogether for the most part. I'm curious as to why you think this? Surly having something you can bond over and talk about, something you're both passionate about, it's something you'd want? I agree it is silly to look for girls who are particularly good only, or who are hardcore gamers, but having a girlfriend who shares an interest in your gaming habits can't be that bad?
There are just better things to bond over. More to the point, gaming takes up a lot of time. If your girl is any good at games, she probably plays too much of them, which means that she's not doing a lot of other things that you may want her to do. If she's not good, then it probably is rather boring to play with her (I know this one from experience -- I bought a wii specifically to play with my wife, but I abandoned that little experiment really fast).
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On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:
do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?
all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems
my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)
thx.
Stay away from gamer girls. Big time. They get way too much attention from sex starved nerds and think way too high of themselves. Very annoying to attract and deal with.
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On February 04 2014 14:11 xDaunt wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 14:00 arb wrote:
How do you tell if a girl like used you for a one nighter or not? :x She won't return your calls or texts.
should i believe "I dont usually put out or do anything on the first date" ?
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On February 04 2014 14:41 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 14:11 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 14:00 arb wrote:
How do you tell if a girl like used you for a one nighter or not? :x She won't return your calls or texts. should i believe "I dont usually put out or do anything on the first date" ?
Fuck no. If she's been a whore with you, then she probably has been a whore with someone else.
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On February 04 2014 14:45 xDaunt wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 14:41 arb wrote:On February 04 2014 14:11 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 14:00 arb wrote:
How do you tell if a girl like used you for a one nighter or not? :x She won't return your calls or texts. should i believe "I dont usually put out or do anything on the first date" ? Fuck no. If she's been a whore with you, then she probably has been a whore with someone else.
They must have small wieners cuz it was like the virgin mary. :x
/subtlebrag
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On February 04 2014 14:28 xDaunt wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 13:05 dravernor wrote:On February 04 2014 07:09 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 06:57 JIJI_ wrote:
not sure if this is right place 2 ask this but:
do u guys think it is smart to only go after girl who is into gaming and actually good (like plat league+ for instance)?
all the time i have nothing 2 talk about outside of school(and not gonna talk about school work LOL) and random games i am playing that is why most girls who r not top gamers do not like me it seems
my dream girl would be some1 in masters league but that is very hard 2 get / find and they usually go for the pro-gamers (thorzain)
thx. This may seem a little counter-intuitive right now, but I'm of the strong opinion that the last kind of girl that you want to date (at least in terms of looking for a serious relationship) is a hardcore gamer. In fact, it's better to keep your girlfriends/spouses out of gaming altogether for the most part. I'm curious as to why you think this? Surly having something you can bond over and talk about, something you're both passionate about, it's something you'd want? I agree it is silly to look for girls who are particularly good only, or who are hardcore gamers, but having a girlfriend who shares an interest in your gaming habits can't be that bad? There are just better things to bond over. More to the point, gaming takes up a lot of time. If your girl is any good at games, she probably plays too much of them, which means that she's not doing a lot of other things that you may want her to do. If she's not good, then it probably is rather boring to play with her (I know this one from experience -- I bought a wii specifically to play with my wife, but I abandoned that little experiment really fast).
There are things she isn't doing because of gaming that you'd want her to do? Do you not think this could apply to you too though? I am aware a lot of girls who date geeky guys have this complaint about them. Maybe playing 1 on 1 with them will get boring for you if she is bad, but if she is interested in learning you could teach her to get better.
@cloud I think you generalize gamer girls. They probably all do get a lot of attention, but it is unfair to assume they're all the same.
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On February 04 2014 14:50 arb wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 14:45 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 14:41 arb wrote:On February 04 2014 14:11 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 14:00 arb wrote:
How do you tell if a girl like used you for a one nighter or not? :x She won't return your calls or texts. should i believe "I dont usually put out or do anything on the first date" ? Fuck no. If she's been a whore with you, then she probably has been a whore with someone else. They must have small wieners cuz it was like the virgin mary. :x /subtlebrag
Moar lube. Or maybe your (her) timing was off....
If she is really young, yeah, maybe it is believable. Once they are in their 20s though, they've almost certainly had a few tours of duty.
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On February 04 2014 14:55 xDaunt wrote:Show nested quote +On February 04 2014 14:50 arb wrote:On February 04 2014 14:45 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 14:41 arb wrote:On February 04 2014 14:11 xDaunt wrote:On February 04 2014 14:00 arb wrote:
How do you tell if a girl like used you for a one nighter or not? :x She won't return your calls or texts. should i believe "I dont usually put out or do anything on the first date" ? Fuck no. If she's been a whore with you, then she probably has been a whore with someone else. They must have small wieners cuz it was like the virgin mary. :x /subtlebrag Moar lube. Or maybe your (her) timing was off.... If she is really young, yeah, maybe it is believable. Once they are in their 20s though, they've almost certainly had a few tours of duty.
I know shes had atleast 1 tour of duty almost certain of more. to be 19 she was like a virgin, was so nice :0 So i guess its not a huge deal, i spent like 2 years trying to get her to go out with me in the first place haha
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