Share your Love story (On topic hopfully) - Page 6

On May 22 2004 00:46 TLKiD wrote:


how about u contribue something meaningful rather than saying shit?

On May 22 2004 09:01 Taurent wrote:
TLKiD , whats the difference between 5'6 and 5'10 ?

On May 22 2004 09:01 Taurent wrote:
TLKiD , whats the difference between 5'6 and 5'10 ?

On May 22 2004 20:23 AbGen wrote:
After reading all these, I had to add my own thoughts.

I'm in the same situation as many of you all were with the whole "she's my friend" thing. But after reading a lot of what was said, I actually feel less like changing what I have now. At least now we're both comfortable with each other and more trustworthy when talking to each other. Making it into a "relationship" may seem like a good idea at first, but in the end, may not be the best choice.

Thx to my brother having his girlfrinend (at the time) move in with me and my family, all I know about relationships is the fighting and the yelling and the breaking up. I never really saw what made them worthwhile. I know it's not really "On Topic" again, but seeing all these horrible outcomes kinda drags one down. :/ Somone had to have better luck out there.

On May 22 2004 20:55 Chibi[OWNS] wrote:
seriously AbGen we need to consider what a 'usuceesfulk reltionship' is here.

if you date a girl, do you do it for sex, and expect to break up a little whle longer?

if there any reason to dating someone other than to
a) sex
b) live with her forever in love

?

unless you are both in total love and believe you can't live without one another there's really no realistic longterm reason you should be together

sexual attraction is purely carnel, animal instinct anyway. totally animal, nothing more to it. thats fine for people who dont look beyond their noses, but eventually most people do.

there's absolutely no point in risking a friendship unless you know you're going to remain good friends no matter what the outcome.

On May 22 2004 20:37 Chibi[OWNS] wrote:
honesty is the key. if you can both act really honest towards each other than you will have a successful relationship




aahahahhahahahhaha 'act'; ahahahahah

someone post a successful love story KEN PLZ

On May 23 2004 01:52 Mydnyte wrote:
I've known my current girlfriend for about 7 years, and have been with her for about 4 years, and have been living with her for about 7 months.

I fucking love her.
The way we met, is somewhat fucked up... you know that Usher song - You make me wanna?
Me and her got together somewhat like that, I liked this one girl, and started dating her, and realised that this girl was really stuck up and had an attitude problem, I just couldn't relate to. And Peggy, the girl I'm with now, was my best friend for about 2 years at that time.
I told her all the shit I went through with Julia, and how much I hated it, and tried to make it work, and went to Peggy for some tips on what to do to make it work better. Only to no avail though.

So, about 8 months after putting up with all that bullshit, I was like 'fuck this' and dumped Julia, and about 2 weeks after that, I had an epiphany about how fucking special Peggy really was, and about the pain I put her through, being with Julia.

Turns out, the entire time I was with Julia (8 months), Peggy really liked me, and put up with the shit I ran to her about.

So, about a month after my break up with Julia, I told Peggy straight up, that I REALLY wanted to be with her. And our relationship at that point is more fucked up than one may think.
She's Taiwanese, I'm white, and her parents fucking hated me.
Not like it was a racist kind of thing I hope not, but more of a family tradion thing. That her parents wanted her to marry another chinese guy.
But for about 2 years, we put up with her parents not liking me, and over time her parents realised that I just wasn't gunna give up.

About 2 years and 3 months into mine and Peggys relationship, I told her straight up that I fucking loved her, and wanted no other.

And it's still the same way after 4 years and 8 months.
I'm only 21 and she's turning 21 on June 17.

4 years is a long time for those ages.

About 3 weeks ago last friday, I cheated on my girlfriend with my buddy, I didn't full out have sex, but I did fool around. I got really drunk, lost all sense of morality, and care that I had, and blacked out.

My buddy that I was with told me about it, and that same day, I told my girlfriend. I never ever wanna go through that feeling again, and no one on this forum, no matter how much they care for their current girlfriend, should ever go through that shit.

Now...
I'm up in Kamloops, northern BC, and I'm just fucking pissed off. All my buddies are doing all these drugs and shit, and I don't do drugs, I had only 5 beers, got a tiny buzz going because I'm surrounded by girls, have had 3 girls hit on me tonight asking for you know the fuck what. And I just said no. And I just know how much I really do love my girlfriend now. More than I thought I ever did.

If any of you guys ever get the feeling of what you believe is love, and what is right. Props to you, I'm fucking proud of it.

You don't like what I had to type because it was so long - fuck you.
You can relate to me on the shit I typed - you know the shit we went through, and props to us.