Share your Love story (On topic hopfully)

On May 20 2004 12:01 Ryan307 wrote:
square bear is my love

On May 20 2004 09:27 BerZergKer wrote:
First year of college, I met this girl. She was pretty, pleasant and quiet. We were just friends at first, and studied together. I liked her, but didn't want to ruin what we have, so I kept quiet.

On Valentines day, I bought her a box of chocolate and one of those stand up picture that has words in it. The words read something to the effect of "Let's be friend forever" (what was I thinking).

Later that night, she got online and msg me. She said thx for the presents but she seemed kinda sad/mad. So I kept asking what's wrong and after the 3rd hour she asked me if I liked anyone? I said I did and asked her the same. She did too. Another hour ensue of us trying to find out who the other liked, although we both were pretty sure it's each other (these things take time)

Anyway, @ 3 am things were out in the open and we were together (guess the picture worked eh). We were together for about 2 months when her parents (who didn't know we're together) set her up with another guy. She then told them about us but they said they can't change their mind because the parents of that guy is very influential and her parents want to get a good impression. So they wanted her to break up with me (fucking bitches). She tried to tell her parents that I help her greatly with school work, as well as a nice guy in general, to no avail.

So she started to go out with both...which make me unable to focus on anything but anxiousness/anger/confused. Obviously the other guy is really rich, really good looking and buy her parents lots of presents (he also goes to a community college) while me, a DU student barely getting by paying tuitions, can do little. I'm not sure if it's her parent's influence, or she changed, but she was shying away from me as time goes on (this was about 2-3 weeks after she started going out with both). So I finally had enough and told her, if she really wants to stay together with me, then forget the other guy. If she has doubts, or it's more important please her parents more than our relationship, then obviously this relationship doesn't have enough to go on, and it should end. And it did. I have no regrets.

I should also say that my academic performance dipped during the relationship because of all the stress and worries she put me through. Now I have no intention of getting into another one until I'm done with school. GG

On May 20 2004 04:27 WhiZ wrote:
cheated on you twice with a girl? is that bad?

On May 20 2004 05:08 [pG]Rekrul wrote:
mine is the happiest

On May 20 2004 16:59 jacen wrote:


about u and korea?

On May 20 2004 15:48 Refrain[FriZ] wrote:


shit that story made tears well up in my eyes. her parents suck and so does rich guy, although hes probably pretty nice and means well.

On May 20 2004 13:35 Commander[SB] wrote:


square bear can suck my nuts

On May 20 2004 20:33 iggs7 wrote:
how can the most beautiful girl you've ever seen be playing a computer game and instantly fall in love with someone shes never even met? doesnt make much sense to me

On May 20 2004 12:01 Ryan307 wrote:
square bear is my love

On May 20 2004 22:17 yare wrote:
My first love was a beautiful and talented woman. She was 3 years younger, but it seemed everything we did we both loved. Best moments occurred, but being younger she allowed herself to get manipulated by a very older man (like 35). One of her teachers said he loved her and had an affair with her. Telling her he loved her yadda yadda. So we no longer stayed together. Now for the twisted fate of this poor girl The teacher was doing the same with 4 other girls.. and... he has aids.

A cousin-in-law, ex army forces from current iraqi war, and 3 of his army buddies rape this same poor girl one after another. She starts cutting, tries to commit suicide, and has most recently be diagnosed with sckizophrenia (sp?). She calls me from time to time asking why she should live. So so hard since i loved her so so much.

On May 20 2004 11:57 yT)v.soOn wrote:
i was really embarse because my penis was still little

On May 20 2004 09:27 BerZergKer wrote:
First year of college, I met this girl. She was pretty, pleasant and quiet. We were just friends at first, and studied together. I liked her, but didn't want to ruin what we have, so I kept quiet.

On Valentines day, I bought her a box of chocolate and one of those stand up picture that has words in it. The words read something to the effect of "Let's be friend forever" (what was I thinking).

Later that night, she got online and msg me. She said thx for the presents but she seemed kinda sad/mad. So I kept asking what's wrong and after the 3rd hour she asked me if I liked anyone? I said I did and asked her the same. She did too. Another hour ensue of us trying to find out who the other liked, although we both were pretty sure it's each other (these things take time)

Anyway, @ 3 am things were out in the open and we were together (guess the picture worked eh). We were together for about 2 months when her parents (who didn't know we're together) set her up with another guy. She then told them about us but they said they can't change their mind because the parents of that guy is very influential and her parents want to get a good impression. So they wanted her to break up with me (fucking bitches). She tried to tell her parents that I help her greatly with school work, as well as a nice guy in general, to no avail.

So she started to go out with both...which make me unable to focus on anything but anxiousness/anger/confused. Obviously the other guy is really rich, really good looking and buy her parents lots of presents (he also goes to a community college) while me, a DU student barely getting by paying tuitions, can do little. I'm not sure if it's her parent's influence, or she changed, but she was shying away from me as time goes on (this was about 2-3 weeks after she started going out with both). So I finally had enough and told her, if she really wants to stay together with me, then forget the other guy. If she has doubts, or it's more important please her parents more than our relationship, then obviously this relationship doesn't have enough to go on, and it should end. And it did. I have no regrets.

I should also say that my academic performance dipped during the relationship because of all the stress and worries she put me through. Now I have no intention of getting into another one until I'm done with school. GG

We both wanted it but faith just didn't want it happen.

On May 21 2004 04:44 TLKiD wrote:
ahah baal 4 yrs.. thats nice :D that musta been a wonderful time ^^ wish i had a gf whom i spent 4 YRS with !!!

On May 20 2004 11:52 [pG]RaGe wrote:
Well it all happened 2 summers ago when this spanish chick was licking my nuts and then....

On May 21 2004 17:37 bigMommA wrote:
ah.. i remember when i met my first girlfriend back in the hot summer of 92. i met her through an online friend of mine, onlinegiggy1975(he's such a pimp), through his friend's friend's friend's friend.

so the 5 of us was on an aol chat room, everyone left except me and the only girl. Let me tell you, I was nervous as fuck! My fingers was like shaking and I accidently typed "asdf". i was thinking "omg, im such a nerd". then to my surprise, she typed "hehe ur so silly ". at that point, i instantly fell in love. i felt like such a manly man.

we got to know each other more from then on. i skip my afternoon classes in middle school to go home and wait all day long on aim for her, until she logged on just to say "ihihih " because she logs on at random time. ironically, i thought she is such a goofball because she put "aww my bf is so cute, he said 'asdf :D'!! omg!! hehe! peanut" in her profile.

even i impressed my friend, onlinegiggy1975. he was like "dude u stole my girl, u got m4dski11s dawg."

after half a year, my mom finally found out that ive been skipping classes everyday to chat with my gf, so she canceled my internet service. i was so angry

Over summer, my mom tried to get me to be active but i just wouldn't leave my bed. i slept about 16hrs a day, because there's nothing to do so she finally signed up internet service for me again. Hurray! I got up and logged aim. unfortunately, she was not on. so i waited for her for a week and a half, never turned my comp off once. sadly, my confidence deteriorated as time passed and thought she must have moved on.

On May 20 2004 22:17 yare wrote:
My first love was a beautiful and talented woman. She was 3 years younger, but it seemed everything we did we both loved. Best moments occurred, but being younger she allowed herself to get manipulated by a very older man (like 35). One of her teachers said he loved her and had an affair with her. Telling her he loved her yadda yadda. So we no longer stayed together. Now for the twisted fate of this poor girl The teacher was doing the same with 4 other girls.. and... he has aids.

A cousin-in-law, ex army forces from current iraqi war, and 3 of his army buddies rape this same poor girl one after another. She starts cutting, tries to commit suicide, and has most recently be diagnosed with sckizophrenia (sp?). She calls me from time to time asking why she should live. So so hard since i loved her so so much.

On May 21 2004 03:07 TLKiD wrote:
Well, after haring a the 1st 3 pages i decided no to tell my love story cos its just too hard to start... and it makes me feel bad
But instead i would like to tell a story about me and a girl.
Me and her we went to same middle school(in china we have middle school from yr7-yr9 then high school from yr10 - yr12) n we haev known each other ever since she used to be a lot taller than me i was 13 n about 1.55m rofl(but HEY i am 1.82m now!)... she was like 1.65(now shes 1.73 still tall i guess) when she entered the school. We haev always been good friend now still i suppose :O about 2 yrs ago me moved to Australia with my family(Sydney) sooner she came to Melbourne as a internatoional student, she had a couple of boyfriends b4 and i know all of them, now it seems shes alone out in another country so i guess those relationships had probablly ended as time went and i started talking to her on the phone and online (MSN) i said i love her and stuffs but i was never being serious, u know just sometimes pops up i love you and a :D or stuffs like that... there happend to be a holiday when she came over to sydney to visite me and lived in my house while folks in China (WOW wat a opptorunity but..) but we didnt do anything just being a friend a really good friend...i dont know why is that mayb becaouse we know eachother too well or sumthign duno ... :S) we had gr8 time and she thought so too. then few datys later she went back to melb and i started missing her a lOT omfg dont know how much just as much as u could think of! i think she felt mutal too... the feeling quickly subsided down as time went by...
We have been even clser since that, n chat online more frequent n 1 fone call a night she feels so ncie to talk to me. 3 days ago she said shes coming over to sydney for a 2weeks holiday WOOT!@#%$????
I really wann see her i mean like despretely! but i dont noe if we could be lover cos we have known eachother for such a long time abt 7yrs... But i always tell myself "u only live for once just do wateva u like" so i decided to try it ! evcentho i might fall but who cares.. just make sure i wont regret! okie sry for being incohernt cos i didnt read again to check mistakes when i finished.

On May 20 2004 17:50 iggs7 wrote:
i have a long one

the summer before sixth grade this indian family moved into the apartment complex where i lived, like my family they moved from their country when their kids were only 5 or so and had been living in american for quite some time. i met the boy and his sister who was in 8th grade at the time at the complex pool and i'll always remember how it happened cuz they started splashing me (lol) and my mom came over (lol), but we became friends afterwards. me and the guy were best friends all of sixth grade and so on for a few years, and during this time i got to know his sister really well and a lot of times we'd used to just walk around the complex and talk alone, and she was a great friend too. well, eventually after spending more time with her my feelings developed, she was pretty and i liked being around her. i spent a year maybe just being friends and not letting her know and it was fun being friends but i wanted it to be more, and that feeling really nagged at me. i kinda had the feeling that she knew i liked her so one day while talking she asked me and i said yes, unfortunately she didnt feel the same way she was with a guy at the time, and she said if not for the age difference it would have worked. well, i went on liking her for a few months, you know how hard is getting over your first love. eventually we grew apart, i suppose it was school and other things, but they were still my friends. about 3 years after they moved in they announced they found a house and were moving on, and while my feelings for her were pretty much gone i still had that faint glimmer of love deep down, but i pretty much didnt show it. well, they moved and a year later after me visiting their house several times (it was about 30 minutes away) i was totally over her. my friendship with her and her brother basically died with time completely. i move about a half a year later, and all those fond memories at the appartment complex are lost. some time later i hear from a friend that there has been a tragedy in the neighborhood they lived in, it was on the news and everything. indeed, he gave me a link to the story over the internet, a family of four is poisoned by carbon monoxide over the night, she and her dad died while her brother and mother were barely kept alive over the following 3 days . i went to the funeral which was completely open, in indian tradition they had pink and yellow flower buds placed on her, she still looked the same.

On May 21 2004 06:05 Chibi[OWNS] wrote:


well this is one of the best reasons you should try to take it further t.t do u fancy her physically tho?

On May 21 2004 20:13 Boxerz[Siege] wrote:
close the topic.

On May 21 2004 21:14 STIMEY d okgm fish wrote:
rekrul said in some interview that he closes topics started the way this one was (telling people to talk about something without contributing anything)

On May 21 2004 23:12 STIMEY d okgm fish wrote:
the point is that the initial post was just like "talk about X please" which is the kind of stuff that isn't supposed to happen. sure, the thread ended up going fine.

On May 21 2004 22:02 TLKiD wrote:
er.. but meter is international unit if u dont know thats your problem... Michael Jordan is 1.96m :O Yaoming is liek 2.23m or sumtihng :O

i am 1.82m ^^ wat abt u ? :d

On May 21 2004 21:57 exalted wrote:
boxerz really needs to close his ass -_-v

TLKID i love how you always give like these measurements in meters and i dont' think anybody gets estimately how tall that is, rofl, its like she's 1.43 meters, but i'm 1.23 meters and so like I have a brother for reference he's 1.64,

just poking fun

On May 22 2004 06:13 SoleSteeler wrote:
Here in North America, we use feet as measurement (even Canada, even though we mainly use the metric system) for height..


So like I would say i'm 5'11, which I'm sure many of you wouldn't understand really (non-North Americans, I don't know to what extent you guys would know measurements in feet and inches)

5'11 is like 176-177cm i'd say, 6'0 is 180

so when he says i don't think 'anybody' gets 'estimately' how tall that is, he means north americans dont really have an understanding between height differences of 1.5 m or 1.7m

i'm gonna stop rambling now

On May 22 2004 00:46 TLKiD wrote:


how about u contribue something meaningful rather than saying shit?

On May 22 2004 09:01 Taurent wrote:
TLKiD , whats the difference between 5'6 and 5'10 ?

On May 22 2004 09:01 Taurent wrote:
TLKiD , whats the difference between 5'6 and 5'10 ?

On May 22 2004 20:23 AbGen wrote:
After reading all these, I had to add my own thoughts.

I'm in the same situation as many of you all were with the whole "she's my friend" thing. But after reading a lot of what was said, I actually feel less like changing what I have now. At least now we're both comfortable with each other and more trustworthy when talking to each other. Making it into a "relationship" may seem like a good idea at first, but in the end, may not be the best choice.

Thx to my brother having his girlfrinend (at the time) move in with me and my family, all I know about relationships is the fighting and the yelling and the breaking up. I never really saw what made them worthwhile. I know it's not really "On Topic" again, but seeing all these horrible outcomes kinda drags one down. :/ Somone had to have better luck out there.

On May 22 2004 20:55 Chibi[OWNS] wrote:
seriously AbGen we need to consider what a 'usuceesfulk reltionship' is here.

if you date a girl, do you do it for sex, and expect to break up a little whle longer?

if there any reason to dating someone other than to
a) sex
b) live with her forever in love

?

unless you are both in total love and believe you can't live without one another there's really no realistic longterm reason you should be together

sexual attraction is purely carnel, animal instinct anyway. totally animal, nothing more to it. thats fine for people who dont look beyond their noses, but eventually most people do.

there's absolutely no point in risking a friendship unless you know you're going to remain good friends no matter what the outcome.

On May 22 2004 20:37 Chibi[OWNS] wrote:
honesty is the key. if you can both act really honest towards each other than you will have a successful relationship




aahahahhahahahhaha 'act'; ahahahahah

someone post a successful love story KEN PLZ

On May 23 2004 01:52 Mydnyte wrote:
I've known my current girlfriend for about 7 years, and have been with her for about 4 years, and have been living with her for about 7 months.

I fucking love her.
The way we met, is somewhat fucked up... you know that Usher song - You make me wanna?
Me and her got together somewhat like that, I liked this one girl, and started dating her, and realised that this girl was really stuck up and had an attitude problem, I just couldn't relate to. And Peggy, the girl I'm with now, was my best friend for about 2 years at that time.
I told her all the shit I went through with Julia, and how much I hated it, and tried to make it work, and went to Peggy for some tips on what to do to make it work better. Only to no avail though.

So, about 8 months after putting up with all that bullshit, I was like 'fuck this' and dumped Julia, and about 2 weeks after that, I had an epiphany about how fucking special Peggy really was, and about the pain I put her through, being with Julia.

Turns out, the entire time I was with Julia (8 months), Peggy really liked me, and put up with the shit I ran to her about.

So, about a month after my break up with Julia, I told Peggy straight up, that I REALLY wanted to be with her. And our relationship at that point is more fucked up than one may think.
She's Taiwanese, I'm white, and her parents fucking hated me.
Not like it was a racist kind of thing I hope not, but more of a family tradion thing. That her parents wanted her to marry another chinese guy.
But for about 2 years, we put up with her parents not liking me, and over time her parents realised that I just wasn't gunna give up.

About 2 years and 3 months into mine and Peggys relationship, I told her straight up that I fucking loved her, and wanted no other.

And it's still the same way after 4 years and 8 months.
I'm only 21 and she's turning 21 on June 17.

4 years is a long time for those ages.

About 3 weeks ago last friday, I cheated on my girlfriend with my buddy, I didn't full out have sex, but I did fool around. I got really drunk, lost all sense of morality, and care that I had, and blacked out.

My buddy that I was with told me about it, and that same day, I told my girlfriend. I never ever wanna go through that feeling again, and no one on this forum, no matter how much they care for their current girlfriend, should ever go through that shit.

Now...
I'm up in Kamloops, northern BC, and I'm just fucking pissed off. All my buddies are doing all these drugs and shit, and I don't do drugs, I had only 5 beers, got a tiny buzz going because I'm surrounded by girls, have had 3 girls hit on me tonight asking for you know the fuck what. And I just said no. And I just know how much I really do love my girlfriend now. More than I thought I ever did.

If any of you guys ever get the feeling of what you believe is love, and what is right. Props to you, I'm fucking proud of it.

You don't like what I had to type because it was so long - fuck you.
You can relate to me on the shit I typed - you know the shit we went through, and props to us.

On May 23 2004 05:01 TLKiD wrote:
do u have msn ? ^^

On May 23 2004 11:10 exalted wrote:
Yeah the appropriate response to Mydnytes post would be a longggggg yawn that would be so BM

EDIT: ROFL I DIDN"T KNOW ZERIUS ACTUALLY DID IT )(@#*4702398470398390f4980f7n8f703987nf

On May 23 2004 05:06 Mydnyte wrote:



YOU HAVE BEEN YAWNED.
Use PM. -_-;;

On May 20 2004 17:50 iggs7 wrote:
i have a long one

the summer before sixth grade this indian family moved into the apartment complex where i lived, like my family they moved from their country when their kids were only 5 or so and had been living in american for quite some time. i met the boy and his sister who was in 8th grade at the time at the complex pool and i'll always remember how it happened cuz they started splashing me (lol) and my mom came over (lol), but we became friends afterwards. me and the guy were best friends all of sixth grade and so on for a few years, and during this time i got to know his sister really well and a lot of times we'd used to just walk around the complex and talk alone, and she was a great friend too. well, eventually after spending more time with her my feelings developed, she was pretty and i liked being around her. i spent a year maybe just being friends and not letting her know and it was fun being friends but i wanted it to be more, and that feeling really nagged at me. i kinda had the feeling that she knew i liked her so one day while talking she asked me and i said yes, unfortunately she didnt feel the same way she was with a guy at the time, and she said if not for the age difference it would have worked. well, i went on liking her for a few months, you know how hard is getting over your first love. eventually we grew apart, i suppose it was school and other things, but they were still my friends. about 3 years after they moved in they announced they found a house and were moving on, and while my feelings for her were pretty much gone i still had that faint glimmer of love deep down, but i pretty much didnt show it. well, they moved and a year later after me visiting their house several times (it was about 30 minutes away) i was totally over her. my friendship with her and her brother basically died with time completely. i move about a half a year later, and all those fond memories at the appartment complex are lost. some time later i hear from a friend that there has been a tragedy in the neighborhood they lived in, it was on the news and everything. indeed, he gave me a link to the story over the internet, a family of four is poisoned by carbon monoxide over the night, she and her dad died while her brother and mother were barely kept alive over the following 3 days . i went to the funeral which was completely open, in indian tradition they had pink and yellow flower buds placed on her, she still looked the same.

On May 20 2004 03:57 TLKiD wrote:
Tell everybody about your love story?/stories that your have had?

On June 01 2004 22:32 karelen wrote:


no

On June 01 2004 22:33 Vicious)Soul wrote:
I might ask my gf to marry me when we get back into school, only thing holding me back is how much it would suck to get married when we're that busy

On June 01 2004 23:44 nArAnjO wrote:
8D good ill release all here T_T
I've always been the kind of guy whos good with girls (ie. almost all of them think im attractive don't ask me why, they say im also cute/funny and sometimes 1 of them is like obssesed with me for months (happened 4 times already) don't mean to brag honestly it's just so u can FUKING EXPLAIN ME WHY THIS GIRL DUMPED ME T_T!!
she was fukin obssesed for like 8 months (some say 2 years 8/ ) shes like talking with EVERYONE about me and stuff like that, always talking to me on msn even when i didnt respond.
So this year she got a lot thiner and she was actually real atractive (she was still obsessed with me) and well my friends said hey at least kiss her but dont be with her, shes so in love with you and i said well ok. So i invite her to my house and we kiss but of course i didnt want just that and the next week we get together.
She fukin treats me like a garbage for 1 month (no callings though me neither, one word responses on msn, and she never said anything nice, or good or remotely romantic except by MSN 8/ ) Anyway to make things short, she didnt think i loved her, she just couldnt believe it or didnt want to, to not hurt my feelings or w/e. the day we were supossed to celebrate 1 month we were pissed, and she tells me "i dont know if i want u as a friend or something more" give me 1 week to think it over, i was like WTFFFFFFFFFF, so i waited for 1 week and i made the stupid mistake of telling her best friend (when she was telling me how Talia(my gf) missed me and that we would soon get back together) that i didnt really care about her, that i was gonna travel to US so i never took her seriously.... next day Talia says : ive thought it over and i miss the friendship only, and i said ok me too lets be friends with benefits (we can kiss anytime we want) she agreed. Later i told her just to be friends and she agreed, but then i realized i loved her and missed her so much i started to tell her so. you know one day and this hurts rlly bad, i said to her, im sorry i acted all stupid and shit(i did many bad things to her, like deniyng to the world when we first kissed , i love u and i miss you so badly, i even got her a really nice letter, but she rejected me she is like i dont love you im sorry i think we agreed to be friends only... SO that was the end.. no? no. this is the hurtin part she said, I now realize u never were anything to me, as i was never anything to you ='(. WTF is wrong with this girl. This is the scenario (again not to fukin brag but u to understand) : i can be with like 5 girls now that are even hotter than her, but u know how men are, i want her the one who rejects me, all her friends cept her best friend are like WTF how could she break up with you ur making her a favour by being with her blah blah... so im rlly fuked up in the head right now T_T.

Woa too long dont read this plz

On June 01 2004 22:37 TLKiD wrote:

On June 02 2004 00:12 karelen wrote:


wtf? I just answered your question

On June 01 2004 23:06 TLKiD wrote:
then thats not a good idea.

On June 02 2004 00:22 Vicious)Soul wrote:
I think it's a wonderful idea, but that's just me, I dont expect to convince you