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mptj
United States485 Posts
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
On October 20 2009 09:35 mptj wrote: ok, so when I see a really hot girl I don't know, I can usually approach her fine. But I always end up saying something lame like hi or "did you see the pats game?" :p any magic topic that works for you Well there really is no "magic topic". It all depends on the what type of girl she seems, and the environment, you really have to figure it out. The best way to do that is to try it out, and often. "Hi, I have kind of a random question. Do you read girl magazines? You know, like cosmo. Do you read any of the advice they give? Like what?" Be creative and be on you toes at all times. Don't forget to tell her your name and to look her in her eyes with a grin. | ||
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fanatacist
10319 Posts
On October 20 2009 09:35 mptj wrote: ok, so when I see a really hot girl I don't know, I can usually approach her fine. But I always end up saying something lame like hi or "did you see the pats game?" :p any magic topic that works for you Larjarse's answer is pretty accurate if you want to go down the path of suggesting a topic (examine the subject, then deduce her interests based on appearance). However, this sometimes backfires, as books can sometimes not be judged by their covers. Although there are lots of interesting things you can say, a lot of the time you can get away with something that just breaks the ice like "Hey, have you seen my phone?" This is really bland, and most people walk away after receiving a negative answer - that's her expectation. The first step is to break expectations - say something like "are you sure? I was sitting/standing right there/walking through this area like 10 seconds ago. empty your pockets, I don't trust you." It's risky, but a good-humored girl will usually comply. When she shows you what she has, you can work from her belongings ("I had this keychain but I lost it when I was running from an angry band of middleschoolers" or something equally ridiculous). Breaking expectations with humorous scenarios is interesting conversation. Backstories are required, but you don't have to present them - keep her guessing. Most important thing is to make it seem like you don't notice that she is hot and this is an accidental meeting. If you get rejected or a disinterested response, try again with someone else - she's just a humorless bitch who is into muscles, jocks, and soap operas, probably not worth your time. | ||
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Djabanete
United States2786 Posts
On October 20 2009 09:35 mptj wrote: ok, so when I see a really hot girl I don't know, I can usually approach her fine. But I always end up saying something lame like hi or "did you see the pats game?" :p any magic topic that works for you Conversation is a skill that can be learned. Practice it! Ask questions in a way that isn't forced --- "So how was the quiz for you?" "What are you up to this weekend?" "How do you know the host?", etc etc. It doesn't really matter what the question is as long as the answer isn't yes/no (conversation killer), because if the person is someone who's open to being approached, they'll be friendly, and if not, it doesn't matter what you say in the first place. If you listen and pay attention to what your interlocutor is saying (make eye contact) they will notice that and (hopefully) warm to you. I smile a lot when I talk to people (guys and girls) because I think of something I genuinely like about them, and people notice that too. Speaking of which, compliments are nice if they're sincere and not extravagant. (There are some things people are not comfortable being complimented on, obviously). Conversation can be practiced with anyone, guys and girls. Flirting is a related skill and you may or may not want to be more selective about who you flirt with. I think I'm a good conversationalist but not a terribly good flirt, so take my advice with a grain of salt if you want. edit: double ninja  | ||
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Shauni
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mptj
United States485 Posts
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Manifesto7
Osaka27151 Posts
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
On October 20 2009 10:15 mptj wrote: thanks to all 3 of you for your advice. But ty to Djabanete in partiucal(no offense to fan and lars, great advice!) but yours seems more in perspective, idk lol :D. I love this thread btw Thank you for the feedback. This shows this thread is a success. He got advice from three different people. | ||
NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
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FallingTeardrops
United States46 Posts
On October 20 2009 10:50 NeverGG wrote: Any tips on how to woo ForGG? I have tried undressing him, with promising results. (Twice.) What the...If that was a serious question, then I guess you could try asking him who his favorite female celebrities are, or what kind of American movies he likes? Then, after you get past the awkward part, you can just start popping in random questions until the big closer. | ||
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Djabanete
United States2786 Posts
On October 20 2009 10:50 NeverGG wrote: Any tips on how to woo ForGG? I have tried undressing him, with promising results. (Twice.) Try undressing yourself at the same time? Otherwise he might feel, you know, awkward... In case that was a serious question: definitely try to take him elsewhere than the professional sphere. Not only can it put him in a difficult position if you hit on him during a shoot (he can't get away or really say anything if the advances aren't wanted --- no offense, I'm just saying it's possible), but you might have a better chance of getting him in a more intimate setting! | ||
lilsusie
3861 Posts
On October 19 2009 19:18 ThunderGod wrote: I would like to hear a woman's opinion on this? (Where are you lilsusie/unc?) I am not touching this thread with a 10 foot pole. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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Ilikestarcraft
Korea (South)17727 Posts
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iloveambiguity
United States81 Posts
On October 20 2009 11:28 lilsusie wrote: I am not touching this thread with a 10 foot pole. lol | ||
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iloveambiguity
United States81 Posts
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iloveambiguity
United States81 Posts
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29 fps
United States5724 Posts
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
On October 20 2009 14:02 29 fps wrote: what's your relationship history? with advice like this, i would imagine that you're happily married with kids and such or along that path. is that how it's like for you? That's what I originally wondered. | ||
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UGC4
Peru532 Posts
On October 20 2009 11:28 lilsusie wrote: I am not touching this thread with a 10 foot pole. please dont. some of these guys are retarded. fantasyst u should make your own thread, every response of yours is a fuckin high school essay--long, pure bull shit, and deserves an F | ||
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