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On April 14 2007 21:36 ilovezil wrote:I haven't read through your entire argument, but I did notice the part in retaliation to my post. Never have I said that. Now you're putting words into my mouth. I only suggested that TRUE, you can try talking to people about it like you're doing now, but I believe the best way to have done it is to pm the right moderators. They are the ones who are running this site, after all. You didn't have to create a full thread about it, at least without what I just suggested. Think about it: what did you accomplish so far? You've done nothign but cause chaos on both sides of the argument and get Fakesteve temp-banned.
I wasn't responding to you and didn't say your name once. There's a general attitude reinforced by your post but explicitly stated by Mani's "vote with your feet" bullet that tries to deflect the substance of an argument by pointing out that it probably shouldn't be had, and if it is, that one should wilt in the face of any official resistance. The problem is that I don't know the mod staff, and I don't really know who the "right" moderators are. But, if its the opinion of the staff that PMing them is a better idea for things like this than using the feedback forum, I'm definitely ready to do that instead. My hope for this thread though was not just that I would somehow change policy, but also to crystalize some of the conversations implied by the other thread, so that maybe some people reading this would think a bit more about the jokes they make and about race relations in general, none of which could be achieved just through PMing.
On April 14 2007 21:36 ilovezil wrote:
I respect the fact that you want the world to be a more harmonious place in terms of racial tributes. What I cannot stand, however, is the methods you're employing to get them accomplished. Also, if I look at some of the things you've said such as "Teamliquid hostile to minorities?" (labelling), the free use of "white boy" (labelling again), then relating this place to your supposedly immature high school and a fraternity (labelled once more), I get the underwhelming feeling that you need to look at yourself first.
The problem here isn't labelling, and this can and will be the fifth time I've noted my regret regarding the thread's title, but I think you're confused about my statements also. Even the awful thread title is a question, and I don't think I ever used white boy in a defamatory light (I only hoped to call attention to someone's whiteness when it was important for establishing the nature of their use of the N word or the making of racial jokes). Also, I didn't say "tl.net is my immature highschool and a fraternity!!!", I said that I some of the same dynamics present here were present at my highschool and that I wish that specific aspects of the staff/member dynamic here were slightly less like a fraternity. I am constantly introspective about my relationship to these issues, and though it's certainly possible that I'm wrong on a lot of things in my life, I promise that if I bring them up with this much fervor I have at least done my best to be sure of my thoughts and opinions. I agree with you, though, that it's always important to think about your own actions before requesting that other people think about amending theirs.
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i think that when used tastefully, nigger is quite a funny work. ex. "fuck yo couch, nigga!"
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On April 15 2007 10:34 Myxomatosis wrote: i think that when used tastefully, nigger is quite a funny work. ex. "fuck yo couch, nigga!"
What makes it tasteful is that the writer is black. The N word can be hilarious, but in the same way you don't find white professional comedians casually dropping the word all the time, it's strikingly less tasteful, and mostly less funny, when said by white people here.
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On April 15 2007 10:42 bine wrote:Show nested quote +On April 15 2007 10:34 Myxomatosis wrote: i think that when used tastefully, nigger is quite a funny work. ex. "fuck yo couch, nigga!" What makes it tasteful is that the writer is black. The N word can be hilarious, but in the same way you don't find white professional comedians casually dropping the word all the time, it's strikingly less tasteful, and mostly less funny, when said by white people here.
There shouldn't be a double standard set around the word nigger. If black people don't like to be called nigger then they shouldn't call each other nigger or nigga or anything referencing it. Its ignorant to think otherwise.
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On April 15 2007 12:50 bErAtEd- wrote:Show nested quote +On April 15 2007 10:42 bine wrote:On April 15 2007 10:34 Myxomatosis wrote: i think that when used tastefully, nigger is quite a funny work. ex. "fuck yo couch, nigga!" What makes it tasteful is that the writer is black. The N word can be hilarious, but in the same way you don't find white professional comedians casually dropping the word all the time, it's strikingly less tasteful, and mostly less funny, when said by white people here. There shouldn't be a double standard set around the word nigger. If black people don't like to be called nigger then they shouldn't call each other nigger or nigga or anything referencing it. Its ignorant to think otherwise.
I don't think I'm a good person to explain this to you, unfortunately.
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Bine, you make good points, and it's obvious you're intelligent and passionate about the subject. Perhaps what people are doing is somewhat ignorant, and dumb, but it's often just people being stupid rather than outwardly racist. If people are genuinely racist, the mods ban them, but on a forum so large people (myself included) say dumb stuff all the time. I can't say I've ever written the N word around here, but I can't say I'm offended when I see it.
Then again, I'm an ignorant white guy who honestly can't see the fuss around the work when it's used in a "tasteful" manner (i.e jokes). I can see your point though how something seemingly harmless could be perceived as offensive to others.
There are definite double standards in using the word though. You see black comedians rip on white people all the time and use the N word, but if a white comedian ever used the N word, it's utter blasphemy.
I think you just need to show faith in the mods and trust their doing the best job they can.
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Thanks for the calm, thoughtful reply. As I've said, I have great faith in the mods, and only hope to address a very specific issue with them and the rest of tl.net.
I agree that in most cases the people making racist comments are doing so out of ignorance, and I'm not even claiming that most of them are themselves racists. But the comments they make are damaging whether they intended them to be or not. Again, I'm not advocating everyone be banned. I'm just advocating a policy that says that tl.net doesn't like racist statements whether they are meant to be racist or not. All I would ask for is a polite message be sent to those who make statements that are racially derogatory asking them not to do so any more. I tried doing this myself with an obvious set of cases, saying "please don't use the N word" when people have done so, but it's almost always met with flames and more ignorant posts. If it was gently stated that these posts are inappropriate by the staff, the issue would disappear completely and no one would need to get banned or anything.
In a way, all I'm really asking for is an updated sense on the staff of what constitutes racism. Any article about racism longer than a page differentiates between overt racism and other forms of it, and I don't believe that overt instances of racial hatred are the only negative instances of racism that need to be addressed. We already have a policy about racism. I just think there might be some confusion as to exactly what constitutes racism.
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fake steve is 100 % correct and no one should have to take this kind of crap, where a minority doesnt get his way and breaks down and crys.
it can be very annoying when someone complains with no real reason.
What makes it tasteful is that the writer is black. The N word can be hilarious, but in the same way you don't find white professional comedians casually dropping the word all the time, it's strikingly less tasteful, and mostly less funny, when said by white people here.
Just because a lot of young white men think it's funny doesn't mean that racism and vulgar prejudice should be tolerated. Please, someone clarify tl.net's position on this and please, start enforcing it.
what utter prejudice, why would you think that only young white men find it funny? you sir are the racist.
dude, screw you and your reverse racism. You want to be able to say whatever you want while the "white man" has his hands tied behind his back and takes it. Why do some people always think of the world in terms of their race vs. everyone
FORGET THAT, double standard hypocritic idiocy.
p.s. i can have friends from all races, which means i can dislike people of all races aswell.
I think it's important to be consistent, not just banning people for some disgusting things while chuckling in response to others. When a member of the staff repeatedly uses the N word and claims that it might be legitimate to "hate all black girls" because they have "loud, shreeky voices", participating in the same bullshit macho racist crap as the wayward children, there's a problem that needs to be addressed.
what if he has a predisposition which causes him to not like black girls?!? that is his personal preference!
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United States41606 Posts
It's funny because it's taboo. We see Rek being outrageous and give a smile at his curious behavior. As Mani said, when it is used to cause offence then they are banned. When someone does it to make people happy it is a positive use of the word.
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I think the N word is somewhat losing it's taboo in society. 30 or so years ago there's no doubt it was a derogatory term, but in modern culture it's becoming more "acceptable". Although some people do use it to offend, it's crept into pop culture a lot through music, comedy, and movies in particular.
While it is a somewhat offensive term to many still, I think it is also more acceptable to use it in society in the right context (without being offensive).
Or no?
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exactly, terms evolve meaning and popularity over time.
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But unfortunately it's not up to us (white people) to decide when and if that term stops being offensive. It may be growing in its use in the white world, but it's still considered unacceptable for white people to say that word in any sort of joking way by most of the American adult population anyway. Think about it this way: would you make the jokes you're making in front of a black person you just met? If the answer is no, making the joke on a public forum where it can and will be read by people of a variety of ethnic backgrounds probably isn't the best idea.
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im still slightly confused as how you can justify some black kid coming up to me and calling me a white boy, honkee*insert any other derogatory white term here*. thats ok? fuck that.
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yeah, seriously, and bine im 90% certain you are not caucasian.
and everyone on the internet uses the word "nigga"
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By Stanley Fish, considered widely to be one of the kings of American critical theory (aka he's brilliant), a brief essay with some irrelevant references to the first President Bush talking about Affirmative Action but addressing these same issues:
WHAT I want to say, following Bush's reasoning, is that a similar forgetting of history has in recent years allowed some people to argue, and argue persuasively, that affirmative action is reverse racism. The very phrase "reverse racism" contains the argument in exactly the form to which Bush objected: In this country whites once set themselves apart from blacks and claimed privileges for themselves while denying them to others. Now, on the basis of race, blacks are claiming special status and reserving for themselves privileges they deny to others. Isn't one as bad as the other? The answer is no. One can see why by imagining that it is not 1993 but 1955, and that we are in a town in the South with two more or less distinct communities, one white and one black. No doubt each community would have a ready store of dismissive epithets, ridiculing stories, self serving folk myths, and expressions of plain hatred, all directed at the other community, and all based in racial hostility. Yet to regard their respective racisms-if that is the word-as equivalent would be bizarre, for the hostility of one group stems not from any wrong done to it but from its wish to protect its ability to deprive citizens of their voting rights, to limit access to educational institutions, to prevent entry into the economy except at the lowest and most menial levels, and to force members of the stigmatized group to ride in the back of the bus. The hostility of the other group is the result of these actions, and whereas hostility and racial anger are unhappy facts wherever they are found, a distinction must surely be made between the ideological hostility of the oppressors and the experience-based hostility of those who have been oppressed. Not to make that distinction is, adapting George Bush's words, to twist history and forget the terrible plight of African-Americans in the more than 200 years of this country's existence. Moreover, to equate the efforts to remedy that plight with the actions that produced it is to twist history even further. Those efforts, designed to redress the imbalances caused by long-standing discrimination, are called affirmative action; to argue that affirmative action, which gives preferential treatment to disadvantaged minorities as part of a plan to achieve social equality, is no different from the policies that created the disadvantages in the first place is a travesty of reasoning. "Reverse racism" is a cogent description of affirmative action only if one considers the cancer of racism to be morally and medically indistinguishable from the therapy we apply to it. A cancer is an invasion of the body's equilibrium, and so is chemotherapy; but we do not decline to fight the disease because the medicine we em ploy is also disruptive of normal functioning. Strong illness, strong remedy: the formula is as appropriate to the health of the body politic as it is to that of the body proper.
At this point someone will always say, "But two wrongs don't make a right; if it was wrong to treat blacks unfairly, it is wrong to give blacks preference and thereby treat whites unfairly." This objection is just another version of the forgetting and rewriting of history. The work is done by the adverb "unfairly," which suggests two more or less equal parties, one of whom has been unjustly penalized by an incompetent umpire. But blacks have not simply been treated unfairly; they have been subjected first to decades of slavery, and then to decades of second-class citizenship, wide spread legalized discrimination, economic persecution, educational deprivation, and cultural stigmatization. They have been bought, sold, killed, beaten, raped, excluded, exploited. shamed, and scorned for a very long time. The word "unfair" is hardly an adequate description of their experience, and the belated gift of "fairness" in the form of a resolution no longer to discriminate against them legally is hardly an adequate remedy for the deep disadvantages that the prior discrimination has produced. When the deck is stacked against you in more ways than you can even count, it is small consolation to hear that you are now free to enter the game and take your chances.
Instead of Affirmative Action, think about the right to own the term "Nigger." The reason black people can use the word and white people can't is that for them, it is a reclamation of power, something hateful that they have worked hard to appropriate for their own use. Think about it this way: for black culture, the word means something different (none of us are simplified structuralists here, I hope) than for white culture. So instead of 2 people saying nigger, think of the black person as saying "man" and the white person as saying "disgusting black man who should be lynched." While certainly not every white man who says the N word means "disgusting black man who should be lynched," but the cultural connotation still exists and they are in fact misusing the term unless they are somehow referring to it rather than using it as it commonly means.
As I said above, I'm not the person to explain this to you, because I am not black and cannot adequately describe the feeling of having a white person casually use that word. But there are definitely people who can (although, of course, not every black person will think this same way, there are a great deal of people who will express to you the hurt they feel when they hear a white person make a joke using the N word if you ask them to). But suffice it to say that if you don't believe that there should be a double standard regarding the N word, you're against, for example, every serious higher education institution in the United States, every scholar with credibility on race relations or theories of discrimination, etc.
I don't think that black people being calling anyone epithets is OK. But that's not even relevant to this conversation. We're talking about the appropriateness of making jokes that are insulting to black people. If you find that tl.net begins to have an excess of people making fun of whites, I would stand beside you in a quest to correct that situation. Again, I'm not claiming that anyone should be coming up to you calling you a honkey. I'm just claiming you shouldn't be throwing around the word "nigger" or, for that matter "nigga" (which is just an ethnic spelling of nigger, ie. the same word) even though black people can and do.
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Braavos36362 Posts
chraej please read his post and have an open mind
also i don't see how bine's race has anything to do with his argument
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what I still don't get is in this day and age why should a white man take shit from black comedians and not vice verse? that's no equality between races that's just reverse racism anyway you put it.
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But unfortunately it's not up to us (white people) to decide when and if that term stops being offensive. It may be growing in its use in the white world, but it's still considered unacceptable for white people to say that word in any sort of joking way by most of the American adult population anyway. Think about it this way: would you make the jokes you're making in front of a black person you just met? If the answer is no, making the joke on a public forum where it can and will be read by people of a variety of ethnic backgrounds probably isn't the best idea.
Sure, the word is not respectable, but that is less due to its inflammatory nature than to the fact that it means nothing. It is like any other inflammatory word, which has ceased to become shocking due to the vulgarity of our society. The problem is not racism, but lack of verbal value. Deterioration of language is only a symptom of wider degeneracies at play.
I believe that many white people who use that word are themselves imitating blacks, and black sub-culture. I don't see the point of criticizing the inaccessibility of this forum to black people while erecting a racial barrier in the use of certain words. The only means of segregating words along lines of race, is through racial segregation itself.
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Ok, coming back to Chapelle's show as an example, Neal Brennan is one of the chief writers for the show and also white. We all know the show makes fun of blacks, white, hispanics etc, but is Neal Brennan a racist or is it OK for him because he works in collaboration with black people?
There's such a big grey area here and I don't think it's right so say white people can't say it at all just because we're white.
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