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HeeroFX
United States2704 Posts
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ninazerg
United States7291 Posts
lol, that was pretty funny, especially when all the guys started pouring onto the scene from nowhere and he starts shooting their dicks in slow motions. xDDDDDDDDDD I really can't give you that kind of advice because of the reasons I've mentioned in the OP. You can totally date friends if they want to date you. But if they JUST want friendship, I'm just saying don't try to force it to happen, because you'll end up pushing them away. That's the distinction I was making; if you want a dating tutorial, there are like a billion of them on the internet. On February 12 2014 09:16 Jerubaal wrote: In my humble opinion, walking up to random people and hitting on them is stupid. You should know people somewhat socially before deciding whether or not to pursue them. It's a sign of the collapse of modern society that people can't do what should be the most natural thing. There's a lovely spectrum of dysfunction in this thread, from the ball-less to the chauvinistic. It's not "stupid" to hit on random people, unless of course, you're at work, and it will cost you your job. But again, I'm not saying, nor have I ever said that you can't date your friends or ask out people you already know. I also disagree that there is any dysfunction in this thread, and modern society isn't collapsing because we can't make friends. If it collapses, it would be for other reasons that I'm not gonna discuss here because this isn't about that. | ||
QuanticHawk
United States32028 Posts
On February 12 2014 05:16 aTnClouD wrote: It's very easy to write an obvious blog that will get the consensus of most people and get tons of validation to feel good with yourself, but this post doesn't really help anyone, or even make a valid point to work on (other than the fact you need the courage to do what you think you can't do. still pretty obvious). I remind you that most people seek help because they don't know what to do. They seek help because nobody ever taught them how the overwhelming majority of women react to certain behaviours and they didn't have the tools to observe what was wrong with what they were doing and fix it themselves. When people write in a forum they want as much feedback as they can get, they do not read any single opinion and take it for granted. And the ones who respond to them know this aswell. What you can't possibly understand as a woman is how hard it is for the average man with no experience to be perceived as a sexual being. Seeing useless, retarded, manipulating assholes get flocked with girls while you are incredibly horny, sex starved, and sometimes in love makes a man frustrated like no other being on the planet can experience. A man needs a certain amount of qualities and self exteem to be perceived as sexually attractive. A woman basically only needs not to be fat and, even then, you will still find more people who want you than the average, always-complying and friendzoned beta male. That's the reason so many guys ask for help in such a desperate way, and that's why everyone is ready to give the advice that worked for them. can you please write a blog on how to pick up high schoolers tia | ||
Darkren
Canada1841 Posts
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Jaaaaasper
United States10225 Posts
On February 12 2014 11:50 QuanticHawk wrote: can you please write a blog on how to pick up high schoolers tia I'm fairly certain his success rate in those attempts removes him from advice giving status on said topic. | ||
Mothra
United States1448 Posts
On February 12 2014 09:16 Jerubaal wrote: In my humble opinion, walking up to random people and hitting on them is stupid. You should know people somewhat socially before deciding whether or not to pursue them. It's a sign of the collapse of modern society that people can't do what should be the most natural thing. There's a lovely spectrum of dysfunction in this thread, from the ball-less to the chauvinistic. Strangely enough, this "natural thing" is actually one of modern society's creations (not speaking for all cultures). Throughout history, pairing was decided more by families than individuals. The notion of dating and marrying because of romantic love isn't universal, and maybe it's not as "natural" as it seems to us who've grown up with it. Judging by the amount of families that stay together, it isn't a particularly good vehicle for raising children. | ||
biology]major
United States2253 Posts
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