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On February 12 2014 04:24 teddyoojo wrote: im still unsure whether your mentally retarded or a "rational human being"
i like ur contributions to the freestyle thread tho
I feel about Zerg the same way. I also realized Sim City examples are missing.
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It's very easy to write an obvious blog that will get the consensus of most people and get tons of validation to feel good with yourself, but this post doesn't really help anyone, or even make a valid point to work on (other than the fact you need the courage to do what you think you can't do. still pretty obvious).
I remind you that most people seek help because they don't know what to do. They seek help because nobody ever taught them how the overwhelming majority of women react to certain behaviours and they didn't have the tools to observe what was wrong with what they were doing and fix it themselves. When people write in a forum they want as much feedback as they can get, they do not read any single opinion and take it for granted. And the ones who respond to them know this aswell.
What you can't possibly understand as a woman is how hard it is for the average man with no experience to be perceived as a sexual being. Seeing useless, retarded, manipulating assholes get flocked with girls while you are incredibly horny, sex starved, and sometimes in love makes a man frustrated like no other being on the planet can experience. A man needs a certain amount of qualities and self exteem to be perceived as sexually attractive. A woman basically only needs not to be fat and, even then, you will still find more people who want you than the average, always-complying and friendzoned beta male. That's the reason so many guys ask for help in such a desperate way, and that's why everyone is ready to give the advice that worked for them.
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I girlblog for the excitement
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While the thrust of the OP is pretty much on the money, Cloud does raise an interesting point as well, one I would find myself agreeing.
Many women don't seem to actually understand that the whole asymmetry of sexual interaction has both it's positives and negatives. For a girl, yeah you get unwanted male attention, you get all sorts of crap. You also don't have to worry about having to approach strangers in a club for the most part, or being the one to initiate a friendship into a relationship - for the most part. It can be a massive fucking pain in the ass, especially in your formative teen years. If you're a nerd who is friends with total nerds you don't exactly have a rich vein of vicarious experience to tap into in so the internet can actually be beneficial sometimes.
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At first, I wanted to write something thought provoking and interesting on this subject but then I realized I just want to know who ninazerg is behind her cute little comedy act.
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On February 12 2014 05:16 aTnClouD wrote: It's very easy to write an obvious blog that will get the consensus of most people and get tons of validation to feel good with yourself, but this post doesn't really help anyone, or even make a valid point to work on (other than the fact you need the courage to do what you think you can't do. still pretty obvious).
I remind you that most people seek help because they don't know what to do. They seek help because nobody ever taught them how the overwhelming majority of women react to certain behaviours and they didn't have the tools to observe what was wrong with what they were doing and fix it themselves. When people write in a forum they want as much feedback as they can get, they do not read any single opinion and take it for granted. And the ones who respond to them know this aswell.
What you can't possibly understand as a woman is how hard it is for the average man with no experience to be perceived as a sexual being. Seeing useless, retarded, manipulating assholes get flocked with girls while you are incredibly horny, sex starved, and sometimes in love makes a man frustrated like no other being on the planet can experience. A man needs a certain amount of qualities and self exteem to be perceived as sexually attractive. A woman basically only needs not to be fat and, even then, you will still find more people who want you than the average, always-complying and friendzoned beta male. That's the reason so many guys ask for help in such a desperate way, and that's why everyone is ready to give the advice that worked for them.
On February 12 2014 06:06 Wombat_NI wrote: While the thrust of the OP is pretty much on the money, Cloud does raise an interesting point as well, one I would find myself agreeing.
Many women don't seem to actually understand that the whole asymmetry of sexual interaction has both it's positives and negatives. For a girl, yeah you get unwanted male attention, you get all sorts of crap. You also don't have to worry about having to approach strangers in a club for the most part, or being the one to initiate a friendship into a relationship - for the most part. It can be a massive fucking pain in the ass, especially in your formative teen years. If you're a nerd who is friends with total nerds you don't exactly have a rich vein of vicarious experience to tap into in so the internet can actually be beneficial sometimes.
You can't change society. Why don't you guys just man up and stop putting the pussy on a pedestal.
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the best girlblog. reference to serious medical situation to emphasize importance of biological realities.
Theres an Oscar Wilde quote that kind of sums up my thoughts on girl blogs: "“Education is an admirable thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught." Practice, courage wolf, be real with yourself. Be natural and empathize with the sexual role you intend to play?
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So I read the comments and was like "that could be a good blog" but I can sum up that blog for you ..
TLDR use the tiny shreds of empathy and reason you have
On February 11 2014 20:38 Schelim wrote: i know four women named Nina and they're all beautiful. just saying.
also can confirm, maybe we know the same
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On February 12 2014 06:15 Shauni wrote:Show nested quote +On February 12 2014 05:16 aTnClouD wrote: It's very easy to write an obvious blog that will get the consensus of most people and get tons of validation to feel good with yourself, but this post doesn't really help anyone, or even make a valid point to work on (other than the fact you need the courage to do what you think you can't do. still pretty obvious).
I remind you that most people seek help because they don't know what to do. They seek help because nobody ever taught them how the overwhelming majority of women react to certain behaviours and they didn't have the tools to observe what was wrong with what they were doing and fix it themselves. When people write in a forum they want as much feedback as they can get, they do not read any single opinion and take it for granted. And the ones who respond to them know this aswell.
What you can't possibly understand as a woman is how hard it is for the average man with no experience to be perceived as a sexual being. Seeing useless, retarded, manipulating assholes get flocked with girls while you are incredibly horny, sex starved, and sometimes in love makes a man frustrated like no other being on the planet can experience. A man needs a certain amount of qualities and self exteem to be perceived as sexually attractive. A woman basically only needs not to be fat and, even then, you will still find more people who want you than the average, always-complying and friendzoned beta male. That's the reason so many guys ask for help in such a desperate way, and that's why everyone is ready to give the advice that worked for them. Show nested quote +On February 12 2014 06:06 Wombat_NI wrote: While the thrust of the OP is pretty much on the money, Cloud does raise an interesting point as well, one I would find myself agreeing.
Many women don't seem to actually understand that the whole asymmetry of sexual interaction has both it's positives and negatives. For a girl, yeah you get unwanted male attention, you get all sorts of crap. You also don't have to worry about having to approach strangers in a club for the most part, or being the one to initiate a friendship into a relationship - for the most part. It can be a massive fucking pain in the ass, especially in your formative teen years. If you're a nerd who is friends with total nerds you don't exactly have a rich vein of vicarious experience to tap into in so the internet can actually be beneficial sometimes.
You can't change society. Why don't you guys just man up and stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. Not sure if you're serious lol. If you are holy fuck you're an idiot and missed the thrust of my post entirely.
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On February 12 2014 06:15 Shauni wrote:Show nested quote +On February 12 2014 05:16 aTnClouD wrote: It's very easy to write an obvious blog that will get the consensus of most people and get tons of validation to feel good with yourself, but this post doesn't really help anyone, or even make a valid point to work on (other than the fact you need the courage to do what you think you can't do. still pretty obvious).
I remind you that most people seek help because they don't know what to do. They seek help because nobody ever taught them how the overwhelming majority of women react to certain behaviours and they didn't have the tools to observe what was wrong with what they were doing and fix it themselves. When people write in a forum they want as much feedback as they can get, they do not read any single opinion and take it for granted. And the ones who respond to them know this aswell.
What you can't possibly understand as a woman is how hard it is for the average man with no experience to be perceived as a sexual being. Seeing useless, retarded, manipulating assholes get flocked with girls while you are incredibly horny, sex starved, and sometimes in love makes a man frustrated like no other being on the planet can experience. A man needs a certain amount of qualities and self exteem to be perceived as sexually attractive. A woman basically only needs not to be fat and, even then, you will still find more people who want you than the average, always-complying and friendzoned beta male. That's the reason so many guys ask for help in such a desperate way, and that's why everyone is ready to give the advice that worked for them. Show nested quote +On February 12 2014 06:06 Wombat_NI wrote: While the thrust of the OP is pretty much on the money, Cloud does raise an interesting point as well, one I would find myself agreeing.
Many women don't seem to actually understand that the whole asymmetry of sexual interaction has both it's positives and negatives. For a girl, yeah you get unwanted male attention, you get all sorts of crap. You also don't have to worry about having to approach strangers in a club for the most part, or being the one to initiate a friendship into a relationship - for the most part. It can be a massive fucking pain in the ass, especially in your formative teen years. If you're a nerd who is friends with total nerds you don't exactly have a rich vein of vicarious experience to tap into in so the internet can actually be beneficial sometimes.
You can't change society. Why don't you guys just man up and stop putting the pussy on a pedestal.
I see wut u did there ![[image loading]](http://defiler.ru/chat/smiles-visible/troll.png)
On February 12 2014 07:11 Wombat_NI wrote: thrust
lol
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On February 12 2014 06:47 Tufas wrote:So I read the comments and was like "that could be a good blog" but I can sum up that blog for you .. TLDR use the tiny shreds of empathy and reason you have Show nested quote +On February 11 2014 20:38 Schelim wrote: i know four women named Nina and they're all beautiful. just saying. also can confirm, maybe we know the same haha maybe we do, are you from Vienna?
or maybe it's just a general thing that Ninas look good.
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On February 12 2014 07:47 Schelim wrote:Show nested quote +On February 12 2014 06:47 Tufas wrote:So I read the comments and was like "that could be a good blog" but I can sum up that blog for you .. TLDR use the tiny shreds of empathy and reason you have On February 11 2014 20:38 Schelim wrote: i know four women named Nina and they're all beautiful. just saying. also can confirm, maybe we know the same haha maybe we do, are you from Vienna? or maybe it's just a general thing that Ninas look good.
I lived there for the last 4 years, now I moved to Salzburg. I think we should not go deeper
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On February 11 2014 19:49 ninazerg wrote: But my advice, is really simple: if you want to date, find someone who wants to date you.
Yes, but how?
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On February 12 2014 08:22 jrkirby wrote:Show nested quote +On February 11 2014 19:49 ninazerg wrote: But my advice, is really simple: if you want to date, find someone who wants to date you. Yes, but how?
In my humble opinion, walking up to random people and hitting on them is stupid. You should know people somewhat socially before deciding whether or not to pursue them. It's a sign of the collapse of modern society that people can't do what should be the most natural thing. There's a lovely spectrum of dysfunction in this thread, from the ball-less to the chauvinistic.
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Those were some high quality rubber dicks.
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How this blog will be rated:
Content: 0/5 Humour: 1/5 Overall: 11/10 (because girl author)
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You won me over at "There is a girl I like, but I smoke crack."
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On February 12 2014 09:51 maggle wrote: How this blog will be rated:
Content: 0/5 Humour: 1/5 Overall: 11/10 (because girl author) I don't know, I gave it 5/5 for the number of people I don't like who seemed to be annoyed into angered by it.
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