• Log InLog In
  • Register
Liquid`
Team Liquid Liquipedia
EDT 02:12
CEST 08:12
KST 15:12
  • Home
  • Forum
  • Calendar
  • Streams
  • Liquipedia
  • Features
  • Store
  • EPT
  • TL+
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Smash
  • Heroes
  • Counter-Strike
  • Overwatch
  • Liquibet
  • Fantasy StarCraft
  • TLPD
  • StarCraft 2
  • Brood War
  • Blogs
Forum Sidebar
Events/Features
News
Featured News
[ASL20] Ro24 Preview Pt2: Take-Off6[ASL20] Ro24 Preview Pt1: Runway132v2 & SC: Evo Complete: Weekend Double Feature4Team Liquid Map Contest #21 - Presented by Monster Energy9uThermal's 2v2 Tour: $15,000 Main Event18
Community News
Weekly Cups (Aug 18-24): herO dethrones MaxPax5Maestros of The Game—$20k event w/ live finals in Paris30Weekly Cups (Aug 11-17): MaxPax triples again!13Weekly Cups (Aug 4-10): MaxPax wins a triple6SC2's Safe House 2 - October 18 & 195
StarCraft 2
General
Weekly Cups (Aug 18-24): herO dethrones MaxPax What mix of new and old maps do you want in the next 1v1 ladder pool? (SC2) : A Eulogy for the Six Pool Geoff 'iNcontroL' Robinson has passed away 2v2 & SC: Evo Complete: Weekend Double Feature
Tourneys
WardiTV Mondays Maestros of The Game—$20k event w/ live finals in Paris RSL: Revival, a new crowdfunded tournament series Sparkling Tuna Cup - Weekly Open Tournament Monday Nights Weeklies
Strategy
Custom Maps
External Content
Mutation # 488 What Goes Around Mutation # 487 Think Fast Mutation # 486 Watch the Skies Mutation # 485 Death from Below
Brood War
General
No Rain in ASL20? BW General Discussion Flash On His 2010 "God" Form, Mind Games, vs JD BGH Auto Balance -> http://bghmmr.eu/ [ASL20] Ro24 Preview Pt2: Take-Off
Tourneys
[ASL20] Ro24 Group F [ASL20] Ro24 Group E [Megathread] Daily Proleagues [IPSL] CSLAN Review and CSLPRO Reimagined!
Strategy
Simple Questions, Simple Answers Fighting Spirit mining rates [G] Mineral Boosting Muta micro map competition
Other Games
General Games
Stormgate/Frost Giant Megathread Nintendo Switch Thread General RTS Discussion Thread Dawn of War IV Path of Exile
Dota 2
Official 'what is Dota anymore' discussion
League of Legends
Heroes of the Storm
Simple Questions, Simple Answers Heroes of the Storm 2.0
Hearthstone
Heroes of StarCraft mini-set
TL Mafia
TL Mafia Community Thread Vanilla Mini Mafia
Community
General
Russo-Ukrainian War Thread US Politics Mega-thread Things Aren’t Peaceful in Palestine The year 2050 European Politico-economics QA Mega-thread
Fan Clubs
INnoVation Fan Club SKT1 Classic Fan Club!
Media & Entertainment
Anime Discussion Thread Movie Discussion! [Manga] One Piece [\m/] Heavy Metal Thread
Sports
2024 - 2026 Football Thread TeamLiquid Health and Fitness Initiative For 2023 Formula 1 Discussion
World Cup 2022
Tech Support
High temperatures on bridge(s) Gtx660 graphics card replacement Installation of Windows 10 suck at "just a moment"
TL Community
The Automated Ban List TeamLiquid Team Shirt On Sale
Blogs
Evil Gacha Games and the…
ffswowsucks
Breaking the Meta: Non-Stand…
TrAiDoS
INDEPENDIENTE LA CTM
XenOsky
[Girl blog} My fema…
artosisisthebest
Sharpening the Filtration…
frozenclaw
ASL S20 English Commentary…
namkraft
Customize Sidebar...

Website Feedback

Closed Threads



Active: 1952 users

I think i just caused someone to kill themself... - Page 2

Blogs > Telsh
Post a Reply
Prev 1 2 All
docvoc
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States5491 Posts
December 22 2012 16:53 GMT
#21
On December 23 2012 01:49 surfinbird1 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 22 2012 18:57 aTnClouD wrote:
Girl suicides ---> Panic ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit [image loading]

Haha, Santa Cloud!

As much as I think and hope this is a troll, and as much as I think ClouD is spot on here, calm down, call her family again, call her again, keep calling frantically and then once you have tried and tried you should call someone on the suicide hotline or the red cross possibly. Other than that, you are powerless.
User was warned for too many mimes.
AnYvia
Profile Joined November 2010
Bulgaria474 Posts
December 22 2012 17:12 GMT
#22
She is probably just messing with you. No need to panic.
Flash / MVP / Seed / Leenock / DRG / Life
felisconcolori
Profile Blog Joined October 2011
United States6168 Posts
December 22 2012 17:22 GMT
#23
You have to stop looking at it as "you caused someone to kill themselves" - you aren't responsible for their behavior. You aren't making them do it. They are responsible for their actions. At no time is a reasonable response "Well then I'm going to kill myself" - in this particular situation, it's simply a manipulative choice.

There are people who truly want to die, and then there are people that will use the threat of suicide as a tool to get what they want. In both cases, it's not your fault.
Yes, I email sponsors... to thank them. Don't post drunk, kids. My king, what has become of you?
r.Evo
Profile Joined August 2006
Germany14080 Posts
December 22 2012 19:15 GMT
#24
1) You aren't responsible for someone elses behaviour. Period.
2) IF you genuinely believe that someone might attempt suicide, a quick google search can usually tell you the (usually anonymous) phone numbers in the respective country.
3) Personally I recommend getting out of this "relationship" as soon as possible. What she did there is equivalent to emotional blackmail. Trying to extort emotions out of someone else with threats should be unacceptable.

The usual recommendations are sources like r/suicidewatch and/or local (again, usually anonymous) help lines for issues like potential suicide/borderline. Even as someone who isn't directly affected but wants to talk about this with someone who knows what's up those are great sources.

PS: http://xkcd.com/383/

PPS: More than half of the initial first page comments are utterly disgusting, but hey, getting some props for being a cool internet badass is worth it, rite?
"We don't make mistakes here, we call it happy little accidents." ~Bob Ross
OmniEulogy
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Canada6592 Posts
December 22 2012 19:17 GMT
#25
On December 22 2012 23:27 DamnCats wrote:
Don't stick your IP address in crazy


hahahaha.

What a terrible thing to do. try not to think about it too much man.
LiquidDota Staff
PassiveAce
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
United States18076 Posts
December 22 2012 19:21 GMT
#26
Not your fault, relax. You cant blame suicide on another person lmao
Call me Marge Simpson cuz I love you homie
Luepert
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States1933 Posts
December 22 2012 19:21 GMT
#27
On December 22 2012 18:57 aTnClouD wrote:
Girl suicides ---> Panic ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit [image loading]


Penis is small ---> be sad ---> make penis big ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit [image loading]
esports
Ydriel
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Italy516 Posts
December 22 2012 21:41 GMT
#28
On December 23 2012 04:21 Luepert wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 22 2012 18:57 aTnClouD wrote:
Girl suicides ---> Panic ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit [image loading]


Penis is small ---> be sad ---> make penis big ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit [image loading]


Win xD OP, as anyone else said, don't freak out. I'm not sure if it's feasable or that easy to contact authorities from another countries as other people suggested, but try to get a hold of her family or something.

Regarding her, I'd suggest to clear any misunderstaing and smoothing the break-up, if necessary, then just cut all contacts with her. She's trying to hold your attention with her behaviour (albeit obviously not in a healthy or good way), I think it might be better to have her and close people around her help sort it out. If you get involved, you'll be doing what she wants, encouraging her to continue such behaviour. Good luck and I hope both of you can overcome this ^.^
<3 SC2 <3<3 Dota 2. Steam ID: HellS
MetalPanda
Profile Joined April 2012
Canada1152 Posts
December 23 2012 04:23 GMT
#29
Yeah.. I'm experiencing something similar to you, although no suicide threat has been done yet, she's so unstable and creepy I feared she might threaten it. Now I just try to be neutral, tactful, but not get manipulated. Granted, she doesn't mean much to me anymore, it's easier to do, but when I'm talking to her I try to not act like a friend really, just be formal and basically try to not make fauxpas. I don't have to feel responsible for her anymore or she'll invade my life more than I'd like.
MountainDewJunkie
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States10341 Posts
December 23 2012 05:37 GMT
#30
Never meet girls on the internet. I dated a girl exactly like the one you're describing. I will never forgive myself for being so retarded.
[21:07] <Shock710> whats wrong with her face [20:50] <dAPhREAk> i beat it the day after it came out | <BLinD-RawR> esports is a giant vagina
Praetorial
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
United States4241 Posts
December 26 2012 15:23 GMT
#31
Upload picture to Google Image search, it's probably just a stock photo.
FOR GREAT JUSTICE! Bans for the ban gods!
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32071 Posts
December 26 2012 15:34 GMT
#32
call the cops you doofus
PROFESSIONAL GAMER - SEND ME OFFERS TO JOIN YOUR TEAM - USA USA USA
drooL
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United Kingdom2108 Posts
December 26 2012 16:00 GMT
#33
Should've just called the police. That would have put her out of harms way and also given her 'attention'. Probably not the kind she wanted, so that would make it a lesson as well.
@nowSimon
AngryMag
Profile Joined November 2011
Germany1040 Posts
December 26 2012 18:57 GMT
#34
tell her that she needs to cut herself through the whole arm, from wrist to elbow, and not just the wrist, if she wants to reach the goal of suicide.

Now on a serious note:" The I'm gonna kill myself" line gets used pretty often by teenage girls who want to put pressure to sustain the relationship on you. If you think the relationship should end, just do it. You cannot take responsibility for the actions of others, even if it is emotionally hard for you.

If you feel real danger, you should contact her parents and tell them what she told you, so they can take the steps which they deem necessary.
applejuice
Profile Joined October 2010
307 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-12-26 19:11:59
December 26 2012 19:09 GMT
#35
Just walk away. It's not your responsibility. You do not have to "Call X do Y inform Z", as some people are suggesting. If you want to, sure, but it's not your responsibility. Those duties fall to those around her - her family, friends - anybody outside the situation, but not you.
BlitzerSC
Profile Joined May 2011
Italy8800 Posts
December 26 2012 21:27 GMT
#36
She sent you a picture of blood ? That girl is crazy...
Prev 1 2 All
Please log in or register to reply.
Live Events Refresh
Next event in 3h 48m
[ Submit Event ]
Live Streams
Refresh
StarCraft 2
SteadfastSC 106
StarCraft: Brood War
Sea 2989
Horang2 533
Tasteless 218
ggaemo 205
PianO 155
Larva 155
Stork 61
Pusan 60
Icarus 11
Dota 2
NeuroSwarm76
Counter-Strike
m0e_tv1253
Stewie2K522
semphis_45
Super Smash Bros
Mew2King130
Other Games
summit1g9754
tarik_tv8054
WinterStarcraft478
singsing376
C9.Mang0324
SortOf65
Organizations
Other Games
gamesdonequick649
StarCraft 2
Blizzard YouTube
StarCraft: Brood War
BSLTrovo
sctven
[ Show 16 non-featured ]
StarCraft 2
• Berry_CruncH329
• Sammyuel 14
• AfreecaTV YouTube
• intothetv
• Kozan
• IndyKCrew
• LaughNgamezSOOP
• Migwel
• sooper7s
StarCraft: Brood War
• BSLYoutube
• STPLYoutube
• ZZZeroYoutube
League of Legends
• Rush1128
• Lourlo1053
• Stunt495
Other Games
• Scarra1017
Upcoming Events
Afreeca Starleague
3h 48m
hero vs Alone
Royal vs Barracks
Replay Cast
17h 48m
The PondCast
1d 3h
WardiTV Summer Champion…
1d 4h
Clem vs Classic
herO vs MaxPax
Replay Cast
1d 17h
LiuLi Cup
2 days
MaxPax vs TriGGeR
ByuN vs herO
Cure vs Rogue
Classic vs HeRoMaRinE
Cosmonarchy
2 days
OyAji vs Sziky
Sziky vs WolFix
WolFix vs OyAji
BSL Team Wars
2 days
Team Hawk vs Team Dewalt
BSL Team Wars
2 days
Team Hawk vs Team Bonyth
SC Evo League
3 days
TaeJa vs Cure
Rogue vs threepoint
ByuN vs Creator
MaNa vs Classic
[ Show More ]
Maestros of the Game
3 days
ShoWTimE vs Cham
GuMiho vs Ryung
Zoun vs Spirit
Rogue vs MaNa
[BSL 2025] Weekly
3 days
SC Evo League
4 days
Maestros of the Game
4 days
SHIN vs Creator
Astrea vs Lambo
Bunny vs SKillous
HeRoMaRinE vs TriGGeR
BSL Team Wars
4 days
Team Bonyth vs Team Sziky
BSL Team Wars
4 days
Team Dewalt vs Team Sziky
Monday Night Weeklies
5 days
Replay Cast
5 days
Sparkling Tuna Cup
6 days
Liquipedia Results

Completed

CSLAN 3
uThermal 2v2 Main Event
HCC Europe

Ongoing

Copa Latinoamericana 4
BSL 20 Team Wars
KCM Race Survival 2025 Season 3
BSL 21 Qualifiers
ASL Season 20
CSL Season 18: Qualifier 1
Acropolis #4 - TS1
CSL Season 18: Qualifier 2
SEL Season 2 Championship
WardiTV Summer 2025
BLAST Open Fall Qual
Esports World Cup 2025
BLAST Bounty Fall 2025
BLAST Bounty Fall Qual
IEM Cologne 2025
FISSURE Playground #1
BLAST.tv Austin Major 2025

Upcoming

CSL 2025 AUTUMN (S18)
LASL Season 20
BSL Season 21
BSL 21 Team A
Chzzk MurlocKing SC1 vs SC2 Cup #2
RSL Revival: Season 2
Maestros of the Game
EC S1
Sisters' Call Cup
IEM Chengdu 2025
PGL Masters Bucharest 2025
MESA Nomadic Masters Fall
Thunderpick World Champ.
CS Asia Championships 2025
Roobet Cup 2025
ESL Pro League S22
StarSeries Fall 2025
FISSURE Playground #2
BLAST Open Fall 2025
TLPD

1. ByuN
2. TY
3. Dark
4. Solar
5. Stats
6. Nerchio
7. sOs
8. soO
9. INnoVation
10. Elazer
1. Rain
2. Flash
3. EffOrt
4. Last
5. Bisu
6. Soulkey
7. Mini
8. Sharp
Sidebar Settings...

Advertising | Privacy Policy | Terms Of Use | Contact Us

Original banner artwork: Jim Warren
The contents of this webpage are copyright © 2025 TLnet. All Rights Reserved.