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I think i just caused someone to kill themself...
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Telsh
United States148 Posts
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Jacobe
United States44 Posts
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Battleaxe
United States843 Posts
I can't say I condone not doing anything about it which is why I'm even posting this in the first place. Hopefully you tried contacting her before you came here. I can't tell you how long you should spend attempting to find out what happened because that's your decision. I don't know what your situation was with so take this for what it's worth; you'll be alright. | ||
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eu.exodus
South Africa1186 Posts
I really doubt she did though | ||
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Holy_AT
Austria978 Posts
If you really think that she might be in danger, the most logical course of action would be to inform the authorities (aka call the police). Even if she was just faking it, you cant be blamed if you have a reasonable explanation for your suspicion. If you had a "relation" you for sure know her name and address. And even if the story is right, she is most likely dead by now or she faked it and there is no reason to contact her again, because that would just give her what she wanted in the first place. | ||
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
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Telsh
United States148 Posts
she's from a different country i didn't know how to contact the authorities there, and yes i was freaking out so i posted here instead of telling my personal friends -_- yes Cloud it was legit  You were probably right by reacting to her i'm giving her the attention she is wanting but its hard to ignore when someone is threatening that, i don't take death lightly as both of my parents have died, as well as a friend of mine got shot at a gun range at school when i was a freshman( military school) I wanted some help from others and i don't have a reddit account and i didn't really know where else to post so.. i came here.. | ||
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Holy_AT
Austria978 Posts
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CecilSunkure
United States2829 Posts
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peacenl
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Telsh
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Seeker
Where dat snitch at?37088 Posts
On December 22 2012 18:57 aTnClouD wrote: Girl suicides ---> Panic ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit That damn cookie monster's back.... On topic: Do not panic. Find out what happened before you end up torturing yourself over the agony. Just calm down and find out exactly what's going on. | ||
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BreakfastBurrito
United States893 Posts
The sad thing is that sometimes when attempting to hurt themselves they really do go all the way and leave everyone around them bereft, over this temporary and relatively insignificant problem (relative to the scope of ones life) Sad. Glad that she is in the hospital and alive! If I may ask did you at least break it to her gently, her reaction seems a little extreme | ||
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DamnCats
United States1472 Posts
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sorrowptoss
Canada1431 Posts
I think she's bluffing unless the blood looked very real... she sent me a picture of blood Was it even her blood? Because there are tons of pictures of bloody arms and stuff on google images... She's just trying to stress you out. IMO, chill the heck out. | ||
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ZeaL.
United States5955 Posts
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N.geNuity
United States5112 Posts
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AxUU
Finland162 Posts
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AnachronisticAnarchy
United States2957 Posts
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surfinbird1
Germany999 Posts
On December 22 2012 18:57 aTnClouD wrote: Girl suicides ---> Panic ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit Haha, Santa Cloud! | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
As much as I think and hope this is a troll, and as much as I think ClouD is spot on here, calm down, call her family again, call her again, keep calling frantically and then once you have tried and tried you should call someone on the suicide hotline or the red cross possibly. Other than that, you are powerless. | ||
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AnYvia
Bulgaria474 Posts
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felisconcolori
United States6168 Posts
There are people who truly want to die, and then there are people that will use the threat of suicide as a tool to get what they want. In both cases, it's not your fault. | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
2) IF you genuinely believe that someone might attempt suicide, a quick google search can usually tell you the (usually anonymous) phone numbers in the respective country. 3) Personally I recommend getting out of this "relationship" as soon as possible. What she did there is equivalent to emotional blackmail. Trying to extort emotions out of someone else with threats should be unacceptable. The usual recommendations are sources like r/suicidewatch and/or local (again, usually anonymous) help lines for issues like potential suicide/borderline. Even as someone who isn't directly affected but wants to talk about this with someone who knows what's up those are great sources. PS: http://xkcd.com/383/ PPS: More than half of the initial first page comments are utterly disgusting, but hey, getting some props for being a cool internet badass is worth it, rite? | ||
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OmniEulogy
Canada6600 Posts
On December 22 2012 23:27 DamnCats wrote: Don't stick your IP address in crazy hahahaha. What a terrible thing to do. try not to think about it too much man. | ||
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PassiveAce
United States18076 Posts
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Luepert
United States1934 Posts
On December 22 2012 18:57 aTnClouD wrote: Girl suicides ---> Panic ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit Penis is small ---> be sad ---> make penis big ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit | ||
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Ydriel
Italy516 Posts
On December 23 2012 04:21 Luepert wrote: Penis is small ---> be sad ---> make penis big ---> Posts on TL. Sounds legit Win xD OP, as anyone else said, don't freak out. I'm not sure if it's feasable or that easy to contact authorities from another countries as other people suggested, but try to get a hold of her family or something. Regarding her, I'd suggest to clear any misunderstaing and smoothing the break-up, if necessary, then just cut all contacts with her. She's trying to hold your attention with her behaviour (albeit obviously not in a healthy or good way), I think it might be better to have her and close people around her help sort it out. If you get involved, you'll be doing what she wants, encouraging her to continue such behaviour. Good luck and I hope both of you can overcome this ^.^ | ||
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MetalPanda
Canada1152 Posts
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10346 Posts
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Praetorial
United States4241 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32140 Posts
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drooL
United Kingdom2108 Posts
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AngryMag
Germany1040 Posts
Now on a serious note:" The I'm gonna kill myself" line gets used pretty often by teenage girls who want to put pressure to sustain the relationship on you. If you think the relationship should end, just do it. You cannot take responsibility for the actions of others, even if it is emotionally hard for you. If you feel real danger, you should contact her parents and tell them what she told you, so they can take the steps which they deem necessary. | ||
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applejuice
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BlitzerSC
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