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On June 21 2011 02:55 Azzur wrote:
Sorry, I'm going to tell you something that you probably don't want to hear. If she's into you, she would not be acting that way. Either way, it's probably best that you confront the issue because not knowing is worse. At the very worse, she'll appreciate your bravery and it'll help improve your confidence for the future.
i am getting mixed information. it could be anything. its fine though
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As a girl, I'd say she probably likes you. Also, seems she is sending you these signals because she is too shy to do anything about it. Flirt back with her. Tell her you like her. If you're good friends, but turns out you were mistaken, it'll probably be awkward for a week and then you'll get over it.
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The best advice is: Make a move! Regardless of how foolish you might look like. Not doing anything is the worst thing you could do. And girls lose interest very quickly if the guy doesn't act, so do something  .
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Not doing anything will lead to regret and even less confidence. Want to break your perpetual cycle of low self-esteem? ASK HER OUT.
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On June 21 2011 03:08 Bibdy wrote:
Not doing anything will lead to regret and even less confidence. Want to break your perpetual cycle of low self-esteem? ASK HER OUT.
hahahaha I FUCKING WILL 
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If you don't make a move, no matter how she feels you'll think about it for weeks/months/years.
If you make a move and she doesn't like you, you'll be sad for a week.
If you make a move and she likes you, SCORE
The answer if you think someone likes you, is always to make your move.
It's like StarCraft really. If you're afraid to ladder because you might lose, just do it anyway. Your nerves will go away no matter the result of the games.
Good luck.
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On June 21 2011 03:10 Lemonhead wrote:
If you don't make a move, no matter how she feels you'll think about it for weeks/months/years.
If you make a move and she doesn't like you, you'll be sad for a week.
If you make a move and she likes you, SCORE
The answer if you think someone likes you, is always to make your move.
It's like StarCraft really. If you're afraid to ladder because you might lose, just do it anyway. Your nerves will go away no matter the result of the games.
Good luck.
thanks
edit: I edit just to put this  lol just for you XD
did i mention i get to see her for an entire week during bible camp next week? XD
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On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant
He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience.
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Bible camp sounds like the perfect setting for getting laid to me.
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On June 21 2011 03:13 tenacity wrote:
Bible camp sounds like the perfect setting for getting laid to me.
oh fuck yeah XD hahahahha
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On June 21 2011 01:38 DeepCorrupted wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 01:36 krndandaman wrote:
from what I can see, she probably does not like you but the best way to find out is to ask her.
seriously i know seriously. Its gonna be very difficult for me to ask her cause i'm really nervous about and shy. I just wanted other people's opinions and stuff...
Why? The worst that can happen is she doesn't like you and you stop wasting your time, energy and emotions. You two can still be friends, but that way you can find a girl who actually does like you.
On June 21 2011 03:15 DeepCorrupted wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience. so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right?
Don't think of it as confessing, you like a girl you're not a murderer. Everybody gets these feelings, it just takes time to learn to act properly upon them. The best way to learn? The ol' Trial and error method.
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On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience.
so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right?
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On June 21 2011 03:15 DeepCorrupted wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience. so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right?
haha yeah just don't do it too soon
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On June 21 2011 03:18 jellyfish wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 03:15 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience. so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right? haha yeah just don't do it too soon
I disagree with this, they've obviously known each other for a long time and delaying it longer will not only strain him, but also can have the unintentional repercussion of the girl losing interest.
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On June 21 2011 03:18 jellyfish wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 03:15 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience. so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right? haha yeah just don't do it too soon
oh fucking great lmao. okay i will consider.
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On June 21 2011 03:19 d(O.o)a wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 03:18 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 03:15 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience. so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right? haha yeah just don't do it too soon I disagree with this, they've obviously known each other for a long time and delaying it longer will not only strain him, but also can have the unintentional repercussion of the girl losing interest.
exactly this.
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On June 21 2011 03:14 d(O.o)a wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 01:38 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 01:36 krndandaman wrote:
from what I can see, she probably does not like you but the best way to find out is to ask her.
seriously i know seriously. Its gonna be very difficult for me to ask her cause i'm really nervous about and shy. I just wanted other people's opinions and stuff... Why? The worst that can happen is she doesn't like you and you stop wasting your time, energy and emotions. You two can still be friends, but that way you can find a girl who actually does like you. Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 03:15 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience. so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right? Don't think of it as confessing, you like a girl you're not a murderer. Everybody gets these feelings, it just takes time to learn to act properly upon them. The best way to learn? The ol' Trial and error method.
i am too tired to fix this whole quote but like i said. its just my personality thing habit. I just have to
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On June 21 2011 03:21 DeepCorrupted wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 03:14 d(O.o)a wrote:On June 21 2011 01:38 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 01:36 krndandaman wrote:
from what I can see, she probably does not like you but the best way to find out is to ask her.
seriously i know seriously. Its gonna be very difficult for me to ask her cause i'm really nervous about and shy. I just wanted other people's opinions and stuff... Why? The worst that can happen is she doesn't like you and you stop wasting your time, energy and emotions. You two can still be friends, but that way you can find a girl who actually does like you. On June 21 2011 03:15 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 03:13 jellyfish wrote:On June 21 2011 02:55 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18 lol and thanks for your experiences ^^ and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant He was saying "nooooooo" because of all the people telling you to confess. And I agree. No need to expose yourself that much, yeah? The fact that you're confused right now should make that pretty clear...Like I said, just take it slow and flirt back, gather some more information, and then make your judgment. Jumping too far ahead will probably end up embarrassing/awkward for both of you no matter the result; could humiliate you if she's actually not that interested; or could scare her off if she was. So even if she does like you, it's better to take things at a more relaxed pace, in my experience. so he isnt necissarily saying not to confess but to take it slow right? Don't think of it as confessing, you like a girl you're not a murderer. Everybody gets these feelings, it just takes time to learn to act properly upon them. The best way to learn? The ol' Trial and error method. i am too tired to fix this whole quote but like i said. its just my personality thing habit. I just have to
You only have to because you tell yourself that you have to, I used to be extremely shy and wouldn't tell girls what's up, the only way to break that habit is to go all in. If you keep telling yourself you have to do things the way you do your life will never get better. The girl seems to at least have some interest and even if she doesn't, simply putting it out there that you're interested will serve you no harm. The worst possible situation is that you two stop talking for a while because you feel awkward or she does, and that's really not as bad as having feelings of regret for years.
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real quick. i just remembered... before i left for korea. we were talking about gifts and she was threatning me because i forgot to get her something from las vegas a while back and so she was gonna do bad things to me lol if i didnt get her anything from korea. so i tried begging her out of it and then i decided to be like "hey beautiful awesome girl. how bout sparing me :D" and she called me a liar and i was like what reason do i have to lie and then she stopped texting me... or she was like sureeeee and then stopped i forget...
point of this story. no idea lmao
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