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On June 21 2011 02:09 TheGiz wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 01:45 n.DieJokes wrote:A very uncomfortable violation of a friends personal space? Sounds like a good plan to me  So when you kiss a girl on a date is she disgusted by your violation of her personal space? It's a kiss, she'll get over it. There is no foreseeable loss to this situation. In high school I confessed my attraction to a female friend who flat-out rejected me and is now dating my cousin rather indefinitely. She's one of my closest personal friends and confidants. Does that moment from 1, 2... SEVEN years ago affect our relationship? Nope. Of course I'd still date her at the drop of a hat, but I don't fawn over her and it's not like that makes our relationship awkward in the least.
Your cousin doesn't read TL does he?
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gogo 300 apm flirting micro
be subtle but not too subtle
or, you know, just whip it out.
that'll make your intentions clear.
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On June 21 2011 02:17 palanq wrote:
gogo 300 apm flirting micro
be subtle but not too subtle
or, you know, just whip it out.
that'll make your intentions clear.
i only have 180 apm. will it be enough  hahaha
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On June 21 2011 02:09 TheGiz wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 01:45 n.DieJokes wrote:A very uncomfortable violation of a friends personal space? Sounds like a good plan to me So when you kiss a girl on a date is she disgusted by your violation of her personal space? It's a kiss, she'll get over it. There is no foreseeable loss to this situation. In high school I confessed my attraction to a female friend who flat-out rejected me and is now dating my cousin rather indefinitely. She's one of my closest personal friends and confidants. Does that moment from 1, 2... SEVEN years ago affect our relationship? Nope. Of course I'd still date her at the drop of a hat, but I don't fawn over her and it's not like that makes our relationship awkward in the least.
You are not saying kiss a girl on a date, you're saying go kiss your friend because you like her. Don't ask her how she feels about him or even ask her out on a date, just get physical and if she isn't down with it shes a tease. These are your words, this is what I quoted you saying. Do you understand that your anecdote from highschool and the advice you gave him are two different things?
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On June 21 2011 02:19 DeepCorrupted wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:17 palanq wrote:
gogo 300 apm flirting micro
be subtle but not too subtle
or, you know, just whip it out.
that'll make your intentions clear. i only have 180 apm. will it be enough hahaha
Yes, but you'll have to cheese.
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On June 21 2011 02:20 n.DieJokes wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:09 TheGiz wrote:On June 21 2011 01:45 n.DieJokes wrote:A very uncomfortable violation of a friends personal space? Sounds like a good plan to me So when you kiss a girl on a date is she disgusted by your violation of her personal space? It's a kiss, she'll get over it. There is no foreseeable loss to this situation. In high school I confessed my attraction to a female friend who flat-out rejected me and is now dating my cousin rather indefinitely. She's one of my closest personal friends and confidants. Does that moment from 1, 2... SEVEN years ago affect our relationship? Nope. Of course I'd still date her at the drop of a hat, but I don't fawn over her and it's not like that makes our relationship awkward in the least. You are not saying kiss a girl on a date, you're saying go kiss your friend because you like her. Don't ask her how she feels about him or even ask her out on a date, just get physical and if she isn't down with it shes a tease. These are your words, this is what I quoted you saying. Do you understand that your anecdote from highschool and the advice you gave him are two different things?
guys dont worry about the whole thing ^^" I personally dont understand what it means by
So when you kiss a girl on a date is she disgusted by your violation of her personal space? It's a kiss, she'll get over it. There is no foreseeable loss to this situation.
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On June 21 2011 02:26 jacosajh wrote:Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:19 DeepCorrupted wrote:On June 21 2011 02:17 palanq wrote:
gogo 300 apm flirting micro
be subtle but not too subtle
or, you know, just whip it out.
that'll make your intentions clear. i only have 180 apm. will it be enough hahaha Yes, but you'll have to cheese.
mehh i play zerg. Not much i can do with cheese...
well actually... if i do it at the start... i can spam my way up to 400 :D
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I'm just saying you don't always have to ask how she feels. Sometimes in a private/intimate situation a spontaneous thing like that just works because in mutual cases it's what you both were thinking anyways. I've done that a few times before myself. That actually that led somewhere else very quickly too.
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my opinion: she doesn't like you, she's being nice. the way she acts... that's her personality.
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On June 21 2011 02:29 blabber wrote:
my opinion: she doesn't like you, she's being nice. the way she acts... that's her personality.
yeah thats what i am thinking or was... or whatever haha
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you can still tell her you like her though... it will get rid of any pretense and (if she doesn't like you back) you guys can simply be normal friends
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On June 21 2011 02:34 blabber wrote:
you can still tell her you like her though... it will get rid of any pretense and (if she doesn't like you back) you guys can simply be normal friends
i was planning to anyway. I fucking like her and i gotta know haha.
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I just want to say one thing:
Girls are not meant to be understood.
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Switzerland3919 Posts
Well if it is any help alot of girls cant understand us guys. Almost all my female friends complain about that.
You could always look at getting girls as laddering. After 50 or so games you care less and less about losing. 
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Girls often don't know what they want. All those things you mentioned in the OP mean little to nothing.
On June 21 2011 02:34 blabber wrote:
you can still tell her you like her though... it will get rid of any pretense and (if she doesn't like you back) you guys can simply be normal friends
nononononononononononononononononononononononono
edit: NO
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On June 21 2011 02:45 .Aar wrote:Girls don't know what they want. All those things you mentioned in the OP mean little to nothing. Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:34 blabber wrote:
you can still tell her you like her though... it will get rid of any pretense and (if she doesn't like you back) you guys can simply be normal friends nononononononononononononononononononononononono edit: NO
actually yeah. it depends on the girl and the relationship you have with her. up to you to determine if its ok to tell her.
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On June 21 2011 02:45 .Aar wrote:Girls don't know what they want. All those things you mentioned in the OP mean little to nothing. Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:34 blabber wrote:
you can still tell her you like her though... it will get rid of any pretense and (if she doesn't like you back) you guys can simply be normal friends nononononononononononononononononononononononono edit: NO
could you explain? like... no to telling her or not to the second part... cause i wanna do the first part
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It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
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pretty much this:
On June 21 2011 02:45 .Aar wrote:Girls don't know what they want. All those things you mentioned in the OP mean little to nothing. Show nested quote +On June 21 2011 02:34 blabber wrote:
you can still tell her you like her though... it will get rid of any pretense and (if she doesn't like you back) you guys can simply be normal friends nononononononononononononononononononononononono edit: NO
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On June 21 2011 02:53 jellyfish wrote:
It depends on how old you are and how old she is. I'm guessing 15, 16? I don't think you should take it so seriously just yet, as some of the above recommend. Don't think too far ahead to liking, and "proof," and so on. This'll just freak you out, and freak her out. Start with some light flirting back, trying to gauge her interest.
I used to be in way deep with a Korean-American church for about 5 years, around the same time. From my experience, Korean-American church girls can get pretty flirty without meaning anything serious. They just like the attention, or they're repressed, or something. Whatever. The point is that those types get off on flirting with guys who don't know how to flirt back, and will just pull back if you try too hard to reciprocate. If you get disappointed, try to keep in mind this is just how they are. *shrug*
But of course she could just be flirting honestly, right? In which case she'll amp up her flirting when you finally show interest back...Either way, you should just start off with some light flirting, just to test the waters. Try to relax, man (I know it's hard with teenage hormones etc hahaha). Few girls of any age or culture like a stressed out, panicking guy. It'll be better for you in the long run, whichever way it turns out.
16 and shes 18
lol and thanks for your experiences ^^
and do you know what that guy meant by noo.... lol i am curious by what he meant
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Sorry, I'm going to tell you something that you probably don't want to hear. If she's into you, she would not be acting that way. Either way, it's probably best that you confront the issue because not knowing is worse. At the very worse, she'll appreciate your bravery and it'll help improve your confidence for the future.
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