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Okay so I always come across some really interesting situations in my life, and for some reason I love to share them with people usually my 2 best friends.
But as it sometimes happens one of my best friends got married last week making it hard to talk to him which was already hard enough once he moved and got engaged. The other one got way too far into drugs like dealing coke and pills, forging fake scripts and everything. So we grown apart and stopped talking.
So since I want to tell but can't I come to the blogs. 
Here is the story.
I met this friend John about 9 months ago. He had two roommates Chris and Becca. I Chris isn't important but Becca is, i met her about 8 months ago. We begin to hang out the three of us smoking huge amounts of weed and basically just kicking it. Imagine that 70's show. Well about 6 months ago John tells me that he is really into Becca, Threw the next week or so I find out they have known each other for 7 years since highschool and are basically best friends. So as a good friend I make it my mission to get them to hookup.
So i talk to Becca about this situation, she tells me John has confessed his love at least 3 times and that each time, she shut him down. Becca also has no attraction to John at least physically which she has made known too all. ( she a straight up bitch). Well time passes and we make a deal or a bet of sorts that if John can put on a a certain amount of weight. He gets to do something with her, a date, kiss, movie whatever could be a handshake. (that something to be determined by her)
So me and him start hitting up the gym and trying to pack on this weight. We get too about 2 weeks ago we've all grown really close as friends and decided that i should move in with them come June.
Everything is cool and were having a great time, then one night i fucked Becca.
Oops
Edit:
Okay so im not at all attracted to Becca, I just like to bang a lot and recently broke it off with my Fuck Buddy and another girl i was dating, so decided that in my drunkenness it was a good idea to have sex with her.
Now my dilemma is that there both good friends of mine and for some reason girls love to talk and really wants to tell John. The 3 of us recently went to Vegas for the weekend and the whole time it was real chill. I think telling him would make everything really awkward since i basically fucked the girl he's been in love with for the last 6 or 7 years.
Also would it be a bad idea to bang her again even if im not really interested just horny?
  
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On May 24 2011 12:23 jcroisdale wrote:
Oops
Hahahahaha, oops.
Good ending, but I saw it coming from the very beginning :D
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On May 24 2011 12:27 canucks12 wrote:Hahahahaha, oops. Good ending, but I saw it coming from the very beginning :D
The story is still true im just really high, and got tired of typing. Let me edit it with the next little part.
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Expect to get punched in the face.
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"then one night i fucked Becca. Oops"
LOL best ending ever to any sitcom, ever!
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Nah I don't think your story needs any editing as it is. The delivery is perfect.
GG WP sir. GL keeping your friend tho. If he's mad about it, well, just keep fucking her.
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well look at the bright side...this is really good blog material
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Nice, abuse of trust and betrayal. You'll get what you deserve.
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On May 24 2011 12:55 plated.rawr wrote:
Nice, abuse of trust and betrayal. You'll get what you deserve.
Wait what?
He likes her, she likes me , I like pussy.
She said he never has a chance ever. Not really trust or betrayal. Harsh words.
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Yeah man i don't see any abuse of trust or betrayal. Unless he promised someone he wasn't gonna fuck the girl....
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Gotta say, you're a huge dick.
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It was kind of a dick move to fuck the girl you know your friend really likes. Still, I must admit, were I in your position I would've probably done the exact same thing. Its easy to say you wouldn't do something until you're actually presented with the opportunity. If you can avoid doing it again that would probably be best though, lol.
If nothing else make sure Becca keeps quiet about it.
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I'm a fan. I say you should fuck her again. If anything interesting comes up, let us know.
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Slyly ask your friend his opinion on sloppy seconds hypothetically speaking of course... Just kidding, I think he'll be pissed but get over it in time but I think it'll take longer to get over if you all are living together.
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Convince your friend that everything is Becca's fault. I'm telling you.
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That was so bad my balls just shrunk.
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On May 24 2011 13:09 jcroisdale wrote:Show nested quote +On May 24 2011 12:55 plated.rawr wrote:
Nice, abuse of trust and betrayal. You'll get what you deserve. Wait what? He likes her, she likes me , I like pussy. She said he never has a chance ever. Not really trust or betrayal. Harsh words.
Just stop for a moment and think about your friend (?) John. It's not about how he will react and what will happen to you in this situation. It is more about his feelings. I know, guys are not that emotional, etc, but if he has been attracted to her for a long time, it must mean something to him. If you have respect for John, then I think you should talk to him about this before someone else does.
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So i maybe have something for you :
When i was 15 (i'm 23 now, so it was quite some time ago), i was with this girl that i loved a lot.
We were a bunch of 4-5 friends before we dated, we broke up, and the same or next day one of my very best friend, whom i know he had a big crush on her to, is kissing her (there was no sex involved at those time, so that as pretty big).
I was in this situation where i didn't knew who to blame, either i lose a friend, either i lose the girl, or i lose both.
I didn't blamed my friend, today i don't regret it although i'll never forget this awful move from his part.
We still very good friend, and i think we'll be friend for ever, the girl is just gone, we barely have news from her once a year or so.
Today my friend still a virgin and struggle to even talk to a girl, i meet a lot of amasing girls but i have to say that i never experienced the love i had again. I'm still very young so i think i'll have others love story in the future, there are plenty of lovely girl out there but a rock solid friend from childhood, you can't replace it.
edit - what i think you should do :
Just tell him, and don't forget to mention the girl is a bitch it will be easier for him (+ it's true so).
You might loose both of them, but if John is not to dumb he'll understand that he'll never get the girl so he better pick a trustworthy friend.
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ummmmmm....im jealous?.......
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On May 24 2011 12:23 jcroisdale wrote:
So as a good friend I make it my mission
You have this part wrong.
On May 24 2011 14:22 Strausticles wrote:
Slyly ask your friend his opinion on sloppy seconds hypothetically speaking of course... Just kidding, I think he'll be pissed but get over it in time but I think it'll take longer to get over if you all are living together.
The kind of guy that likes a girl for 6 or 7 years but doesn't fuck her will NOT get over it. He probably won't even beat the shit out of the TC, which is what he should do.
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On May 24 2011 15:07 Marou wrote:
So i maybe have something for you :
When i was 15 (i'm 23 now, so it was quite some time ago), i was with this girl that i loved a lot.
We were a bunch of 4-5 friends before we dated, we broke up, and the same or next day one of my very best friend, whom i know he had a big crush on her to, is kissing her (there was no sex involved at those time, so that as pretty big).
I was in this situation where i didn't knew who to blame, either i lose a friend, either i lose the girl, or i lose both.
I didn't blamed my friend, today i don't regret it although i'll never forget this awful move from his part.
We still very good friend, and i think we'll be friend for ever, the girl is just gone, we barely have news from her once a year or so.
Today my friend still a virgin and struggle to even talk to a girl, i meet a lot of amasing girls but i have to say that i never experienced the love i had again. I'm still very young so i think i'll have others love story in the future, there are plenty of lovely girl out there but a rock solid friend from childhood, you can't replace it.
edit - what i think you should do :
Just tell him, and don't forget to mention the girl is a bitch it will be easier for him (+ it's true so).
You might loose both of them, but if John is not to dumb he'll understand that he'll never get the girl so he better pick a trustworthy friend.
The only thing that makes telling him hard is that I'm moving in with him and her, But she really wanted to tell him she thinks it wont be a big deal but im pretty sure it will. I told her she could tell him if she still wanted when i move in july 1st.
Also this is the second time i've hooked up with a girl and told her to be quiet about it for our own sake and both times they want to or did blab the first time it was the next fucking day at work. Does this happen often? Where girls dont mind talking, its like they want people to know.
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Aha i forgot about the part where you move with the two. Break the ice before you move in deinetely :D
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If you don't tell him before you move in you are an even worse person than the person I cut off two years ago for almost the same thing. I still think about finding where he lives and going over and beating him because I didn't do that when I had the chance. I make sure to stay away from people like you.
Edit: by not telling him before you move in you will traumatize him and psychologically abuse him. If you move in with him and this girl you WILL start fucking her more frequently, so you better get it out there now so he can get away from you and find an actual roommate.
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in situations such as this, pics are usually required to decide on the morality of the case, dependant on her ass to breast ratio's, this can be either WHOLLY RIGHT or WHOLLY WRONG!
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On May 24 2011 15:46 matthewfoulkes wrote:
in situations such as this, pics are usually required to decide on the morality of the case, dependant on her ass to breast ratio's, this can be either WHOLLY RIGHT or WHOLLY WRONG!
She's 5'2 with double D's but she just not my type i like them tall and skinny shes short and weighs like 130-140
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Here's a prediction:
You and Becca will promise to not say anything but eventually she will be tired of John coming on to her and use the "I fucked your best friend"-card to get out of it. Then you're fucked.
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On May 24 2011 15:59 jcroisdale wrote:Show nested quote +On May 24 2011 15:46 matthewfoulkes wrote:
in situations such as this, pics are usually required to decide on the morality of the case, dependant on her ass to breast ratio's, this can be either WHOLLY RIGHT or WHOLLY WRONG! She's 5'2 with double D's but she just not my type i like them tall and skinny shes short and weighs like 130-140
Holy shit, 5'2 with double d's? My own gf is about that height, but it would ludicrous if she had boobs that big(and not in a good way). @.@ my face just trying to imagine that.
Maybe should have just left her alone, but hindsight 20/20 right. Also, alcohol.
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On May 24 2011 15:28 jcroisdale wrote:Show nested quote +On May 24 2011 15:07 Marou wrote:
So i maybe have something for you :
When i was 15 (i'm 23 now, so it was quite some time ago), i was with this girl that i loved a lot.
We were a bunch of 4-5 friends before we dated, we broke up, and the same or next day one of my very best friend, whom i know he had a big crush on her to, is kissing her (there was no sex involved at those time, so that as pretty big).
I was in this situation where i didn't knew who to blame, either i lose a friend, either i lose the girl, or i lose both.
I didn't blamed my friend, today i don't regret it although i'll never forget this awful move from his part.
We still very good friend, and i think we'll be friend for ever, the girl is just gone, we barely have news from her once a year or so.
Today my friend still a virgin and struggle to even talk to a girl, i meet a lot of amasing girls but i have to say that i never experienced the love i had again. I'm still very young so i think i'll have others love story in the future, there are plenty of lovely girl out there but a rock solid friend from childhood, you can't replace it.
edit - what i think you should do :
Just tell him, and don't forget to mention the girl is a bitch it will be easier for him (+ it's true so).
You might loose both of them, but if John is not to dumb he'll understand that he'll never get the girl so he better pick a trustworthy friend. The only thing that makes telling him hard is that I'm moving in with him and her, But she really wanted to tell him she thinks it wont be a big deal but im pretty sure it will. I told her she could tell him if she still wanted when i move in july 1st. Also this is the second time i've hooked up with a girl and told her to be quiet about it for our own sake and both times they want to or did blab the first time it was the next fucking day at work. Does this happen often? Where girls dont mind talking, its like they want people to know.
Well, if you have problems with the girls "telling on you", you might want to consider keeping your willy in your pants.
That or grow some actual balls and face the consequences.
Edit: I should probably add that I have made similar mistakes in the past, though perhaps (subjectively) not as serious. Though instead of basically bragging about it on the Internet, I immediately told my friend who indeed was hurt, but in the end forgave me. Keep in mind that he hadn't had a crush on this girl for 7 years, but had shown some interest to her the week before.
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Be a man and tell him yourself. Make him understand she's not good material and make him move on. A girl fucking your best friend is not someone he should follow. You know what they say, bros before hoes. You already violated the code but by getting him over a 7 year crush you can still be the bro.
So in short man up. grab your balls and do the right thing.
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On May 24 2011 13:09 jcroisdale wrote:Show nested quote +On May 24 2011 12:55 plated.rawr wrote:
Nice, abuse of trust and betrayal. You'll get what you deserve. Wait what? He likes her, she likes me , I like pussy. She said he never has a chance ever. Not really trust or betrayal. Harsh words.
Ask him what he thinks about it. Ask him how he feels about you moving in with them after you prepped him up for her, then snuck in on the girl he was after full well knowing he was working hard to get her.
I'm sure his choice of words will be more physical, but in no way less harsh.
edit: Holy misspellings, batman.
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