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Ghardo
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
Germany1685 Posts
September 09 2010 14:21 GMT
#1
Has anyone else noticed this?

Since I work out and my body became more muscular it seems that women touch me more often in a casual way. What I mean by that is that the average woman, when telling something to me or pointing something out, now tends to gently touch my arm or shoulder relatively often (as if to underline what she says).

Does this purely show an increased degree of physical attraction? Because it's not only women who are potential partners but relatives, friends, strangers, old, young.

I'm just curious if this is simply "yeah, you got more muscles, women want to touch you more often. ez." or if there's more behind it.

(info: no boast intended)

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Slayer91
Profile Joined February 2006
Ireland23335 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-09-09 14:24:22
September 09 2010 14:23 GMT
#2
Might be because you became more confident as well, nobody is going to want to touch an awkward nerd I guess.
That's speculation, maybe they just like muscles.
er.misrah
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States55 Posts
September 09 2010 14:24 GMT
#3
I noticed the same. I used to be a skinny CC runner, no one touched me. Then when i got to college i got serious about hitting the gym, and two years later- girls like to touch me, and don't mind me touching them. attraction is fun, and so is noticing how shallow everyone is lol
Junkie Zerg
Saechiis
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Netherlands4989 Posts
September 09 2010 14:26 GMT
#4
I'll check your body later, have to touch NaDa's first.
I think esports is pretty nice.
Licmyobelisk
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
Philippines3682 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-09-09 14:31:41
September 09 2010 14:30 GMT
#5
Yeah, same here, my male friends was WTF man your body right now is awesome. so when they're asking for something they have a tendency of patting my ass like who Basketball jocks do and telling me that wow you have rock-solid buttocks my friend.

I can't tell you about females since I'm pretty skinny now unlike when I was 18 I worked out for 6 months.
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SolHeiM
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Sweden1264 Posts
September 09 2010 14:32 GMT
#6
If you change one part of you, generally, the rest will follow.

If someone who has had his face ruined for whatever reason and as a result doesn't dare to leave his house, has his brain transplanted into the body of say, someone who looks like Brad Pitt (or whatever male star women faint over these days) he would eventually change and become a more confident person because people are reacting positively towards him.
Snuggles
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States1865 Posts
September 09 2010 14:34 GMT
#7
On September 09 2010 23:26 Saechiis wrote:
I'll check your body later, have to touch NaDa's first.


LOL

Girls really do notice when you start getting more and more buff, especially girls who you're close with. I don't know if they like it or not, but they definitely do notice, and often they'll notice it before you do for some reason.

I think having nice strong shoulders makes them want to cling on or something, and then if you have nice biceps to boot its a good bonus. Even me as a guy, when I first saw my friend reveal his muscles to me I shat bricks. Like he was a pretty nerdy white, smart, dorky guy. I knew he ran track and CC but I never thought anything of it. Then when he tried to get me into it, he showed me his muscles (this bitch was ripppped, not the little highschool boy ripped, but legitimate gangster riipppped), my jaw dropped and the only words I could utter were "I want my body to do that."

Too bad after a summer of SC2 and lazing around I seem to be putting on more pounds rather than losing them....
RawrAnOcean
Profile Joined February 2006
United States359 Posts
September 09 2010 14:41 GMT
#8
Definitely. I got a somewhat related story.

Was at a party in the fall playing some beer pong. Was wearing a kinda baggy long sleeve shirt because it was cold so I didn't look very ripped (not bragging). A random girl grabbed my arm around the bicep area trying to get my attention to tell me something. As she grabbed it her eyes got bigger and was like whoa didn't expect that and started feeling me up. Fast forwarding, woke up in the morning and was a happy man.

In retrospect to this thread now, I completely agree with you...girls can be superficial but I would definitely be more inclined to touch a in shape girl than a girl who could lose a roll or two.
NonY
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
8751 Posts
September 09 2010 14:45 GMT
#9
my theory is that people are touchy but having a bad body prevents them from being touchy. once you have a good body it lets their natural touchiness come out
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Saechiis
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Netherlands4989 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-09-09 15:51:27
September 09 2010 14:46 GMT
#10
A random girl grabbed my arm around the bicep area trying to get my attention to tell me something. As she grabbed it her eyes got bigger and was like whoa didn't expect that and started feeling me up. Fast forwarding, woke up in the morning and was a happy man.


Sounds like a good dream, yeah. I always get chased down by bears in my dreams ... I should work out more :3
I think esports is pretty nice.
krndandaman
Profile Joined August 2009
Mozambique16569 Posts
September 09 2010 14:46 GMT
#11
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Neos
Profile Joined June 2009
United States400 Posts
September 09 2010 15:01 GMT
#12
I think it has less with muscles and more with posture.

No one wants to touch a hunched-over nerd.
Snuggles
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States1865 Posts
September 09 2010 15:14 GMT
#13
On September 10 2010 00:01 Neos wrote:
I think it has less with muscles and more with posture.

No one wants to touch a hunched-over nerd.


Dude i love touching hunched over nerds, you get the most hilarious reactions.
mOnion
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
United States5657 Posts
September 09 2010 15:16 GMT
#14
On September 09 2010 23:21 Ghardo wrote:
I'm just curious if this is simply "yeah, you got more muscles, women want to touch you more often. ez." or if there's more behind it.


ya i recently put on 20 or so pounds of muscle over the summer and i'm getting the same thing. i act like it bugs me but really i'm like FUCK YEA

but no there's nothing more behind it. women are sluts. they want to touch.
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Ghostcom
Profile Joined March 2010
Denmark4782 Posts
September 09 2010 15:26 GMT
#15
I think you guys are just noticing it more and you have probably gained more confidence so you actually end up in "touchy" situations more often...
Catch]22
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Sweden2683 Posts
September 09 2010 15:32 GMT
#16
I agree with Tyler actually, I think they would like to touch people in general, but being frail and nerdy makes them hold it off.
Slayer91
Profile Joined February 2006
Ireland23335 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-09-09 15:34:06
September 09 2010 15:32 GMT
#17
On September 10 2010 00:16 mOnion wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 09 2010 23:21 Ghardo wrote:
I'm just curious if this is simply "yeah, you got more muscles, women want to touch you more often. ez." or if there's more behind it.


ya i recently put on 20 or so pounds of muscle over the summer and i'm getting the same thing. i act like it bugs me but really i'm like FUCK YEA

but no there's nothing more behind it. women are sluts. they want to touch.


Holy shit monion do you go through every single thread in TL.net and post in it once? How do you only have 3.5k posts?
mOnion
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
United States5657 Posts
September 09 2010 15:37 GMT
#18
On September 10 2010 00:32 Slayer91 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 10 2010 00:16 mOnion wrote:
On September 09 2010 23:21 Ghardo wrote:
I'm just curious if this is simply "yeah, you got more muscles, women want to touch you more often. ez." or if there's more behind it.


ya i recently put on 20 or so pounds of muscle over the summer and i'm getting the same thing. i act like it bugs me but really i'm like FUCK YEA

but no there's nothing more behind it. women are sluts. they want to touch.


Holy shit monion do you go through every single thread in TL.net and post in it once? How do you only have 3.5k posts?


lol wut? I took like a break from posting for a couple months but i've kinda come back now that I have more free time haha
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alffla
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Hong Kong20321 Posts
September 09 2010 15:40 GMT
#19
On September 10 2010 00:32 Slayer91 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 10 2010 00:16 mOnion wrote:
On September 09 2010 23:21 Ghardo wrote:
I'm just curious if this is simply "yeah, you got more muscles, women want to touch you more often. ez." or if there's more behind it.


ya i recently put on 20 or so pounds of muscle over the summer and i'm getting the same thing. i act like it bugs me but really i'm like FUCK YEA

but no there's nothing more behind it. women are sluts. they want to touch.


Holy shit monion do you go through every single thread in TL.net and post in it once? How do you only have 3.5k posts?


sup?

anyway lol hmm haven't gotten ripped before so never noticed D:

but so far i've been doing ok with girls even though i'm not ripped! :D
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Comeh
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States18919 Posts
September 09 2010 15:40 GMT
#20
The bragging in this thread.
It hurts so bad.
"Just saying, women touch me more often now that I'm mad ripped. Not bragging, just saying. You know. Women are attracted to me."
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