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bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 02:37 GMT
#1
Hey guys, I am so mindfucked by this girl that i have to post it on the net and ask:

Alright, this girl is my colleague, for about a month now, and we were at first just talking to each other in a friendly manner.

Then comes this: I get a random text from a random number asking me to go to this party, and it turns out to be her. but alas, i didnt go. My friends who were at this party told me that she was talking about my body and stuff. Not too much right?

Next, we have been talking more, and texting more via IM, or SMS. Sometimes she just touches me gently on the arm, or shoulder. Maybe shes just being friendly, right? Now comes the kicker. One fine day, while we are talking, she just stands up, and sits on my lap. I went wtf! so I didnt do anything more and continued to talk, and we decided to go for a movie thing at her house.

Here comes the twist - it has been a week, and somehow shes been putting off the movie thing. Like, she DOES work late sometimes, but the one day she isnt, she gives some excuse that her friend is visiting her for the weekend (now). Then i say, lets do it on Monday since its 4 of July celebrations, and theres no work? She says ehh.. maybe I have to visit my parents. (she lives 30 minutes from her parents). And she doesnt reschedule a specific date. So now I'm confused at whats going on, and I dont want to seem like I'm pushing her, and I want to seal the deal. So help me TL!

Or maybe shes just been friendly all the time. Hm.

**
neobowman
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada3324 Posts
July 02 2010 02:41 GMT
#2
Teamliquid. Nerds giving advice to other nerds on social issues since 200X.

Speaking with no experience whatsoever, don't think she's into you. Maybe she was a bit flirty but hey, doesn't seem like too much.
Djzapz
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada10681 Posts
July 02 2010 02:41 GMT
#3
Mixed signals are mixed signals!

But seriously. Just give it a shot and you'll know. If you don't intend to, stop caring =)
"My incompetence with power tools had been increasing exponentially over the course of 20 years spent inhaling experimental oven cleaners"
sYz-Adrenaline
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States1850 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 02:46:21
July 02 2010 02:42 GMT
#4
Hah i dealt with the same type of girl for about a couple months. Sending mixed signals like they like you and then dodge to go out with you. And then you're like wtf?

I would say just ask her straight up

"Do you like me" or How ever you want to put it.

edit: asked a friend of mine(girl) "Maybe she's gay. Or just wants attention from him. " lol
Can you feel the rush?
bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 02:43 GMT
#5
Anyway i think shes just flirty. If she really wanted the movie thing she would have set a date by herself. I prolly wouldnt give a fuck. you know?
Masamune
Profile Joined January 2007
Canada3401 Posts
July 02 2010 02:44 GMT
#6
She's playing games. Set this bitch straight and ask her for an opinion on what you think you should wear for your date with some 'hot' girl in the near future. Watch her squeal.
anderoo
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada1876 Posts
July 02 2010 02:46 GMT
#7
maybe she just got tired of dropping hints and having you not do anything
iloahz
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States964 Posts
July 02 2010 02:47 GMT
#8
damn I'd definitely hate this. I just dont get girls.
bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 02:47 GMT
#9
haha i am pretty sure shes not gay, i know her ex-bf.

And... sitting on my lap? Thats a sure way to get someone's attention -.-
bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 02:48 GMT
#10
On July 02 2010 11:46 anderoo wrote:
maybe she just got tired of dropping hints and having you not do anything


hey I asked her straight out. Wanna do *this* on Monday.

and she goes.. Maybe.. Maybe i got work.. Maybe i gotta visit my parents.

And I go: wtf. I cant give a shit anymore.
Djzapz
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada10681 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 02:49:58
July 02 2010 02:49 GMT
#11
If a girl teases, unless she has daddy issues, she wants you to impress her! If you don't do it fast enough you lost your chance D=

-Ghetto psychology
"My incompetence with power tools had been increasing exponentially over the course of 20 years spent inhaling experimental oven cleaners"
Comeh
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States18918 Posts
July 02 2010 02:50 GMT
#12
On July 02 2010 11:44 Masamune wrote:
She's playing games. Set this bitch straight and ask her for an opinion on what you think you should wear for your date with some 'hot' girl in the near future. Watch her squeal.

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bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 02:50 GMT
#13
Well.. I haev always heard that ignoring a girl is the best way to get her ^^
Elegy
Profile Blog Joined September 2009
United States1629 Posts
July 02 2010 02:51 GMT
#14
So in the middle of a conversation, just talking and shooting the breeze, she just gets up and SITS on you LOL?
sYz-Adrenaline
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States1850 Posts
July 02 2010 02:51 GMT
#15
On July 02 2010 11:50 bloopie wrotjavascript:tsldize('reply_area')e:
Well.. I haev always heard that ignoring a girl is the best way to get her ^^



all to familiar to me..

won't get this kind i tried it. heh.. it didn't work out in the end she just got with some other guy, so i guess be more aggressive and ask her straight up would do it
Can you feel the rush?
Mastermind
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Canada7096 Posts
July 02 2010 02:51 GMT
#16
She may genuinely be busy, or she might just be a tease, or maybe you did something that turned her off. Hard to say.
bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 02:52 GMT
#17
On July 02 2010 11:51 Elegy wrote:
So in the middle of a conversation, just talking and shooting the breeze, she just gets up and SITS on you LOL?



Precisely yes.

I have to admit her butt felt good t_t. and she has reaaaalllly nice calves.
Masamune
Profile Joined January 2007
Canada3401 Posts
July 02 2010 02:53 GMT
#18
On July 02 2010 11:50 bloopie wrote:
Well.. I haev always heard that ignoring a girl is the best way to get her ^^

No, the best way to get a girl is to show that other girls are interested in you. Fact.
Chill
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Calgary25979 Posts
July 02 2010 02:53 GMT
#19
I can give you advice that will solve all your problems until the end of time.

'What would a man's man do? Do that.'
Moderator
sYz-Adrenaline
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States1850 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 02:54:39
July 02 2010 02:54 GMT
#20
On July 02 2010 11:53 Chill wrote:
I can give you advice that will solve all your problems until the end of time.

'What would chill do? Do that.'



fixed <3
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