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Hey guys, I am so mindfucked by this girl that i have to post it on the net and ask:
Alright, this girl is my colleague, for about a month now, and we were at first just talking to each other in a friendly manner.
Then comes this: I get a random text from a random number asking me to go to this party, and it turns out to be her. but alas, i didnt go. My friends who were at this party told me that she was talking about my body and stuff. Not too much right?
Next, we have been talking more, and texting more via IM, or SMS. Sometimes she just touches me gently on the arm, or shoulder. Maybe shes just being friendly, right? Now comes the kicker. One fine day, while we are talking, she just stands up, and sits on my lap. I went wtf! so I didnt do anything more and continued to talk, and we decided to go for a movie thing at her house.
Here comes the twist - it has been a week, and somehow shes been putting off the movie thing. Like, she DOES work late sometimes, but the one day she isnt, she gives some excuse that her friend is visiting her for the weekend (now). Then i say, lets do it on Monday since its 4 of July celebrations, and theres no work? She says ehh.. maybe I have to visit my parents. (she lives 30 minutes from her parents). And she doesnt reschedule a specific date. So now I'm confused at whats going on, and I dont want to seem like I'm pushing her, and I want to seal the deal. So help me TL!
Or maybe shes just been friendly all the time. Hm.
 
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Teamliquid. Nerds giving advice to other nerds on social issues since 200X.
Speaking with no experience whatsoever, don't think she's into you. Maybe she was a bit flirty but hey, doesn't seem like too much.
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Mixed signals are mixed signals!
But seriously. Just give it a shot and you'll know. If you don't intend to, stop caring =)
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Hah i dealt with the same type of girl for about a couple months. Sending mixed signals like they like you and then dodge to go out with you. And then you're like wtf?
I would say just ask her straight up
"Do you like me" or How ever you want to put it.
edit: asked a friend of mine(girl) "Maybe she's gay. Or just wants attention from him. "  lol
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Anyway i think shes just flirty. If she really wanted the movie thing she would have set a date by herself. I prolly wouldnt give a fuck. you know?
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She's playing games. Set this bitch straight and ask her for an opinion on what you think you should wear for your date with some 'hot' girl in the near future. Watch her squeal.
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maybe she just got tired of dropping hints and having you not do anything
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damn I'd definitely hate this. I just dont get girls.
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haha i am pretty sure shes not gay, i know her ex-bf.
And... sitting on my lap? Thats a sure way to get someone's attention -.-
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On July 02 2010 11:46 anderoo wrote:
maybe she just got tired of dropping hints and having you not do anything
hey I asked her straight out. Wanna do *this* on Monday.
and she goes.. Maybe.. Maybe i got work.. Maybe i gotta visit my parents.
And I go: wtf. I cant give a shit anymore.
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If a girl teases, unless she has daddy issues, she wants you to impress her! If you don't do it fast enough you lost your chance D=
-Ghetto psychology
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On July 02 2010 11:44 Masamune wrote:
She's playing games. Set this bitch straight and ask her for an opinion on what you think you should wear for your date with some 'hot' girl in the near future. Watch her squeal.
Do this do this do this do this (and post results)
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Well.. I haev always heard that ignoring a girl is the best way to get her ^^
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So in the middle of a conversation, just talking and shooting the breeze, she just gets up and SITS on you LOL?
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On July 02 2010 11:50 bloopie wrotjavascript:tsldize('reply_area')e:
Well.. I haev always heard that ignoring a girl is the best way to get her ^^
all to familiar to me..
won't get this kind i tried it. heh.. it didn't work out in the end she just got with some other guy, so i guess be more aggressive and ask her straight up would do it
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She may genuinely be busy, or she might just be a tease, or maybe you did something that turned her off. Hard to say.
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On July 02 2010 11:51 Elegy wrote:
So in the middle of a conversation, just talking and shooting the breeze, she just gets up and SITS on you LOL?
Precisely yes.
I have to admit her butt felt good t_t. and she has reaaaalllly nice calves.
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On July 02 2010 11:50 bloopie wrote:
Well.. I haev always heard that ignoring a girl is the best way to get her ^^
No, the best way to get a girl is to show that other girls are interested in you. Fact.
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I can give you advice that will solve all your problems until the end of time.
'What would a man's man do? Do that.'
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On July 02 2010 11:53 Chill wrote:
I can give you advice that will solve all your problems until the end of time.
'What would chill do? Do that.'
fixed <3
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EPT
