On July 02 2010 11:51 Mastermind wrote:
She may genuinely be busy, or she might just be a tease, or maybe you did something that turned her off. Hard to say.

Yea that might be true, the turning off part.. but she comes to me everytime she just wanna chill. i dunno. The dreaded F-zone?

sucks.

Whiplash

United States2929 Posts

July 02 2010 02:55 GMT

#22

On July 02 2010 11:52 bloopie wrote:

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Precisely yes.

I have to admit her butt felt good t_t. and she has reaaaalllly nice calves.

thats her ass bro

TossFloss

Canada606 Posts

July 02 2010 02:59 GMT

#23

On July 02 2010 11:53 Chill wrote:
I can give you advice that will solve all your problems until the end of time.

'What would a man's man do? Do that.'

^^ This.

Sfydjklm

United States9218 Posts

July 02 2010 02:59 GMT

#24

just your regular run of the mill super friendly girl.
but yea pretty much friend zoned><

TossFloss

Canada606 Posts

July 02 2010 03:06 GMT

#25

If you really want her, try this:

Your going to ignore her for 2-3 weeks. Completely shut her out, ignore phone calls, emails, don't talk to her. Go to the gym and work on your biceps, shoulders and pecks. Finally, go in wearing a wife-beater (right after your work out routine, of course) and be like "haven't talked in a while, wanna go out?"

Edit: Make sure you go somewhere with alcohol. Order hard liquor. Martini's are good.

Sfydjklm

United States9218 Posts

July 02 2010 03:14 GMT

#26

in fact i wouldnt be suprised if she is gonna try to avoid talking to you from now on.
because from her point of view she was so friendly to you and all you want is to get in her pants! jerk!
but ofc your situation might be different, just sounds very much like my experience with this type.

HeadhunteR

Argentina1258 Posts

July 02 2010 03:15 GMT

#27

you blundered when you didnt go out to the party she is trying to get back to you on that.. just show her some distance just ignore her or tell her about some other girl your planning to see.. if she reacts to going back to where she was to teasing mode then you attack.... if not you already lost your chance.. its just your tipical "i want you to be confused so you think about me" type of chick it gets old pretty fast some are easy to figure out others just do stupid stuff cause they dont know how to attract your attention.. ive kind of been having a similar situation with a chick but I know she wants it so hard so its just a matter of time so i can schedule something with her..

OpRaider

United States307 Posts

July 02 2010 03:16 GMT

#28

Maybe she doesn't like movies? try something else...

RumZ

United States956 Posts

July 02 2010 03:18 GMT

#29

Fuck the movie, ask her out to dinner and see what she says.

The real question you have to ask yourself:

"What's the worst that can happen?"

Lucumo

6850 Posts

July 02 2010 03:18 GMT

#30

On July 02 2010 11:42 sYz-Adrenaline wrote:
Hah i dealt with the same type of girl for about a couple months. Sending mixed signals like they like you and then dodge to go out with you. And then you're like wtf?

I would say just ask her straight up

"Do you like me" or How ever you want to put it.

edit: asked a friend of mine(girl) "Maybe she's gay. Or just wants attention from him. "

lol

I, too, think that's the way to do it. Sending signals or doing some complicated stuff is just annoying and takes time. Go straight to her and ask that, that's simple and effective. What more do you want?

s h 1 k 4 i

United States21 Posts

July 02 2010 03:19 GMT

#31

If you like her and think she's worth it, then ask her out. It's not too late until she starts seeing someone else, and she did in fact show interest before...

ZidaneTribal

United States2800 Posts

July 02 2010 03:19 GMT

#32

you're better off asking girls (who do not visit this site)

gdroxor

United States639 Posts

July 02 2010 03:23 GMT

#33

She's been screaming body language at you for a month now. My bet is that she got fed up with no reciprocation and moved on.

bloopie

United States123 Posts

July 02 2010 03:25 GMT

#34

On July 02 2010 12:18 Joey.rumz wrote:
Fuck the movie, ask her out to dinner and see what she says.

The real question you have to ask yourself:

"What's the worst that can happen?"

The worst is that she is my colleague, (although i am just interning for 2 more months, but we are still the same school). No harm, perhaps.

bloopie

United States123 Posts

July 02 2010 03:27 GMT

#35

On July 02 2010 12:23 gdroxor wrote:
She's been screaming body language at you for a month now. My bet is that she got fed up with no reciprocation and moved on.

Really? meh. the latest spike in clarity just came like at the start of this week. =(

Comeh

United States18919 Posts

July 02 2010 03:28 GMT

#36

On July 02 2010 11:54 bloopie wrote:

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Yea that might be true, the turning off part.. but she comes to me everytime she just wanna chill. i dunno. The dreaded F-zone?

sucks.

Friends of the oppo, er, any sex don't sit on your lap. It doesn't happen. The only possible explanation other than her being attracted to you is that she's just a flirt. *shrug*

Hikari

1914 Posts

July 02 2010 03:31 GMT

#37

This reminds me of densha otaku

Smuft

Canada318 Posts

July 02 2010 03:32 GMT

#38

Any girl who regularly touches you, gossips about you, and makes an effort to call you during her free time obviously likes you. And any girl who shows obvious interest and then backs off like that is 1 of 2 things:

1) new guy in her life (90% of the time)
2) likes to suck guys in until they want her then ignores them

In either case find yourself a new target, there shall be nothing but disappointment in your future with this one.

HeadhunteR

Argentina1258 Posts

July 02 2010 03:33 GMT

#39

smuft here pretty much summed it up

Versita

Canada1032 Posts

July 02 2010 03:37 GMT

#40

On July 02 2010 11:44 Masamune wrote:
She's playing games. Set this bitch straight and ask her for an opinion on what you think you should wear for your date with some 'hot' girl in the near future. Watch her squeal.

this