EPTMany fish bro, many fish. (If you want closure, then straight up confront her about the situation)
Decipher this girl's signals? - Page 3
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Rinrun
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Many fish bro, many fish. (If you want closure, then straight up confront her about the situation) | ||
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minus_human
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 Oops, need to read the thread first but I'll still leave what I said | ||
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Malgrif
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Hidden_MotiveS
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Humga
Australia43 Posts
it's because you took so long to react is the reason she's mind fucking you. IMO, just go up to her, grab her and make out. | ||
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Aukai
United States1183 Posts
if you respond to her pursuit, she will back off. | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
On July 02 2010 12:55 Humga wrote: bro she wants you BADDDD. it's because you took so long to react is the reason she's mind fucking you. IMO, just go up to her, grab her and make out. thats not helping dude. Maybe i threw teh chance away but now I have got like no way to make up (or out) for it haha. | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
Apparently there are two big camps here: 1. The girl is a mindfucker, and i should avoid her. 2. I should just straight up ask her/grab her. Weeelll... i dunno. kinda a big dichotomy eh? | ||
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cz
United States3249 Posts
If she does restart it, make firm plans and if she tries to play her game again just say "I don't have time for this, look me up when you decide what you want." then hang up or walk away. | ||
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Jugan
United States1566 Posts
On July 02 2010 11:47 bloopie wrote: haha i am pretty sure shes not gay, i know her ex-bf. From experience, GTFO ASAP. But, if you really dig her, then ask her straight up. Don't let her continue her little games anymore. | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
On July 02 2010 13:03 Jugan wrote: From experience, GTFO ASAP. But, if you really dig her, then ask her straight up. Don't let her continue her little games anymore. I meant i know who he is, but i dont know him well personally. Yea. | ||
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cz
United States3249 Posts
On July 02 2010 13:01 bloopie wrote: Thanks for the PM! Apparently there are two big camps here: 1. The girl is a mindfucker, and i should avoid her. 2. I should just straight up ask her/grab her. Weeelll... i dunno. kinda a big dichotomy eh? She just rejected you. Don't reward her with any attention at all. And yes, she rejected you: if someone says "I'd love to but I'm busy" and doesn't try to make plans for another date is saying "I'm not interested." | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
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cz
United States3249 Posts
On July 02 2010 13:07 bloopie wrote: and oh btw, when you guys say "ask her".. what should i ask? lol, i know its a kinda noob question, but theres quite a lot of things to ask, some more blunt than others. You did ask her. She rejected you. Don't go begging back. | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
On July 02 2010 13:05 cz wrote: She just rejected you. Don't reward her with any attention at all. And yes, she rejected you: if someone says "I'd love to but I'm busy" and doesn't try to make plans for another date is saying "I'm not interested." True, true. Still, its just a bitch cos she was teh first one who suggested it, and didnt follow through with it. meh. Shes probably a playa. | ||
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cz
United States3249 Posts
On July 02 2010 13:09 bloopie wrote: True, true. Still, its just a bitch cos she was teh first one who suggested it, and didnt follow through with it. meh. Shes probably a playa. You don't know is going through her mind. But doing anything but ignoring and forgetting her is a big, big mistake, for two reasons: 1) It's an insult to your dignity to chase a girl who just rejected you 2) Women quickly lose attraction to men who do #1 | ||
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cz
United States3249 Posts
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
On July 02 2010 13:10 cz wrote: You don't know is going through her mind. But doing anything but ignoring and forgetting her is a big, big mistake, for two reasons: 1) It's an insult to your dignity to chase a girl who just rejected you 2) Women quickly lose attraction to men who do #1 I agree totally. However, we are working in the same office, and everytime, everyday, near the end of the day, when shes trying to chill or find someone to talk to, she inadvertantly finds me. Perhaps shes trying to make me think of her, or some game shit. | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
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cz
United States3249 Posts
On July 02 2010 13:13 bloopie wrote: oh nono. Theres just two big camps: Ignore her, or go all out. =/ You already went all out. You asked her out. You work with her, too: what are you going to do, run up and kiss her? Your gambling your career on that as that's 110% sexual assault if she doesn't like it. | ||
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