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Pwnymcnoob
Profile Joined May 2010
3 Posts
July 02 2010 04:17 GMT
#61
Okay simple NO girl unless she is a tool shed sits on a guys lap she has ZERO interest in. 95 % sure she has interest. Now if she gives you the signal again for well ya know more then just friend shit say. " Hey this is the deep and of the pool dont come putting that on my lap". cuts threw the bs.!
anderoo
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada1876 Posts
July 02 2010 04:19 GMT
#62
i have the perfect solution

Step1 : Just ignore her
Step 2: Don't make the same mistake again

you really should have just done something when she was sitting on your lap, i mean unless you have some sort of emotional attachment to her then who gives a fuck if she rejects you
Raydog
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States632 Posts
July 02 2010 04:20 GMT
#63
Need to put this stuff into exact time slots dude. Was this spread out all over 2 weeks? 1? Some girls give hints, and during that time frame you have to decipher the hints and make a move.. if you don't then they'll move on and find something else.

when she invited you to the party, obviously should have gone. When she sits on your lap... please tell me you hooked up with her. That has to be the biggest indicator of interest I've ever seen, shy of being an exotic dancer.
Shew
sechkie
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United States334 Posts
July 02 2010 04:21 GMT
#64
One question I have is there alcohol involved, cuz plenty of girls will do whatever when they get buzzed//drunk.
Honestly though I say just send her some signals, ask her to go to a party and see hhow she acts, you'll find what type of person she is
fabiano
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Brazil4644 Posts
July 02 2010 04:28 GMT
#65
Maybe she thought you were her gay friend.

+ Show Spoiler +

Joke :D
"When the geyser died, a probe came out" - SirJolt
Baloop
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States127 Posts
July 02 2010 04:31 GMT
#66
Best thing to do is just be upfront, but play it cool like you dont care. Let her know your interested but dont try and talk to her all the time and be clingy.
Millions of Peaches, Peaches for me
Romantic
Profile Joined January 2010
United States1844 Posts
July 02 2010 04:39 GMT
#67
On July 02 2010 13:31 Baloop wrote:
Best thing to do is just be upfront, but play it cool like you dont care. Let her know your interested but dont try and talk to her all the time and be clingy.

Something like this. At that point I'd be frustrated and tell her to find a date for the movie and I'll get the food
bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 04:40 GMT
#68
uh no. we were PERFECTLY sober when she sat on my lap.

fuck i know i know... i should have did something then.

in no cases was there alcohol involved.

SpartiK1S
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States145 Posts
July 02 2010 04:41 GMT
#69
she wants your nuts, but also wants you to work. Just break down every social barrier there is, go straight for the kill. And listen to that Chill guy. doing what a man's man would do is what she wants to see, rather than some nerdy gamer(no offense, we all are)
"Why is it so cold and lonely?"-Nal_Ra
Motiva
Profile Joined November 2007
United States1774 Posts
July 02 2010 04:43 GMT
#70
It was a test and you failed it sounds. I'd say lay low for a week or so and then throw an ultimatum. rofl.
sechkie
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United States334 Posts
July 02 2010 04:48 GMT
#71
ahh well I would say that if you like her, then ask her to go hang out just do something fun! don't do nothing if you're gonna regret it.
anderoo
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada1876 Posts
July 02 2010 04:52 GMT
#72
On July 02 2010 13:40 bloopie wrote:
uh no. we were PERFECTLY sober when she sat on my lap.

fuck i know i know... i should have did something then.

in no cases was there alcohol involved.



if you look at it from her point of view it was something like this:

she was attracted to you, and gave you 2 opportunities 1, the party and 2, sitting on you

now she probs thinks you're dense (i am hoping this is not the case and you are just a bit shy and/or inexperienced) and has given up. rather than going back to her and basically saying "i've finally figured out what to do" and looking like a socially-inept bastard, just move on to the next girl and dont repeat your mistakes, essentially telling the new girl that you are NOT a socially inept bastard and making her want to date/fuck/go to knitting class/whatever with you
c.Deadly
Profile Joined March 2010
United States545 Posts
July 02 2010 05:10 GMT
#73
On July 02 2010 11:44 Masamune wrote:
She's playing games. Set this bitch straight and ask her for an opinion on what you think you should wear for your date with some 'hot' girl in the near future. Watch her squeal.


Lol, this is actually good advice. It sounds to me like you were just too easy, it only took her a little bit of flirting and sitting on your lap once to get you desperately trying to schedule a date. You've got to flirt back and create some tension before moving in.
anderoo
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Canada1876 Posts
July 02 2010 05:15 GMT
#74
On July 02 2010 14:10 c.Deadly wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 02 2010 11:44 Masamune wrote:
She's playing games. Set this bitch straight and ask her for an opinion on what you think you should wear for your date with some 'hot' girl in the near future. Watch her squeal.


Lol, this is actually good advice. It sounds to me like you were just too easy, it only took her a little bit of flirting and sitting on your lap once to get you desperately trying to schedule a date. You've got to flirt back and create some tension before moving in.


if you do it while sitting in HER lap that'll be big bonus points as well
d_so
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
Korea (South)3262 Posts
July 02 2010 05:30 GMT
#75
maybe she thought you were cute until she got a whiff of your BO. who knows
manner
bloopie
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States123 Posts
July 02 2010 05:41 GMT
#76
Well i guess the best course of action now is to lay back, and flirt a little more. Cos she still comes up to me and sits right next to me to chat. Prolly have to ramp up the sex factor a little. ^^

Lessons learnt: When a girl sits on your lap == gg, all in
Spiffeh
Profile Joined May 2010
United States830 Posts
July 02 2010 05:45 GMT
#77
You'll have better luck mastering starcraft than trying to decipher women
wishbones
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
Canada2600 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 06:03:47
July 02 2010 06:00 GMT
#78
i could be wrong but i think she wants your dick and your being too shy, but clearly she wants you enough to keep pressing, eg: sitting on your lap is a hint. And if your worried about her saying some shit like i didnt mean anything by it, then call her a cock tease and flirt with her friends (lol). thats just my opinion, i say give her what she wants before she says you are lame. make us proud here @ TL. <3
joined TL.net in 2006 (aka GMer) - http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=41944#2
Zalfor
Profile Blog Joined October 2005
United States1035 Posts
July 02 2010 06:39 GMT
#79
just go for it.
555, kthxbai
shinosai
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States1577 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-02 06:42:30
July 02 2010 06:41 GMT
#80
What's going on here is pretty textbook. You flaked on her on the party, she's getting back at you by flaking on your dates. I know it sounds retarded, but girls do that sort of thing all the time. Best thing to do is next time you talk to her, make her do something with you RIGHT NOW. Do your best to convince her. If it's a no go, come back in a few months when she forgets about your failures.

The problem with setting up dates in the future is she can always flake out on you, and she probably will since she's exhibited this behavior.
Be versatile, know when to retreat, and carry a big gun.
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