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On July 02 2010 11:37 bloopie wrote:
My friends who were at this party told me that she was talking about my body and stuff.
Sometimes she just touches me gently on the arm, or shoulder. Maybe shes just being friendly, right? One fine day, while we are talking, she just stands up, and sits on my lap.
we decided to go for a movie thing at her house.
Sounds like she's intersted in a hookup. I don't know if she's interested in a relationship since she probably would have jumped at that chance in the last week.
My personal favorite - maybe it's "girl time" and she's dodging until it ends...
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Be sure to update this blog, even if it ends poorly.
could be a learning experience for someone.
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well .. today was nothing special. I just did the casual friendly thing, and she knocked off from work early. We were just having a normal conversation she makes a small mistake, and goes "awwww" and gives me a lonng hug. nothing else of special mention. shrug.
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On July 03 2010 01:46 Servius_Fulvius wrote:Show nested quote +On July 02 2010 11:37 bloopie wrote:
My friends who were at this party told me that she was talking about my body and stuff.
Sometimes she just touches me gently on the arm, or shoulder. Maybe shes just being friendly, right? One fine day, while we are talking, she just stands up, and sits on my lap.
we decided to go for a movie thing at her house.
Sounds like she's intersted in a hookup. I don't know if she's interested in a relationship since she probably would have jumped at that chance in the last week. My personal favorite - maybe it's "girl time" and she's dodging until it ends...
I have never heard of any guy suffering from this. Really?
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@ op: text her "hey if you dont wanna make time for me its cool ill catch ya later :D"
and dont ever worry about flaking early on
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Her friend probably did turn up and she probably really is going to meet her family on 4th of July since it's national holiday etc. I'm sure she'll be up for meeting up some time after that.
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On July 03 2010 07:16 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
@ op: text her "hey if you dont wanna make time for me its cool ill catch ya later :D"
and dont ever worry about flaking early on
A text like that comes off as rather insulting.
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On July 03 2010 09:13 jello_biafra wrote:
Her friend probably did turn up and she probably really is going to meet her family on 4th of July since it's national holiday etc. I'm sure she'll be up for meeting up some time after that.
Well her friend did turn up at our office today and she was just showing him around the place. Yea.
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On July 03 2010 07:16 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
@ op: text her "hey if you dont wanna make time for me its cool ill catch ya later :D"
and dont ever worry about flaking early on
Too reactive.
Any guy who has options (aka texting multiple girls to go out) wouldn't say this. He would just say "cool maybe next time" or nothing at all.
Abundance bro. Live it.
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On July 03 2010 09:22 shinosai wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2010 07:16 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
@ op: text her "hey if you dont wanna make time for me its cool ill catch ya later :D"
and dont ever worry about flaking early on A text like that comes off as rather insulting.
and extremely needy
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tl should write a book called "a nerd's guide to girls"
bestseller incoming.
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On July 03 2010 14:39 pikaaarrr :3 wrote:
tl should write a book called "a nerd's guide to girls"
bestseller incoming.
maybe it could be stickied, but then we'd lose like half of the blog section and that just would not do
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On July 03 2010 09:48 Spiffeh wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2010 07:16 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
@ op: text her "hey if you dont wanna make time for me its cool ill catch ya later :D"
and dont ever worry about flaking early on Too reactive. Any guy who has options (aka texting multiple girls to go out) wouldn't say this. He would just say "cool maybe next time" or nothing at all. Abundance bro. Live it.
yeah take this advice. what i said really worked for me but when i think back on it those girls were total nutcases
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actually i have mixed feelings, you gotta give a shit at some point even if its only for 1 text. in my experience if its like 3rd or 4th flake making them feel guilty by saying "look i see how you feel about me but its ok i really dont care we can still be friends :D" is the prudent thing to do insulting or not. as long as you have a good time and move forward when you actually do somethin with em
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As for me, I am just gonna chill until Tuesday, and see what happens from there.
At any rate, she doesnt seem to mind physical contact, so we shall see =D
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I think we need to see a picture of her first.
But really though, ignore her for a little bit and if she's interested, she'll contact you. AND THEN DO THE NAKED MAN
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I've found the answer to every guy's problem with girls... Ask yourself what would Reach do? Anyways, jokes aside, instead of asking her directly, why don't you ask her out on a date? Instead of the one who gets flirted at, flirt instead, if course, if she looks uncomfortable, stop timing is everthing
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doesn't sound like she's that interested. she's a bitch for the mixed signals though.
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