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AppleTart
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Hizzo
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On October 04 2010 03:12 Hawk wrote: yeah unless the gf's friends specifically say 'yes, weve seen him hit her' i wouldnt put a whole lot of stock into a girl who was so blackout drunk that she couldnt walk and was making a scene and the girl that you were so concerned about getting picked up for public drinking walked into a store. of course he went in there to go drag her ass out. that doesnt mean hes gonna actually hit her. thats totally different that raising a hand to her. unless you actually see it happen, or see her with a blackeye and she confirms it, youre making a huge deal out of a fight between two drunk people where the only physical thing was the drunk girl pushing the guy and refusing to leave a store, risking arrest. welcome to college. this will happen many more times, with entirely different people. do you know the implications if he were to get in trouble for that?? you dont mention him raising his hand or anything. all he did was say something and walk in after her. watch him carefully if youre that concerned but just make sure that hes actually hits her or really intended to before you go making a huge deal out it. I think you've grossly misunderstood what happened. 1) She wasn't making a scene. If we had it our way she should have sobered up at the party but the boyfriend INSISTED on getting her back to her place instead of letting that happen. 2) She didn't walk into the store because she wanted to. It was his idea. From what I could hear between the sobs she just wanted to get back to her place. He went in there after her because she shoved away from him and went in (that's what he wanted). He went off. Also, as soon as I got him out she stumbled out the other side. I don't think she was in any way trying to stay in the store or wanted to go in there in the first place. 3) I'm not making a huge deal out of anything. I got a girl home safely, and I talked to my friend the next day (yesterday). They're both embarrassed and said they're making changes. Sure this seems like a big deal in this thread because IT IS A BIG DEAL TO ME - that doesn't mean I MADE it a big deal to them. I've had as little interaction with them over this as possible. 4) About him raising a hand, if he would have gotten close enough I don't know what would have happened. Would you have wanted to find out what an irate person would have done? 5) Welcome to college? I'm a junior, but thanks buddy. On October 04 2010 03:18 AppleTart wrote: I would just let things move along, but be sure to keep an eye on both of them, not just her. Since you are good friends with the guy and probably see the girl a lot, you can step in when things get really bad. You care about your friends a lot and sometimes no matter who they are or how long you've known them, you got to do the right thing and after reading your blog, I believe you will. Thanks dude, good words. | ||
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QuanticHawk
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