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On December 29 2012 09:43 Empirimancer wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 09:41 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On December 29 2012 09:22 The_Darkness wrote: Wow, he looks so much better. It was totally worth it IMO. What a terrible thing to say :/ I never thought for second he looked "bad" but now that people can see the before/after, they're all, "Wow! He looks so much better!" implying that he was unattractive before, thus validating the train of thought that cosmetic facial surgery is totally worth with this type of backhanded compliment. But... it is worth it. Yep. It makes him look better, it makes him feel better and when he feel confident others will notice it from his charisma. It makes him fit in better in Korea too.
It's just like how the fat or skinny guy in the west gets more respect when he turns into your avarage muscle pack to fit the norm.
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On December 29 2012 09:41 MountainDewJunkie wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 09:22 The_Darkness wrote: Wow, he looks so much better. It was totally worth it IMO. What a terrible thing to say :/ I never thought for second he looked "bad" but now that people can see the before/after, they're all, "Wow! He looks so much better!" implying that he was unattractive before, thus validating the train of thought that cosmetic facial surgery is totally worth with this type of backhanded compliment.
Are you saying that attractiveness and degrees of beauty don't exist? He DOES look better, to many people. That doesn't imply that he looked ugly, it just implies that he looked worse. He could have been a 9/10 before and be 10/10 now, for example.
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On December 29 2012 09:37 Tobberoth wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 09:19 lolmlg wrote:On December 29 2012 09:12 stonetalon wrote:Guys. Korean culture is veeeery different than European or American culture when it comes to plastic surgery. This graph from 2010 shows that South Kroea is #1 in the most surgeries performed it still is in 2012 (cant find graph for 2012) + Show Spoiler + The prevalence and relative affordability of plastic surgery in South Korea is a big social problem because it enables people to pressure others into getting it. Aunts who think their niece isn't pretty enough will harrass her until she does it, etc. It happens a lot. I hope Supernova is happy with his appearance now but I also hope that the source of his unhappiness wasn't another person. This is very true, and the only really valid concern against the prevalence of plastic surgery IMO. I think it's fine if people want to do it, but if someone changes their face just because other people tell them to when they don't feel comfortable doing it, it's not fine anymore. That said, the same problem is common everywhere on a different scale... wear odd clothes? Bullied. Ugly hair? Bullied. We are a social animal and will adapt to the social norm, somehow.
The problem then isn't plastic surgery, its doing things because of social pressure.
You don't blame clothes because some people feel pressured to wear them. Tattoos are cosmetic and some subcultures pressure adherents to get them, doesn't mean tattoos are a 'social problem'.
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On December 29 2012 10:01 zefreak wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 09:41 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On December 29 2012 09:22 The_Darkness wrote: Wow, he looks so much better. It was totally worth it IMO. What a terrible thing to say :/ I never thought for second he looked "bad" but now that people can see the before/after, they're all, "Wow! He looks so much better!" implying that he was unattractive before, thus validating the train of thought that cosmetic facial surgery is totally worth with this type of backhanded compliment. Are you saying that attractiveness and degrees of beauty don't exist? He DOES look better, to many people. That doesn't imply that he looked ugly, it just implies that he looked worse. He could have been a 9/10 before and be 10/10 now, for example. Going from 9 to a 10 means he looks a "little better." But looking "SO MUCH better"?... It's obvious what they're saying.
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On December 29 2012 06:16 Brutaxilos wrote: For all those people claiming that Asians value a "western" look, I strongly disagree. Asians have always favored light skin and large eyes. As for hair dye, we don't dye our hair to "look" white, it's just really as a social class thing. Fashion always changes and those who can afford to flow with it are seen as beautiful.
Why would you try to deny that a lot of Korean culture is trying to mimic the west? Let me give you a few examples:
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- The setting for this MV is so American inspired. Cheerleaders and American Football.
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- Hummer, Basketball shirts and Snapback caps.
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- It would not have surprised me to see John Travolta make a cameo appearance in this video.
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- Harley Davidson and leather jackets.
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- The setting in this MV is obviously heavily inspired by western architecture
I am not trying to judge anyone here, but it is very obvious that a lot of Korean K-pop idols is very influenced by Western culture, and American culture in particular.
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On December 29 2012 10:04 MountainDewJunkie wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 10:01 zefreak wrote:On December 29 2012 09:41 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On December 29 2012 09:22 The_Darkness wrote: Wow, he looks so much better. It was totally worth it IMO. What a terrible thing to say :/ I never thought for second he looked "bad" but now that people can see the before/after, they're all, "Wow! He looks so much better!" implying that he was unattractive before, thus validating the train of thought that cosmetic facial surgery is totally worth with this type of backhanded compliment. Are you saying that attractiveness and degrees of beauty don't exist? He DOES look better, to many people. That doesn't imply that he looked ugly, it just implies that he looked worse. He could have been a 9/10 before and be 10/10 now, for example. Going from 9 to a 10 means he looks a "little better." But looking "SO MUCH better"?... It's obvious what they're saying.
People are trying to compliment him, I doubt many are using it as a backhanded compliment.
"Wow he looks great" may be a better way to express it, but few people put that much thought into their compliments.
And for the record, I think he DOES look much better. I'd say he went from below average to above average. Whats wrong with that?
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On December 29 2012 10:04 MountainDewJunkie wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 10:01 zefreak wrote:On December 29 2012 09:41 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On December 29 2012 09:22 The_Darkness wrote: Wow, he looks so much better. It was totally worth it IMO. What a terrible thing to say :/ I never thought for second he looked "bad" but now that people can see the before/after, they're all, "Wow! He looks so much better!" implying that he was unattractive before, thus validating the train of thought that cosmetic facial surgery is totally worth with this type of backhanded compliment. Are you saying that attractiveness and degrees of beauty don't exist? He DOES look better, to many people. That doesn't imply that he looked ugly, it just implies that he looked worse. He could have been a 9/10 before and be 10/10 now, for example. Going from 9 to a 10 means he looks a "little better." But looking "SO MUCH better"?... It's obvious what they're saying.
He was unattractive aesthetically before, objectively. I'm a guy and I can see it from a girl's point of view. Better to say he looks much better than saying it even more frankly than that.
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I do not feal really well about plastic surgery. I can hardly imagine having one myself.
The positive spect that I see however is that you are no longer lucky/unlucky with the genes in regards of appearance. It puts people on equal footing in this regard.
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why?!!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!!?!?!?!!?!?!??!?!?!
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I thought he looked cooler before. No need for a change
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On December 29 2012 09:19 lolmlg wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 09:12 stonetalon wrote:Guys. Korean culture is veeeery different than European or American culture when it comes to plastic surgery. This graph from 2010 shows that South Kroea is #1 in the most surgeries performed it still is in 2012 (cant find graph for 2012) + Show Spoiler + The prevalence and relative affordability of plastic surgery in South Korea is a big social problem because it enables people to pressure others into getting it. Aunts who think their niece isn't pretty enough will harrass her until she does it, etc. It happens a lot. I hope Supernova is happy with his appearance now but I also hope that the source of his unhappiness wasn't another person. You're right. Korean culture is probably one of the most rigid and socially brutal in the world, and from what people tell me, it's only getting worse. Screw caring an inconceivable amount about appearance, though. Individualism itself is highly frowned upon, and conformity is the name of the game. If you don't conform to and meet up to certain social and other standards, you aren't simply kind of looked down upon, you are almost mercilessly ostracized.
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If he is happy, good for him, i would not be at his place! The manly man, badass looking Supernova is now a bit too girlish!
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On December 29 2012 10:16 JudicatorHammurabi wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 09:19 lolmlg wrote:On December 29 2012 09:12 stonetalon wrote:Guys. Korean culture is veeeery different than European or American culture when it comes to plastic surgery. This graph from 2010 shows that South Kroea is #1 in the most surgeries performed it still is in 2012 (cant find graph for 2012) + Show Spoiler + The prevalence and relative affordability of plastic surgery in South Korea is a big social problem because it enables people to pressure others into getting it. Aunts who think their niece isn't pretty enough will harrass her until she does it, etc. It happens a lot. I hope Supernova is happy with his appearance now but I also hope that the source of his unhappiness wasn't another person. You're right. Korean culture is probably one of the most rigid and socially brutal in the world, and from what people tell me, it's only getting worse. Screw caring an inconceivable amount about appearance, though. Individualism itself is highly frowned upon, and conformity is the name of the game. If you don't conform to and meet up to certain social and other standards, you aren't simply kind of looked down upon, you are almost mercilessly ostracized.
Unsurprising when you remember that Korea has historically been a strict Confucius society and has been under the boot of foreign powers and military dictators until the 80s. They also went from one of the worlds poorest nations to one of the most technologically advanced economies in the world in an extremely short amount of time.
It's good to recognize Korean societies strengths and weaknesses, because there is a lot to love but a lot that requires change. It's not good to remain ignorant of the unique situation the country is in and judge its culture and people as 'shallow'. Their society has progressed more in the last 20 years than most Western societies.
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He's thinking of being a KPOP idol once his programmer career is over isn't he...?
Man Koreans and their plastic...
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On December 29 2012 10:28 geokilla wrote: He's thinking of being a KPOP idol once his programmer career is over isn't he...?
Man Koreans and their plastic...
How is it possible for people to peruse a progaming news site and still manage to misspell the word progamer? How is this even possible?
Would be really cool if SuNo had dem coding skillz though hehe. ^.^
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Sick. They need to stop caring about looks so much though.
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On December 29 2012 10:16 JudicatorHammurabi wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 09:19 lolmlg wrote:On December 29 2012 09:12 stonetalon wrote:Guys. Korean culture is veeeery different than European or American culture when it comes to plastic surgery. This graph from 2010 shows that South Kroea is #1 in the most surgeries performed it still is in 2012 (cant find graph for 2012) + Show Spoiler + The prevalence and relative affordability of plastic surgery in South Korea is a big social problem because it enables people to pressure others into getting it. Aunts who think their niece isn't pretty enough will harrass her until she does it, etc. It happens a lot. I hope Supernova is happy with his appearance now but I also hope that the source of his unhappiness wasn't another person. You're right. Korean culture is probably one of the most rigid and socially brutal in the world, and from what people tell me, it's only getting worse. Screw caring an inconceivable amount about appearance, though. Individualism itself is highly frowned upon, and conformity is the name of the game. If you don't conform to and meet up to certain social and other standards, you aren't simply kind of looked down upon, you are almost mercilessly ostracized. Yeah, case in point, the plastic surgery. Supernova went from a below average, pretty damn unique-looking Korean guy to an above average, very generic-looking Korean guy. As you say, uniqueness simply isn't valued much there unless you're unique by, well, outperforming everyone else in the generic category (if that makes sense). This can pretty much be extrapolated to much of East Asia too; more collectivist and less individualistic tendencies.
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On December 29 2012 07:25 Tobberoth wrote:Show nested quote +On December 29 2012 07:01 Brutaxilos wrote:On December 29 2012 06:43 Tobberoth wrote:On December 29 2012 06:32 NoGasfOu wrote:On December 29 2012 06:16 Brutaxilos wrote: For all those people claiming that Asians value a "western" look, I strongly disagree. Asians have always favored light skin and large eyes. As for hair dye, we don't dye our hair to "look" white, it's just really as a social class thing. Fashion always changes and those who can afford to flow with it are seen as beautiful. Completely agree. I'm Asian and have large eyes without surgery. The last thing I want is to have Western eyes that look like 2 deep holes. I also don't like to have large nose and be hairy either. Well, you live in the US, you have a different perspective. Trust me, most Koreans I've talked to definitely want the bigger nose as well and most have specifically said it's the western look they go for. This is also said all the time in documentaries on the issue. It might sound arrogant when westerners claim this, but this is what they want themselves. They don't want to look exactly like westerners, they just find some distinct western features attractive. Who knows why, but it's possible the same features would be sought after regardless of "western influence". Okay, well, as an Asian with natural big eyes, I grew up with people telling me that I had beautiful eyes. This is from people of all ages and generations. I SERIOUSLY doubt that my grandparents, who care little about the west have had any influence whatsoever about western standards for looks. Also consider the fact that when I dyed my hair, my white friends spent a few months criticizing me for being too Asian. It's not about trying to look white, it's about trying to look like Asian stars and fit with the fashion trends. If you asked any Asian in Asia, I'm pretty sure over 80% would not want to be or look Caucasian. Asian Americans maybe not so much because a lot are whitewashed. Anyways, it is a bit arrogant, at least from my perspective that you people would think we are trying to look white. Just because whites posses some of the more favorable traits in Asian beauty (although not necessarily perceived the same way in terms of beauty), it isn't the look we are after. I'm sure that some whites have dyed their hair black before. You can't assume that they are trying to look Asian. (and just saying, not all Asians have small eyes, we have "good" traits in our genepool as well) The thing is, there's nothing naturally "good" about big eyes and pale skin. It could just as well be that westerners would want to look more yellowish and have smaller eyes, and it's generally acknowledged that the reason those traits are favorable are because of western influence historically. It's easy to say "I made my hair blonde because I want to look like GDragon, I don't give a crap about the west", but that doesn't change where his fashion was influenced. It's obviously always up to the individual, but I find it weird any asians would take offence or deny the western influence when the most koreans who subject themselves to it don't deny it. Again, they don't want to look caucasian, but they look at western famous people and find their traits attractive. It's like when my asian friends from Japan and Korea come here and say the people here are so beautiful... well, they aren't, they are just westerners and happen to very commonly have those traits. I go around here and don't find the women all that attractive and instead react the same way in asia. It's exotic and different, I wouldn't marry a Korean if I found westerners more attractive, so this is not MY opinion at all, I'm just saying that if cosmetic surgeons in Korea in a documentary specifically state that most koreans they do work on ask for a "western style" or "western traits", there's probably a lot of truth in it. EDIT: As for the comment on pale skin being beautiful because of it indicates wealth, there's a lot of truth in that as well, though I don't think it's fair to say it's like that in Korea because they were poor 50 years ago, because it's the exact same in Japan, women from Hokkaidou are considered very beautiful because of their pale skin, while the view of Okinawans is the opposite.
Bahahah what?
"and it's generally acknowledged that the reason those traits are favorable are because of western influence historically. It's easy to say "I made my hair blonde because I want to look like GDragon, I don't give a crap about the west", but that doesn't change where his fashion was influenced."
WTF are you smoking? Blonde hair isnt popular in lets say mangas because of Marylin Monroe, they just like blond hair get it? Generally acknowledged? No, they just like big eyes, africans got big eyes, koreans want to look like someone from Nigeria / Sweden / Canada? No, they just like big eyes, stop fooling yourself please. The asian standards in beauty arent describing the fact that they want to look like caucasians rofl, lots of people there like pale skin for some reason, and big eyes, thats it, how ridiculous is it to claim they want to look like caucasians, they dont.
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He has been using the 2nd new picture as his twitter profile photo for a while...at first I thought he was using contact lense but... wow
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Looks a lot better now that you can see his eyes.
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