Been with her 2.5 years and it's still really really nice living with her and all
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Patriot.dlk
Sweden5462 Posts
Been with her 2.5 years and it's still really really nice living with her and all | ||
Sanity.
United States704 Posts
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Klockan3
Sweden2866 Posts
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KrAzYfoOL
Australia3037 Posts
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Vex
Ireland454 Posts
good 2 have em, but not in relationships. juggle a few, its so much more fulfilling ![]() | ||
KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
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Sanity.
United States704 Posts
On January 08 2009 19:25 Klockan3 wrote: Having the partner you want is the best thing ever, having a partner you don't really want any longer is one of the worst things ever. qft | ||
Centric
United States1989 Posts
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RowdierBob
Australia13006 Posts
Having a GF is annoying at times but for the most part my life is more enjoyable. | ||
EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
Would you rather be lonely, or annoyed? Which I think hits the nail on the head. Some people love the freedom, some people hate being alone and want that other person there. Then again, he committed suicide, so take his words with a grain of salt. Personally, I absolutely LOVE having a woman in my life, in fact, I would go so far as to say it's changed my life 180 for the better. Before I met her (currently my fiancee btw), my life wasn't the greatest... was kinda going no where, I felt like something was missing. Sounds like a line from a bad 3am infomercial, but it was kinda true. She really helped pull me out of my rut so to speak, and helped me change a lot of things for the better... I owe a lot to her actually. Not to say we don't have little fights or agree or all the time, and hell, there are times where I do miss my freedom a little bit... but honestly I wouldn't give it up for anything. I love where I'm at right now in my life; before her I could see nothing but brick walls around me, and now I see a clear path. Again, sounds pretty cheesey but it's true. ![]() | ||
Motiva
United States1774 Posts
A bad relationship = negative a good relationship = good... Myself... There have been times when I wished I was single while in a good relationship, but those are usually selfish fleeting emotions... When really pressed I have to say that if the relationship is truly good, then nothing can top it in life. What more do we want other than the truest possible connection with another human whom we've deemed worthy? (Don't answer that! lmao) Just my 2 cts | ||
BottleAbuser
Korea (South)1888 Posts
![]() Also, I think it was Chris Rock who said something similar... "Single and lonely, or married and bored." | ||
[X]Ken_D
United States4650 Posts
On January 08 2009 20:01 EvilTeletubby wrote: I think it was best summed up by comedian Richard Jeni: Would you rather be lonely, or annoyed? Which I think hits the nail on the head. Some people love the freedom, some people hate being alone and want that other person there. Then again, he committed suicide, so take his words with a grain of salt. Personally, I absolutely LOVE having a woman in my life, in fact, I would go so far as to say it's changed my life 180 for the better. Before I met her (currently my fiancee btw), my life wasn't the greatest... was kinda going no where, I felt like something was missing. Sounds like a line from a bad 3am infomercial, but it was kinda true. She really helped pull me out of my rut so to speak, and helped me change a lot of things for the better... I owe a lot to her actually. Not to say we don't have little fights or agree or all the time, and hell, there are times where I do miss my freedom a little bit... but honestly I wouldn't give it up for anything. I love where I'm at right now in my life; before her I could see nothing but brick walls around me, and now I see a clear path. Again, sounds pretty cheesey but it's true. ![]() QFT | ||
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Washington, D.C9933 Posts
for most of us, it's a shame relationships can't stay as these surreal dreams forever. the rules for dating now are (almost absurdly) lax, we simply haven't met the right people, and/or are too young to be able/want to deal with the responsibility and bullshit that is forced upon older couples. i'm not ready for it now and probably won't be for a loooonnnngggggg time, but i really really cannot imagine anything more truly fulfilling than finding the right hand to your left and committing to each other in a final mature relationship. i am hardly a romantic and this probably sounds super lame, but sometimes i feel as if everything i do to improve myself is to better serve this quite singular purpose. | ||
CubEdIn
Romania5359 Posts
Now for me, if you would have asked me a few months ago I would have been more inclined to say "less enjoyable" since (at least for me, not for everyone, obviously) girls that I TRULY like are really hard to find (yes, I'm picky, no, I don't have any particular reason to be that way, I'm not awesome myself but meh). So most of my relationships have been going nowhere. But the more people I know the more confident I am that there WILL be someone that I will want to spend 100% of my time with. I won't have it any other way. | ||
Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
On January 08 2009 20:01 EvilTeletubby wrote: I think it was best summed up by comedian Richard Jeni: Would you rather be lonely, or annoyed? Which I think hits the nail on the head. Some people love the freedom, some people hate being alone and want that other person there. Then again, he committed suicide, so take his words with a grain of salt. Personally, I absolutely LOVE having a woman in my life, in fact, I would go so far as to say it's changed my life 180 for the better. Before I met her (currently my fiancee btw), my life wasn't the greatest... was kinda going no where, I felt like something was missing. Sounds like a line from a bad 3am infomercial, but it was kinda true. She really helped pull me out of my rut so to speak, and helped me change a lot of things for the better... I owe a lot to her actually. Not to say we don't have little fights or agree or all the time, and hell, there are times where I do miss my freedom a little bit... but honestly I wouldn't give it up for anything. I love where I'm at right now in my life; before her I could see nothing but brick walls around me, and now I see a clear path. Again, sounds pretty cheesey but it's true. ![]() Well said | ||
Durak
Canada3684 Posts
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rushz0rz
Canada5300 Posts
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zobz
Canada2175 Posts
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
She will do almost anything for me and this is definitely worth the friendship by itself. Sometimes she can be a huge bitch though and/or just piss me off for being dumb. I can pretty much call her up anytime and get her to go eat somewhere or go somewhere with me. She's reliable company. She's not a drop dead gorgeous type of girl or the fittest of girls but she can look sexy and has a pretty assertive attitude (even if she is not the most intelligent girl). Also she is pretty good in bed and likes to watch porn more than I do. And she's bi so she is always hooking up with other chicks (usually hot) and will hopefully bring one home one day. She does have many annoying qualities but I suppose that goes for most friends and you just deal with them. Overall, I think my life would be worse without her right now. Well I wouldn't say worse, because I'd probably have more money and other female companions. But it would be less easy going. I am content. PS- She would be totally butt hurt if I told her most of this but she would get over it in a day. I think this topic is pretty specific to a certain type of guy who lets a girl rule his life. You can't take shit from any ho imo. PPS- I've had shorter relationships in the past that have inspired me to be a better man, or improve my life in order to improve their life. Those ones got away, it was still worth it though. | ||
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