You are still really young but your parents honestly should start to believe in you and get more realistic. They sound like a old lady that believes all what she reads and hears.

http://www.amazon.com/Everything-Parenting-Teenager-Book-Survival/dp/1593370350

Trust in your own blood is a good way to have a happy life :D and i have 3 sons, 1 out of beeing teen, one on middle and one right before

Piste

6183 Posts

May 28 2007 15:38 GMT

#102

You should get some professional help to your parents. especially to your mother.

Phyre

United States1288 Posts

May 28 2007 16:14 GMT

#103

Since your parents seem to reject any evidence or attempts to disprove them, perhaps try asking them what would give them absolute proof. Ask them straight what exactly could you do to prove to them 100% that you are clean and see what they say. If they say "There is nothing you can do" then at the very least you can spend less time trying to find ways to convince them and more on finding ways to circumvent them. Because seriously, if they don't have any idea how you can prove you are clean then they probably are a lost cause.

With regards to the BBQ outing situation, I would have invited my parents to come and see exactly what it was I was doing. This serves 3 purposes:

1) They can see that you are just having some good wholesome BBQ fun and not drinking alcohol.
2) They can meet your friends and possibly meet their parents. If their parents are around, they are far less likely to throw a fit and make wild accusations in front of other adults and they may be more willing to listen to them than you.
3) If you get into an argument with them there, you have a lot more people on your side to back up what you are saying.

Good luck, please post an update if there is progress in your situation.

besiger

Croatia2452 Posts

May 28 2007 16:14 GMT

#104

how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head

OverTheUnder

United States2929 Posts

May 28 2007 16:17 GMT

#105

are your parents religous by chance?;p

Phyre

United States1288 Posts

May 28 2007 16:20 GMT

#106

If you have the blood test done, let your parents schedule the appointment with a doctor of their choosing and tell them not to tell you who the doctor is. Just so they can't accuse you of bribing the doctor. If she's still doing the drug tests on your urine, I would go so far as saying have her inspect the bathroom and search you, then have her wait right outside the door while you piss. If that still doesn't convince her, I'd make her watch you piss. Desperate times require desperate measures.

By the way, I'd guess he's around 16-18 years old at a minimum since he says he can drive. Sounds like he's not in college yet either so that would make him 18 or under.

CuddlyCuteKitten

Sweden2747 Posts

May 28 2007 16:22 GMT

#107

Man it's time to get serious. Go to social services and talk to a counselor. There's *nothing* parents hate more than getting other people involved. Getting a phone call from a counselor who wants to talk to them because their kids feels really bad about them not beliving him is definently going to wake them up.

Then use that to force a bloodtest and then tell them to shut up.

(Don't overdo it at the counselor, you don't want to be put in a home or anything like that.)

nemY

United States3119 Posts

May 28 2007 16:23 GMT

#108

Kick your mom in the cooch. That way she can't bear any more children to go through the abuse u are going through right now.

micronesia

United States24767 Posts

May 28 2007 16:33 GMT

#109

On May 29 2007 01:14 BeSiGeR wrote:
how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head

Did you mean harassing?

besiger

Croatia2452 Posts

May 28 2007 16:35 GMT

#110

yeah, not like child molesting, bothering him i mean

eugene17

Singapore174 Posts

May 28 2007 17:40 GMT

#111

On May 29 2007 01:14 Phyre wrote:
Since your parents seem to reject any evidence or attempts to disprove them, perhaps try asking them what would give them absolute proof. Ask them straight what exactly could you do to prove to them 100% that you are clean and see what they say. If they say "There is nothing you can do" then at the very least you can spend less time trying to find ways to convince them and more on finding ways to circumvent them. Because seriously, if they don't have any idea how you can prove you are clean then they probably are a lost cause.

this is a great idea because if you can't do anything then there's no point trying.

if they're really stubborn then they might say something then take it back. i hope you solve this problem soon because its really annoying and i can smell repressed memories in the future........(i hope not)

FirstBorn

Romania3955 Posts

May 28 2007 18:18 GMT

#112

Since your parents still think ur on drugs, and from what u wrote they'll probably stick to that the obvious solution is to start taking drugs. It won't be any worse.

Terranlisk

Singapore1404 Posts

May 28 2007 18:37 GMT

#113

On May 29 2007 01:33 micronesia wrote:

Show nested quote +

Did you mean harassing?

Rofl

CaucasianAsian

Korea (South)11595 Posts

May 28 2007 18:41 GMT

#114

On May 29 2007 01:17 OverTheUnder wrote:
are your parents religous by chance?;p

yes. They are christian and pretty much base everything they do on the religion. (I'm not btw)

On May 29 2007 01:14 BeSiGeR wrote:
how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head

I am 17

xM(Z

Romania5299 Posts

May 28 2007 18:43 GMT

#115

you should do the following:
don't mind your father he's probable listen to your mother lies; so, dig some dirt on your mother (from the past or present) then blackmail her; il will work like a charm.
not only she will stop with the acusations but she'll see you in a diferent light; more manly, able to take care of your own shit

Storchen

Sweden4385 Posts

May 28 2007 18:50 GMT

#116

Note to self: Never take any advice from a rumanian.

FirstBorn

Romania3955 Posts

May 28 2007 19:29 GMT

#117

On May 29 2007 03:50 Storchen wrote:
Note to self: Never take any advice from a rumanian.

HAHA, really funny...

Storchen

Sweden4385 Posts

May 28 2007 19:35 GMT

#118

Funnier then this?

On May 29 2007 03:18 FirstBorn wrote:
Since your parents still think ur on drugs, and from what u wrote they'll probably stick to that the obvious solution is to start taking drugs. It won't be any worse.

diehilde1

Germany522 Posts

May 28 2007 19:42 GMT

#119

if theyre so afraid of addiction id use it to ur advantage... tell them if they ground you and forbid u to see ur friends ull hang out in front of the computer much more often and might get computer addicted...
of cus u gotta pull it off carefully to not end up getting grounded AND ur computer taken away for the time or on controlled schedule or shit like that..

EvilTeletubby

Baltimore, USA22259 Posts

May 28 2007 19:59 GMT

#120

On May 29 2007 01:33 micronesia wrote:

Show nested quote +

Did you mean harassing?

LOL