My whole point of view has changed. I no longer enjoy who my mother is. She can't be trusted. She has actually tried to fake proof of me being on drugs so she can believe herself. She hates being wrong. She has given me drug tests almost every friday, and as I am clean in all of them, she says I am stealing the urine of other people. I told her to give me a blood drug test. She refuses, because she knows she will be proven wrong.
So today, I get a phone call from one of the girls that I love being around with. She has been gone for the past week in south carolina. I thought she moved for good. I guess not! So, we decide to hang out with our friend Jack (not real name btw). After the plans are set. I brush my teeth after finishing my meal, grab my car keys and head towards the door.
My mom stops me at the door, and starts questioning what I am about to do. I tell her that we are probably going to get a bite to eat at a cheap restuarunt and then hang out and talk. She refuses to let me go because she is engulfed in the blocked vision that I am a drug user. I laugh at her, because I definetly dont want to get high and do drugs with people who like me, refuse to do anything of that sort.
I leave the house and head out to pick up Jill and hang out with Jack. It's memorial day, so Jack is having a barbecue. Sweet spare ribs are being made, and we quickly enduldge ourselves in the feast. My phone rings. "Home"
Wow, not again. Do I have to have this conversation with my parents right now? I answer it, and its my dad now. My dad never thought I did drugs, he thinks i'm a good kid. Boy was I proven wrong.
"I have a bad feeling abou what you're doing. Come home now." WTF? We're eating. I've waited for way too long to spend time with my closest friends. I love them as friends, I'd choose them over anything.
"Why do you mean, a bad feeling?" I ask. Man, he thinks I'm on drugs now. WTF
"You're drinking right now aren't you?" Shit, he caught me. I have a coca cola in my hand.
"Umm just some soda, why?"
"Soda filled with alcohal. Come home now. You're grounded." WTF? Talk about cruel and unusual punishment for drinking a soda.
Please, now, not only does my mom think I'm on drugs, but so does my dad. I'm fucking striaght edge! That means I've never tasted alcohal, never done drugs, and I never want to. So why the fuck would they assume that I have been? I've been taking drug tests weekly and my parents are STILL obsessed with the idea that I like to do drugs.
Go to your parents and say I will not do shit or speak to you until you give me a blood test or show me how I can prove to you that I do not do drugs, nor have I ever done any drugs or drank alcohol in my entire life.
at least my parents believe me when i tell them i'm not doing stuff like that (i am really straight-edge as well, probably just as much as you)
like one day my friends and i decided to go bowling on a saturday night, and at the bowling alley there are lots of smokers, and so my clothes stank a lot. my mom was convinced that i was hanging out with the wrong crowd -_-;
I'd be pissed as hell. I think the general advice from the last thread "Talk to them" is still applicable for the future as well. Make it as emotional as possible and throw in some fake crying and you might be freed from this injustice.
Wow they seems very paranoid. I do drugs regularly and my parents know I smoke weed but they don't know I do any other drug. They've caught me with many drugs I've bought of the net tho. Hell, why would I care.
Yeah bring them to like a doctor or something and tell them to get a professional opinion with blood tests, more urine tests....etc. (probably some other tests as well). If they are still not convinced I would get them some therapy sessions because they seem bat shit crazy.
On May 28 2007 18:48 Ack1027 wrote: Man the fuck up.
Go to your parents and say I will not do shit or speak to you until you give me a blood test or show me how I can prove to you that I do not do drugs, nor have I ever done any drugs or drank alcohol in my entire life.
The end.
Seems like a good idea.
I also tell my parents that they're the worst ever if they assume something ridiculous like that.
WTF is wrong with this story, anyways? THEY KNOW that your sister is an alcoholic, right? They just sit there and try to ruin your life? Or did they give up on your sister and throw her out onto the streets to be a hobo.
Did you do anything that anyone suggested in the last thread?!?!? You better get up there and tell your parents off, and go to a doctor, prove that you're not on drugs, make them pay for a therapist, make them take all the drug tests, and screw up THEIR lives until they stop SCREWING UP YOURS.
How old are you? Are you over 18? If so, consider moving out. If not consider calling child services on grounds of mental abuse. If you don't want to do that, go get a blood test on your own, and bring it back to them.
Then again, there could be something that you're not telling us that might lead your parents to think you're using drugs and drinking alcohol.
Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
ROFL.... that sucks.. Please tell me you didnt go home that day though, because if your already fucked, who cares. ida stayed. but thats a shitty situation. Go have a blood test done yourself and basically give it to her. Have the cops come and give you a breathalizer in front of them for any alcohol t.t do somethin but damn that sucks good luck with that.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
Ahahahah thats awesome. But you would have to be stupid to just smoke some random leaves...wouldn't you?
lo what the fuck is wrong with ur parents , did u do anything that suggested that u do drugs? Its funny that ur mom WANTS to belive that u do drugs wtf just go to the doctor and show her the results
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
Ahahahah thats awesome. But you would have to be stupid to just smoke some random leaves...wouldn't you?
Indeed haha. :p
Me and my father have an awkward relationship we get along, but we view the world very differently. Although we do share in a special kind of crazyness according to family members.
very very very truly honestly, you should talk to some authority at your school or call a child abuse line.
i don't care how you look at this. this is 100% child abuse. this is clearly stressing you out emotionally and its absolutely unfair. get out of there now
On May 28 2007 19:34 TesisMech wrote: Call child services? wtf thats seriously fucked up towards ur parents
Whats fucked up is keeping your kid on lockdown based on groundless paranoia. But i suggest threatening w/ child services before actually following up on it.
Another good suggestion that I can think of is to ask your friends to come over and chill with you. To prove to your parents that they are "good kids" and you not hanging out with hooligens. Ofcouse this would only work if they are actually "good kids". I can't believe your father actually grounded you, not once in my life have I been grounded.
Beating FTW!! Actually I've been beaten many times with objects ranging from belts, sandles, and others whippable things. The worst however is the vaccum cleaner extension cord, you hear that thing whistling as it moves through the air and even before it actually hits you can feel your skin splitting open haha! :p (to be fair however I only have been beaten twice with the extension cord) I perfer a good beating rather than a grouding, it's direct and the punishment the beating time only lasts a couple of seconds and the pain that follows only lasts a couple of hours. Rather than a week or two of grounding, I would go crazy if I was in a room for an entire week straight with nothing to do.
I don't really blame my parents for beating me I was a pretty bad kid when I was younger. But damn that shit hurt! I have a scar or two from those beatings on my ass. I can upload pics if you guys want. :p
FUCK! I should probably get studying right about now! Yes.. I'm posting this and closing firefox ... right... now!
Wow that's seriously messed up. Summarizing what people have suggested so far, this is the order that I would try:
1. Try to convince your parents with a talk (ok, probably not going to work) 2. Get a test from a doctor and show your parents (probably not going to work) 3. Get another adult to help you convince your parents (maybe this will work) 4. Book therapy sessions for your parents (it probably won't solve anything but it'd be fun to watch) 5. Move out
for real the only way it seems at this point would be to snap on them. Obvously rational talking hasnt gotten you anywhere. I would say next time they accuse you just snap the hell off. Go off on them and start screaming how they have been paranoid and ruining your social life and so on and so forth. (dont forget to curse or they wont believe you). Tell them to fuck off and not to talk to you anymore unless they take you to get a blood drug test in front of their eyes. Also you have to have it be a really long speach and such. cause in my own experience if what you yell is short they just take it at face value. If you yell on and on and on they have time to think about what your saying and it will hit them that you are being serious.
This was the only way for me to convince my dad that i didnt go out and get completly shwasted every single night when i told him i was going out with friends. im serious about this too. I have the same type of parents that you do and sometimes you just have to whip them in line and bring them back to the real world or they will become extremely paraniod about your school work, your life, drugs and alchohol,, having unprotected sex (that was a weird conversation), and it will never stop.
i feel your pain my friend. and im not kinding about sscreaming your head off at them. Im talking about losing your voice afterwards cause you screamed for soo long.
On May 28 2007 19:37 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Another good suggestion that I can think of is to ask your friends to come over and chill with you. To prove to your parents that they are "good kids" and you not hanging out with hooligens. Ofcouse this would only work if they are actually "good kids". I can't believe your father actually grounded you, not once in my life have I been grounded.
Beating FTW!! Actually I've been beaten many times with objects ranging from belts, sandles, and others whippable things. The worst however is the vaccum cleaner extension cord, you hear that thing whistling as it moves through the air and even before it actually hits you can feel your skin splitting open haha! :p (to be fair however I only have been beaten twice with the extension cord) I perfer a good beating rather than a grouding, it's direct and the punishment the beating time only lasts a couple of seconds and the pain that follows only lasts a couple of hours. Rather than a week or two of grounding, I would go crazy if I was in a room for an entire week straight with nothing to do.
I don't really blame my parents for beating me I was a pretty bad kid when I was younger. But damn that shit hurt! I have a scar or two from those beatings on my ass. I can upload pics if you guys want. :p
FUCK! I should probably get studying right about now! Yes.. I'm posting this and closing firefox ... right... now!
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your parents are obsessed, they don't trust you and you need to leave. they need to realise that they can loose you by acting like this.
On May 28 2007 20:05 MaZza[KIS] wrote: MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE OUT
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your parents are obsessed, they don't trust you and you need to leave. they need to realise that they can loose you by acting like this.
If you read the first thread, you'll find out he works at Pizza Hut, I don't think fast food places pay all that good especially is the US. Unless he wants struggle living by himself I suggest taking a different course in action.
If you think his parents are handling it badly wait untill they get involved.
Get a blood test on your own and show it to them. If they don't change their thinking at that point, then consider more drastic action, but still try to stay away from child services. Have your doctor give them some kind of message saying you're not on drugs.
It sounds like the main problem is that your parents want to believe that you do drugs. As you said, convincing them to do more tests etc. would be difficult. In any case, even if you got convincing results from a more reliable source, they'd probably find some other way to explain how you got off clean that time. Yelling at them and picking a fight (well, you've admittedly been provoked) wouldn't do much either, as they'd just interpret it as a sign of denial and ALCOHOL/DRUG-INDUCED RAGE!
I'd suggest the school counselor/teacher/religious figure (if your family is inclined so) approach. Tell them what's going on, and force your parents to have a talk with said adult and you. Then, you can have someone responsible with more social leverage then you do to make a case for you. And you can, from there, discuss more rigorous drug tests in a manner that would benefit your cause.
On May 28 2007 20:05 MaZza[KIS] wrote: MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE OUT
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your parents are obsessed, they don't trust you and you need to leave. they need to realise that they can loose you by acting like this.
If you read the first thread, you'll find out he works at Pizza Hut, I don't think fast food places pay all that good especially is the US. Unless he wants struggle living by himself I suggest taking a different course in action.
Edit: ok I'm going now!
iirc CA is like 16ish, which isnt really old enough to move out. And i'm guessing Pizza Hut pays out 7$/hour. So he'll either have to drop out, work 40+ hour weeks and make 1-1.5k a month and live in a shithole apartment ruining his life and all hopes of becoming successful and living hte life he was once accostumed to. Or he can stay in school and work 20 hours a week and live off ramen and in a box on the road.
The point is, moving out is not an option. And BuGz GTFO and do your work
Start doing drugs, let them catch you and when they ask why tell them, "BECAUSE OF ALL YOUR GODDAMN NAGGING YOU STUPID FUCKS, YOU SEE WHAT YOU'VE DONE TO ME"?! Be sure to have bloodshot eyes, pulsing veins, and eyes as dark as emo eyeliner.
Then, proceed to explain the road to your substance abuse and how all you wanted to do was eat some ribs and drink some coke and how their constant interrogations have led you to injecting heroin and smoking crack.
Make sure while you are explaining to pace around the room while severely shaking and yelling randomly(e.g. "I DIDN'T do drugs UNTIL you STARTED nagging ME so MUCH"), think typical myspace text but alternating capitalized words instead of letters. Breaking a few things always helps.
i believe your parents need to be told that they're assholes. some people are better at it than others and some people can be really hard cases to convince, but you just need to know exactly why they're stupid and unfair, all the flaws in their reasoning, and be very willing to tell them in detail. do your best to convince them that they're wrong. and don't let them run away from the argument. that's the easiest way out for them. tell them in the case of them trying to avoid deep two-sided discussion about it, that nothing is known until it's reasoned out and it's especially unfair of them not to give you a chance to proove them wrong. especially if it's not even a proof of words but undeniable physical evidence that you're not doing drugs. be honest and don't exagerate, truth seems to be on your side and you don't want to be unreasonable like them. don't give up too easily any more than you'd let them, press on and make them feel stupid and irrational, it's what they seem to deserve.
Somehow I think a scene from Tennessee William's Glass Menagerie is appropriate, although Tom is more than somewhat more guilty than our beleaguered OP:
TOM [crouching toward her, overtowering her tiny figure. She backs away, gasping]: I'm going to opium dens ! Yes, opium dens, dens of vice and criminals' hang-outs, Mother. I've joined the Hogan gang, I'm a hired assassin, I carry a tommy-gun in a violin case! I run a string of cat-houses in the Valley! They call me Killer, Killer Wingfield, I'm leading a double-life, a simple, honest warehouse worker by day, by night a dynamic tsar of the underworld, Mother. I go to gambling casinos, I spin away fortunes on the roulette table ! I wear a patch over one eye and a false moustache, sometimes I put on green whiskers. On those occasions they call me -El Diablo ! Oh, I could tell you things to make you sleepless ! My enemies plan to dynamite this place. They're going to blow us all sky-high some night ! I'll be glad, very happy, and so will you ! You'll go up, up on a broomstick, over Blue Mountain with seventeen gentlemen callers! You ugly - babbling old - witch. [He goes through a series of violent, clumsy movements, seizing his overcoat, lunging to do door, pulling it fiercely open. The women watch him, aghast. His arm catches in the sleeve of the coat as he struggles to pull it on. For a moment he is pinioned by the bulky garment. With an outraged groan he tears the coat of again, splitting the shoulder of it, and hurls it across the room. It strikes against the shelf of Laura's glass collection, there is a tinkle of shattering glass. LAURA cries out as if wounded.]
On May 28 2007 20:05 MaZza[KIS] wrote: MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE OUT
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your parents are obsessed, they don't trust you and you need to leave. they need to realise that they can loose you by acting like this.
If you read the first thread, you'll find out he works at Pizza Hut, I don't think fast food places pay all that good especially is the US. Unless he wants struggle living by himself I suggest taking a different course in action.
Edit: ok I'm going now!
iirc CA is like 16ish, which isnt really old enough to move out. And i'm guessing Pizza Hut pays out 7$/hour. So he'll either have to drop out, work 40+ hour weeks and make 1-1.5k a month and live in a shithole apartment ruining his life and all hopes of becoming successful and living hte life he was once accostumed to. Or he can stay in school and work 20 hours a week and live off ramen and in a box on the road.
The point is, moving out is not an option. And BuGz GTFO and do your work
He can get another job. I'm sure there are other jobs.
He can also find flatmates. He doesn't have to rent by himself.
I have a friend who came to Australia from Dubai and finished AND PAID for his university degree. He was on approx $17-$20 an hour at any one time (which translates to about $10-$13 U.S. back then) worked 40 hour weeks and finished university going to lectures 30 hours a week.
It can be done. It'll put steel in your balls and hair on your chest. It's WAY LESS damaging to move out. Your psyche will be RUIIIIIIINED by your parents. RUINED. Trust me. I have overly critical parents and it shits all over your head. It's way worse than scraping by.
Now, I'm not saying this is the option you SHOULD take. But, try it. See if u got what it takes to be a man. People have done way more at a younger age in third world countried and survived. I'm sure u can survive living in america trying to complete highschool.
Anyways, extreme, but extremely life changing. I hope your parents don't drive u crazy enough to HAVE to move out. I hope u do it on your own terms.
EDIT: not that this post should be about me, but I don't talk shit without backing it up. I moved out of my parent's house because they drove me crazy. I lived on the dole (social security payments) with a bunch of other dudes managing to ration $200 a week to pay for EVERYTHING. School doesn't cost you money, you can make your own food and you can split rent with someone. Education, food and a roof over your head. That's all you need to live in this world. Eventually, things will get easier. That's why you educate yourself. All successful people start at the very bottom.
Again, this is so extreme, I understand. However, your mother is taking it to the EXTREMEST EXTREME she possibly can. This is fucking insane. Just coz someone birthed you doesn't mean they can control you. Anyone can give birth. It's overrated.
On May 28 2007 18:49 MTF wrote: Demand a blood test or piss in something with them standing right outside the door.
If they still don't believe you, then give them the "fuck you" that they deserve.
Thats honestly the only way you could prove them wrong. I have this similar problem though im not straight edge and my parents wont go that far to prove that i drink or smoke cuz its more of a 50/50 chance that i do. I am by no means an abuser but i am spontaneous about it. my mom accuses me of smoking and drinking every time i go out so your not the only one. But as your situation calls for different solutions. The only thing you could do to show them that you are straight edge is do what is mentioned above. Either that or break away from them on a friend level totally. You should not let them have the time of day to annoy you and accuse you of something you dont. EVEN IF that castes you as a rebel. You must show them what it is to be a dickhead if they choose to be ones to you.
On May 28 2007 20:23 Myrmidon wrote: It sounds like the main problem is that your parents want to believe that you do drugs. As you said, convincing them to do more tests etc. would be difficult. In any case, even if you got convincing results from a more reliable source, they'd probably find some other way to explain how you got off clean that time. Yelling at them and picking a fight (well, you've admittedly been provoked) wouldn't do much either, as they'd just interpret it as a sign of denial and ALCOHOL/DRUG-INDUCED RAGE!
I'd suggest the school counselor/teacher/religious figure (if your family is inclined so) approach. Tell them what's going on, and force your parents to have a talk with said adult and you. Then, you can have someone responsible with more social leverage then you do to make a case for you. And you can, from there, discuss more rigorous drug tests in a manner that would benefit your cause.
On May 28 2007 20:57 SoMuchBetter wrote: hes still in highschool hes not a uni student
if anything, it's harder being a uni student. high school students get everything digested for them in class, don't have to pay any fees and have much less work to do outside of school (i.e. uni is lectures and then you go off and try to learn wtf it is the lecturer just talked about, whereas in class u do examples and shit and u go home and just finish them off and that's it).
anyways, extreme example. I understand. But, seriously, your parents are absolte retards.
edit: just to note... I don't take that "maturity" bullshit into account. If you can f*ck someone and make babies at 16 then you can sure as hell support yourself. Nature woudn't give you one without the ability to do the other.
She gives you an actual drug test every week? She seems to be beyond reasoning and I was gonna say see if your dad can help you out but then I read the rest of your post. I guess you could try rebellion or something? I mean when my parents try to punish me I usually just pretend to forget about it and they don't enforce it but I dont' know if that would work for you or not (i'm 16 btw). Well you are going to be a senior in HS next year right? Only one more year and you can go to college and be free of parents!
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
ahh, this is a good idea. Just e-mail them this thread.
My parents were like that too, they thought i used drugs and drank a lot because i went out with my friends who do shit like that, i drink occationally but i don't smoke. I finally got sick of her unfounded accusations and i just stopped caring waht she thought, if they don't beleive you then the helll with them i say, my paretns didn't beleive me and scummed me over, now they get treated like every other asshole i have ever met. Complete and utter disrespect. You earn respect, and can just as easily lose it. Being my parent doesn't automatically qualify you as trustworthy or worhty of respect. Just tell her if she doens't beleive you then Fuck You because you don't need that, no one does. And i didn't read the entire forum, but did you leave the party? I'm going to finish reading it if you answered it already then sry :D and you won't need to respond because i will read it in the next 20 mins.
On May 28 2007 20:46 Myrmidon wrote: Somehow I think a scene from Tennessee William's Glass Menagerie is appropriate, although Tom is more than somewhat more guilty than our beleaguered OP:
TOM [crouching toward her, overtowering her tiny figure. She backs away, gasping]: I'm going to opium dens ! Yes, opium dens, dens of vice and criminals' hang-outs, Mother. I've joined the Hogan gang, I'm a hired assassin, I carry a tommy-gun in a violin case! I run a string of cat-houses in the Valley! They call me Killer, Killer Wingfield, I'm leading a double-life, a simple, honest warehouse worker by day, by night a dynamic tsar of the underworld, Mother. I go to gambling casinos, I spin away fortunes on the roulette table ! I wear a patch over one eye and a false moustache, sometimes I put on green whiskers. On those occasions they call me -El Diablo ! Oh, I could tell you things to make you sleepless ! My enemies plan to dynamite this place. They're going to blow us all sky-high some night ! I'll be glad, very happy, and so will you ! You'll go up, up on a broomstick, over Blue Mountain with seventeen gentlemen callers! You ugly - babbling old - witch. [He goes through a series of violent, clumsy movements, seizing his overcoat, lunging to do door, pulling it fiercely open. The women watch him, aghast. His arm catches in the sleeve of the coat as he struggles to pull it on. For a moment he is pinioned by the bulky garment. With an outraged groan he tears the coat of again, splitting the shoulder of it, and hurls it across the room. It strikes against the shelf of Laura's glass collection, there is a tinkle of shattering glass. LAURA cries out as if wounded.]
If you were to memorize and use this it would go beyond fucking epic
On May 28 2007 20:57 SoMuchBetter wrote: hes still in highschool hes not a uni student
if anything, it's harder being a uni student. high school students get everything digested for them in class, don't have to pay any fees and have much less work to do outside of school (i.e. uni is lectures and then you go off and try to learn wtf it is the lecturer just talked about, whereas in class u do examples and shit and u go home and just finish them off and that's it).
anyways, extreme example. I understand. But, seriously, your parents are absolte retards.
edit: just to note... I don't take that "maturity" bullshit into account. If you can f*ck someone and make babies at 16 then you can sure as hell support yourself. Nature woudn't give you one without the ability to do the other.
uh, no high school students have to... go to high school uni students have way more free time to manage
On May 28 2007 20:46 Myrmidon wrote: Somehow I think a scene from Tennessee William's Glass Menagerie is appropriate, although Tom is more than somewhat more guilty than our beleaguered OP:
TOM [crouching toward her, overtowering her tiny figure. She backs away, gasping]: I'm going to opium dens ! Yes, opium dens, dens of vice and criminals' hang-outs, Mother. I've joined the Hogan gang, I'm a hired assassin, I carry a tommy-gun in a violin case! I run a string of cat-houses in the Valley! They call me Killer, Killer Wingfield, I'm leading a double-life, a simple, honest warehouse worker by day, by night a dynamic tsar of the underworld, Mother. I go to gambling casinos, I spin away fortunes on the roulette table ! I wear a patch over one eye and a false moustache, sometimes I put on green whiskers. On those occasions they call me -El Diablo ! Oh, I could tell you things to make you sleepless ! My enemies plan to dynamite this place. They're going to blow us all sky-high some night ! I'll be glad, very happy, and so will you ! You'll go up, up on a broomstick, over Blue Mountain with seventeen gentlemen callers! You ugly - babbling old - witch. [He goes through a series of violent, clumsy movements, seizing his overcoat, lunging to do door, pulling it fiercely open. The women watch him, aghast. His arm catches in the sleeve of the coat as he struggles to pull it on. For a moment he is pinioned by the bulky garment. With an outraged groan he tears the coat of again, splitting the shoulder of it, and hurls it across the room. It strikes against the shelf of Laura's glass collection, there is a tinkle of shattering glass. LAURA cries out as if wounded.]
If you were to memorize and use this it would go beyond fucking epic
Shit dude, if you do that record it. Maybe even hide a video tape. It would be Fucking hilarious.
Call your doctor. Have a blood test taken. Have your doctor attach a letter to the blood test results saying that it is incontrovertible proof you do not, nor have you recently used any illegal substances.
This will fail. Your parents will accuse the doctor of using drugs and alcohol. Now you schedule an appointment with a licensed psychologist, who will then tell your parents they are delusional. They are making claims and judgments despite the lack of sufficient evidence.
Maybe they'll believe that. If not, go to your backup plan.
Buy illegal drugs, and then plant them on your father where your mom will find them. Then, when he's "caught," start crying like a baby, and say "He made me do it with him! It wasn't my fault!"
On May 28 2007 21:57 rpf wrote: Call your doctor. Have a blood test taken. Have your doctor attach a letter to the blood test results saying that it is incontrovertible proof you do not, nor have you recently used any illegal substances.
This will fail. Your parents will accuse the doctor of using drugs and alcohol. Now you schedule an appointment with a licensed psychologist, who will then tell your parents they are delusional. They are making claims and judgments despite the lack of sufficient evidence.
Maybe they'll believe that. If not, go to your backup plan.
Buy illegal drugs, and then plant them on your father where your mom will find them. Then, when he's "caught," start crying like a baby, and say "He made me do it with him! It wasn't my fault!"
On May 28 2007 21:57 rpf wrote: Call your doctor. Have a blood test taken. Have your doctor attach a letter to the blood test results saying that it is incontrovertible proof you do not, nor have you recently used any illegal substances.
This will fail. Your parents will accuse the doctor of using drugs and alcohol. Now you schedule an appointment with a licensed psychologist, who will then tell your parents they are delusional. They are making claims and judgments despite the lack of sufficient evidence.
Maybe they'll believe that. If not, go to your backup plan.
Buy illegal drugs, and then plant them on your father where your mom will find them. Then, when he's "caught," start crying like a baby, and say "He made me do it with him! It wasn't my fault!"
Sadly, this post makes ALOT of sense...
yea it actually does. I think i may do it if my parents dont back off when i am not doing shit... those fuckers
On May 28 2007 19:32 dronebabo wrote: it surprises me how fast you guys would call child services on your parents
Yeah, I agree. Some people just can't solve problems by themselves and have to rely on the "legal system" because they're too lazy or stupid, which is like probably half or so of USA lol.
Yeah, I mean, it's not like undue mental distress towards a dependent is illegal or anything. It really shocks me to the core when someone actually expects the law to be upheld! Just the other night I watched a man on TV get arrested for armed robbery. Now he's going to jail! Man, whatever happened to people just taking matters into their own hands? It makes me sick to my stomach to live in a country where people expect that big legal system to due their jobs. What a bunch of pansies!
On May 09 2007 20:49 ManaBlue wrote: Her accusations of your "drug use and store robbing" are based entirely on the fact that she's afraid of change and doesn't like her little boy going out at night.
She doesn't actually think you're on drugs, she's just resisting your changing (and maturing) life style choices and expressing it by ragging on you about what you're "probably" doing.
I'm sure somebody has said it already, but since your parents are convinced you do drugs you might as well start freebasing some shit. It won't come as shock when they find out.
On May 28 2007 20:57 SoMuchBetter wrote: hes still in highschool hes not a uni student
if anything, it's harder being a uni student. high school students get everything digested for them in class, don't have to pay any fees and have much less work to do outside of school (i.e. uni is lectures and then you go off and try to learn wtf it is the lecturer just talked about, whereas in class u do examples and shit and u go home and just finish them off and that's it).
anyways, extreme example. I understand. But, seriously, your parents are absolte retards.
edit: just to note... I don't take that "maturity" bullshit into account. If you can f*ck someone and make babies at 16 then you can sure as hell support yourself. Nature woudn't give you one without the ability to do the other.
uh, no high school students have to... go to high school uni students have way more free time to manage
what kind of degree did you do?
I could understand your "uni students have way more free time" theory if u do/did arts.... or if yur one of those ppl who went to uni to "discover themselves"... or if yur just one of those ppl that wants to "pass" and "have fun.... have fun paying the tuition fees (is that what they call em in america?) when you're working at a bar. If you want to do a REAL degree that will get you GOOD employment you're studying/going to lectures FULL TIME.
I had 30 hours of lectures + 12-14 hrs study time. If I had an assignment my time doubled. I'd pretty much be living and breathing uni 24/7. In fourth year I even SLEPT in the room that was assigned for my thesis. LOL. Crazy shit but I had a fold-out bed in there and would just pass out from doing work/cramming. Oh, I'm in the most thankless profesion of all... engineering.
ANYWAYS... I'm not arguing that point here... it's not about me.
On May 09 2007 20:49 ManaBlue wrote: Her accusations of your "drug use and store robbing" are based entirely on the fact that she's afraid of change and doesn't like her little boy going out at night.
She doesn't actually think you're on drugs, she's just resisting your changing (and maturing) life style choices and expressing it by ragging on you about what you're "probably" doing.
Sry for disrespecting your parents dude, bu they sound really retarded :/ I don't know what you could do.
Maybe try to have a straightfoward discussion with them an telling them how lame you think they are. It's kind of a 14 nexus though ^^ risky stuff because if they take it wrong you might be completely grounded, but it cann also make them think critically about the situation. GL man
sitenote : geez my english has gone from decent to bad and now totally patheticT_T
^ what he said...dont get mad about this, show them that you need respect too. and if they dont want it the easy way just ignore them, work, go to classes, do your normal shit and talk to them just the minimum necesary.
grow up some balls too, you deserve respect and the way to earn it is not easy in your case.
^ Lol @ respect. ^ In chinese culture, kids deserve respect from their parents like Rekrul deserves christmas presents. Overbearing parents fighting~~~
I tried to convince my mom I deserved respect once. She lawled.
You are still really young but your parents honestly should start to believe in you and get more realistic. They sound like a old lady that believes all what she reads and hears.
Since your parents seem to reject any evidence or attempts to disprove them, perhaps try asking them what would give them absolute proof. Ask them straight what exactly could you do to prove to them 100% that you are clean and see what they say. If they say "There is nothing you can do" then at the very least you can spend less time trying to find ways to convince them and more on finding ways to circumvent them. Because seriously, if they don't have any idea how you can prove you are clean then they probably are a lost cause.
With regards to the BBQ outing situation, I would have invited my parents to come and see exactly what it was I was doing. This serves 3 purposes:
1) They can see that you are just having some good wholesome BBQ fun and not drinking alcohol. 2) They can meet your friends and possibly meet their parents. If their parents are around, they are far less likely to throw a fit and make wild accusations in front of other adults and they may be more willing to listen to them than you. 3) If you get into an argument with them there, you have a lot more people on your side to back up what you are saying.
Good luck, please post an update if there is progress in your situation.
how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head
If you have the blood test done, let your parents schedule the appointment with a doctor of their choosing and tell them not to tell you who the doctor is. Just so they can't accuse you of bribing the doctor. If she's still doing the drug tests on your urine, I would go so far as saying have her inspect the bathroom and search you, then have her wait right outside the door while you piss. If that still doesn't convince her, I'd make her watch you piss. Desperate times require desperate measures.
By the way, I'd guess he's around 16-18 years old at a minimum since he says he can drive. Sounds like he's not in college yet either so that would make him 18 or under.
Man it's time to get serious. Go to social services and talk to a counselor. There's *nothing* parents hate more than getting other people involved. Getting a phone call from a counselor who wants to talk to them because their kids feels really bad about them not beliving him is definently going to wake them up. Then use that to force a bloodtest and then tell them to shut up.
(Don't overdo it at the counselor, you don't want to be put in a home or anything like that.)
On May 29 2007 01:14 BeSiGeR wrote: how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head
On May 29 2007 01:14 Phyre wrote: Since your parents seem to reject any evidence or attempts to disprove them, perhaps try asking them what would give them absolute proof. Ask them straight what exactly could you do to prove to them 100% that you are clean and see what they say. If they say "There is nothing you can do" then at the very least you can spend less time trying to find ways to convince them and more on finding ways to circumvent them. Because seriously, if they don't have any idea how you can prove you are clean then they probably are a lost cause.
this is a great idea because if you can't do anything then there's no point trying.
if they're really stubborn then they might say something then take it back. i hope you solve this problem soon because its really annoying and i can smell repressed memories in the future........(i hope not)
Since your parents still think ur on drugs, and from what u wrote they'll probably stick to that the obvious solution is to start taking drugs. It won't be any worse.
On May 29 2007 01:14 BeSiGeR wrote: how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head
On May 29 2007 01:17 OverTheUnder wrote: are your parents religous by chance?;p
yes. They are christian and pretty much base everything they do on the religion. (I'm not btw)
On May 29 2007 01:14 BeSiGeR wrote: how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head
you should do the following: don't mind your father he's probable listen to your mother lies; so, dig some dirt on your mother (from the past or present) then blackmail her; il will work like a charm. not only she will stop with the acusations but she'll see you in a diferent light; more manly, able to take care of your own shit
On May 29 2007 03:18 FirstBorn wrote: Since your parents still think ur on drugs, and from what u wrote they'll probably stick to that the obvious solution is to start taking drugs. It won't be any worse.
if theyre so afraid of addiction id use it to ur advantage... tell them if they ground you and forbid u to see ur friends ull hang out in front of the computer much more often and might get computer addicted... of cus u gotta pull it off carefully to not end up getting grounded AND ur computer taken away for the time or on controlled schedule or shit like that..
On May 29 2007 01:14 BeSiGeR wrote: how old are you ? Just go get a blood test and tell them to fuck off, id be seriously pissed if my parents pulled that kinda shit, get a blood test and if they still give you shit report them to social services because its clear that they are molesting you for no reason and are not straight in the head
Tonight, you approach your parents, break down, and tell them that their suspicions were accurate. You really were doing drugs, and you are in fact still doing them! Tell them you're a heroin addict, and then show them your arm that you use for shooting up. Start whimpering like a baby and ask that you be put into rehab as soon as possible.
geez man. most people who come on here are like "hi, my mum is accusing me of doing drugs, and i am. how can i fool her?" but you're a straight arrow. in other words, you can literally prove your innocence with those tests. i'd seriously advise you to get back in the good books with your dad, because at least then you'll have someone who can give you leeway.
anyway man, just think of it this way, once you prove to them you're innocent, they will owe you BIG time :D
I really hate dumbass parents like that espcially asian parents. Happy that my parents arent too bad. I know a kid in my class whose parents like installed like filters(paid) so he cant go on porn sites or play games or watch videos. If my parents did that i wouldnt stand doing nothing. Your parents dont realize you're old enough to decide for yourself. Go threaten them or something. Or tell your mom you're gonna take a piss test in front of her.
Edit. found out they're religious give up now. Its a lost cause. Im 16 not christian and im forced to go to church. If i mention how im old enough to pick wheter i want to go to church or not my mom gets all mad and says she won't like make food. I dont even want to mention it in front of her cause i rather keep the peace i have right now. Oh yeah i have dad who doesn't let me play games even though i play when hes not home. Says um it will break the comp and its a waste of time. Its gets better when you talk to them.
On May 29 2007 03:18 FirstBorn wrote: Since your parents still think ur on drugs, and from what u wrote they'll probably stick to that the obvious solution is to start taking drugs. It won't be any worse.
Your biggest mistake was coming home, I assume your parents can drive and would of gone to get you, and when they arrived and saw you eating with a few kids what would they do? Haul you off like a 6 year old? Even if they do, your friends would then understand what a crazy family you have and probably help you set up good alibis until your ass is off to uni or moved out.
This may sound odd, but I'd recommend getting a job if you don't already. You'll find your parents have a lot less power over you when you can afford to do shit on your own.
Also, definately get your own bank account, don't put your paychecks into an account your parents get the statement to.
If they've made you take drugtests? wtf? Then I think you should get your parents to go see a shrink, because they sure sound pretty fucked up. You take weekly drugtest? Seriously is it for real? And they still dont believe you? Seriously there's something wrong with there heads, that's for sure.
btw, I only read the last 5 lines
I bet your family would be pure Dr. Phil material, I would watch it!
you pass weekly drug test's given to you by your parents and they still accuse you of doing drugs? your mother insist your tampering with the test.. hmm..
ask if she wants to hold it for you next piss test.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
WOW. Just fucking WOW. I wouldn't let my parents live it down if they did that to me.
On May 28 2007 20:57 SoMuchBetter wrote: hes still in highschool hes not a uni student
if anything, it's harder being a uni student. high school students get everything digested for them in class, don't have to pay any fees and have much less work to do outside of school (i.e. uni is lectures and then you go off and try to learn wtf it is the lecturer just talked about, whereas in class u do examples and shit and u go home and just finish them off and that's it).
anyways, extreme example. I understand. But, seriously, your parents are absolte retards.
edit: just to note... I don't take that "maturity" bullshit into account. If you can f*ck someone and make babies at 16 then you can sure as hell support yourself. Nature woudn't give you one without the ability to do the other.
uh, no high school students have to... go to high school uni students have way more free time to manage
what kind of degree did you do?
I could understand your "uni students have way more free time" theory if u do/did arts.... or if yur one of those ppl who went to uni to "discover themselves"... or if yur just one of those ppl that wants to "pass" and "have fun.... have fun paying the tuition fees (is that what they call em in america?) when you're working at a bar. If you want to do a REAL degree that will get you GOOD employment you're studying/going to lectures FULL TIME.
I had 30 hours of lectures + 12-14 hrs study time. If I had an assignment my time doubled. I'd pretty much be living and breathing uni 24/7. In fourth year I even SLEPT in the room that was assigned for my thesis. LOL. Crazy shit but I had a fold-out bed in there and would just pass out from doing work/cramming. Oh, I'm in the most thankless profesion of all... engineering.
ANYWAYS... I'm not arguing that point here... it's not about me.
No way man, it's way harder to get full-time job in HS. You have flexible hours at a uni; HS you are locked into the 8-3 or whatever it is. Your choice of jobs is limited as well. With at least a hs degree and a major, a lot of jobs will hire you if you plan on entering that field. Skilled jobs are pretty much out the window as a high schooler. You can't bartend since you're not 18 and you can't even be a waiter because you have to be 18 just to handle liquor. Your best bet to make a livable wage would be working with your hands somewhere, but most jobs in that field cut out at 5ish, so once again, you're screwed. Plenty of people work full time and do school full time in university. It sucks quite a lot, but it is doable. HS, unless you were incredibly lucky and inherited a decent chunk of change, it's a long shot at best.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can \"accidently\" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn\'t do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren\'t doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found \"marijuana\" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, \"what kind of friends do I have\". I replied, \"black friends?\" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn\'t reply anything and thought back because I have \"friends\" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a \"no?\", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don\'t know (which wasn\'t too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, \"probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked\".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn\'t stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn\'t reply. The entire day we didn\'t really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
WOW. Just fucking WOW. I wouldn\'t let my parents live it down if they did that to me.
yea seriously. Everyday i\'d be like
Me - \"Hey dad, look at those trees, don\'t they look nice?\"
Him - \"I guess\"
Me- \"Mmmm, i wish i could just climb up there, pick a bunch of leaves, and smoke em\"
On May 28 2007 18:48 Ack1027 wrote: Man the fuck up.
Go to your parents and say I will not do shit or speak to you until you give me a blood test or show me how I can prove to you that I do not do drugs, nor have I ever done any drugs or drank alcohol in my entire life.
The end.
Best answer IMO.
edit: Nothing comes from being passive and just TELLING her that you're clean doesn't mean that she'll believe you. Go to your doctor or something, make him write a note telling you that you're clean.
Jesus christ your parents are horrible :/ Good luck man. You'd think its easy to convince your parents that you're clean when you really are but with that kind of paranoia... heh.
Get that blood-test yourself. Call your friends over, have em hang out at your place. Always answer the cell when they call etc. If they can't start trusting you, they have some serious fucking problems.
My mom and dad called me a lot when I went out in the beginning, but what the friggin fuck it was no where close to this.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
On May 29 2007 05:52 HungerForMore wrote: If they've made you take drugtests? wtf? Then I think you should get your parents to go see a shrink, because they sure sound pretty fucked up. You take weekly drugtest? Seriously is it for real? And they still dont believe you? Seriously there's something wrong with there heads, that's for sure.
btw, I only read the last 5 lines
I bet your family would be pure Dr. Phil material, I would watch it!
Whatever he said. Judging from your story, there's obviously something behind this drug's stuff... Your parents may have another plan or something...
your parents thought you were drunk at a bbq so they asked you to drive home? They sound like backwards douchebags. I dont think the issue is really drugs. Especially if they are dodging full proof tests and asking you to drive yourself home while "intoxicated."
On May 29 2007 08:38 {88}iNcontroL wrote: your parents thought you were drunk at a bbq so they asked you to drive home? They sound like backwards douchebags. I dont think the issue is really drugs. Especially if they are dodging full proof tests and asking you to drive yourself home while "intoxicated."
Wow...I didn't even think how dumb that sounds lol. Yea, tell that to your parents and see what they say
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
On May 29 2007 10:10 XelNaga wrote: Sounds like drugs aren't the real issue, especially if they are avoiding tests that would ease their minds, as you've been stating.
Come now, what's really going on? And, if they are both acting this way for absolutely no reason (Which I find unlikely) then time to move out.
...Or they are your stereotypical clueless, over protective, religious parents who are trying wayyyy too hard to shelter their kid?
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
your dad's an idiot
why is he an idiot you stupid douchebag?
Are you serious?
I always smoke random shit I find in the loundry. If it is from your family wouldn't hurt ya now
...Or they are your stereotypical clueless, over protective, religious parents who are trying wayyyy too hard to shelter their kid?
I highly doubt they have become as paranoid as he is describing them for no reason.
"stereotypical, religious, over protective parents" or not, this statement is blatantly ignorant.
I'm not going to completely deny the possibility that they are like that, simply because they are like that and have become that way for almost no reason at all. But, that's not the most likely scenario for the reason that he's offered to ease their minds, and they are refusing. If they are that way for nothing he's done, then there might be some sort of problem in either one of their pasts, or in another family members life and they don't want their kid experiencing that and are over compensating. If that's the case then they really have to talk about it, probably with professional help.
If they really are just paranoid, and he's done everything to convince them otherwise and they aren't listening (including every scenario presented in this thread), then he has to move outttt
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
your dad's an idiot
why is he an idiot you stupid douchebag?
Are you serious?
I always smoke random shit I find in the loundry. If it is from your family wouldn't hurt ya now
its not random shit in the loundry idiot, it was weed duh, his dad rolled his weed and smoked it.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
your dad's an idiot
why is he an idiot you stupid douchebag?
Are you serious?
I always smoke random shit I find in the loundry. If it is from your family wouldn't hurt ya now
its not random shit in the loundry idiot, it was weed duh, his dad rolled his weed and smoked it.
He's an idiot either way. If he's trying to reinforce not smoking, what message do you think that sends if he just whips up a J like that? That just screams 'I used to do this way back when, but it's not ok for you!' And if he doesn't care if his son smokes, he's a complete dumbass for not being able to distinguish between weed and flowers.
...Or they are your stereotypical clueless, over protective, religious parents who are trying wayyyy too hard to shelter their kid?
I highly doubt they have become as paranoid as he is describing them for no reason.
"stereotypical, religious, over protective parents" or not, this statement is blatantly ignorant.
Going by what he's said, it's pretty accurate. He said they're real religious and if you're going to give weekly drug tests and bug out every time your kid goes out AND ask him to drive home when you believe hes been drinking, then yes, that statement does fit. And looking back, I should add in that they are fucking morons for asking their kids to drive home when they think he's drinking
...Or they are your stereotypical clueless, over protective, religious parents who are trying wayyyy too hard to shelter their kid?
I highly doubt they have become as paranoid as he is describing them for no reason.
"stereotypical, religious, over protective parents" or not, this statement is blatantly ignorant.
I'm not going to completely deny the possibility that they are like that, simply because they are like that and have become that way for almost no reason at all. But, that's not the most likely scenario for the reason that he's offered to ease their minds, and they are refusing. If they are that way for nothing he's done, then there might be some sort of problem in either one of their pasts, or in another family members life and they don't want their kid experiencing that and are over compensating. If that's the case then they really have to talk about it, probably with professional help.
If they really are just paranoid, and he's done everything to convince them otherwise and they aren't listening (including every scenario presented in this thread), then he has to move outttt
Well in the original post he did say his sister is/was an alcoholic.
I think they are being somewhat retarded refusing drug tests tho.
No wait, I think they are being somewhat retarded wanting drug tests and then denying the results+not wanting to do even more conclusive ones.
No, no wait, they are retarded for asking their SON to take a god damn drug test for no fucking reason.
I'd go talk to an adult person that your parents know and trust and explain the whole situation. It's a little early for professional help, which may end up putting a dent in your relationship with them.
Going by what he's said, it's pretty accurate. He said they're real religious and if you're going to give weekly drug tests and bug out every time your kid goes out AND ask him to drive home when you believe hes been drinking, then yes, that statement does fit. And looking back, I should add in that they are fucking morons for asking their kids to drive home when they think he's drinking
The thing is, the "drugs" don't look like the real issue. If they believe he's drinking and ask him to drive home then yes, they pretty much asked him to drink and drive but no, there is more going on than just the drug issue, thats just what it has culminated into (for whatever reason), they wouldn't have asked him to drive home if they truly believed he was drinking.
If he's proven time and time and time again that he's not on drugs, and they refuse to believe it. Then there's more going on than the drug issue, and he's either not telling us what else is going on, or he's going to have to take a tougher stance with his parents, no matter his age (If he's been completely honest).
On May 29 2007 10:51 FrozenArbiter wrote:
Well in the original post he did say his sister is/was an alcoholic.
I think they are being somewhat retarded refusing drug tests tho.
No wait, I think they are being somewhat retarded wanting drug tests and then denying the results+not wanting to do even more conclusive ones.
No, no wait, they are retarded for asking their SON to take a god damn drug test for no fucking reason.
His sister is/was an alcoholic? Are they worried he might turn into his sister, and so to avoid that they are going off the deep end? Question is, who else in their family has had drug/alcohol issues. His parents might have had some terrible experience and to avoid it with their kids, there they go off the deep end.
Like I said, there's more to it than just the drugs.
I don't understand how people (kids) put up with shitty parents like this. Why would you ever listen to anyone who treats you like shit and accuses you constantly of doing things you aren't doing.
First of all taking drug tests weekly is like saying you're guilty until proven innocent. That is just ridiculous. Not even the government is that shitty. Your Dad proved hes fucking stupid by claiming you are drinking and telling you to drive home. Either that or he knows you're not drinking and he just wants to hassle you, like always.
I came into this thread too late, I don't have anything else to say.
This is a retarded scenario. I got the same thing for stupider thigs, though. Grounded for apparently not brushing my teeth, one time for not doing my dishes (when I did). Get your mom to either: A. Get some counselling B. Stop watching Dr. Phil or whatever the fuck it is. (Apparently the computer is really bad for my IQ, says Oprah =/. Only allowed an hou a day now.)
gl though. I didn't want to wade through 9 pages, so sorry if I just repeated things.
My mom used to do that, watch Dr. Phil and all this bullshit, she married a crazy man because he was a good sugar daddy, and she would wait on him hand and foot because he could get her anything she wanted... mentally abused my sister (13-14 at the time, calling her a bitch and a cunt and stuff.)
I would piss him off by ignoring everything he said and doing what I wanted anyway, I told him to his face that I could destroy his life with the proof I had of him being abusive. (problem is my mom didnt have a backbone to leave him 5 years ago)
currently im moved out and in another state, and she calls me now for advice. ("Should I have him pay off the car, or let him have the car and take half of his investments?" etc.) as shes in the middle of divorcing him.
I always told her I knew what I was doing and if i ever took her advice we'd have a problem. It just had to actually happen before she believed me.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
your dad's an idiot
why is he an idiot you stupid douchebag?
Are you serious?
I always smoke random shit I find in the loundry. If it is from your family wouldn't hurt ya now
its not random shit in the loundry idiot, it was weed duh, his dad rolled his weed and smoked it.
It was just random leaves from a flower he got earlier as he told his dad. His dad smoked it anyway. And that's why he's an idiot.
On May 28 2007 19:08 BuGzlToOnl wrote: Leave your computer on this page so they can "accidently" read it and stop questioning you. Or have a legit talk with them. Sit down and tell them why you wouldn't do drugs, things that they will like to hear to reassure them that you really aren't doing anything bad.
My parents thought I was on drugs once. The day after I came home from a trip to NY with a couple of buddies my mom was doing the laundry. And she found "marijuana" in my pocket, I have a tendency to grab leaves and stuff off trees and play with them, sometimes I put them in my pocket. We were at a cherry blossom festivel thing in NY so I stole a couple of flowers and put them in my pocked.
The day after we came back my dad called me down from upstairs and asked me, "what kind of friends do I have". I replied, "black friends?" (since my two buddies were both black :p). Then he caught me offguard when he said have you ever smoked marijiguana. I didn't reply anything and thought back because I have "friends" that are heavy on drugs. But my answer was a "no?", he opened a piece of paper my mom had put the leaves in it and asked me whats this. I replied I don't know (which wasn't too smart), he replied it was in your pocked. I said, "probably leaves from yesterday, I stole a flower and put it in my pocked".
He then procceeded TO SMOKE THE LEAVES! I couldn't stop laughing he rolled it up just like a pro and light it up!! I asked him if his ever done that before, because he looked nostalgic to him. We then stepped into an awkward moment and I then went back up stairs and came back in 5 minutes or so. I asked him how the drugs were treating him, but he didn't reply. The entire day we didn't really talk, but things went back to normal the following day.
And that was my parents tought I was on drugs story.
your dad's an idiot
why is he an idiot you stupid douchebag?
Are you serious?
I always smoke random shit I find in the loundry. If it is from your family wouldn't hurt ya now
its not random shit in the loundry idiot, it was weed duh, his dad rolled his weed and smoked it.
It was just random leaves from a flower he got earlier as he told his dad. His dad smoked it anyway. And that's why he's an idiot.
Jesus Christ how many times did you guys quote my story, could of just put #BuGz or something. But I don't think what he did was at all stupid to clarify the leaves were crumbled up and dry when they were found by my mother. And they didn't go through the wash, she got them before that, she always checks my pockets for any papers or money that I might of left in there. I don't think doing drugs is morally "bad", but it's really unneccesary, he was just trying to make sure I wasn't in any trouble.
His background non existent he grew up with absolutly nothing with a roof over his head a father that was worthless, had 4 sisters 5 brothers. If I remember all my aunts and uncles.. :p He was somewhat over protective over the shit I do when I was younger, but now I have a lot more freedom, since I'm a good little boy and have proven myself to be trusted.
Edit: To the Op..
Maybe you can ask your parents how they can gain your trust and try to meet them at least half way on what time they want you home try to reason with them the main thing is to communicate with them. If that fails then try to spend more time at home with friends or something similiar for your parents to gain a little bit trust in you.
how can you mother do regular drug test on you? Go to doctor and get a drug test base on blood/hair, then make the point that your parent is doing drugs that is why they got all this illusion of you doing it.
Jesus Christ how many times did you guys quote my story, could of just put #BuGz or something. But I don't think what he did was at all stupid to clarify the leaves were crumbled up and dry when they were found by my mother. And they didn't go through the wash, she got them before that, she always checks my pockets for any papers or money that I might of left in there. I don't think doing drugs is morally "bad", but it's really unneccesary, he was just trying to make sure I wasn't in any trouble.
His background non existent he grew up with absolutly nothing with a roof over his head a father that was worthless, had 4 sisters 5 brothers. If I remember all my aunts and uncles.. :p He was somewhat over protective over the shit I do when I was younger, but now I have a lot more freedom, since I'm a good little boy and have proven myself to be trusted.
Edit: To the Op..
Maybe you can ask your parents how they can gain your trust and try to meet them at least half way on what time they want you home try to reason with them the main thing is to communicate with them. If that fails then try to spend more time at home with friends or something similiar for your parents to gain a little bit trust in you.
so they were actually leaves and not weed? what in the fuck then i gotta gree ur dad is a retard... how can he not know its NOT weed -.-
Jesus Christ how many times did you guys quote my story, could of just put #BuGz or something. But I don't think what he did was at all stupid to clarify the leaves were crumbled up and dry when they were found by my mother. And they didn't go through the wash, she got them before that, she always checks my pockets for any papers or money that I might of left in there. I don't think doing drugs is morally "bad", but it's really unneccesary, he was just trying to make sure I wasn't in any trouble.
His background non existent he grew up with absolutly nothing with a roof over his head a father that was worthless, had 4 sisters 5 brothers. If I remember all my aunts and uncles.. :p He was somewhat over protective over the shit I do when I was younger, but now I have a lot more freedom, since I'm a good little boy and have proven myself to be trusted.
Edit: To the Op..
Maybe you can ask your parents how they can gain your trust and try to meet them at least half way on what time they want you home try to reason with them the main thing is to communicate with them. If that fails then try to spend more time at home with friends or something similiar for your parents to gain a little bit trust in you.
so they were actually leaves and not weed? what in the fuck then i gotta gree ur dad is a retard... how can he not know its NOT weed -.-
Even if it was weed why is he smoking weed to find out if you're smoking weed? Assuming they don't want you to smoke it then it's hilariously retarded, not even mentioning the fact that he doesn't know what weed looks and smells like.
PS: Sorry for insulting your dad, it's only one incident after all so it's no big deal, just funny.
On May 30 2007 07:38 joey-jones wrote: dude do wat i did and tell ur mom that if she dosent start beliving you then your jest gonna move out or you could jest sue em
On May 30 2007 07:38 joey-jones wrote: dude do wat i did and tell ur mom that if she dosent start beliving you then your jest gonna move out or you could jest sue em
ya dued jest sue ur parnetz iduno wut ur worried 4
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