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well....I must confess this thing,dear lord I have a crush on Sister,L.
Sister.L , missionary of Jesus Crist the latter day saints (aka Mormon). 22 years old.
After I got baptized, the Elders were transfered to another city, so Sister L & H came to my city, met me each week talking about the gospel and other stuff.
At first, I didn't really notice her. ye,she is way good looking but definately not "hot", you know they always wear modest clothes and dont make-up. In which way I quite like.
The more I contact with her, the more I find how nice she is. Though missionary life is tough, she keep smiling everyday to everyone, she never get angry/sad by anyone who offenced her. She said " I love smart people and dumb people". And she is a girl with strong will. Once she caught a cold, keep coughing and snotty, looked really sick, but she went on missionary work walking on the rainy streets. I am really impressed. She said she doesnt have much money and everything in germany is much more expensive than in US. I saw her eat only bread+cheese for her lunch, but she is quite happy. I think she is one of those who can "lighten a room".
I invited her and her companion for dinner several times and bought her some gifts for christmas/birthday. I can see that she really like me.
Now she is transfered to anther city  , I am planning to write her letters in broken english She is not supposed to write me ,hmm that wired missionary-rule...
Before she left, she gave me her e-mail and address in US. I bought her a nice scarf, but she didnt wear it the day I saw her off
I dont know what to do now.... she is American, and I will notlive in American, we can only be friends. OK...I am also glad if we could be good friend in the next few years, but......
I dont know she likes me because she is just supposed to like every church member or she REALLY like me as she and her companion said "we love you so much".
What should I write to her? tell her "I really love you, I would really happy to make friends with you, let's keep in contact until one of us get married"?
I am afraid she will snub me when she realize the whole thing.
well... too late now, I must go sleep, hope to see some nice advices tomorrow
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btw: dont tell me I can have more than 1 wife as a mormon! It is forbidden since 1903.
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You can have more than 1 wife as a mormon.
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On January 01 2007 18:58 MarcX wrote:
You can have more than 1 wife as a mormon.
NO ONE SAW THAT COMING
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United States20665 Posts
mormon missionaries don't need to be celibate?
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omg how i really would like to answer you in german ^^
i'll try in english then: that's pretty fucked up.
nothing you can do about it. Just relax it/Just let it go. w/e.
btw MarcX, i really didn't see it coming because i thought nobody would be, ahem, ignorant enough to actually make that joke. i LOL'ed nonetheless.
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do u know where in america she lives? Maybe one of us TL.net people can contact her.
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"I really love you, I would really happy to make friends with you,..." i loled. sweet gal this sister L. i think she is just being nice to you and not really looking to get intimate. i mean, she is in love with god and jesus. im sure you will fall in love with another and forget sister L.
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joohyunee
Korea (South)1087 Posts
nah give up on her. she's not the one. you'll find another person soon enough =) and one day you'll find THE ONE MAN WHO CAN SATISFY YOU THE MOST: SlayerS'BoxeR"
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i'm gonna need a pic of this sister L.
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The thing about Mormon missionaries is that before they leave Salt Lake for their mission, they usually already have in mind someone who they want to marry once they return as "R.M.s". I'm afraid your infatuation will, more than likely, not blossom into a relationship or anything like that.
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United States44014 Posts
It's because you converted. Missionaries don't hang around Christians, they go convert others. Write her a letter saying you're wavering in your faith, she'll be back. :p
Plus, of all the religions to convert to you became a Mormon?
Anyways, say you can't find the light of God in your life and you need some more of her company..... and perhaps a lapdance.
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youtube videos are really popular for these kind of things now arent they lol
i think you should think about this first and then decide your next action
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On January 01 2007 19:24 joohyunee wrote:
nah give up on her. she's not the one. you'll find another person soon enough =) and one day you'll find THE ONE MAN WHO CAN SATISFY YOU THE MOST: SlayerS'BoxeR"
lmao
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On January 01 2007 19:00 Last Romantic wrote:
mormon missionaries don't need to be celibate?
they do need to be celibate, and sexuel relationship is not allowed of out marriage, for all mormons.
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On January 01 2007 19:06 CCHS wrote:
do u know where in america she lives? Maybe one of us TL.net people can contact her.
yes I know, but thanks,...
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On January 01 2007 19:29 AmorVincitOmnia wrote:
i'm gonna need a pic of this sister L.
well... if any of you REALLY want to know how she looks like, leave your email, I send you a picture. Basicly I should not do that, because I dont get her permission.
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On January 01 2007 19:41 SuN-TzU wrote:
The thing about Mormon missionaries is that before they leave Salt Lake for their mission, they usually already have in mind someone who they want to marry once they return as "R.M.s". I'm afraid your infatuation will, more than likely, not blossom into a relationship or anything like that.
Yes, you are right. It's only a crush anyway. But I dont know much about Americans, how they treat friendship, so I ask how to make good friends with her.
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