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well....I must confess this thing,dear lord I have a crush on Sister,L.
Sister.L , missionary of Jesus Crist the latter day saints (aka Mormon). 22 years old.
After I got baptized, the Elders were transfered to another city, so Sister L & H came to my city, met me each week talking about the gospel and other stuff.
At first, I didn't really notice her. ye,she is way good looking but definately not "hot", you know they always wear modest clothes and dont make-up. In which way I quite like.
The more I contact with her, the more I find how nice she is. Though missionary life is tough, she keep smiling everyday to everyone, she never get angry/sad by anyone who offenced her. She said " I love smart people and dumb people". And she is a girl with strong will. Once she caught a cold, keep coughing and snotty, looked really sick, but she went on missionary work walking on the rainy streets. I am really impressed. She said she doesnt have much money and everything in germany is much more expensive than in US. I saw her eat only bread+cheese for her lunch, but she is quite happy. I think she is one of those who can "lighten a room".
I invited her and her companion for dinner several times and bought her some gifts for christmas/birthday. I can see that she really like me.
Now she is transfered to anther city  , I am planning to write her letters in broken english She is not supposed to write me ,hmm that wired missionary-rule...
Before she left, she gave me her e-mail and address in US. I bought her a nice scarf, but she didnt wear it the day I saw her off
I dont know what to do now.... she is American, and I will notlive in American, we can only be friends. OK...I am also glad if we could be good friend in the next few years, but......
I dont know she likes me because she is just supposed to like every church member or she REALLY like me as she and her companion said "we love you so much".
What should I write to her? tell her "I really love you, I would really happy to make friends with you, let's keep in contact until one of us get married"?
I am afraid she will snub me when she realize the whole thing.
well... too late now, I must go sleep, hope to see some nice advices tomorrow
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btw: dont tell me I can have more than 1 wife as a mormon! It is forbidden since 1903.
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You can have more than 1 wife as a mormon.
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On January 01 2007 18:58 MarcX wrote:
You can have more than 1 wife as a mormon.
NO ONE SAW THAT COMING
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United States20661 Posts
mormon missionaries don't need to be celibate?
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omg how i really would like to answer you in german ^^
i'll try in english then: that's pretty fucked up.
nothing you can do about it. Just relax it/Just let it go. w/e.
btw MarcX, i really didn't see it coming because i thought nobody would be, ahem, ignorant enough to actually make that joke. i LOL'ed nonetheless.
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do u know where in america she lives? Maybe one of us TL.net people can contact her.
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"I really love you, I would really happy to make friends with you,..." i loled. sweet gal this sister L. i think she is just being nice to you and not really looking to get intimate. i mean, she is in love with god and jesus. im sure you will fall in love with another and forget sister L.
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joohyunee
Korea (South)1087 Posts
nah give up on her. she's not the one. you'll find another person soon enough =) and one day you'll find THE ONE MAN WHO CAN SATISFY YOU THE MOST: SlayerS'BoxeR"
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i'm gonna need a pic of this sister L.
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The thing about Mormon missionaries is that before they leave Salt Lake for their mission, they usually already have in mind someone who they want to marry once they return as "R.M.s". I'm afraid your infatuation will, more than likely, not blossom into a relationship or anything like that.
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United States42262 Posts
It's because you converted. Missionaries don't hang around Christians, they go convert others. Write her a letter saying you're wavering in your faith, she'll be back. :p
Plus, of all the religions to convert to you became a Mormon?
Anyways, say you can't find the light of God in your life and you need some more of her company..... and perhaps a lapdance.
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youtube videos are really popular for these kind of things now arent they lol
i think you should think about this first and then decide your next action
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On January 01 2007 19:24 joohyunee wrote:
nah give up on her. she's not the one. you'll find another person soon enough =) and one day you'll find THE ONE MAN WHO CAN SATISFY YOU THE MOST: SlayerS'BoxeR"
lmao
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On January 01 2007 19:00 Last Romantic wrote:
mormon missionaries don't need to be celibate?
they do need to be celibate, and sexuel relationship is not allowed of out marriage, for all mormons.
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On January 01 2007 19:06 CCHS wrote:
do u know where in america she lives? Maybe one of us TL.net people can contact her.
yes I know, but thanks,...
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On January 01 2007 19:29 AmorVincitOmnia wrote:
i'm gonna need a pic of this sister L.
well... if any of you REALLY want to know how she looks like, leave your email, I send you a picture. Basicly I should not do that, because I dont get her permission.
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On January 01 2007 19:41 SuN-TzU wrote:
The thing about Mormon missionaries is that before they leave Salt Lake for their mission, they usually already have in mind someone who they want to marry once they return as "R.M.s". I'm afraid your infatuation will, more than likely, not blossom into a relationship or anything like that.
Yes, you are right. It's only a crush anyway. But I dont know much about Americans, how they treat friendship, so I ask how to make good friends with her.
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On January 01 2007 19:42 Kwark wrote:
It's because you converted. Missionaries don't hang around Christians, they go convert others. Write her a letter saying you're wavering in your faith, she'll be back. :p
Plus, of all the religions to convert to you became a Mormon?
Anyways, say you can't find the light of God in your life and you need some more of her company..... and perhaps a lapdance.
you are cursed,
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United Kingdom10597 Posts
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4492 Posts
Haha, I'm around Mormons for almost a year now, I only talk with guys tho (never seen any cute missionary gals there anyway), BUT, the only thing I ever considered baptism for was the girls! Mormon girls are close to perfect since they're modest and honest and lovely and cute and whatnot, and if they also happen to be pretty this whole combination can be quite devastating.
Looks like you joined the church pretty soon there tho, should have kept it more honest for a while, girls like persistence :o
On the other hand, even if it's not her, you still have a veritable pick of the litter - there must be plenty of other Mormon gals to choose from, gl.
-Mynock
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Not celibate, chaste.
LDS members can serve on a mission from ages 19-23, and much, much older - elder missionaries. Most are young, and are unmarried when they serve, therefore no sex.
And writing to her saying you're wavering in your faith won't work, b/c they have no say in where they're sent.
For now, if you want an LDS girl, pay attention to all those singles' ward activities, dances, trips, etc. Or, you can go to BYU, seriously. Lots of returned missionaries go there, and sometimes it seems that the school is there just so people can get married.
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Course if she's not from too far away, you can always get contact info from her and stay in touch. Missionaries love hearing about what those they teach are up to.
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Germany / USA16648 Posts
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THERE ARE BUT TWO QUESTIONS TO PONDER OVER A BEER YOUNG ONE:
Will you feel like more of a jackass if you ask her and she denies you, or if you don't ask her and—GASP—NEVER KNOW!?!
and teh more important one
arent fucking missionaries supposed to be celebate??!
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thedeadhaji
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On January 02 2007 05:32 zergstory wrote:Show nested quote +On January 01 2007 19:29 AmorVincitOmnia wrote:
i'm gonna need a pic of this sister L. well... if any of you REALLY want to know how she looks like, leave your email, I send you a picture. Basicly I should not do that, because I dont get her permission.
dont do it b/c it'll get posted here ~_~
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4492 Posts
Just ask her out, dammit.
-Mynock
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On January 02 2007 06:38 j0ehoe wrote:
THERE ARE BUT TWO QUESTIONS TO PONDER OVER A BEER YOUNG ONE:
Will you feel like more of a jackass if you ask her and she denies you, or if you don't ask her and—GASP—NEVER KNOW!?!
and teh more important one
arent fucking missionaries supposed to be celebate??!
use the F-word not make you look cool.
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On January 02 2007 06:46 Mynock wrote:
Just ask her out, dammit.
-Mynock
It's impossible, at least during her missionary period.
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United Kingdom10597 Posts
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There's gotta be a lame joke about the missionary position in this...
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You can't compete with Jesus.
Don't even try.
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I think this will solve all your problems
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On January 02 2007 07:17 InFiNitY[pG] wrote:I think this will solve all your problems
those solve Your problems dont solve Mine. btw, your game vs Ppppppp on LT is cool.
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4492 Posts
On January 02 2007 07:17 InFiNitY[pG] wrote:I think this will solve all your problems
Present to my gf on her bday this year.
I'll see how she takes it and then share the results :o
-Mynock
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On January 02 2007 07:05 Chibi[OWNS] wrote:
you shouldnt have sex during her period lol
better than having sex with someone who didn't have a period yet.
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On January 02 2007 07:46 pr0n- wrote:Show nested quote +On January 02 2007 07:05 Chibi[OWNS] wrote:
you shouldnt have sex during her period lol better than having sex with someone who didn't have a period yet.
well at least we agree on our views on pedos ><
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Norway10161 Posts
I've seen several movies where sisters have sex with random guys, ofter several at a time. All hope is not lost.
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On January 02 2007 08:01 ToKoreaWithLove wrote:
I've seen several movies where sisters have sex with random guys, ofter several at a time. All hope is not lost.
yea hes got a point. they wouldnt put that shit in a movie if it wasnt true.
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On January 02 2007 08:01 ToKoreaWithLove wrote:
I've seen several movies where sisters have sex with random guys, ofter several at a time. All hope is not lost.
that dude knows the right movies to watch. yea gogo believe anything they tell on television.
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Physician
United States4146 Posts
Where are you from zergstory?
Anyway, follow your heart, don't even hesitate, you can lose nothing more than if you don't try. If it happens, it happens. If she has reciprocal feelings you might be pleasantly surprised, and if she does not, such is life. Be yourself, and be honest with your feelings. One must first place the bet, to win and don't forget that the fun part, is the time spent in the game.
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she doesn't love you
she loves jesus
sorry buddy but you're pretty much hopeless on this one
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I havent read any of the responses but my sister is a mormon and they're all fake. That whole nice shit is cause they believe the only way to get into heaven is to try to be a perfect person or some bullshit. ALL mormons are nice and like that..it's seriously just an act. Half of them are basket cases. Don't bother
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On January 02 2007 10:37 Physician wrote:
Where are you from zergstory?
from his signature i can only conclude he is german, or german speaking at least.
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I know a really cute and devote mormon girl. She and her family act like the mormon family on Southpark xD.
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nitram lags
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On January 02 2007 12:04 ToT)Testie( wrote:nitram lags
i blame nitram
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Imagine, without religion, you wouldn't be having this problem.
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Germany / USA16648 Posts
without religion he probably wouldnt have had any contact with this girl at all, so your point is well... no point at all
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On January 02 2007 12:30 decafchicken wrote:i blame nitram
:'(
Scorpion: He meet this "SisterL" girl thanks to his religion. ~~
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I am not a German, I am in Germany.
I am Asian, I usually dont have any feeling about Caucasion girls, she is the one changed my mind. (you know, in Asians' eyes, most Caucasion girls are sluts.
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and please stop joking on my sisters.......(angry sigh)
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I and her are so different, and my English is not good enough to communicate with her freely. I know it is a desperate love. I just write it down, I don't really expect any miracle happens.
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Corrupt her!
Nah, just follow your heart and see where it takes you. Better to take a chance than none. Go to her, and be honest with yourself. (Or not, innocent people are usually the most gullible HAR.)
I kid, I kid, seriously, just do it.
Wait, I just read through this thread, and it really seems like a lost cause in my eyes :/ Just try to get close, in whatever way possible, a little determination can go a long way.
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thx, Quietldiot, you are only the few guys encouraged me. I will try to get close...in whatever way possible.
I got her address in Germany now, she replied my e-mail and I will write her a long letter with nice pictures. Probably I will decorate the photos with the tool which i found in the "Let's Make Motivational PICTURES!!!!"thread.
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intrigue
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
give us updates, too
good luck, may your keyboard be sturdy and your mouse never break
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Netherlands19130 Posts
On January 01 2007 19:00 Romance_us wrote:Show nested quote +On January 01 2007 18:58 MarcX wrote:
You can have more than 1 wife as a mormon. NO ONE SAW THAT COMING
I knew it was comming, scrolled down, saw it and still lolled.
:D
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On January 02 2007 13:15 Carnac wrote:
without religion he probably wouldnt have had any contact with this girl at all, so your point is well... no point at all
Exactly. He would be banging some hot atheist chick without thinking twice about it, not worrying about some chick who is bounded to her religion and will never love him.
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I don't think he is interested in banging atheist chicks...
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you guys are all missing the obvious answer.
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Well since she seems nice and all it would be no loss to only stay friends by mail, msn ect. And if you get a closer realationship thats a bonus. And apparently nice mormon girls are common. Atleast so I've heard. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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On January 01 2007 19:00 Romance_us wrote:Show nested quote +On January 01 2007 18:58 MarcX wrote:
You can have more than 1 wife as a mormon. NO ONE SAW THAT COMING
lolz!
you guys are funny
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