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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
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waffelz
Germany711 Posts
On August 02 2016 02:09 Volband wrote: I'm still not practiced in the arts of pulling out, and we are talking about someone who is prone to getting pregnant. Never ever go for the pull out method. You know who believes in the pull out method? Fathers of unwanted children, retards who have no idea that the comparable low timeframe for a fertilization most likely is the only reason they are still without children and people who feel like ghetto/got too big of a pride/whatever reason to not to use a condom / talk with their partners about birth control. Like I barely made it through your stories without banging my head on the keyboard but this is literally the line. Do what smart people do: Putting on a condom can’t be hard, they even made monkey figuring it out so will you. They usually come even with a description on how to put them on – with pictures. As long as you are smarter than a monkey, you basically can only fuck 2 things up: trying to put it on the wrong way or using the wrong size. If you definitely ruled out 1, check out 2. Maybe your penis is to big/too wide for regular condoms, despite what some people in here said, there is a reason for condoms in different sizes. In that case, measure your trooper and get him the right gear. EDIT: Oh and that casual "should I ask for the letter/whatever that she is not disease ridden", like seriously? Is that really a concern for you when being willed to go in free? You know that the 5sec rule doesn’t apply to dick? | ||
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Volband
Hungary6034 Posts
I remember, I once tried on a lifestyles (it was a graduation gift back from high-school) and without looking up any instructions, it just rolled on nicely. | ||
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B.I.G.
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evilfatsh1t
Australia8913 Posts
its really not rocket science tbh... as for pulling out its not hard either. i personally dont understand how anyone could lack the self control to pull out when they know theyre about to climax. like...are they all thinking "god this feels too good it is physically impossible for my body to stop"? when im about to climax im pulling it out cool as a cucumber and finishing with either hand or mouth. | ||
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Volband
Hungary6034 Posts
I believe I should pull the skin back and somehow put it on that way (I have only two hands, by the way), but it just stucks midway. I know the motion, but it just stucks, and the pain of pulling my skin kinda makes me not want to try again with this type. I'm clumsy but not an idiot. :D | ||
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evilfatsh1t
Australia8913 Posts
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Deleted User 101379
4849 Posts
On August 02 2016 15:34 Volband wrote: Personally I don't think I could not pull out, I was just trying to list some cons for bareback, because technically it could happen. I'm also unsure what waffelz meant by his remark on asking for that medical paper. It's not like I would want her to take the test; she already did it, and if I can read the paper that yes, she is healthy, then I could just try it without condom. I believe I should pull the skin back and somehow put it on that way (I have only two hands, by the way), but it just stucks midway. I know the motion, but it just stucks, and the pain of pulling my skin kinda makes me not want to try again with this type. I'm clumsy but not an idiot. :D For people that have sex with someone they've just met, a medical paper that's even just a month old is outdated. Who knows who they had sex with in the meantime and what STDs those persons had. Also, do you want to have a child with such a person? Probably not, so don't take any risks. Sure, they might take the pill - when they don't happen to forget it every second day. Pulling out is not birth control. You can have unprotected sex in a relationship as much as you want. Having it outside of a relationship is flat out stupid, risky and asking for trouble that will follow you your whole life. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
You're not pulling out because your gf on birthcontrol doesn't like cum inside her, you're pulling out because you don't want her to have a child. And that is a ridiculously stupid way to do "birth control". | ||
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bloodwhore~
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farvacola
United States18866 Posts
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On August 02 2016 20:27 farvacola wrote: Frank Yang is a fucking lunatic.... That is definitely true. One can not make montages of gym workouts with big black dildos without being a lunatic. | ||
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Ahli
Germany355 Posts
On August 02 2016 17:43 bloodwhore~ wrote: I don't even know why you guys would debate if "pulling out" is hard or not. That's not even relevant. You're not pulling out because your gf on birthcontrol doesn't like cum inside her, you're pulling out because you don't want her to have a child. And that is a ridiculously stupid way to do "birth control". It's possible to partially ejaculate before the climax. So, pulling out is a really naive way of birth control, if you solely rely on it. | ||
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Godwrath
Spain10156 Posts
And obviously, having sex with strangers or if she/you have relationships with others withouth a condom is very risky and not something i would do. There are STDs which you won't suffer, but you will pass into other girls you are with for example, and a lot of pesky stuff other than the obvious ones. But to each their own. I only have sex withouth a condom with girls that i had been in a fuck buddies relationship in a long time and we have got to a point where we can trust each other into that we will keep using condoms with others. | ||
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IgnE
United States7681 Posts
On August 02 2016 20:27 farvacola wrote: Frank Yang is a fucking lunatic.... He's pretty famous though. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32157 Posts
On August 03 2016 06:12 Ahli wrote: It's possible to partially ejaculate before the climax. So, pulling out is a really naive way of birth control, if you solely rely on it. Yeah exactly. Just make sure she's on top and let gravity do the work if you don't wanna use condoms | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On August 04 2016 03:41 QuanticHawk wrote: Just make sure she's on top and let gravity do the work if you don't wanna use condoms I'm not even sure if this is bait or not... | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32157 Posts
On August 04 2016 05:42 bloodwhore~ wrote: I'm not even sure if this is bait or not... in the case of guy who entered 2016 as a virgin vs guy with 29,000 posts, I think the people know who to trust ![[image loading]](http://cdn.playbuzz.com/cdn/a83c336e-c7b4-4dc8-8391-dd82a71b224a/a812460f-e9fa-446a-8c5f-5d8546c12bcb.gif) | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
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hexhaven
Finland964 Posts
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