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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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urSa
United States77 Posts
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EnumaAvalon
Philippines3613 Posts
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DavoS
United States4605 Posts
Then I was with am overt slut who I left for a secret slut (still beat myself up about that one occasionally), and have bee single ever since. Honestly, I'm not too upset about it either | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
On January 04 2013 01:05 NuKE[vZ] wrote: Judging by what he said... I don't think he expects any girl, not even a fat and ugly one. He has low self esteem and no self confidence clearly, that's why he is a virgin. I highly doubt he is a virgin because he's trying to find a 'gorgeous hottie' lol. ... He said he would only date this girl or an equivalent looking lady ![[image loading]](http://onekpop.com/i/pictures-secrets-hyosung-stunned-with-glamorous-figure_h-spe_1.jpg) | ||
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ROOTFayth
Canada3351 Posts
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{ToT}ColmA
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kuriz
Denmark141 Posts
I know it sound hippie like and all, but I have had acne since I was 10 (I'm 23 now) and only a few years back got medical treatment that helped me a lot (in Denmark there's a product called Accutine, you need a doctor to get because it can have very serious side effects, but it work wonders and for everyone that has suffered from acne I'm sure you're willing to go through it). So I haven't always been outgoing and social, but guys, just go out have a cheap night: buy maybe one or two beers, joke and hang with your friends oh and what I have figured out is the golden rule: don't ever f***ing say: "I don't dance". Girls aren't interested in a guy that can dance well, they're interested in a guy that wants to have fun - because, let's admit it, in general guys are much more fun that girls are and this is a fact (that I don't have any numbers on, but I know it and I'm sure you know it also) on the dance floor and smile and have a good time. Don't go and make the Travolta moves unless you're actually doing it on purpose (I even hooked up with a woman once because I made a dance-off with a guy and won by making the worm combined with homemade riverdance moves) but this is just me being a bit too drunk and want to have a bit too much fun. Just go out there, nobody cares how your feet move. And if you don't know what to do with your hands because I promise you, when you begin to think about what to do with them it'll be so hard to figure what to do, just bring a beer with you. Stand there, dance, smile and have a good time. My experience tells me that if there's one thing you shouldn't do if you're not a Johnny Depp lookalike or have a booming self-esteem, is that walking up behind some girls dancing and start dancing behind them with your croch (spelling?) and do the sexy dance. Most girls will be turned off big time. Okay but here I am, girl professor (not), but get out there and have fun that's all there is to it  | ||
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ROOTFayth
Canada3351 Posts
On January 04 2013 01:45 {ToT}ColmA wrote: he is right, i dont expect anything anymore, i am just that ugly. that talk about hyosung is just a cover up to get myself into the thinking "i actually could get...but my standards too high" etc which is just bullshit to sooth my idiotism. the other part is no joke jesus christ dat self esteem why do you despise yourself that much.... | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
On January 04 2013 01:45 {ToT}ColmA wrote: he is right, i dont expect anything anymore, i am just that ugly. that talk about hyosung is just a cover up to get myself into the thinking "i actually could get...but my standards too high" etc which is just bullshit to sooth my idiotism. the other part is no joke Oh okay then my heart does go out to you. But no one is that ugly unless you literally don't have a face or are 500 lbs dude...get to the gym and improve your self-respect, then girls will come. | ||
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{ToT}ColmA
Japan3260 Posts
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Zinnwaldite
Norway1567 Posts
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
On January 04 2013 01:45 {ToT}ColmA wrote: he is right, i dont expect anything anymore, i am just that ugly. that talk about hyosung is just a cover up to get myself into the thinking "i actually could get...but my standards too high" etc which is just bullshit to sooth my idiotism. the other part is no joke don't worry man there are girls just as ugly as you that want to have sex too never give up, never surrender! | ||
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Zinnwaldite
Norway1567 Posts
On January 04 2013 02:03 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote: don't worry man there are girls just as ugly as you that want to have sex too never give up, never surrender! This is strage,, i think the fact that i have balls and lust must be the reason i hardly ever see ugly girls,, ever.. Ugly guys are common though.. Then again,, i'm sure there are lots more ugly girls than we think,, they just know how to put on a nicer face every morning.. Best thing is to find an okay looking girl that does not wear make up,, that is score to me,, cause with make up she would be just as nice looking as all the gorgeous mask wearers out there.. I kinda told a girl i wouldn't mind it if she left her guy(who is also the father of her baby) to be with me.. Wonder what will happen there.. I'm a terrible person.. | ||
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Shellebelles
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Erasme
Bahamas15899 Posts
Not expecting a positive answer but w/e :D | ||
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Zinnwaldite
Norway1567 Posts
On January 04 2013 02:08 Erasme wrote: i'm gonna ask my best friend asap. Not expecting a positive answer but w/e :D Being passive never helps.. CHARGE THE LINES!! | ||
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ThomasjServo
15244 Posts
On January 04 2013 01:54 ROOTFayth wrote: jesus christ dat self esteem why do you despise yourself that much.... Unfortunately there is no convincing some. Confidence really is 9/10 the battle, I by no means am the most attractive guy in the world, but I am currently playing up a proverbial league because I am confident in myself. ColmA, coming from someone who had those issues most of their life, you should get into something that makes you feel good about yourself. For me it was running, the first time I was told I had dropped weight made me brim with confidence, you just need that little push to get momentum going. | ||
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FFGenerations
7088 Posts
On January 04 2013 01:45 {ToT}ColmA wrote: he is right, i dont expect anything anymore, i am just that ugly. that talk about hyosung is just a cover up to get myself into the thinking "i actually could get...but my standards too high" etc which is just bullshit to sooth my idiotism. the other part is no joke have a read of my latest blog which shows you how to control your facial expressions to make people more receptive to you (and make you feel like you have a chance in the world!) | ||
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inss
United States51 Posts
On January 04 2013 01:46 kuriz wrote: Aw guys this thread makes me sad. I'm no dating champ (I've only been to a couple with different success rate) but you should just jump out there and say hi to them women. This is also a rather new revelation to me but it actually isn't as hard as you might think. Go out with your friends but don't go out with the intention only to pick up girls. Just to have a good time, be open, social, talkative and investigative towards the opposite sex and you'll find yourself over time being more confident and not take a no like anything is wrong with you. I've never dated a lot but I have known quite a few girls and sure, it still sucks if you fancy someone that doesn't like you back the same way, but hey, you'll find someone sooner or later. I know it sound hippie like and all, but I have had acne since I was 10 (I'm 23 now) and only a few years back got medical treatment that helped me a lot (in Denmark there's a product called Accutine, you need a doctor to get because it can have very serious side effects, but it work wonders and for everyone that has suffered from acne I'm sure you're willing to go through it). So I haven't always been outgoing and social, but guys, just go out have a cheap night: buy maybe one or two beers, joke and hang with your friends oh and what I have figured out is the golden rule: don't ever f***ing say: "I don't dance". Girls aren't interested in a guy that can dance well, they're interested in a guy that wants to have fun - because, let's admit it, in general guys are much more fun that girls are and this is a fact (that I don't have any numbers on, but I know it and I'm sure you know it also) on the dance floor and smile and have a good time. Don't go and make the Travolta moves unless you're actually doing it on purpose (I even hooked up with a woman once because I made a dance-off with a guy and won by making the worm combined with homemade riverdance moves) but this is just me being a bit too drunk and want to have a bit too much fun. Just go out there, nobody cares how your feet move. And if you don't know what to do with your hands because I promise you, when you begin to think about what to do with them it'll be so hard to figure what to do, just bring a beer with you. Stand there, dance, smile and have a good time. My experience tells me that if there's one thing you shouldn't do if you're not a Johnny Depp lookalike or have a booming self-esteem, is that walking up behind some girls dancing and start dancing behind them with your croch (spelling?) and do the sexy dance. Most girls will be turned off big time. Okay but here I am, girl professor (not), but get out there and have fun that's all there is to it What if you don't dance, or even like dancing? You're talking about going out, not with the intention of picking up girls, but to have fun with your friends; so if dancing isn't fun for you, why pretend? I hate the dance floor, yet I've had great results with women because I know where I belong. I belong sitting at a table behind a whiskey, making conversation. If you're stumbling around a dance floor with a beer in your hand you might grab some eye contact and have a girl start dancing with you, but there's not much else to do aside from standing there grinning inanely while she uses you to make herself look sexy. It's all about playing to your strengths. Therefore, if a girl asks me to dance I tell her, in so many words, that 'I don't dance', offer to buy her a drink, and try to make her laugh and enjoy herself. Everyone knows girls like guys who are sure of themself-- and it's easy to recognize someone who has forced themself into a situation that they don't particularly enjoy. So if you want to dance, dance. If you want to dance but are too shy, take the above poster's advice and get yourself out there-- because here is the secret: NO ONE is looking at you. Most everyone who is dancing is thinking about themself. If you don't want to dance or don't like dancing- either don't go to a club or bar where dancing is the main activity, or be OK with being the guy that doesn't dance and be proud of it. Either way, the whole point is to have fun. | ||
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boon2537
United States905 Posts
Man, I need to meet new people lol | ||
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