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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Djzapz
Canada10681 Posts
On January 25 2014 08:51 maybenexttime wrote: It's not that uncommon. You've just never heard of it. Even next level hipsters are not that uncommon. They're gaining ground  .Soon we all might be.... different... | ||
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
On January 25 2014 04:34 Advocado wrote: There is no asking in romance. Just shove it in dry. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
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maybenexttime
Poland5556 Posts
Then that's rape... | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
Depends on whether you had an agreement about it or not. | ||
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maybenexttime
Poland5556 Posts
On January 25 2014 09:58 r.Evo wrote: Depends on whether you had an agreement about it or not. I was implying that if it's wet, it's not rape. Bad joke anyway.  | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
On January 25 2014 10:21 maybenexttime wrote: I was implying that if it's wet, it's not rape. Bad joke anyway. Your bad joke misunderstood my good joke  | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States44327 Posts
On January 25 2014 12:28 chadissilent wrote: Your bad joke misunderstood my good joke Do guys actually find dry sex anywhere near as stimulating and pleasing as getting her wet first? It fucking hurts if I try to go in dry. | ||
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Orcasgt24
Canada3238 Posts
On January 25 2014 13:14 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: Do guys actually find dry sex anywhere near as stimulating and pleasing as getting her wet first? It fucking hurts if I try to go in dry. Pain is a turn on for alot of people. And in my experience, It's always been wet for me, even without oral. | ||
dravernor
Netherlands6181 Posts
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
On January 24 2014 15:00 FreedomMurder wrote: Just ask your friend if he would be okay with setting you up with her. He's less likely to be opposed to things if you don't go behind his back and try to flirt with her, plus girls aren't very recipient to the random facebook message unless you have a hunch that she likes you. If you hang out with her in a group obviously go out of your way to talk to her but don't forget about the rest of the group as this could be a turn off for her and piss off your friend. If you had a few decent conversations its now socially acceptable for you to message her on face book and attempt to arrange a date. My suggestion of a first date is drinks a bar/lounge, a little alcohol to make talking easier. Just don't go for lunch, friends go for lunch. If you get to the point when you hang out with her 1 on 1 just be yourself and ask her questions about herself if conversation starts to run dry. You say you are inexperienced so my advice is try to establish that you are interested in her to avoid the friend zone but dont come on to strong that it seems like you just want action. Maybe some body contact or a kiss on the cheek or forehead after the goodbye hug if things went well. I mean if you have the balls you could go for the kiss gauging her interest in you first. Thanks for the advice FreedomMurder. You make good points. The thing that worries me is the dating. In the past when I've done things with a girl it's been really laid back, in a group or something like going on a walk or to the park. I will definitely be following your advice as best I can. | ||
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Advantageous
China1350 Posts
might've been a mistake, but romance is more impulsive than logical we have a lot in common, including personality and interests, so i guess my question would be: should i keep pursuing? cuz she's been on my mind for over 6 month now; almost nonstop day-to-day kinda "on my mind" (and she's the only girl ive ever had these feels for, and i've dated other girls before her and never had these feels). my friend told me, that im just settling bcuz ive never felt this way b4 but i want more than just his opinion (and he's dated more girls than anyone i know, so by no means is this coming from someone who doesnt have experience). | ||
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Zooper31
United States5710 Posts
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Advantageous
China1350 Posts
On January 25 2014 15:09 Zooper31 wrote: She denied you, move on sadly. She doesn't feel the same way about you. Oooooo right in the feels :\ | ||
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Dogfoodboy16
364 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States44327 Posts
On January 25 2014 17:00 Dogfoodboy16 wrote: I asked a girl out today and she said yes. Do I win? You win when she says yes for a second time, after your first date Congrats on the first step though!  | ||
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Acrofales
Spain17990 Posts
Sucks, but he's right. | ||
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RvB
Netherlands6209 Posts
On January 25 2014 17:00 Dogfoodboy16 wrote: I asked a girl out today and she said yes. Do I win? Speaking out of experience, you haven't won till you're actually on the date. | ||
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