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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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darthfoley
United States8004 Posts
On October 18 2013 23:48 ComaDose wrote: the moral i got from that story was believe people when they tell you they arn't looking for a relationship touche! | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32098 Posts
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Oakenshield
United States347 Posts
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Recognizable
Netherlands1552 Posts
 Anyway, we try to find time for each other whenever we can . | ||
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Kenpachi
United States9908 Posts
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Chemist391
United States366 Posts
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Ryder.
1117 Posts
On October 18 2013 15:58 IgnE wrote: Ryder says he has already made up his mind. I can't tell if he harbors delusional hopes about it (the evidence that he would consider getting back together with her sometime in the future seems to suggest such) or if he's just locked in financially to this failboat voyage and doesn't want to forfeit the money he already spent on the trip. Tbh probably a bit of both. I'm open minded about getting back together in the future (as in years down the road, I definitely don't want to on this trip) but I realise that being with her 24/7 might drag me back into being upset about her and wanting to get back together despite the fact that I'm actually really happy being single. But yeah I've already committed a load of money to this trip and I start full time work next year so won't be having all that much time off, so I figure its better to go and take my chances rather than cancel and be miserable because I just wasted a shit ton of $$. I realise its a bad idea but there isn't much I can do to change it. Best advice I've been given is to just make sure to have my own space whilst I'm over there and do some sight seeing etc by myself. Also Broetchenholer, not sure how any of this has anything to do with being 'alpha'. Diving head first into a relationship shortly after a break up probably isn't the best idea but there's nothing wrong with getting to know new people. I'd recommend it to anyone in a similar situation. since if nothing else it shows you that there are other great women out there and the sun doesn't rise and set over the one woman you broke up with. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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Aeroplaneoverthesea
United Kingdom1977 Posts
On October 19 2013 09:10 Kenpachi wrote: how do you go about casual sex? Well, I'm also still in high school lol. It's pretty much the same as regular sex only better. | ||
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On October 20 2013 04:56 Aeroplaneoverthesea wrote: It's pretty much the same as regular sex only better. It's much, much worse. Sex with a partner is more enjoyable because: 1. she knows the weird shit you're into and vice versa 2. you're much more relaxed 3. you can go in bare-skinned 4. you can go in bare-skinned 5. you can go in bare-skinned! How the fuck do you come wearing a rubber? 6. afterwards, you can cuddle without being a creep 7. you know exactly how far you can go and when you go a bit further, you're not likely to freak her out 8. if she likes it rough, you don't need to be afraid she claims you've raped her afterwards | ||
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Recognizable
Netherlands1552 Posts
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Djzapz
Canada10681 Posts
On October 20 2013 05:13 Recognizable wrote: Sex with someone you don't have an emotional bond with is completely fucking pointless. At least for me. I almost agree, but earlier this year I had a short-lived thing with a girl and it was good fun. It's better with someone you like though, but that doesn't mean good ole' fucking isn't a worthwhile time investment. I certainly don't go out of my way for it. Also I'm not sure what you mean by "emotional bond" but screwing a friend can be a good time too. You don't necessarily "love" her but it's cool. She finds you enjoyable and you find her enjoyable and it's facking dandy. | ||
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Recognizable
Netherlands1552 Posts
On October 20 2013 05:21 Djzapz wrote: I almost agree, but earlier this year I had a short-lived thing with a girl and it was good fun. It's better with someone you like though, but that doesn't mean good ole' fucking isn't a worthwhile time investment. I certainly don't go out of my way for it. Also I'm not sure what you mean by "emotional bond" but screwing a friend can be a good time too. You don't necessarily "love" her but it's cool. She finds you enjoyable and you find her enjoyable and it's facking dandy. Yeah those are cool. But investing a lot of time and effort just to get laid is pretty pointless for me at least. | ||
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Shiragaku
Hong Kong4308 Posts
On October 19 2013 09:10 Kenpachi wrote: how do you go about casual sex? Well, I'm also still in high school lol. Also, for the love of God, if you do have casual sex, do not go around treating it like a conquest or competition to your other friends just to make yourself feel better. Such people are the worst. | ||
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freelander
Hungary4707 Posts
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Skynx
Turkey7150 Posts
On October 19 2013 00:18 chadissilent wrote: Your dick fell in love, and apparently it has more willpower than your brain. I vote this as the best quote in this thread so far after that classy-bitches thing. | ||
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UniversalSnip
9871 Posts
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On October 20 2013 10:58 UniversalSnip wrote: I volunteer regularly at a soup kitchen. Today a homeless woman came up to me and pressed her tits against my arm. This is the most action I've gotten in several years. She wants the d... Or possibly more soup. Could go either way! | ||
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UniversalSnip
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