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loloko2
Mexico433 Posts
When im only with 1 person, a girl or anyone, my voice is pretty clear and i got character and talk pretty good, people often "fall" into my words... but if im in a disco its pretty hard... So what do you suggest?, how can i improve? do you have the same/similar problem?  | ||
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uiCk
Canada1925 Posts
 its the "geek" syndrome | ||
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taeWook
United States1367 Posts
train yourself by getting into those awkward situations and practice i guess. btw no one can hear anyone else in a "disco" or club, duh. and maybe you want to start at step 1, where you work on your grammar and sentence fluency. Its very annoying reading phrases such as, "talk pretty good, i got character" | ||
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Smorrie
Netherlands2923 Posts
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MPXMX
Canada4309 Posts
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CTStalker
Canada9720 Posts
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loloko2
Mexico433 Posts
i dont have that ashamed voice that some people have, not at all, but yes , compared to some my voice its a little soft, i have to speak louder sometimes, i dont control the volume of my voice. ill practice in school should be easy, i think most of my problem is that i dont feel pretty confident while being with many people. | ||
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CTStalker
Canada9720 Posts
Now some people think im cocky, but eh, im making up for lost time. | ||
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JudasT
Spain2226 Posts
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Kazoo
Canada211 Posts
Or start expressing yourself in a more physical way, when you want to say you like a girl, just grab a boob it gets the message sent clearly and you might get more | ||
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loloko2
Mexico433 Posts
Im 16, in 2 years i graduate,, you know,,, i have good friends here in high school,,, i always thought i would make my true friends in carrer while studying something, but people say your true friends you make them at highschool? i dont know how much thats true, i have a girlfriend, and friends, and im happy with them, but i think i can make more friends?, im a bit worried i wont get to make good friends while doing my carrer because ill be too busy studying and worrying about school? what u think? | ||
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Kazoo
Canada211 Posts
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fEAthEr
Canada482 Posts
thats whta fixed me up from a very similar issue.. (a speech pathologist recommended me to gogo there) | ||
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pooper-scooper
United States3108 Posts
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wasted
Germany1789 Posts
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loloko2
Mexico433 Posts
yea and soemtimes i shout at here also, she freaks out LOL. I suck at singing though, i dont like it. :S | ||
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wasted
Germany1789 Posts
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KiLLme1st
United States1824 Posts
On April 20 2005 12:07 wasted wrote: maybe you are bisexual ....? | ||
ManaBlue
Canada10458 Posts
On April 20 2005 09:49 MPXMX wrote: Buy a bullhorn Good advise | ||
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Az)Natic_cn
Canada439 Posts
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LieS
82 Posts
On April 20 2005 12:07 wasted wrote: maybe you are bisexual Could be | ||
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Meta
United States6225 Posts
my friends say i talk like mitch hedburg, i dont see a resemblence. anyway i know what you mean i had the same problem a few years ago. just think before you say shit and speak up. as long as you arn't annoying as fuck and have some relavent shit to say, people should listen and not make fun of you etc. | ||
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8882
2718 Posts
On April 20 2005 12:07 wasted wrote: maybe you are bisexual ROTFL | ||
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camooT
United States1354 Posts
![[image loading]](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v496/camoot/loud20speaker.jpg) | ||
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Messiah]Coon[
United States326 Posts
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hasuwar
7365 Posts
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draeger
United States3256 Posts
On April 20 2005 16:01 Messiah]Coon[ wrote: It's not your voice itself you're just projecting it wrong. That's the problem right there. He simply needs to learn when to find conversation gaps and how to jump into them and get his opinion heard. If you have a softer voice, this can be difficult to do but you can train yourself to become loud until people are paying attention to you and then quiet up just a smidgen. | ||
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loloko2
Mexico433 Posts
starting tomorrow ill do exercise in the morning, ill try that, see what happens... | ||
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Resse
307 Posts
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L!MP
Australia2067 Posts
my advice to you is to conciously raise your voice when you're in groups/noisy places. if your voice is just weak like mine then this should be the solution. after a while you'll just do it automatically. if your voice is fine though, and the problem is you being shy, then you probably just need more time in group situations to easen yourself up. you'll become more (unconciously) comfortable over time and won't instinctively dim down your voice in groups. hope this helped. | ||
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TreY
United States997 Posts
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loloko2
Mexico433 Posts
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danmooj1
United States1855 Posts
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GTR
51486 Posts
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useLess
United States4781 Posts
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Liquid`Drone
Norway28694 Posts
instead of trying to talk to the group, single out one person who you talk to (not necessarily the guy closest to you), however talk to him on such a level that everyone else will hear it too, and don't address him personally. but try focusing on him/her while talking. (and if you dont want him to wonder why you're always staring at him, change people you focus on. just don't look out in thin air. ) | ||
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JudasT
Spain2226 Posts
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IDWIJNI-
Mexico332 Posts
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previousemperor
Canada271 Posts
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loloko2
Mexico433 Posts
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