I got a problem, when im in groups like 4 or more, my voice just dont gets recognized, i mean, i talk but people ask me to repeat it many times, its like my voice isnt clear with others, and its pretty embarassing sometimes..

When im only with 1 person, a girl or anyone, my voice is pretty clear and i got character and talk pretty good, people often "fall" into my words... but if im in a disco its pretty hard...

So what do you suggest?, how can i improve? do you have the same/similar problem?

uiCk

Canada1925 Posts

April 20 2005 00:42 GMT

stop playing sc all day and socalize more

its the "geek" syndrome

taeWook

United States1367 Posts

April 20 2005 00:45 GMT

your nervous around people, simple

train yourself by getting into those awkward situations and practice i guess. btw no one can hear anyone else in a "disco" or club, duh.

and maybe you want to start at step 1, where you work on your grammar and sentence fluency. Its very annoying reading phrases such as, "talk pretty good, i got character"

Smorrie

Netherlands2923 Posts

April 20 2005 00:45 GMT

maybe you just have a soft voice.. speak a bit louder and articulate better

MPXMX

Canada4309 Posts

April 20 2005 00:49 GMT

Buy a bullhorn

CTStalker

Canada9720 Posts

April 20 2005 00:52 GMT

one day your balls will drop and your life will begin anew.

loloko2

Mexico433 Posts

April 20 2005 00:53 GMT

i dont play sc that much, only in the morning, like 2-3 hours, thats it..

i dont have that ashamed voice that some people have, not at all, but yes , compared to some my voice its a little soft, i have to speak louder sometimes, i dont control the volume of my voice. ill practice in school should be easy,

i think most of my problem is that i dont feel pretty confident while being with many people.

CTStalker

Canada9720 Posts

April 20 2005 00:56 GMT

How old are you loloko2? I was pretty shy back in junior high, and still shy throughout highschool. It wasn't until after i graduated that i became comfortable around many people again.
Now some people think im cocky, but eh, im making up for lost time.

JudasT

Spain2226 Posts

April 20 2005 00:59 GMT

It's easy, just hang a slate of your neck and use a chalk to write your words... do you remember Anthony Hopkins in Legends of the Fall ?

Kazoo

Canada211 Posts

April 20 2005 01:02 GMT

#10

Might i suggest carrying card with you, on which you can write this way you don't have to repeat
Or start expressing yourself in a more physical way, when you want to say you like a girl, just grab a boob it gets the message sent clearly and you might get more

loloko2

Mexico433 Posts

April 20 2005 01:04 GMT

#11

hahahahaha funny.

Im 16, in 2 years i graduate,, you know,,, i have good friends here in high school,,, i always thought i would make my true friends in carrer while studying something, but people say your true friends you make them at highschool? i dont know how much thats true,

i have a girlfriend, and friends, and im happy with them, but i think i can make more friends?, im a bit worried i wont get to make good friends while doing my carrer because ill be too busy studying and worrying about school?

what u think?

Kazoo

Canada211 Posts

April 20 2005 01:39 GMT

#12

i wouldn't worry about it too much, plus you can make friends in study groups too

fEAthEr

Canada482 Posts

April 20 2005 02:08 GMT

#13

im not joking when i say "start singing" or join a choir..

thats whta fixed me up from a very similar issue..

(a speech pathologist recommended me to gogo there)

pooper-scooper

United States3108 Posts

April 20 2005 02:51 GMT

#14

Serioiusly, get two brothers that are loud. You will be loud in NO TIME. Thats how I did it.

wasted

Germany1789 Posts

April 20 2005 03:00 GMT

#15

maybe you are gay

loloko2

Mexico433 Posts

April 20 2005 03:05 GMT

#16

im not gay T_T, i have a damn loud sister but i dont have to shout i fix it kicking or punching her ^_^
yea and soemtimes i shout at here also, she freaks out LOL.

I suck at singing though, i dont like it.

:S