Hey, the last bachelor party i went to, a good friend for quite a few years, we didn't have a stripper and we really didn't need one. It depends on the type of guy your brother is and if you want her to be a main focus. Things could get a little troublesome, keeping her busy, some friends trying to get laid, awkwardness setting in the middle/end of it. Let alone the wife finding out. You've gotta know exactly what you're looking for if you bring her along. I went paintballing too and it was so much fun, specially since i stayed the cleanest

. CS skills come in handy. Hope ya have a good time!!

zeru

8156 Posts

June 26 2011 16:30 GMT

#25

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Flyingdutchman

Netherlands858 Posts

June 26 2011 16:32 GMT

#26

I've been to bachelors parties where strippers came by. The whole purpose is to embarrass the guy getting married, so don't worry too much about that. In the end it is just good for a few laughs, nothing serious. So in the end it is a win win decision. If he feels uncomfortable about it...great, point and laugh. If he likes it, well then it will still be good for a laugh or two

crazeman

664 Posts

June 26 2011 16:38 GMT

#27

I wouldn't do it. I'll probably end up with "best man" honor for my cousin if he gets married to his current GF. They've been dating forever (9-10 years) and one time, waaaaay back in HS, we worked for a construction company during the summer and our superiors took us to a asian massage parlor after work. We basically got a massage + happy ending hand job and he felt guilty as fuck afterward so I probably wouldn't want to do that to him on his last day of freedom.

Also his GF is one of those insanely jealous types, so definitely a no go.

zalz

Netherlands3704 Posts

June 26 2011 16:38 GMT

#28

We live in the facebook age, she will find out.

The big question is would she have a sense of humor about the whole thing or flip the fuck out. Other stuff is like are any of his superiors comming? Getting humilated with friends makes for a fun story, getting humiliated with your boss makes for getting passed over on a promotion.

All in all i think for the vast majority of people they would like it or atleast take it in stride but i don't think a bunch of internet people can really tell.

For all we know everyone at that party is some die-hard christian expecting a game of texas hold em to be as risque as it gets.

Coraz

United States252 Posts

June 26 2011 16:38 GMT

#29

ok in what sense? it's adultery and fornication if you were wondering

RealDeal

United States117 Posts

June 26 2011 16:38 GMT

#30

LOL, YESS you NEED strippers, is this a serious question?
Do you know what the wife and her friends are doing at the bachelorette party? NO!
Do they know what is going on at the bachelor party? NO!

the only problem is you need more than one stripper!!

Stenstyren

Sweden619 Posts

June 26 2011 16:48 GMT

#31

I wouldn't want a stripper at my party, it's just so fucking awkward for everyone. I would just feel sad for the girl the entire time and so would my mates.

foLster

Canada43 Posts

June 26 2011 16:54 GMT

#32

Yeah, I'd say it's perfectly good to invite strippers to bachelor parties!

Phenny

Australia1435 Posts

June 26 2011 16:54 GMT

#33

On June 27 2011 01:48 Stenstyren wrote:
I wouldn't want a stripper at my party, it's just so fucking awkward for everyone. I would just feel sad for the girl the entire time and so would my mates.

I'd feel the same tbh, each to their own though.

semioldguy

United States7488 Posts

June 26 2011 16:56 GMT

#34

I have been to bachelor parties both with and without a stripper.

It really depends on the bachelor. Has he or does he go to strip clubs and does he enjoy that? If I am the one to organize a bachelor party for any of my friends, there are some who would be gravely disappointed if there wasn't a stripper and others who I'd expect not to care one way or they other, while others would specifically not want that sort of thing.

I assume your brother well enough to make a decision one way or the other.

At the very least you can prepare for it, and since you'll be there a few days you can plan it for the last day which will give you a couple days to see if that's something that's expected by him/the bachelor party. Then if it seems like it's something he's hoping for you can go through with it, if it isn't you can cancel or not go through with getting one.

Kallehoe

Sweden67 Posts

June 26 2011 16:57 GMT

#35

i had a bachelor party for a friend last weekend, i´m still hung over :/ you need a stripper! it was awesome! and get one that is willing to do some nasty stuff to him, the more embarassed he is the better :D
see it like this, if he forgets about his bachelor party, ever, you have failed.

glhf

DarkPlasmaBall

United States45174 Posts

June 26 2011 17:00 GMT

#36

Each relationship is different, and so I think it's situational. Personally, I'm of the mindset that if both parties (the future bride and future groom) are okay with the opposite person having strippers (or *whatever*) at the party, then they should both go for it.

Basically, I see no problem with it unless it's going to be a huge problem for your relationship.