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is it ok to invite stripper to a Bachelor party? - Page 3
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methematics
United States392 Posts
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smokeyhoodoo
United States1021 Posts
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FuzzyJAM
Scotland9300 Posts
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. . .I see what you mean. Seriously though, I would say don't get one. People saying "Will the wife know?" are really proving the point - you shouldn't do things that you don't want your new wife to know about. I wouldn't be all that pleased if my (hypothetical) wife had enjoyed seeing some guy get naked for her and rub his cock up in her face and if she didn't like it then what's the point? It's a lose/lose situation as far as I'm concerned. And yeah, I was the best man for my brother and no, there was no stripper. | ||
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Retgery
Canada1229 Posts
![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/AJT28.png) Anyone else think that guy looks like Day9? | ||
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HellRoxYa
Sweden1614 Posts
And no I haven't done this. Yet. | ||
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SecondChance
Australia603 Posts
On June 27 2011 00:58 edc wrote: It depends on whether your brother's wife knows about it... You must be new at this. | ||
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drdreggor
Sweden207 Posts
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nicknt
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smokeyhoodoo
United States1021 Posts
On June 27 2011 01:29 Sajimo wrote: Hey, the last bachelor party i went to, a good friend for quite a few years, we didn't have a stripper and we really didn't need one. It depends on the type of guy your brother is and if you want her to be a main focus. Things could get a little troublesome, keeping her busy, some friends trying to get laid, awkwardness setting in the middle/end of it. Let alone the wife finding out. You've gotta know exactly what you're looking for if you bring her along. I went paintballing too and it was so much fun, specially since i stayed the cleanest  . CS skills come in handy. Hope ya have a good time!! You can just go to a strip club and solve all of that. As for the "Let alone the wife finding out"... wow, you don't keep it a secret that's just fucked up not to mention weird. | ||
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Delerium
United States324 Posts
I find this kind of thinking juvenile, that "marriage is the end of freedom" and therefore there must be a last gasp of recklessness. My bachelor party was just a party because we were celebrating that I was getting married, it was not a last-ditch attempt to enjoy being single. Some women will not care if their man wants to party with a stripper before marrying her, but I think it can be viewed as pretty disrespectful to the bride-to-be. It's like, is your bride not good enough for you? It can also be viewed as harmless fun, something you won't experience after getting married (but really, once you're betrothed, it's almost the same situation as marriage, a steady committed monogamous relationship). The answer to the OP question, "is it ok," is this: "it depends." Some brides won't appreciate it, and some won't care or will even be amused by it. Most people expect that every groom wants or would enjoy the stripper, but that's not true. Some grooms would even be appalled and upset if their friends invited a stripper. So it depends on the people involved and their relationship, so it should NEVER be a surprise. That's the kind of thing that could harm friendships if you guess badly. A lot of the above can also be reversed for bachelorette parties; some women don't want a male stripper and some grooms wouldn't appreciate their bride having one either. There's no answer for the etiquette here that applies to every couple. Neither notions of mainstream culture nor forum posts are a license to invite an unwanted stripper to a party. | ||
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caruso
Germany733 Posts
If you've ever been on the whorefest that is a female bachelor party, you'll know how women behave at theirs. A friend of mine owns a and works in bar with a pretty much only female demograpic and he gets laid with a bride-to-be at least once a month. So even if you pull a Hangover II, you'll not do the woman justice. | ||
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proxY_
United States1561 Posts
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Myrtroll
139 Posts
It's the perfect excuse, why would you care what your brother thinks? Your job is getting him insanely drunk anyway, so he probably won't remember a thing  | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
On June 27 2011 02:32 caruso wrote: A friend of mine owns a and works in bar with a pretty much only female demograpic and he gets laid with a bride-to-be at least once a month. wtf, what a cunt Stripper is a good idea OP, why not :D. Should be fun, and it's only a bit of skin. Don't get laid imo. | ||
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sOvrn
United States678 Posts
Inviting a stripper to a party seems fun. I would just video tape the incident if you were going to invite her over. It could also serve as a reminder to a great day? | ||
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Mortality
United States4790 Posts
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Xevious
United States2086 Posts
On June 27 2011 02:22 nicknt wrote: yes you must, poor dude is gona lose his freedom soon, should send him out with a blast. Isn't that the whole point? Of course bring strippers to the party. | ||
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GoTuNk!
Chile4591 Posts
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BloodNinja
United States2791 Posts
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Mortality
United States4790 Posts
On June 27 2011 02:43 Sultan.P wrote: When ppl talk about inviting strippers to their homes, I always think of that crazy Duke Lacrosse Rape case. If you don't remember the duke lacrosse players were 3 rich white kids who called for a black stripper; she later claimed she was raped in their house and went to the DA to press charges. It turned out that everything was false and the prosecutor, Nifong, even withheld evidence proving the kids innocence. Inviting a stripper to a party seems fun. I would just video tape the incident if you were going to invite her over. It could also serve as a reminder to a great day? IMO the sickest part of the Duke Lacrosse case was that the school administration decided before even reviewing the evidence that they would support the stripper because she was black and they wanted their campus to come across as ethnically friendly, even going so far as to deliberately give the students faulty legal advice. Racist fucks. | ||
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