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is it ok to invite stripper to a Bachelor party? - Page 15
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Destro
Netherlands1206 Posts
... wait that analogy is somewhat fitting... | ||
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AnAngryDingo
United States223 Posts
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Drium
United States888 Posts
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Immanis
United States21 Posts
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Destro
Netherlands1206 Posts
On June 28 2011 09:23 Drium wrote: Based on what I've read here so far I sure feel sorry for the current and future wives of many tlers. My brother is getting married in a few weeks and yes, there are going to be some boobies at his stag. His fiance knows this, she just doesnt want to hear about it. The fact is, a fully trusting woman will let it go and just wont want to hear any details. she should trust her future husband that its eyes only. lets not pretend like women's stagette parties arent risque as well... | ||
Falling
Canada11320 Posts
There is another form of trust- trust that neither will entertain strippers or sleep around. That is both are fully confident it will never happen and therefore aren't hassling and second guessing each other. Funny idea right? But what do I know? As someone else wrote in this thread: 'marriage is a joke.' Stagette's might not be risque free, but there is no reason it needs to be risque anymore than a bacholor party. But really the point is moot. As a couple (yes a couple- any sort of long-term relationships is going to involve mutual decisions, starting considerably earlier than the day of marriage. Furthermore, if it's "of course the woman won't be ok with it"... then maybe there is an inherent flaw with the idea)... anyways as a couple are they okay with it? If yes, then it's a go, if no, then don't. ez. | ||
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AimlessAmoeba
Canada704 Posts
Who cares what his fiancee says, of course the wife won't be down with it, and seriously, it's not her party. That being said, it's your job to make sure the Groom doesn't do anything... stupid. | ||
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
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bboy
Australia30 Posts
strippers and topless waitresses are the norm for the ones I have been to. Been to three this year and still got another to goto. I also had em at my bux party and i told my wife i would be having stripper there, no biggie all good. - Alcohol - other party goods - strippers and topless waitresses let the good times roll... funny thing is even when im married i still get to go to my other buddies bux no questions asked =) | ||
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Mohdoo
United States15466 Posts
On June 28 2011 10:07 AimlessAmoeba wrote: Who cares what his fiancee says, of course the wife won't be down with it, and seriously, it's not her party. Out of curiosity, have you ever been married and or been with the same person for 5+ years? | ||
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Tektos
Australia1321 Posts
Its not like you're going to stick your dick in the stripper... So if the bride has an issue with it then she likely has security issues and if the groom has an issue with it he's probably whipped (or just way too reserved). The whole purpose of a bachelor party is for one last night of no restrictions fun before making a lifetime commitment. Lots of alcohol and a stripper are a necessity. Strippers = Yes. Hookers = No no no. | ||
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Curu
Canada2817 Posts
You horny Aussies... | ||
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Tektos
Australia1321 Posts
On June 28 2011 10:54 Curu wrote: lol it seems like everyone posting in this thread from Australia is heavily in favour of getting strippers. You horny Aussies... No we're just liberal enough to understand that you can look at and appreciate the appearance and sexuality of a member of the opposite gender without sticking your dick inside it. And in general our women aren't feminazis who think strippers are the devil's work, so it is socially acceptable to have strippers are a bachelor party here. Heck, last bachelor party I went to there were strippers and a... performer. Basic gist of it she sat down on one of those orange cones and got it halfway inside of her. You could have fit a bowling ball inside that thing it was amazing. The coming week after all the women heard of the events at the party nobody cared, all just had a good laugh. | ||
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Kinetik_Inferno
United States1431 Posts
On June 28 2011 10:48 Tektos wrote: Its not like you're going to stick your dick in the stripper... 1 So if the bride has an issue with it then she likely has security issues and if the groom has an issue with it he's probably whipped (or just way too reserved). The whole purpose of a bachelor party is for one last night of no restrictions fun before making a lifetime commitment. 2 Lots of alcohol and a stripper are a necessity. Strippers = Yes. Hookers = No no no. I disagree. From my experience, once you fall in love, you socially and impulsively should be infatuated with your love enough that paid strippers and porn holds less in your eyes (I haven't been to a bachelor party). 1 Well, I would not watch porn or invite strippers if I was in love. It just feels very out-of-place and distrustful. Why would I ogle at a pretty girl if I had a girlfriend? How would you feel if your girlfriend had a girls night and invited a really handsome guy? I'd feel insufficient, like I'm not enough for her. 2 See 1, I just don't think a stripper is necessary to get you all riled up and crazy. There are some pretty sick parties where a bunch of guys can have a great time without any girls (Not mentioning the alcohol, that is pretty damn important). | ||
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Xanbatou
United States805 Posts
Crap like this is why divorce rates are so high these days. | ||
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cavalier117
United States430 Posts
On June 28 2011 02:42 Mohdoo wrote: I'm currently engaged, and i would definitely not want a stripper at my bachelor party. I plan on having some buddies over for beers and lanning. I wouldn't want to hire strippers after being married, and it shouldn't be any different right now. I respect other peoples decision to hire them at their parties, but I would never feel right. so, im trying to be reasonable and understand everyone's opinions and all but seriously... read the above statement, thats something you do on ANY random tuesday night... whether you get strippers or not, bachelor's parties are supposed to be special. something way out of the norm and something you will pry never do again. hence why alot of people do things like bring strippers. on a sidenote, who hides the fact that strippers are invited? if you cant tell your woman that one is going to be there bc your afraid of her... you need to cut your relationship short. life is WAY too long to stay g-rated forever. not only would i tell my fiance(i already have) that i intended to bring strippers. i, on the opposite side of the coin am fine with it. because at the end of the day.i know what bed shes coming back to.(Mine) and i more than trust her enough to be out by herself. so if your afraid to tell her/may not like her response bc she doesnt trust you. sorry, your doomed to fail. long story short. do something special, whether is strippers or not. but dont do something retarded like 'have an all night lan" or just go to the bar. you can do that any night of the week for the rest of your life. do something unforgettable, whether its crazy or not. | ||
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cavalier117
United States430 Posts
On June 28 2011 10:54 Curu wrote: lol it seems like everyone posting in this thread from Australia is heavily in favour of getting strippers. You horny Aussies... fucking love Aussies! they have their priorities in line. -Kangeroos -Fosters -Strippers | ||
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Tektos
Australia1321 Posts
On June 28 2011 11:27 cavalier117 wrote: fucking love Aussies! they have their priorities in line. -Kangeroos -Fosters -Strippers Fosters is an export only, nobody here actually drinks that piss. Just FYI On June 28 2011 11:11 Kinetik_Inferno wrote: 1 Well, I would not watch porn or invite strippers if I was in love. It just feels very out-of-place and distrustful. Why would I ogle at a pretty girl if I had a girlfriend? How would you feel if your girlfriend had a girls night and invited a really handsome guy? I'd feel insufficient, like I'm not enough for her. To me that just screams "SECURITY AND SELF CONFIDENCE ISSUES". Watching porn feels distrustful when you're in love? Porn and love are completely separate things, you can be sexually attracted to something without being in love with it. Humans are biologically attracted to members of the opposite sex (or in case of homosexuals, same sex). Your body does not stop releasing those hormones just because you're in love. That feeling of guilt is likely a result of: 1) Strict (possibly religious) upbringing where sex was demonized and only portrayed in a negative light 2) Previous or current relationships that involved sever trust issues or lack of self worth. Secondly, if your partner is open and honest with you and tells you there was a guy at the party, what is the issue? Its not like she was jumping in bed naked with him. Same logic long as you're not sleeping with the stripper and you're open and honest with your partner and tell them that there was a stripper there should not be an issue unless there are deeper underlying issues in the relationship (such as trust, security etc.) | ||
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cavalier117
United States430 Posts
On June 28 2011 11:32 Tektos wrote: Fosters is an export only, nobody here actually drinks that piss. Just FYI You Sir, are a liar, and a cheat!  My Aussie friends(one from Brisbane) and near perth both drink it. and they say its the standard. Id say there's a reason for the stereotype! | ||
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Tektos
Australia1321 Posts
On June 28 2011 11:36 cavalier117 wrote: You Sir, are a liar, and a cheat! My Aussie friends(one from Brisbane) and near perth both drink it. and they say its the standard. Id say there's a reason for the stereotype! Oh they're from Brisbane so they're like the trailer trash of Australia anyway so their opinion doesn't count. Trololol jokes aside Brisbane is a cool place even if you drink horrible beer up there. | ||
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