I can't imagine doing this with my friends when they get married...but I guess we don't have that kind of relationship?

Fuck it man if you wouldn't feel weird do it.

Leporello

United States2845 Posts

June 27 2011 02:49 GMT

#204

If you can actually find a decent-looking legitimate stripper in your area, I think it's a great idea. Most bachelor parties I've gone to have been at strip clubs, one in particular because the girls are decent looking.

It does two things. One, it actually establishes trust if both fiancees know strippers will be involved. They have a lifetime to question each other, if she can't trust him around "loose" women now, then there's going to be problems.
Two, it embarrasses the groom-to-be, which is good and lets you know he's somewhat honest. Or, he enjoys it immensely, in which case, there's going to be problems.
It's like a litmus test.

intotheheart

Canada33091 Posts

June 27 2011 02:56 GMT

#205

IMHO:

A bro's last night together is to be with BROS. Just sayin'.

But yeah totally depends.

Arthemesia

United States292 Posts

June 27 2011 03:08 GMT

#206

On June 27 2011 04:13 Norway wrote:
I support single mothers

so yes it's okay to invite strippers

Someone watched The Man Show

cujo2k

Canada1044 Posts

June 27 2011 03:12 GMT

#207

I think it depends on your brother's fiance and if she'd be okay with it or not. Or barring that, if she would find out or not ><
And obviously on whether or not your brother would be okay with it. But what guy doesn't like strippers?

igotmyown

United States4291 Posts

June 27 2011 03:51 GMT

#208

On June 27 2011 09:16 LaughingTulkas wrote:
I have been to several bachelor parties, including my own. None involved strippers. All of them were a really good time.

If you need a stripper to have a good time with your bros, you got problems. Think of the really fun things you like to do, and go do them on your bachelor party. Don't be forced into getting a stripper just because hollywood says you should.

You don't need them, just like you don't need to drink, sometimes it's just a fun thing to do.

At 1:10, for some reason I can't get it to start at the right time

SUSUGAM

United States177 Posts

June 27 2011 04:19 GMT

#209

Personally, I'd never want a stripper around. I know I sound like a stuck up faggot, but it kinda goes against the idea of the whole upcoming marriage. If a stripper showed up at my bachelor party, I'd have to send them off, or leave myself. Then again, I'd never go to a strip club either.

I kinda find it embarrassing that men pay money for that shit in general. Prostitution, I understand. Strippers, not so much.

Kaitlin

United States2958 Posts

June 27 2011 04:44 GMT

#210

Depending on how close you are with your friends, getting all drunk and "hardcore", I don' t see why a stripper needs to be brought in. Just bring some blindfolds if you're uncomfortable.

kawaiiryuko

United States368 Posts

June 27 2011 04:50 GMT

#211

Isn't the default assumption that there will be strippers? Ask the bachelor. It should be his choice.

I've been to bachelor parties (and with geeks) where there were strippers and honestly, the two strippers were like, "You guys are the quietest bachelor party we've ever been to." because everyone was just like, "Uh... naked women... someone hide the settlers of catan box." and were in stunned awe.

True story.

oogieogie

United States3657 Posts

June 27 2011 05:06 GMT

#212

if the future wife/husband know about it and is fine by it i say go for it.

no experience

Phraxa

United States49 Posts

June 27 2011 05:08 GMT

#213

No experience, I'm a girl.

I think it would entirely depend on the fiance, if you know her then what do you think? Do you think she'd be comfortable. Is she a strict or a nonchalant person.

My friend told me she had a great time at a bachelorette party with a male stripper. For my own bachelorette party, I'd be okay with having a male stripper, not for myself, but for my friends yknow

She told me that the stripper at the party did all sorts of fun almost-sexual things so that'd be fun as long as there's no actual sexual activity involved, which would then be taking things too far. Think of them more as entertainers, not prostitutes/whores/hookers.

Azzur

Australia6260 Posts

June 27 2011 05:21 GMT

#214

I'm not sure how things are done in Poland but here in Aust, it's perfectly normal to have or not have a stripper at a bachelor party. The main thing is to ask your brother whether he approves of it or not. Also, over here, they're pretty strict on the boundaries on what the stripper will and will not do, so there's definitely so sexual activity involved.

ZodiarK

United States16 Posts

June 27 2011 05:28 GMT

#215

Will have experience in about a week!

I think it's fine, so long as no harm comes from it. It's a way of celebrating that the stripper is the last person of the opposite sex the groom/bride should see before tying the knot.

For the Bachelor party I'm going to, there will be a stripper. The bride of the groom is having a male stripper at her bachelorette party. My experience is gonna be kind of awkward because the bride and grooms dad are booth going to be there.

Deleted User 101379

4849 Posts

June 27 2011 05:30 GMT

#216

I haven't been to a bachelor party and probably will never be, but i would definatly leave any bachelor party (including my own) as soon as strippers come through the door.

It all depends on the persons involved, if they like strippers, invite some... if they don't, don't. You shouldn't need strippers to have fun anyways.

iCanada

Canada10660 Posts

June 27 2011 05:44 GMT

#217

On June 27 2011 12:12 cujo2k wrote:
I think it depends on your brother's fiance and if she'd be okay with it or not. Or barring that, if she would find out or not ><
And obviously on whether or not your brother would be okay with it. But what guy doesn't like strippers?

I don't like strippers. Feels like cheating imo.

Besides, it isn't that hard to find women who you don't have to pay...

kikimama

Korea (South)297 Posts

June 27 2011 06:27 GMT

#218

Would you want a dude grinding on your girl? Especially one that does it for a living? I'd say !@#$ no and that kind of stuff is nasty. Put it in perspective, people are sold as sex slaves all around the world, what you are doing only supports that ideology of "using" women for sexual excitement.

askTeivospy

1525 Posts

June 27 2011 06:34 GMT

#219

get a male stripper

ewswes

39 Posts

June 27 2011 06:36 GMT

#220

On June 27 2011 15:27 kikimama wrote:
Would you want a dude grinding on your girl? Especially one that does it for a living? I'd say !@#$ no and that kind of stuff is nasty. Put it in perspective, people are sold as sex slaves all around the world, what you are doing only supports that ideology of "using" women for sexual excitement.

but then male strippers would be ok, right?