EPTis it ok to invite stripper to a Bachelor party? - Page 12
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Kimaker
United States2131 Posts
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Falling
Canada11350 Posts
He's getting married- so how does ogling a random naked chick compare to sex with the girl he supposedly loves? If you're asking the question, that seems a good indicator that's a bad idea. If you know he thinks strippers are neat, then I guess it's "ok," but still a dumb way to start a marriage. But you if you don't know, then you're risking some awkward moments at the party (either your brother or if some of the other member aren't down with strippers and weren't in the know) or later when (not if) the wife finds out. In addition, secrets between couples is a rather shaky way to begin marriage. And what's with the 'need to reevaluate your marriage, if you're future wife is not okay with strippers'? What about having consideration for the other? You will be living with them for awhile, maybe considering what they'd like every now and then might help. If everyone one is buds, there's no fear of it being bored and a random naked chick isn't going to make things more interesting. I've been to one bachelor party and will be part of another this summer- neither did/will involve(d) strippers. We did the whole kidnap, blindfold, and shoot him with paintballs routine and afterwards all sorts of paintballing etc, etc. Call me old fashioned (or perhaps rebellious if strippers are tradition), but it's absolutely unnecessary to have strippers. | ||
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AT_Tack
Germany435 Posts
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Manit0u
Poland17257 Posts
On June 27 2011 16:11 Falling wrote: Call me old fashioned (or perhaps rebellious if strippers are tradition), but it's absolutely unnecessary to have strippers. I agree. I specifically forbid people to bring one to my bachelor party. I've been to some parties where strippers were involved and there are a couple observations I made: 1. The chick usually isn't that hot. 2. By the time she arrives people are already drunk and don't give a damn. 3. It's a waste of money for few minutes of doubtful fun. | ||
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badboymav
Australia74 Posts
Damn right your mate wants to see a hotty naked for perhaps the last time in his life (until the inevitable divorce in 20 years ) But if you gonna do it, do it in style. Get an apartment in the city, hire a couple of topless waitresses for a few hours followed by a girl on girl show towards the end of the night. Thats what myself and the bestman did for our mate, everything was going bloody awesome though until... the buck got so wasted he picked up the stripper and fell over, the stripper injured her back and had to sit down, but she was cool, didn't just bail which she could have. But that's not all - the night goes on and the double girl show arrives, everything is going sweet, the buck is chillin on the couch as the girls start the show, then what does he do, emptys his cup of water on top of her!!! LOL they left within 10 minutes of getting there. $1000 down the drain, they werent even naked yet  he will never live that night down for the rest of his life lol It's the crazy nights that you all remember for the rest of your life. Of course its expensive but if you get enough mates to chip in its not that much.if you can't afford all that just hang out with ya mate and have a good night  EDIT: if there is a stripper, make it a surprise and check out the big ass grin on ya mates face when he sees her! | ||
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viii
United States266 Posts
why does most people start saying, I'm a TLForum&Blog lurker since quite a long time i can say that i usually agree with the opinion of this community Yes, it would be perfectly fine to bring strippers, but dont bring them to have sex,only for entertainment. | ||
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Deleted User 101379
4849 Posts
On June 27 2011 19:06 badboymav wrote: Damn right your mate wants to see a hotty naked for perhaps the last time in his life (until the inevitable divorce in 20 years ) So you claim that his wife is neither hot nor will he ever see her naked? Reading this thread makes me lose faith in humanity... again... | ||
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zeru
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Termit
Sweden3466 Posts
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Tracil
Australia505 Posts
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Roflhaxx
Korea (South)1244 Posts
On June 27 2011 19:28 Termit wrote: I don't know, for me it sounds like you're gonna have a great time without the stripper anyway so I see no point in having one there. The thing is that with a stripper you could have an awesome time! | ||
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Pulimuli
Sweden2766 Posts
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BrahCJ
Australia659 Posts
Sounds like you've got a fucking amazing weekend planned, but at the end of a long day having the time of your life with a dozen doods, you'll be craving a splash of female entertainment. And that's the key. Its entertainment. Having a woman bump and grind on you for 15 minutes isn't cheating, and if the bride-to-be thinks it is, she needs to re-evaluate her idea of a trusting relationship. One facet of why I am so in love with the girl I am currently building a house/future with is that she is not a jealous person. Didn't bag me out when I told her I was going to the strip club with a few lads, understands and allows me to go out to drink/dance with other girls, because she knows that I am constantly concious of our dedication and love for each other. I personally would find it hard to love someone that didn't trust my judgement, and dedication to the relationship. Of course this is a two way street. In my opinion, jealousy doesn't have any place in a relationship. I will have a stripper at my bucks, and I will still go to the strippers once in a blue moon after I'm married. Strippers are often VERY strict on what you can do with them/what they will do anyway. Strippers in stripclubs (here in Aus, anyway) don't allow you to rub/touch with your hands. If they want you to touch them with your hands, they will grab your hand and put it on their skin themselves. Privately hired strippers are often less strict, however it is the responsibility of your brother to keep himself in check. TL;DR: If the relationship is built on trust and dedication (as it should be, getting married and all) it isn't a question of ethics. Its a question of whether or not your brother would want a stripper. | ||
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-Archangel-
Croatia7457 Posts
On June 27 2011 01:13 Ceril wrote: ...Dont go for hardcore partying your heads off. Go for the fun things. You'll have plenty of time to get wasted togheter in the years to come, dont celebrate some glorified culturual ideal you celebrated when you were 16. Is a stripper realy what a man thats been ringed by this most amazing woman needs? He is free, but booze and lots of talk about freedom and pressure might make him think he is not. He has already freely given himself to her, to be married, to have only her. Dont make it out he is somehow going to be less free. Some words in a church just makes their relationship legaly binding. I agree with this. Unless they both(people getting married) don't mind. Also some other members of the party might have angry girlfriends. | ||
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stfn
United States53 Posts
It isn't a hood party unless hookers, guns, and drugs are involved. Considering you want a hardcore party... you might want to look into hiring some drugged up hookers with guns. | ||
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BatesC
United States175 Posts
I personally like what Couches suggested, even though it does sound cheesy + Show Spoiler + On June 27 2011 05:53 couches wrote: Personally I'd put that money towards hiring a band to play there. Cover band, original, whatever, it's up to you. It'll cost more but it's been more fun ime. Then hit the bars and a strip club later if you want. --- No real stripper-related experience, other then the common knowledge of their prices. | ||
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shell
Portugal2722 Posts
The last time i went to a bachelor party we went to a stripper club, had a few drings, saw a few asses and went home! Was it worth it? not really... People with wifes/girlfriends will probably get in trouble if they lie because soon or later the girls will know and it will leak.. Best plan is if strippers and gonna come or you went and there was strippers just tell the truth.. some girls came in, showed some boobs and ass and left! Nothing happened, end of story. If you lie and they get to know the problem will be 10 times worse, because you lied and now they will think that someone must have happened because you lied. | ||
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hicser
United Kingdom109 Posts
And to people saying its degrading to women lol! Some pervy dudes pay you a crap load of money just to show some flesh? sounds to me like does guys just got hussled imo. | ||
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Eleaven
772 Posts
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ControlMonkey
Australia3109 Posts
If actually he loves his wife, and doesn't wish to severely damage his marriage before it starts, then I would suggest not getting a stripper. | ||
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