On June 27 2011 05:19 Irrelevant wrote:
If his future wife isn't gonna let him get strippers and whores then maybe he should reexamine their relationship and see if he really knows what he's getting into.

Indeed, like he can't even look at other women?

Aterons_toss

Romania1275 Posts

June 26 2011 21:32 GMT

#162

Short answer: Yes
Long answer: YESSSSSSSSSSSSS
its a requirement in most countries as far as i know :o

Mahina

Netherlands44 Posts

June 26 2011 21:48 GMT

#163

Several people have said that a stripper is needed at a bachelor party. But why would it be necessary?

zeru

8156 Posts

June 26 2011 21:57 GMT

#164

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Mastermind

Canada7096 Posts

June 26 2011 21:58 GMT

#165

It isn't a bachelor party if there are no strippers. That is what makes a bachelor party a bachelor party.

sunprince

United States2258 Posts

June 26 2011 22:11 GMT

#166

Bachelorette parties typically also include male strippers, and most grooms would flip out if they knew just how much more... touching-friendly male strippers are than female strippers.

Kahuna.

Canada196 Posts

June 26 2011 22:13 GMT

#167

On June 27 2011 01:02 ahx wrote:
Here's my question, to your question. In 2011, people still *actually* think the best way to spend their "last night of freedom" is with a girl who gets paid to rub her ass on men 5 days a week?

wtf

Well-posted dude. I agree with this.
As for your original question, it always depends on the person for whom the bachelor party is being held. Definitely not a necessity in my opinion, and perhaps more respectable if there isn't a stripper. Too many people in here have watched the Hangover though... Lol.

D10

Brazil3409 Posts

June 26 2011 22:22 GMT

#168

Here in brazil we have a rule for this, if you are not fucking it, you are not paying it.
theres no strip bars in Brazil.

Mahina

Netherlands44 Posts

June 26 2011 22:25 GMT

#169

On June 27 2011 06:58 Mastermind wrote:
It isn't a bachelor party if there are no strippers. That is what makes a bachelor party a bachelor party.

Looking up a few things on the internet, which I know is not a very reliable source but hey, I find several websites claiming that a bachelor's party was traditionally a dinner hosted by the groom for his friends. Another website suggests that it began in the late Victorian ages where it was meant for a groom to have dinner with his less-respectable friends, whom he couldn't see any more after marrying.
The entire idea of strippers/going to stripclubs etc. is probably not a very old idea, so it's hardly traditional.

And even if it was so, then why would it be 'needed' ? There are quite some posts in here that tell about parties to which no strippers were invited, but still were a lot of fun. Isn't a bachelors party meant to be a party prior to getting married, and just that? I think people should be able to fill in what this party means for themselves and not be told that they need to invite strippers otherwise it's not a real bachelor party.

schmeebs

United States115 Posts

June 26 2011 22:27 GMT

#170

Just ask the groom, if he doesn't want a stripper don't get one, if he really doesn't want one and you get one, its probably just going to lead to a very awkward night/weekend.

Ruscour

5233 Posts

June 26 2011 22:32 GMT

#171

When I get married, I will be disappointed if my bachelor party does not have strippers. Well, it depends, my friends hopefully know my taste ;D

AttackZerg

United States7577 Posts

June 26 2011 22:39 GMT

#172

If she is hot and willing to do a full nude yes.

try and find a whore thou, not for your brother, but for the other 15 guys, she will make good money and after 3 days of foresting-paintballing and drinking everybody needs a chin to aim at!

Kaeru

Sweden552 Posts

June 26 2011 22:44 GMT

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NoobSkills

United States1603 Posts

June 26 2011 22:56 GMT

#174

It is NOT necessary, but there is also nothing wrong with it. As far as a 3 day weekend goes lol her bill might get a bit expensive though

Fatze

Germany1342 Posts

June 26 2011 22:58 GMT

#175

bachelor party? strippers are a damned must-have.. wtf? :D

Destro

Netherlands1206 Posts

June 26 2011 22:59 GMT

#176

absolutely ok. almost a given.. hookers on the other hand.....

grs

Germany2339 Posts

June 26 2011 23:03 GMT

#177

I have been to (at least two, can't remember if more) bachelor parties with a stripper; I think it is ok to do so, but imho it is really overrated. I mean, you have a really nice party and all and then you get the stripper doing her show, so you more or less stop everything else that's going on, you see a naked woman (wow) and then try to restart what everyone was doing afterwards; and that is the point where all those planned shows in parties fail imho.

bkrow

Australia8532 Posts

June 26 2011 23:06 GMT

#178

LOL I am getting married in January; i am most certainly forwarding this thread to my best man haha!! :0

RoosterSamurai

Japan2108 Posts

June 26 2011 23:17 GMT

#179

On June 27 2011 06:03 Mahina wrote:
I have attended one bachelor party, and no strippers were present. It was my cousin's and she had invited me, her mother, a lot of her female friends and my mother. We had a nice afternoon tea in a really pretty place surrounded by a beautiful garden. We talked a lot and her lifelong friends had all picked funny memories relating to my cousin and her soon-to-be husband.

Tbh if I would get married, I would feel very offended if my boyfriend would have a stripper at his bachelor's party. A last night of freedom? If I'm going to get married to anyone, we've obviously been in a monogamous relationship for quite some time, so why would it be his last night of freedom? He's not supposed to cheat anyway. If my boyfriend wants to marry me, it's because he loves me a lot (I hope:p ) and because I am enough for him. Why would he want to pay a random woman to dance around naked for him? I personally would feel very insulted about such a thing.

I concur.

Bortlett

United States302 Posts

June 26 2011 23:17 GMT

#180

I've been to two bachelor parties and neither groom wanted a stripper. We got piss drunk though so they were awesome.