You have no idea how racists koreans can be against foreigners though. They act nice but usually they are cursing behind your back. Like that yankee wtf is he doing in our land? But when you get closer with them its ok. First impressions are harsh sometimes.
Hmm I cant say anything about which has better girls cause i only seen a japanese girl in real life only once and i think they have bad teeth. If I were you and you are interested in sc than go to korea. You can watch live games and koreans are pretty good at english than you think. But korean english thingy is so unprofessional imo. There are alot of people who came to korea to teach english and alot of people know english in korea so its not that big of an advantage to have english as your first language. If you come to korea i bet you can meet several people from TL irl and if you go to Japan you can meet Manifesto ^_^.
If you want to go looking for pretty girls in korea go to the rich places i think like gang nam and apgujung.
Korean girls are, in general, shy of foreigners. But at the same time they are extremely interested. You try first and they will try back.
In general, most korean girls are not sluts. But girls in the club scene can range from goodie two shoes, to a nice girl who likes to have fun here and there, to complete sluts. This full spectrum makes going out in korea wonderful. If you go to a booking club one girl who has never been to a club in her life and never seen a foreigner might sit down and be so scared to death of you that she can't even speak, but then a few minutes later you might meet a girl who speaks just a few words of english yet is happy go lucky as hell and just wants to have fun and down shots with you.
Korean girls are humble, they want the man to take control. They will never make any sexually provocative suggestions but they sure as hell like it when you do.
Korean night life is very very dynamic. Most foreigners go to hip-hop clubs in a few different areas. These places have lots of loserish non-korean males because most of the white people here are goofy and ugly. This probably raises your chances too. The hip-hop clubs are generally hard to pick girls up in, but easy to meet them in. Some clubs have hot to extremely hot girls, but others have ugly to decent ones. But no matter where you go, theres always atleast a few good girls, and if you know the right places they are all good. The reason hip-hop clubs are hard is because korean girls are very very close to their girl-friends and would not leave with some random dude and ditch them. Easy to get #'s though.
I prefer booking clubs though. If you read some of my articles i speak about these. These places have the best girls and the most willing to have fun. You get a table and drinks and waiter escorts girls from the club randomly to your table. these are not whores they are normal girls (but hot girls get in free...so its only hot girls) and they can leave whenever they want. Its customary to get a booking, introduce yourselfs -- name, age, etc, have some drinks, then have some more fun conversation and then maybe dance. If you're good enough you say to the girl lets go to my place and its not rare for them to agree and leave their friends and go home with you. I prefer the two best night clubs in seoul, BOSS and Juliana, but no other non-korean people go there on a regular basis. These places are too expensive and white people just don't know about them here. I am lucky to have known people who knew a lot of shit when I came here. These are the ideal clubbing destinations for foreigners with some cash.
But be warned. If you like young girls don't come here. Any girl 21 years old or younger in this country is the equivalent of an american 15 year old. At this age they are incredibly sexually inexperienced and timid. But the 23-28 year old korean girls are awesome.
oh and korean girls will gladly date you and become your girlfriend and will have no problem being in public with you. they sure as hell won't tell their parents though
On March 20 2006 21:10 Klogon wrote: But honestly, Kor/Jap girls are all slightly childish and very demanding in a relationship.
I really prefer more Americanized ones, like Korean-Americans. It's like an entirely different group of its own, as mentally and culturally, they are different from both Koreans and "Americans". ;o
this is not true at all
white girls are much more demanding... asian girls are very giving and bend a lot for their man(in many ways)
asking if korean girls are better than japanese girls is just like asking if american girls are better than canadian girls to me.... it really depends on what you want out of the experience....
if I were to chose I would go to japan....
yes it is true that they think they are superior and all.... but I like the culture in japan more than I do korea personally.... japan is so much more diverse culturally.... there are so many places that are unique in japan culturally that makes it so interesting to me.... plus the food in japan suits my palet better and is delicious.... all their biscuits and cookies all nicely wrapped up like a present and sweets that look like works of art.... I wish I could speak japanese though.... would make my time alot easier if I were to go to a small town where they often aren't fluent in english....
Rek, You're right in every occasion but normal English teachers in Korea will never be able to afford to go to Juliana/Boss on regular basis. $500 a night may be a too much for someone with salary of $2000~3000 per month. However if you lower your standards a little maybe he can afford to go to clubs in Sinchon maybe twice a month even though girls are not as attractive ㅋㅋ. If you're not filthy rich the chances are girls in cheaper clubs will be more willing to go to bed with you. There are 4 types of girls in expensive clubs. 1. Girls just looking to have some fun, ie. dancing with friends/drinking etc 2. Girls looking to meet new guys in general. 3. Girls looking to meet rich guys (more so in expensive clubs) 4. Girls looking for sex (quiet rare)
Korea is the place for you if you're just looking for an entertainment. Dan you are lucky not to be working in any organisation where bosses can be very demanding. But I guess that could be the same in any place in the world. So good luck in your decision, but I'm sure many of us here can help you out if you decide to go to Korea. I think the best way to meet a girlfriend in Korea is through Sogaeting, aka blind dates, possibly through trustable Korean co-workers. If you're looking for one night stands, booking clubs are the place to go. But you never ask them straight away. You go to 2cha which can be Karaoke or a pub, and after few hours of converstaion/drinking you carefully ask them indirectly. Like '아 오빠가 좀 피곤하다..운전못하겠네.. 우리 어디가서 잠시 쉬었다 갈까? 미하;ㅣ;ㅏㅓㅁ;ㅣㅏㅓ람하하" (I'm very tired.. I don't think I can drive you home right now.. let's rest for a while somewhere) Then you limp your way to the motel pretending to be drunk. Even if they're interested, if you ask them directly chances are you'll be rejected unless the girl is a major slut.
Dan, doesn't your girlfriend hate the idea of you going to booking clubs frequently? It's not often you meet a girl in Korea who understands that sort of stuff.
I think one of the girls in the picture is Chinese(Vivian Hsu?) Anyway I don't see the point of posting pictures of random nude hotties since there is no way average girls he'll likely to encounter on the street will look like that anyway.
On March 21 2006 07:47 1tym wrote: Some of the girls in the picture are Chinese if you haven't realised including Vivian Hsu. Anyway I don't see the point of posting pictures of random nude hotties since there is no way average girls he'll likely to encounter on the street will look like that anyway.
Or Natasha Yi :o But I don't care, Morishita Chisato is in there, as is Reon Kadena...
Sure there is a point in sharing pics of hot nude girls for viewing pleasure but I mean he wants to find out in which country girls are prettier in general. So what we need is a picture of average girls walking on the street not some random nude hotties. Chances are, he'll never hook up with one of them so in regard to this thread, there is no point.
--- She really does look like Vivian Hsu. Sorry if I'm mistaken She's cute though.
There is no way a super hot model will date some random average looking English teacher with a salary of $2000~$3000/ month. So what we need is pictures of decent looking girls in both country not some random celebrities. Koreans & Japanese, post pictures of your friends not some celebrity!